Dr. Sameer, please help my older daughter too _{Page 2 of 2}

Thanks,
Any other remedy that we must keep in house for generel resaons like cold/cough/small wounds etc.

Pooja

Thankyou so much.

Dear Sameer,

I had given her 1m dose almost 10 days ago. first 3-4 days i didn't see much changes in her mood, next 2 days i saw some improvements. Almost a week after she has tummy ache and slight vomiting 3-4 times about the size of 1-2 teaspoons. It was apple, that's what she ate last. She had 2 sips of water before she went to bed, and then woke up in the middle of night to vomit out that water, but it was slighty thick and yellow/greenish color.
Since then she has not been eating, and holding her tummy and its hurting most of the times. She has been lying on bed when its hurting, and not been active in anything. She has not been eating much the whole day.
She has been feeling very weak, doesn't want to do anything other than resting.
Is there anything I can give to her to help?

Thanks

Dear Sameer,
Her stomach is completely fine now.
She has been couging from last 2 days mostly during the day time, night she slept fine.

Today is coughing whole day almost non-stop.
Can I give her something?

Thanks

very unpredictable... one minute she will be very nice and understanding, and next minute she starts calling everything bad. If I praise, she likes it but still keeps saying 'I know you are lying', and keeps asking 'Did I do better than others?' She was better when she was down with stomach pain for few days. As soon as she got some energy she started with bad words. Not using bathroom words, and meaning less words any more. But she keeps using hurting words, like to her sister she will keep on saying for the things she can't do, like you don't know how to write, you don't know how to draw, etc...
There will also be times when she very nicely helps her, but less often, that's why I said in first place that she is unpredictable :)
A very fast learner, very attentive listner, follows rules, very good at board games. Doesn't prefer pretend games, she is more of kind who lives in reality. Enjoys challenge. Looks for security. very afraid to do anything for first time. Shy in social settings.
Sorry I haven't explained in very elaborated manner, please ask if you have doubts.

Thanks
Pooja

She has non-stop cough during the day, and night time she is coughing once in 1-2 hours.
She is not using bathroom words, and meaningless words any more, as I had mentioned in few of my previous posts.
She is still shy in social settings and her friends will talk on her behalf sometimes.
Her mood is very unpredictable, one minute she will be very nice and understanding, and next minute she starts calling everything bad. Her behavior was very nice to all of us when she was down with stomach pain for few days. As soon as she got some energy she started with bad words for us in the family. She keeps using hurting words, like to her sister she will keep on saying for the things she can't do, like you don't know how to write, you don't know how to draw, etc...
She wants to be better than others in reading, writing, and board games. She is slow in physical games, like gymnastics, and doesn't even want to try them. She feels afraid to go to a new place to try a new game, or even in school of they are going to go in a room for first time, or going to do something different. She wants to take lunch from school, but doesn't do it, and takes from home, and says I am afraid to buy.
She looks happy when she goes to school, and also when we pick her up.
She looks for security, as she says when I grow up I want to be a teacher in same school, or work in same office as you, because I don't know how other places, and other jobs are going to be like. There is a boy in her class who talks a lot, she says I want to marry him, because he can do all the talking for me :)
She hates milk, and starts gagging, and says it makes me vomit.
She likes butter, always prefers some with her dinner.
Hope I explained better now, if not please feel free to ask if you have doubts still.
Its always better to be clear before anything is prescribed.

Thanks

Dear Sameer,

updating 2 weeks after Puls 30c...
She has been very annoying most of the times. She calls everything bad, and even writing on papers in big letters as big as size of the paper - 'bad daddy', 'bad mummy' or ' bad family'. Believe me we are a nice family, and talk to her in a nice manner. She throws things on the floor, like when she takes off her jacket, just drops it and walks away, if we tell her to pick it up, then we are bad. If we tell her to pass me something, she throws it always, even after explaining.
She doesn't eat much the whole day at school, and keeps complaining about tummy hurting. She has also been constipated a bit more than usual, went very big chunks of stools once in 4-5 days.
Almost always picking her nose. While talking to others puts one finger in her mouth and talks in a very shy manner.
While going out if I tell her to zip up your jacket, she yells back - 'I am doing it'.
Earlier she used to have this kind of bahavior only at home with us, and now it has started outside too in front of others. But to other people in school, she is very nice.
I have tried my best to encourage nice bahavior, and manners, but now I am running out of options with her.
She likes hugs and kisses, and I always give that to her.
If she is at friends place with her younger sister, she doesn't take care of her. I haven't strated asking her to do that, as I feel it should come naturally in her.

We have tried a few remedies with her, but nothing seems to help her feel better (mentally) so far.

There's one more thing I want to bring up, might not be related... We are religious but don't do much at home like pooja, aarti etc.. and we also don't go to temple much, just once in 2-3 months. We also don't talk much about God at home, but recently she started hearing about it from her friend, then I explained her a bit, and then she said when I grow up I want to be God, and she asked which college she should go for that.. etc..
Then one day a friend said to her that you look like your dad, and she got upset, and said but I want to look like God.
So may be because this is a new topic to her, and she understood that God has some special powers, and thinks that anyone can become God. These talks just could be her ignorance and curiosity, and its also not every day, but just wanted to bring it up, I don't know if she reacted normally to this new topic, or is she over-reacting?

Please help, and thanks as always.
Pooja

Thanks for the assurance Sameer, and also for the quick response.
I will give her Lyco tomorrow and report you in 5 days.

Hi Sameer,

Updating in 5 days of Lyco ...

Still saying bad, bad but a lot lesser than before.
If I tell her to do something, or not to do something, she just gets upset, and starts saying 'I am bad'.
Its hard to get her ready in time. We tell her that its time to get ready and go, but she still starts doing other stuff, just anything, like today on dinner table there was a elastic hairband, so instead of doing her dinner she keeps playing with that. If I tell her to have dinner, then she gets upset, and for every bite i have to tell her, or feed her.
Still shy just as before, picking her nose might have reduced a bit, but finger in mouth, and now her shirt sleeve in mouth too.
One thing weird she started, when I am talking to her she is moving her lips with me and repeating word by word whatever I am saying to her. She started this probably 2 weeks ago, after puls I guess.

Thanks

saying bad o herself and others and have reduced a bit more, but she had a couple of very rude incidents with 2 other people just because they called her to eat, but she just wanted to play.
Whenever anyone tells her that its time to do something, she keeps saying 2 more mins... and it doesn't end unless I give her final warning, or tell her madly.
She is still moving her lips when I am talking and reapeats everything word by word, and funny part is she still doesn't do what I am asking her to.
There had been many other good incidents too, when she was being very nice to all of us, and yeah she has been hitting her sister a lot lesser than before.
She wants to give kisses a lot, to me and to her best friend.
She is still very shy outside, and doesn't talk properly. She has very clear speech and pronunciation, but when in front of others, she starts talking in very childish accent, with her neck bending, fingers in mouth, or shirt in mouth. I think nose picking has reduced a bit.

Thanks.