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Could you help me, Tabish ????
Hello Doctor Tabish,Before, my case was handling by Dr David but all of a sudden he stopped responding to anyone in the middle of the treatment, without any notification. Simone suggested me your name so I am writing you my problems and expecting any solutions/remedies.
I am in great need of your help as my health is deteriorating again. I would highly appreciate if you help this depressed mom.
AGE: 35 years old
SEX: Female
Marital Status: married with a 3 years old daughter.
living: Currently in the USA
Head: dull headache all the time with acid burning feeling all over head.
Tightness inside head.
Better: outside my home, with some friends, better when I complain and gain sympathy.
Worst: when inside home, warm room, when husband is around and I feel he cares a damn about us, after hearing bad news.
Main problem: Sadness/ depression, anxiety of bad news related to me directly or indirectly. e.g. death of any closed ones, news about any closed ones suffering from any disease which leads to death, Depression, Sadness, Always complaining, extreme hatred towards husband and think he is worthless because he is an irresponsible and a childish kind of person, extreme hatred towards everybody who arranged my marriage with this person. Always see the negative sides of the things. Never satisfied with anything, lack of self-confidence, nervousness, cannot start anything by myself, hesitate to do any new things, shyness. Always fearful about deterioration of health, I think that if I am not cured my brain will stop working, I will be handicapped and will die eventually. I am not suicidal but cannot hear a news about anyone committing suicide. Cannot hear about anyone suffering from any mental disease and doing any weird things because of his mental condition. Cannot see or hear news about murdering and killing as I think these things are only done by the people suffered from mental disease.
At first Dr. David prescribed me Lithium Carbonicum in two potencies 200 C and later 1M. It helped me to some extent but later on I developed extreme nervousness or it was like a nervous breakdown feeling. I was so panicked and anxious So he changed my remedy to Aconite 200C I took 2 dosages of it. It solved many of my problems but not the fear of hearing bad news. While I was taking second dose of Aconite 200C I heard a news about my dad's brother's accident and I was again very much anxious and panic. later on I don't know how did that anxiety subsided, it may be because I heard that he was little okay and I thought he won't die now or the Aconite just worked. I don't know how would I react, if he or somebody who is very close to my heart dies or suffers badly. This kind of fear or anxiety developed two years back as I witnessed death of a very close relative. The environment was very sad and very painful then. I don't want to hear the news of death of somebody whom I know. I have tolerated so many bad things and bad situations in my life before but it seems I now have had more than enough of it and my mind cannot handle a pinch of anymore bad news. The last bad thing that happened to me was my marriage. I am married to a carefree, careless, rough and irresponsible person. I cannot leave him nor can I tolerate him. I feel so trapped, so suffocated, so pathetic inside this environment. I always shout at him and took out my anger. But I cannot stand for myself and do anything by my own. In other words, I am not able to do anything independently. I don't wanna be dependent anymore.
This afternoon, I took Aconite 200C again (this is the third time) as most of my previous symptoms were relapsing. This morning I was very much depressed, anxious and suffocated and also was extremely angry with my husband for so many reasons, so I took it to calm myself down. I am little better (15-20%)than in the morning now.
I would like to mention that I am too sensitive towards any remedy. I cannot handle aggravation easily. I hope you will suggest me split dosing.
I am ready to answer any questions if you have any. Please help !!
Thanking you
a mom
Tabish please help on 2012-05-29
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♡ simone717 last decade
Hi,
how is your sleep?
constipated or loose stool after the fright?
let me know and i will suggest remedy accordingly.
regards
tabish
how is your sleep?
constipated or loose stool after the fright?
let me know and i will suggest remedy accordingly.
regards
tabish
tabish007 last decade
Dear Dr. Tabish,
Thank you so much for the quick response.
how is your sleep?
I had a problem regarding sleep 15-20 days ago. It was hard to fall asleep and when I fall asleep I used to wake up within an hour and after that it was hard for me to sleep back again.
I have this problem off and on nowadays. Means better sleep than before.
About Dreams: I am again having bad dreams for the last couple of days. Like, someone close, died and I am fearful. I again remarried to a wrong person. I am facing so much troubles etc
constipated or loose stool after the fright?
loose after the fright and anxiety but not very loose like diarrhea. Very little in amount and go frequently. Generally, very stinky stool.
I would like to add some more details here:
I had depression problems long ago too like when I was 21-22 years of age. I had taken various antidepressants before for almost 6-7 years. None of them cured my problems and then after 6-7 years of taking antidepressants I quit taking them and started doing yoga and breathing exercises which helped me a lot to control my depression and I did not need any medicines. But I was still short tempered. It may be because I did not have good family environment when I was with my parents. We always had financial crisis. My father was a mental patient and could not do well regarding earing and my mom was not happy with him and remained angry with him all the time. She never talked to him in good manner. She used to shout at him all the time. Her behavior was not good towards me too. She was kind of biased between me and my brother. Now here I think I have gained all my mom's bad qualities of shouting at husband, not talking to husband for few days, I still have financial problem so I blame my husband for this situation because he is a lazybone and not a hardworking person. He never thinks about me and my child's happiness. Everybody says he is a selfish guy. I have developed hatred towards him. I don't trust him anymore.
My recent problems are:
-Extreme sadness/depression because I have not lived quality life so far since the age of 8-9. (I don't want luxurious life but I don't want anymore sacrifices because of financial problems.). I feel so sad when I see others of my age having good life, loving husband and worry free life.
Everybody asks me to leave him but I don't know why I can't leave him. May be I don't want to face anymore bad things or bad news in my life. Leaving him is a bad news and a painful emotional thing for me since I am not emotionally strong.
- Heaviness in Head/Mild headache all the time.
-Feeling trapped inside marriage
-Fearful about future.
-Suffocation while thinking about myself not being able to do anything by my own and blaming others for my ill fate.
- Controlled feeling.
- Extreme anger and irritation.
- Lower Back Pain.
- Tiredness./ lazy
- Want to escape from the current environment
- Sometimes words don't come into mind, at once, while speaking. I have to give pressure in mind to get that word. Which is really frustrating.
- I use my hands gesture a lot to explain things.
- Fear of making mistakes.
- Lack of self confidence
- I become shaky inside out when I am tensed/anxious and fearful.
Since I have taken Aconite 200C just yesterday, how soon can I take another remedy if needed ?
Thanking you
Trishna
Thank you so much for the quick response.
how is your sleep?
I had a problem regarding sleep 15-20 days ago. It was hard to fall asleep and when I fall asleep I used to wake up within an hour and after that it was hard for me to sleep back again.
I have this problem off and on nowadays. Means better sleep than before.
About Dreams: I am again having bad dreams for the last couple of days. Like, someone close, died and I am fearful. I again remarried to a wrong person. I am facing so much troubles etc
constipated or loose stool after the fright?
loose after the fright and anxiety but not very loose like diarrhea. Very little in amount and go frequently. Generally, very stinky stool.
I would like to add some more details here:
I had depression problems long ago too like when I was 21-22 years of age. I had taken various antidepressants before for almost 6-7 years. None of them cured my problems and then after 6-7 years of taking antidepressants I quit taking them and started doing yoga and breathing exercises which helped me a lot to control my depression and I did not need any medicines. But I was still short tempered. It may be because I did not have good family environment when I was with my parents. We always had financial crisis. My father was a mental patient and could not do well regarding earing and my mom was not happy with him and remained angry with him all the time. She never talked to him in good manner. She used to shout at him all the time. Her behavior was not good towards me too. She was kind of biased between me and my brother. Now here I think I have gained all my mom's bad qualities of shouting at husband, not talking to husband for few days, I still have financial problem so I blame my husband for this situation because he is a lazybone and not a hardworking person. He never thinks about me and my child's happiness. Everybody says he is a selfish guy. I have developed hatred towards him. I don't trust him anymore.
My recent problems are:
-Extreme sadness/depression because I have not lived quality life so far since the age of 8-9. (I don't want luxurious life but I don't want anymore sacrifices because of financial problems.). I feel so sad when I see others of my age having good life, loving husband and worry free life.
Everybody asks me to leave him but I don't know why I can't leave him. May be I don't want to face anymore bad things or bad news in my life. Leaving him is a bad news and a painful emotional thing for me since I am not emotionally strong.
- Heaviness in Head/Mild headache all the time.
-Feeling trapped inside marriage
-Fearful about future.
-Suffocation while thinking about myself not being able to do anything by my own and blaming others for my ill fate.
- Controlled feeling.
- Extreme anger and irritation.
- Lower Back Pain.
- Tiredness./ lazy
- Want to escape from the current environment
- Sometimes words don't come into mind, at once, while speaking. I have to give pressure in mind to get that word. Which is really frustrating.
- I use my hands gesture a lot to explain things.
- Fear of making mistakes.
- Lack of self confidence
- I become shaky inside out when I am tensed/anxious and fearful.
Since I have taken Aconite 200C just yesterday, how soon can I take another remedy if needed ?
Thanking you
Trishna
Tabish please help last decade
Hi,
please take following medicine:
Anacardium 200
how to take it:
1: take 130 ml of spring water
2: put 3 pallets and stir gently for 5 minutes, once dessolved, take one tablespoon from this bottle and dissolve it in another 130 ml of spring water and stir for 5 minutes.
now you will have to take one tablespoon daily morning from this second bottle for 3 days and then report back.
regards
tabish
please take following medicine:
Anacardium 200
how to take it:
1: take 130 ml of spring water
2: put 3 pallets and stir gently for 5 minutes, once dessolved, take one tablespoon from this bottle and dissolve it in another 130 ml of spring water and stir for 5 minutes.
now you will have to take one tablespoon daily morning from this second bottle for 3 days and then report back.
regards
tabish
tabish007 last decade
Thank you for your reply and guidance. I really appreciate it.
Just for my curiosity, could you please tell me:
Can I take Anacardium 200 immediately, as today is only the third day that I took Aconite 200 ?? What happens to the effect of Aconite if taken another remedy this soon? Will the new remedy antidote the previous one ?
Thanking you.
Just for my curiosity, could you please tell me:
Can I take Anacardium 200 immediately, as today is only the third day that I took Aconite 200 ?? What happens to the effect of Aconite if taken another remedy this soon? Will the new remedy antidote the previous one ?
Thanking you.
Tabish please help last decade
Hello doctor,
I could not find Anacardium here in stores but I found Two Anacardiums online. Which one is you want me to buy ?
IS it Anacardium Orientale 200c ?
or Anacardium Occidentale 200ck ?
Please suggest
I could not find Anacardium here in stores but I found Two Anacardiums online. Which one is you want me to buy ?
IS it Anacardium Orientale 200c ?
or Anacardium Occidentale 200ck ?
Please suggest
Tabish please help last decade
Hi-
it is going to be Anacardium Orientale
200C. ( the other one is for warts and
leprosy etc)
I am sure Tabish has taken into account
everything and this Anacardium is going
to take at least 3 days or so to get to
you, so don't worry, just order it.
Best,
Simone717
it is going to be Anacardium Orientale
200C. ( the other one is for warts and
leprosy etc)
I am sure Tabish has taken into account
everything and this Anacardium is going
to take at least 3 days or so to get to
you, so don't worry, just order it.
Best,
Simone717
♡ simone717 last decade
Hello Simone,
Thank you.
I am gonna order the said remedy now.
Could you help me clear my little curiosity here: as I came to know, by surfing the net, that Anacardium is for the cruelty remedy. My characteristics does not match here. I am not at all cruel to anybody I am just angry with everybody. I do not talk to anybody while I am angry. When I am extremely angry with my husband I shout at him but never harm him and with others I remain quiet and kinda cut off the relationship and don't talk to them anymore. I In-fact cannot see or hear about cruelty done to any creatures in this earth. I save even a tiny bugs from different situations.
So how will this quality of the remedy react on me ? I am scared if I develop any cruelty after having the remedy. Or I won't develop any such things and the remedy cures only the relative bad characteristics I have. Please clarify.
Thanking you.
[message edited by Tabish please help on Thu, 31 May 2012 03:25:17 BST]
Thank you.
I am gonna order the said remedy now.
Could you help me clear my little curiosity here: as I came to know, by surfing the net, that Anacardium is for the cruelty remedy. My characteristics does not match here. I am not at all cruel to anybody I am just angry with everybody. I do not talk to anybody while I am angry. When I am extremely angry with my husband I shout at him but never harm him and with others I remain quiet and kinda cut off the relationship and don't talk to them anymore. I In-fact cannot see or hear about cruelty done to any creatures in this earth. I save even a tiny bugs from different situations.
So how will this quality of the remedy react on me ? I am scared if I develop any cruelty after having the remedy. Or I won't develop any such things and the remedy cures only the relative bad characteristics I have. Please clarify.
Thanking you.
[message edited by Tabish please help on Thu, 31 May 2012 03:25:17 BST]
Tabish please help last decade
Hi you cannot go by all the things
you read. Remedies can have tons
of rubrics for all different body systems
and mentals. So if you get right remedy
it is going to wipe out where you feel
bad and then that will be over. you will
not start getting every single thing that
a remedy is for otherwise homeopathy
would not work.
Anacardium in the sensation method
has the feeling of being 'stuck'
and the feeling of of being harassed bc
they are stuck and feeling if not stuck
that then a person could have a good
life, shop and go out ( which you
have said you are stuck, and want
normal good things.) so it fits your
mentals.
You should stop reading about the
remedy -Sankaran was prescribing it
for the above that I mentioned-stuck
and want to feel free and you have
those issues. Trust Tabish, he knows
what he is doing.
you read. Remedies can have tons
of rubrics for all different body systems
and mentals. So if you get right remedy
it is going to wipe out where you feel
bad and then that will be over. you will
not start getting every single thing that
a remedy is for otherwise homeopathy
would not work.
Anacardium in the sensation method
has the feeling of being 'stuck'
and the feeling of of being harassed bc
they are stuck and feeling if not stuck
that then a person could have a good
life, shop and go out ( which you
have said you are stuck, and want
normal good things.) so it fits your
mentals.
You should stop reading about the
remedy -Sankaran was prescribing it
for the above that I mentioned-stuck
and want to feel free and you have
those issues. Trust Tabish, he knows
what he is doing.
♡ simone717 last decade
Hello Simone,
Thank you so much for the clarification. I already ordered the remedy yesterday. I usually do not surf about the remedies but yesterday I surfed about it because I was confused about which anacardium to order. So I surfed about both the remedies and got curious. I fully trust Tabish and you, no doubt on any of you. :)
Thank you very much.
Thank you so much for the clarification. I already ordered the remedy yesterday. I usually do not surf about the remedies but yesterday I surfed about it because I was confused about which anacardium to order. So I surfed about both the remedies and got curious. I fully trust Tabish and you, no doubt on any of you. :)
Thank you very much.
Tabish please help last decade
nice analysis. ha ha
so if a paitent is given carcinosin, later he will develop cancr if he doesnt have? or arg. nit paitent will jump out of the window if he doesnt have this symptom before?
dont worry, it doesnt work like this. it is good to read materia medica, but i advice you not to read about the medicine being prescribed, otherwise you will force your vital force to react the way you like.
anacardium is great remedy for so many mental and physical issues, and in your case i am working on a layer, not whole mental symptoms, so trust me and use as i said.
regards
tabish
so if a paitent is given carcinosin, later he will develop cancr if he doesnt have? or arg. nit paitent will jump out of the window if he doesnt have this symptom before?
dont worry, it doesnt work like this. it is good to read materia medica, but i advice you not to read about the medicine being prescribed, otherwise you will force your vital force to react the way you like.
anacardium is great remedy for so many mental and physical issues, and in your case i am working on a layer, not whole mental symptoms, so trust me and use as i said.
regards
tabish
tabish007 last decade
Hello doctor,
I ordered anacardium two times with two different companies so far. After few days of placing the order, both companies said they had to cancel my order as they are out of stock. Just right now I have ordered the same with another company but its gonna take 3 to 5 days to reach to me if they ship me on time.
If I get anxiety in the meantime, what would you suggest me, as I find very difficult to calm myself down from the overwhelming negative thoughts. I am not sure I would be able to control my negative thoughts untill the remedy arrive. Please suggest
[message edited by Tabish please help on Thu, 07 Jun 2012 06:24:46 BST]
I ordered anacardium two times with two different companies so far. After few days of placing the order, both companies said they had to cancel my order as they are out of stock. Just right now I have ordered the same with another company but its gonna take 3 to 5 days to reach to me if they ship me on time.
If I get anxiety in the meantime, what would you suggest me, as I find very difficult to calm myself down from the overwhelming negative thoughts. I am not sure I would be able to control my negative thoughts untill the remedy arrive. Please suggest
[message edited by Tabish please help on Thu, 07 Jun 2012 06:24:46 BST]
Tabish please help last decade
tabish007 last decade
Hello doctor,
you can see how unfortunate I am, I received the package of medicine today only, after waiting for so long, but with the wrong medicine inside. I may again need to wait for another 3-4 days to receive my correct remedy. This is really frustrating. The first two times I my orders were canceled by the companies and the third one sent me the wrong remedy infact the remedy ordered by someone else. Now shall I laugh or cry :( ?
you can see how unfortunate I am, I received the package of medicine today only, after waiting for so long, but with the wrong medicine inside. I may again need to wait for another 3-4 days to receive my correct remedy. This is really frustrating. The first two times I my orders were canceled by the companies and the third one sent me the wrong remedy infact the remedy ordered by someone else. Now shall I laugh or cry :( ?
Tabish please help last decade
Where are you?? who are you ordering
from? Terrible service, maybe I can
give you an alternative??
I don't know but you keep having to
go thru this-
Take care, Simone717
from? Terrible service, maybe I can
give you an alternative??
I don't know but you keep having to
go thru this-
Take care, Simone717
♡ simone717 last decade
Sorry for the late reply Simone. Finally, I got my remedy yesterday afternoon. Now I am going to take it. Thank you for your thoughtfulness. I am in Dallas, Texas. I usually get remedies from pureformulas.com they are good suppliers but this time they didn't have my remedy and cancelled my order. Still, I will appreciate any of your help.
Thank you so much.
Thank you so much.
Tabish please help last decade
Hi just fyi- I get things off of this site-
and it gets to me in 4 days or less and
have never had a problem with anything
out of stock or wrong orders.
Take care,
simone717
and it gets to me in 4 days or less and
have never had a problem with anything
out of stock or wrong orders.
Take care,
simone717
♡ simone717 last decade
Hello Doctor Tabish,
I had the remedy Anacardium Orientale 200 for three days and today is the 4th day. When did you want me to report you ? I don't know if its too early to report you now. But still:
Report so far.
-my irritation has been increased. I shout a lot if I get irritated.
- Head tightness: increased (I think this is the effect of remedy)
-Anger: increased.
- Self confidence improved 10-20 %
- Depression improved by 20-30%
- Stuck feeling not improved yet (I know I have this feeling is there because of not having self confidence)
- Cannot face any challenges: not improved.
-Blaming others for my ill fate: not improved
- Pathetic feeling because of not having good life: not improved.
- Fear of bad news- not improved.
But overall I feel 20-30% better than what I was, before taking the remedy.
Please suggest further.
I had the remedy Anacardium Orientale 200 for three days and today is the 4th day. When did you want me to report you ? I don't know if its too early to report you now. But still:
Report so far.
-my irritation has been increased. I shout a lot if I get irritated.
- Head tightness: increased (I think this is the effect of remedy)
-Anger: increased.
- Self confidence improved 10-20 %
- Depression improved by 20-30%
- Stuck feeling not improved yet (I know I have this feeling is there because of not having self confidence)
- Cannot face any challenges: not improved.
-Blaming others for my ill fate: not improved
- Pathetic feeling because of not having good life: not improved.
- Fear of bad news- not improved.
But overall I feel 20-30% better than what I was, before taking the remedy.
Please suggest further.
Tabish please help last decade
Hello Simone,
Is Dr Tabish replying to anybody lately ? Iam having anxiety of a bad news and I needed his advice. He didn't reply my previous mail too. Could you please tell me something about it?
Is Dr Tabish replying to anybody lately ? Iam having anxiety of a bad news and I needed his advice. He didn't reply my previous mail too. Could you please tell me something about it?
Tabish please help last decade
Hi- Allicando sent him an email. His
last post was around June13th- so
we are waiting to hear-??????
You might also want to click his name
and email. I have no idea.
last post was around June13th- so
we are waiting to hear-??????
You might also want to click his name
and email. I have no idea.
♡ simone717 last decade
Ohh ...........once again I am in the middle of no where.....what should I do now? I had so much hope towards the Homeopaths here in this forum because I am financially not stable to afford any Homeopaths here in the US. I don't want to self prescribe either. This is really a sad thing for me to be in this situation.
I really hope and pray Tabish will be back soon. I was getting better with his remedy though bad news is still aggravating me.
I really hope and pray Tabish will be back soon. I was getting better with his remedy though bad news is still aggravating me.
Tabish please help last decade
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