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hi
excuse me because of my poor english
im 33 years old man from middle east im so white such european people my face and ears became so hot and red after shy or fear or worry and excitment
im too shy and bashful and timid
i fear of crowd and people i work at night lonely because of my symptom
i cant speak with other people i became red when
i am in attention of others
i became red of thinking to this symptom
i am lonely for 20 years
i have decided to kill myself for many times
i have taken fluoxetine 20 and propranolol 20 and paroxetine and many other drugs to treatment but none of them can help me
i avoid of people and parties and crowd im extrimly alone in my life
im sensetive to places very hot or very cold and became red because of changing of temprature and changing of humidity of air specially in dry and cold dry places my hands and legs are so cold and my face is hot all the time
i thinking all the people are starring at me
i took belladonna 12c 30c 200c in 1 year but cant help me to i over come my symptom at all
my penis erection is erratic and disordered and head of my fingers are tingling and many of times im costive
i desire to sucide
im so hopeless of life because i was alone in all of my life
in your Remedy Finder was not a symptom for people extrimly shy such me
i impotently want your help which homeopathic drug and wich potency of it can help me ? please
[message edited by meisam.h.pour on Wed, 21 May 2014 20:38:14 BST]
 
  meisam.h.pour on 2014-05-19
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
What is ur height and body weight?
What is ur regular blood pressure?


Dr. Showrav
Bangladesh
 
Dr. Showrav 9 years ago
im 172 cm tall 85 kg
blood pressure is 11 on 6 its normal
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meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
im sensetive to places very hot and very cold
my ears became red when i come back to home after rain and some times without reason right of my face and my right ear became red
it is such that every one think it can burning the fingers that touch it
[message edited by meisam.h.pour on Wed, 21 May 2014 20:40:51 BST]
 
meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
This looks like the kind of case I may have some skill and experience in treating. Do you feel your issue with speaking English might be overcome so that I could take your case and try to help you?

I can post a questionnaire and see how you go. Answer what you can.

HOW TO DESCRIBE YOUR COMPLAINTS

In homoeopathy, prescription is based on precise details of various symptoms from which you suffer. To tell or write to a homoeopathic physician 'I have a headache ', ' an eruption ' or “a cough” would not be enough. If you inform him 'I have headache with sharp shooting pains in the left side of the head and temple, these pains always come on when the slightest cold air strikes the head. I feel better by pressing the head very hard.” Then only you have given all the information required for making a good homoeopathic prescription. The success of the prescription depends; largely on how detailed your description of the symptoms is.
We require the following details about your symptoms.

LOCATION: Please give the exact location of sensation, pain or eruption. Also describe where the pain or sensation spreads.

SENSATION: Express the type of sensation or the pain that you get in your own words however simple or funny it may seem. You may have a sensation that a mouse is crawling or the heart was grasped by an iron hand or you may have a pain that is cutting, burning jerking, pressing. Express the sensation or pain as it feels to you. Try to explain the whole sensation in the exact way it is happening and not just the word. We need to understand the whole process of the sensation as it is happening to you.

WHAT MAKES YOU WORSE OR BETTER:

Many factors are likely to influence your complaint. Some factors may intensify it and some factors may relieve the trouble. A detailed list of the factors is given at the end. Please refer it while describing each of your troubles and indicate which factors make the complaint better or worse.

DISCHARGES: You may have a discharge from nose, ears, mouth, eyes, ulcers, fistula, eruptions on skin, private parts, etc. Please describe your discharge in detail including colour, consistency, appearance, odour etc.

1] Your Complaint:

(Use your own words as far as possible, but if you have recognized or diagnosed the condition, give this information also.) By answering as many of these questions as fully as possible, you are helping me to understand what your body and unconscious mind is conveying. This can help me find a remedy for you.)
• What is your complaint?
• When did the complaint begin?
• Where is it located?
• What sort of sensations (and emotions) do you associate with it?

• Does anything make it better or worse?
• How does it bother you? How is it coming in way of your day-to-day life?
• How does it feel like to have this/these problem/s?
• What is the effect of this/these problem/s on you?
• Did any event happen which caused the complaint? Describe the emotion associated with it.
• What are the other symptoms started with it, esp. mental and physical symptoms, which are not directly related to the main complaint.
• What are your reactions with it?

PLEASE ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS FOR EACH SYMPTOM/COMPLAINT SEPARATELY. DO NOT INCLUDE ALL OF YOUR COMPLAINTS TOGETHER IN EACH QUESTION.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
MIND
________________________________________
1] What are the issues which are bothering you the most?
How does it feel to have these issues?
What about these issues bothering you the most and why?

2] What are the emotions that you are going through?
What are the factors to which you are sensitive?
What about these factors bother you the most?
How does it feel to have these factors and how you react during such time?

3] Any incident which had a deep impact on you? Describe in detail.
What are the thoughts/feelings/sensations associated with it?
At that moment of time what were your feelings/thoughts, sensations and reactions associated with it?
(Note: Incidents might have happened long ago and now it has no impact on you but at that moment of time if it had any impact on you, describe.)

4] What are your anxieties/fears/phobias real or imaginary? Describe them in detail. What about them is bothering you the most?
What are the feelings associated with it?
What could be the worst form of fear/phobia/anxiety according to you?

5] What are your interests and hobbies?
What about them do you like the most and why?

6] What are the thoughts which are coming in your mind again and again?
What about them bothers you the most?

7] Any unusual sensation/vibration or movements have you experienced? If yes, describe them in detail. Describe the whole process of that sensation without adding or subtracting a word from it.

8] What is/are the bodily sensation/s you experience with all your fears/ feelings and thoughts. Please describe the complete picture of it.

9] Please close your eyes and bring that incident, feelings, fears, thoughts which had/having a deep impact on you/bothering you the most and see what is happening deep within your body right now. If you perceive any bodily sensation, vibration or movements please feel it completely and then right the whole experience as it is without adding or subtracting a word from it.

10] What according to you will be best moment of your life?
How does it feel to be in that moment?
What will be opposite feeling of this moment or feeling?

11] How do/did you react in situations which have/had a deep impact on you?
What is your first reaction when you face your worst fear/situations?
Describe your reaction as it is?
How do you react when you are faced with stressful situations?

12] What you feel/feel like doing when you are alone and free of all your work?

13] How is your relation with your near and dear ones, at your work place?
Anything in the relationship that is bothering you the most?
If yes, describe that in detail? How does that feel like? How do you experience that?

14] Describe five negative and positive points in you?
Which out of it you would put first and why?
How does it feel to have that?

Please answer the following:

1] Tell about the dreams that had a deep impact on you.

2] Tell about the dreams that are repetitive, strange and weird that are not related to you at all.
3] Any dreams from childhood till today that you remember the most?
4] Any dream from childhood till today that had a deep impact on you?
5] Any dreams, just before your problem started?
6] Any particular part of your life where you had some recurrent dreams? If yes, describe in detail.

CHILDHOOD HISTORY
1] Any incidents from your childhood which had a deep impact on you, which touched you the most. Describe in detail about that incident/s and the feelings/thoughts/perception and sensations associated with it. What was your reaction to these incidents?
2] Describe your fears during childhood in detail.
3] Any imagination/fantasies/imaginary fears which you remember the most?
4] What you wanted to become as a child and why?
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
S L E E P

1] Describe your posture in sleep. (On the back, side, abdomen etc.) Are you able to sleep in any position? In which position you can’t sleep?

2] During sleep do you do anything unusual or which disturbs yourself or other people?:

3] Describe if anything else is unusual about your sleep: (sleepy, sleeplessness, etc. if so when?) ________________________________________

APPETITE AND THIRST

1] How is your appetite?
2] When are you hungry?
3] What happens if you have to remain hungry for long?
4] How fast do you eat?
5] How much thirst do you have?
6] Any particular time are you especially thirsty?

Please list all your Food/Drink likes and dislikes, and how strongly. I would like you to rate these on a scale of 1 (barely liked or only slightly disliked) to 5 (irresistible craving or complete aversion).

STOOL
1] Do you have any problem regarding your stools?
2] When and how many times a day do you pass stools?
3] When is it urgent?
4] Do you have any problem about bowel movements?
5] Do you have to strain for stool? Even if soft?
6] Do you have belching or passing gas? Describe its character.
7] How do you feel after passing gas up or down? ________________________________________



URINATION & URINE
1] Any problem about urine?
2] Any strong smell? Like what?
3] Do you have any trouble before, during and after passing urine?
4] Any difficulty about the flow?
5] Any involuntary urination? When?



SWEAT/PERSPIRATION-FEVER-CHILL
1] How much do you sweat?
2] Where and on what part do you sweat the most?
3] Do you perspire on the palms or soles?
4] What is the quality of the sweat.?
5] What is the smell like?
6] What color does it stain the clothing?
7] Is the stain easy to wash off or difficult?
8] Any symptoms after sweating?
9] When do you get fever or chill?
10] What brings it on?
11] Do you experience any sense of heat or cold in any part of your body at any particular time? ________________________________________

CHEST-HEART – COLD – COUGH
1] Do you catch cold often? If so, how often?
2] Describe the symptoms, nature of discharge etc.
3] Is there any trouble with your CHEST or HEART?
4] Is there any trouble with your voice or speech?
5] Is there any difficulty in breathing?
6] Do you have cough?
7] Is it more at any particular time? ________________________________________


SEXUAL SPHERE (GENERAL)
1] Any excessive indulgence in sex in past and present ? Any effect on your health?
2] How do you feel after sexual intercourse?
3] Any particular feeling or symptoms appear before, during and after sexual intercourse?
6] Did you suffer from any venereal disease?
Syphilis? Gonorrhoea?
7] Do you have increased desire or decreased desire for sex?



FOR MEN
1] Any difficulty in erection?
2] Wanted erection? Unwanted erection?
3] Weak erection? Failing erection? Describe.
4] Any other trouble in sex? Describe in detail.
________________________________________

FOR WOMEN
1] Menses: How are the periods; regular or irregular?
2] At what age did it start?
3] Was there any trouble then?
4] Mention number of days of flow.
5] Menstrual flow: Is there any change in quantity, color, smell or consistency?
6] Are the stains difficult to wash?
7] Have you noticed any variation in quality and quantity of flow during menses?
8] How and when?
9] Do you suffer in any way before, during or after menses? If so, describe.
10] What symptoms did you suffer during menopause?
11] Do you feel the internal parts coming down?
12] Is there any white discharge?
13] If so, mention the nature, color, consistency and smell of discharge.
14] When and under what circumstances is it more or less?
15] Has the discharge any relation to menses?
16] What is the effect of this discharge on your general feeling? Or any of your symptoms?
17] Any itching, excoriation etc. due to discharge?
18] Do you pass any gas from vagina?
19] Any trouble with breasts?
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Aggravated or Ameliorated by various Factors


Affected by the Environment in any way, and how does it affect you?

Affected by position in any way?

Affected by some physical activity?

Affected by some mental activity?

Anything else you are sensitive to?


NOTE: please do not answer with single words, or very short sentences, if there is something to say regarding the question. The more detail you give, the more easily I can find a good medicine for you.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago

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meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
mind
1)being red and shy in crowd and their attention and wonder and some times their ridicule
i became strong red and i want to scape of this place
2)i feel shy weakness and hopeless wors thig is being red and i want to scape from this situation
3)no especially incident
4)fear of being red and flushing face fear of kidding on me or being under attention of others
im so sensetive to starring at me and to eyes
my symptom is worse in bigest crowd
5)being lonely is the best situation for me
6)thinking of being blushed and being judjed and thinking to being under attention
7)vibration of lips and body when i want to speak or interview and in meeting and when i eat dinner or lunch with others because i think they are looking at me and they control me when i eat
8) being strong red sudenly heat on my face and being cold on another places such feet and hands
especialy my ears became so red and it became cold after a long time
9) i blushed so hard especialy on my right ear and became so hot and sad and hopeless
10) when i have hope to life and future and im glad this symptom decrese when im on nature on montains and on the bank of sea and in trip my symptom decreased or when i use drugs( opiom ) i became glad and with hope to future i became better
11)only scape
12)thinking to problem and future and having sadness
13)i work at night in company lonely i scaped from this problem in my work with sugest to my manager for transfering me night . i work at night alone
i dont have friend
14)negative:
shy
sad
hopeless
my body is weak (im not strong man i have weak hands and body)
i dont have self confidence

positive:
i never say lie to others.im truthful

im generous

i want peace in my life and in the world

im very kind and compassionate and merciful person im not violent man

15)not about dreams not about child hood
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meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
childhood history
2)fear of lonely fear of height fear of insects so much fear of tree blames
3)fear of insects specially buterfly and fear of blames in spring and fear of fighting with other kis i was so weak boy with so weak hands my hands are weak today and im weak now i cant fight others im the weakest man who i have known in my life
4) i liked to become king of country and kill other people and person who were oposite of me
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meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
1)i sleep abdomen many times and specially in past i coudnot sleep in other sleep styles. but these days i can sleep in all of styles
2) i move alot
3)sleepy
appetite and thirst
1)normal
2)exactly normal
3)my stomach is bothering at this situation
4)fast
5) too much i drink water and juice a lot
6)no

stool

1)many times im costive and some times im exactly oposite im not usualy normal but usually im costive
when im costive my symptom become worse
2)2 or 3 days 1 time
3) ---
4)---
5)some times
6) no but when my bowel work normaly an i have gass my symptom became better
7)being relax and better after passing down
urination
1)no
2) not i normally but when i flush my face is sweting but not a lot
3)never
4) --
5) --
6) --
7) easy
8) no
9) no 10) --
11) heat on my face cold all of body specialy hands and my back
chest heart cold cough
1) no
2) no
3) i have weak brounchit in my chest and my heart work so fast and irregular in time of symptom
4) no
5) a little
6) no
7) no

sex
1)no
2)relaxation
3)problem in erection means im not so strong man
6)no
7) no
for men
1)yes my erection first is perfect but soon it being weak
2)no unwanted
wanted is perfect but weak at only after 3 min
3)falling erection after a short time and erect again whith hard working of heart and sweat difficulty
4)no
 
meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
1- in so cold and so hot places my face and ears became so red and hot and i think my body cant adapt its temprature with environment
2-by sitting for puting the shouse on and lift the objects my face and ears became so red and hot
3- yes by running doing sport and ..
4- yes by thinking to this symptom hopeless things thinking to meeting parties such wedding party i became red and hot and hving worry and stress
5-im so sensetive to people who express my symptom to others or me
such why are you became red?
are you shy?
or people who laughing at my problem
or tell me you have disease?
why you are red ?
[message edited by meisam.h.pour on Wed, 21 May 2014 20:26:40 BST]
 
meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
thank you so much
end of my answers
 
meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
Alright I will look over this today. However, I think I might need you to explain some of your answers.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
ok my friend generaly my symptom come from my mind and it has a lot pseudo plethora i have a kind of illution about environment and people
 
meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
I am analysing your case at the moment. I should have a suggestion for a remedy soon.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
Alright there are a number of remedies that might be helpful here, but there is one that seems to stand out for me.

If I look at the following symptoms as being crucial:

Timidity, bashful
Blushing
Suicidal disposition from despair
Fear of his/her condition being observed
Cannot bear being looked at
Attempts to escape
Flushes of heat in the face
Company aggravates
Aversion to company - ameliorated when alone
Desire for solitude
Ailments from embarrassment
Helplessness

This would suggest to me the remedy Ambra grisea. If you can get 200c in an Oral Liquid we can start treatment.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
thank you sir
what is your idea about ferrum mealicium 30c ?
my homiopathe doctor have given it to me about 15 days ago but it coudnt help me up to now?
you prefer i suggest him to change it to ambra grisea? or for a time about 60 days i must continiue ferrum to ensure it cant help me.
i use feerum as bellow:
6 tablet 30C in About 10 ml solvent mix 50:50 of
water: ethanol every six hours 3 drops
how can i use ambria sol 200c in a day?
for how many days?
after how many days i can see the first changes?
and if i found it in 200C pellets how can i dilute it? how many pellets in how much solvent?
which solvents with which ratio ? (ethanol:water ? )
thank you again
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meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
You are not Ferrum metallicum. I can assure you that is the wrong remedy. You have not given me any of the symptoms of that remedy except for flushing of the face. The personality of that remedy is all wrong for you. You must stop it before beginning Ambra grisea.

I am not going to work in association with another homoeopath. When you posted your case here it is assumed you are going to put yourself under my care. However if you are under the care of another homoeopath and you intend to stay with them, then there is nothing more we can do here.

I doubt very much your homoeopath will change the remedy to something I have suggested. IF he is giving you Ferrum so often, it sounds like he does not know very much about practicing homoeopathy correctly and he will not listen to my advice.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
im your case but i cant suplly homeopathic drugs because in my country this drugs are forbiden and i need to him to supply my drugs i dont beleave him he coudnot treat my symptom after 1 year
these drug are rare and contrabanded in my country and my country is under international sanction
and these drugs are so expensive in my country
i have used all of my money for treat my ilness
he insist on belladonna after 1 year and i sugesst him ferrum metalicum and he accept it.
he will accept your remedy i sure
and another question is belladonna is wrong for me?
it coudnot help me after 1 year and i became worse but he insist on belladonna.
i will kiss your hands if you can treat my ilness
i have used all of my sallary to treat my ilness
and i have a lot of economic problem in my life and economy in my country is going to be worse and worse
i need him only because of supply drugs
please help me sir
 
meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
I don't know what I can do to help you. If you do not have access to the medicines I don't know how to proceed.

Perhaps someone else here can suggest a way for you to access the remedies. Simone is usually very good at providing suggestions like that, she might know a way around this problem.

Belladonna is wrong, Ferrum is wrong - that is clear. Ambra grisea is a better choice, although there are a few others that have a similar kind of personality to yours.

I wish I knew what else you could do. I had no idea this is the kind of obstacle you were facing.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
i can provide it by this person in iran but i cant buy it from your site because my country is under sanction and this site even has not name of my country in list of countries.
it is the consequence of a religos dictator regim which control my country maybe you have to pray to us for freedome
by the way i continue your ruls and remedies
if i found pellets of ambra 200c how can i dilute it ? how can i use it? how many hours? how many drops? for how many days i must use it? after how many days can i see the first changes?
i am a chemist too i work in a pharmaceutical company in iran but chemical drugs and im similar to solvent and dilution
the manner of use remedies that i have had before was tru?
6 pellets in 10 ml mix ethanol water 50:50 every 6 hours 2 drops? or is it wrong we dont have skilled homeopath in iran and i think maybe it was a wrong manner that i have had until today
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meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
Whatever help I can give you I will try to give.

I have been researching the homoeopathy in Iran, and there might be some people or organizations you can contact for help.

There is a very famous homoeopath in Iran called Dr. Ardavan Shahrdar who has advocated strongly for proper homoeopathic education and practice in your country. I am not sure if the information is still current but he was teaching at the Tehran University.

You could try contacting the Iranian Homoeopathic Association as well.

If you can obtain the remedy, try to get a liquid dose rather than pillules. Taking pillules repeatedly is not as effective as taking the remedy in liquid form.

If however you can only get pillules, for the first dose follow these instructions.

Dissolve a single pillule into 200mls of water. Stir thoroughly after it is dissolved, then take 2 teaspoons into the mouth. Hold for 20 seconds and swallow.

I would only have you do a single dose to begin with, and we can assess the response after 7 days.

If you need to take further doses, you must make a dosing bottle. This would require a small bottle with a dropper, and a mixture of alcohol and water (1 part to 5).
 
Evocationer 9 years ago
thank you sir especially for introduse ardavan shahrdar im from tehran and i will find him
first i will try to obtain the liquid form so tell me how can i use the liquid form?
second if i cant find the liquid form i will folow your order 1 tab. in 200 ml h2o after 7 days if it is neccesary i will make dosing bottle ( i have this one with droper )
by the way how can i use liquide form ambria 200c at first step?
 
meisam.h.pour 9 years ago
If you have the liquid form of a remedy, you should hit the bottle firmly against the palm of the hand 5 times. Place 3 drops into 100mls of water, stir thoroughly, and take 2 teaspoons into the mouth. Hold in the mouth for 20 seconds and swallow.
 
Evocationer 9 years ago

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