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i strongy insist a professional assistance..hello my age is 30 my height is 170 cm amd my weight is 56 kg.What is intresting is i never had oppurtunity of a clear tummy except for few times.As much as i m aware i have this state for minimum 15 years.I may sound crazy and it is very embarassing but my poo is always watery never in a perfect shape very little in amount i am quite amazed to see the poo of other people as i live in country side..have a very weak digestive system as i can say but when i consume wood apple or some other thing i become happy in the morning..I had OCD after that i had TB and then Gastritis..I am a kind of interovert i dont interact with strangers i don have friends in my area i have problem in communication ,i can to one and two persons but the persons i know even if they are together i become nervous i fell as if i should remain silent or very anxious what they say to me if any how they say something absurd i dont say any thing back..i always become nervous anxious in groups and in public..Yes i have a very traumatic childhood.I remember when i was in 5th grade ther was a boy many of my friens started taking interst in him leaving me or as i thought at that time since i was good in studies i thought i deserved that then many of the girls even seniours and even teachers were very fond of him infact my managers girl she also started liking him it was a bad situation for me very bad it made me think that i lack lot of thing ,this made me isolated since the boy was my locality it was even harder the children who were with i started avoiding them day by day i became lonely..i would never go outside so that no body see me..to the extreme i would change my path to avoid them if any how i had confrontation with them they would mock me or say some thing that i wont like i would come back and cry..i even stopped going to functions..i would always be anxious if they see the girls of my family they would start relationship with them and it happened once ..ther was a girl of my family whom i used to love but she started liking the same guy and when i said something to her she mocked me saying i was a mouse as i had very bad health..i was ver frustrated sad and more lonely than before..years went by in frustration and sadness,i had jus couple of friens even i was afraid to lose them..in 12 grade i had a nightmare of wtching my smallest sister genital which after two or three months resulted in OCD,till this date i am unable to communicate to my sisters brothers and parents at my home..after 4 years TB and after that Gastritis ..i desprately want to change my personality I have studied alot like CBT and MBCT and to my surprise they helped me a lot..But still it seems that i need to do more as to this date i am not confident,afraid of public groups and unable to express my self..thanku
aamir2312 on 2015-06-21
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
You have a complex case not suitable for a forum.
It would be best if you consult a homeopath in person.
It would be best if you consult a homeopath in person.
fitness 8 years ago
Dear aamir,
As for the homoeopathic treatment & medicines what fitness has suggested is very right thing to do, because you need personal consultation with your Homoeopath time-to-time as improvement will come.
However, I also feel that just the homeo treatment is not going to cure you of your problem or personality.
You will yourself have to work on your own psyche and understand the root cause of all these traits.
I feel that the first step that you need to take with yourself is to get over this feeling of labelling yourself as a inferior person.
God has created you & HIS products are, ALL of them the best. No one in this world is superior or inferior. Each one of are unique.
As you have rightly pointed out that you were always the best in your studies & people use to seek you & your company (even for their own selfish motive) but it shows that you have some wonderful qualities & traits.
I suggest sit in a silent place without any disturbance & start writing down one below the other all the adjectives that applies to your personality.
Do not worry about good or bad, right or wrong etc. just list them out. As your thoughts stop draw a line & then think further some more you will remember write them.
Finish this exercise taking enough time.
Now next step is every morning when you get up first thing you do is read all of them three times & select one or two of them which you like the most & decide that whole day you will implement them in your full days activities.
Again when you go to bed read it three times & sleep.
Go on adding to this list as & when new one comes to your mind.
Practice this for at least ten days WITOUT ANY BREAK.
Do not forget to pray to God for HIS help. Do not think him to be a grand old man with big beard. white robe & stern looks sitting above you.
Visualize HIM as a loving companion & a true friend & converse with HIM & not just ritualistic prayers without understanding what we are saying.
Feel free to write anything as all the forum members are extremely helpful & full of concern. No one will ever discard your feelings.
A BIG God bless to you!!!
DAKTERSAAB
As for the homoeopathic treatment & medicines what fitness has suggested is very right thing to do, because you need personal consultation with your Homoeopath time-to-time as improvement will come.
However, I also feel that just the homeo treatment is not going to cure you of your problem or personality.
You will yourself have to work on your own psyche and understand the root cause of all these traits.
I feel that the first step that you need to take with yourself is to get over this feeling of labelling yourself as a inferior person.
God has created you & HIS products are, ALL of them the best. No one in this world is superior or inferior. Each one of are unique.
As you have rightly pointed out that you were always the best in your studies & people use to seek you & your company (even for their own selfish motive) but it shows that you have some wonderful qualities & traits.
I suggest sit in a silent place without any disturbance & start writing down one below the other all the adjectives that applies to your personality.
Do not worry about good or bad, right or wrong etc. just list them out. As your thoughts stop draw a line & then think further some more you will remember write them.
Finish this exercise taking enough time.
Now next step is every morning when you get up first thing you do is read all of them three times & select one or two of them which you like the most & decide that whole day you will implement them in your full days activities.
Again when you go to bed read it three times & sleep.
Go on adding to this list as & when new one comes to your mind.
Practice this for at least ten days WITOUT ANY BREAK.
Do not forget to pray to God for HIS help. Do not think him to be a grand old man with big beard. white robe & stern looks sitting above you.
Visualize HIM as a loving companion & a true friend & converse with HIM & not just ritualistic prayers without understanding what we are saying.
Feel free to write anything as all the forum members are extremely helpful & full of concern. No one will ever discard your feelings.
A BIG God bless to you!!!
DAKTERSAAB
daktersaab 8 years ago
thank you so much daktersaab for your concern..and again a big thanku for giving such a wonderfull guideline..i really appreciate that..sir i will do whatever you have said..i want to live this life with new vibrancy..and i will ..thanku again sir..
aamir2312 8 years ago
dear aamir,
you are most welcome.
jab tak aap ka senior partner aur dost allah aap ke saath haye zindagi to gul-e-gulzar honi hi haye.us ko koi bhi nahi rok sakta.
have absolute faith in yourself.
you are most welcome.
jab tak aap ka senior partner aur dost allah aap ke saath haye zindagi to gul-e-gulzar honi hi haye.us ko koi bhi nahi rok sakta.
have absolute faith in yourself.
daktersaab 8 years ago
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