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Hello everybody,
Hope you all are doing great. My husband hasn't finished the second remedy course yet but I decided to provide a feed back.
it is amazing that sometimes how these homeopathic remedies work. interestingly after 4 days of taking Satphys he decided not to see porn movies anymore. he made this decision happily. I am very glad. he doesn't do any masturbation anymore. he can express himself better than before and doesn't get angry as much as before if people don't appreciate him. still gets angry a bit. he is more nice and kind than before. overall I would say he is much more better than before. now I think it is time to look at his remaining problems:
1. he still have high sexual desire. apparently he doesn't think about sex as much as before but still would like to have intercourse almost every night.
2. still hearing the whistle sound in his ears
3. he is worried about his parents and his sister very much. I am not saying that he shouldn't but sometimes it makes him so misrable that he can not concentrate on anything and he just want to go to sleep. remember that his sister suffers from MS.
4. his sleeping is a little bit better but some nights (especially if he eats something like fish) in the middle of his sleep he feels kind of suffocation. I mean he wants to wake up but he can't so he making sounds that I realized I should wake him up. it is usually like he wants to run away during the dream or to do something but he can't (as he said).
5. as for smoking grass I have no idea. becuase as I mentioned before we are planning for having a baby so he already decided not to smoke until I get pregnant.
that is all I can think of for now. if I remember more I'll let you know.
So what do you think: again Staphys but this time 200 or maybe Nux vom or Lyco?
I said Lycopodium because of low self-esteem, being intellectual, and sexually very active.
Dear Pankaj, and Dear John it would be very kind of you to provide response for this posting as well.
All the best,
Phosphor

Dear John,
he had a bad week from Oct 12 till oct 16 at work. I mean everything looks unstable in their company. usually he would react like a desparate person, but it was the first time that he could handle it very well. even he himself realized that. on weekend he said: I feel that I handled everything in a good way. and it is true. there were things made him laugh during that week, while before he wouldn't laugh in these situtations at all, I mean even the greatest comedians wouldn't make him laugh. I would say he is more mature now.
Please give me more time to investigate this matter. In the meantime I will talk to him to find out if there is anything new.
If there is anything else that might help please let me know and I will talk to him about that.
Best of all

oh! one more thing I forgot:
I am really sorry to mention this in forum but I guess I have no other choice. I understand if the moderator wants to erase this.
we used to have what I guess you called it oral sex before. I don't like it so about a year ago I decided to stop it. so I don't do it anymore. but 2 nights ago he mentioned it again that if it is possible to have oral sex again. I refused and that was it.

Ok! I guess it is my turn.
Dear Murthy I really appreciate your concern but I strongly suggest you to speak for yourself. I asked John explicitly in my posting to provide me his professional views and share his thoughts about my husband's case. I guess this is my right to do so and nobody else can make a decision in this matter. So John, I really appreciate if you will continue your cooperation here.
Dear Pankaj, as far as I understood we are all here mainly for three reasons: some are seeking help like myself, some are learning stuff and some are here to help people like me. I believe both you and John are among those who are here to help people. It never came to my mind that this forum could be a battle ground for people like you and John. There is no bridge and my husband is not a mouse in your lab. The way that scientific people work is that they listen to different point of views and they express their views as well. as it says: It is amazing how much you can accomplish when it doesn't matter who gets the credit.
John suggested sulphur and I agreed with him. As a result my husband took sulphur and then there was no bolding out symptom and then John came up with Phos acid and Nux vom and you came up with Staph. But none of you knows my husband as much as I do. so based on that and based on the remedy picture I chose Staph. I am going to continue the same thing mainly because as I just mentioned nobody knows him as I do. So I really need to know different point of views in order to find the best remedy for him.
I would like to finish my posting with a quote from Henry Ford:
Coming together is a beginning.
Keeping together is progress.
Working together is success.
Again thank you both Pankaj and John.
Phosphor

Dear Murthy,
I guess you didn't get my point. Your addressing, affects on my case. I need both John and Pankaj to be involved in my case. It is none of my bussiness that you two know each other. By the way to me seeker is the same as phosphor. I don't like manipulating words.
Thank you

Dear John,
Could you please explain more about your opinion, when you said other symptomology not being affected by Staph?
I am not a homeopath but I have studied some stuff on homeopathy. as far as I understood there are different miasmas for every person. the more you are imbalanced the more miasmas you have. so with homeopathy they try to take off each of these miasmas until they reach to your constitutional type. now with my husband it should be the same. is that right? could you please correct me if I am wrong? in the menatime I really appreciate if you explain things more for me.
Thank you for your time spending on my husband's case.
Phosphor

Dear Pankaj, Dear John:
Hope you both are doing great. Following please find the feed back and please let me know if there is anything that need to be explained more.
Today is the last day of China and here is the latest update of my husband’s condition:
1. I realized this morning he did masturbation again. I explain the situation you decide what could be the reason. We had intercourse last night but a very short one because of his premature ejaculation, so he suggested to do it one more time mainly because of me but I couldn’t. This morning he got angry with me because I did a mistake in stock trading so we lost some money. He didn’t show much anger but after that I realized he had the masturbation. So don’t know if it was because he doesn’t want another premature ejaculation tonight or was it kind of expressing his anger.
2. he still has the whistling sound in his ears and it becomes louder when he is in a horizontal position (lying asleep).
3. his bowel habits improved as he said.
4. overall he feels better.
5. still has high sexual demand
Other than the above mentioned there seems no more stuff. I think it would be a good idea if I mention all the symptoms once again here. Lets start with physical symptoms and general features:
1. he has dandruff. He is losing hairs, I mean it seems that he is becoming bald. His father is kind of bald as well.
2. he hears whistle sound in his ears.
3. he is developing a horizontal line on his forehead, I guess because he is so tense in his forehead
4. his back has become curved because of the way he used to sit and still he sits the same way.
5. he is warm and gets worse by high heat and likes cool breeze. Just during the sleep back of his neck gets cold. He sleeps most of the time on his tummy and if he sleeps on his back he put his left hand on his forehead. He likes to put a pillow between his legs.
6. he used to sleep very bad, I mean almost awake all the night. Now he is better but still most of the time around 3-4 am he doesn’t sleep well and then again he falls into sleep.
7. he lies when he watches tv, I mean I never see him in a sitting position watching tv.
8. he is sensitive to noise. He can’t go to sleep with sound of cars passing by. Or he doesn’t like the sound of water in the bathroom when I get up in the morning and do my stuff in the bathroom. And many more things. Although he listens to the music loudly. He knows music very well and he plays guitar so he enjoys loud music.
9. he used to be more aware during evening and night but now he is good in the morning as well but still he would love to stay wake up during the night.
10. he had a fear of height but he overcomes it by doing parachuting and paragliding.
11. he has a fear of darkness (not very much though)
12. he likes warm foods and likes a cup of tea after each meal
13. he sometimes eats to bursting point(not always)
14. he hates cabbage and zucchini and loves tomato
15. fatty foods cause digestive problem for him
16. he likes sour and salty foods and sometimes craves for sweet foods
17. he hates sea foods and just sometimes eat fish which causes him low blood pressure and suffocation feeling at sleep
18. he likes cold drinks and likes alcohol although he doesn’t like to drink alcohol alone and since he doesn’t get opportunity with me to have a drink (because I hate alcohol, maybe 2-3 times a year), when we are at a party he drinks so much, and after that he feels sleepy. He never say no to drink alcohol offers.
19. he gets headache after drinking beers
20. flatulence
as for his personality and temperament:
1. he used to be very irritable but he realized that a few years ago. He worked on that so now he is better but still a little irritable.
2. he can’t make decisions most of the time as I mentioned before. He always need to double check everything with me.
3. he is very concerned about precision and accuracy, but not in all issues. He always optimizes as much as he can.
4. he is a kind of pessimistic person.
5. at work he has a very good self confidence, or it would be better if I say in scientific matters. But in social matters and in his relationships he doesn’t have self confidence. Overall he doesn’t like social chatting and prefer to talk about meaningful issues of life rather than chit chatting.
6. he thinks fast(very clever and intelligent and a very good solution finder at work. He is computer hardware engineer), talks fast, eat fast, drives fast, even sometimes he watches movies by fast forwarding!!
7. he likes to be touched, I mean he likes me to hug him, when watching tv, when we want to go to sleep.
8. very high sex derive. Sometime I think all his energy is integrated in his sexual organ.
9. he is very competitive. I mean in any scenario he thinks that he should be the winner. Even sometimes when we discuss he hates not to be the winner.
10. no need to mention again that he sometimes smokes grass, as he said it makes him feel good and to enhance his thinking about philosophical matters.
11. he likes to go to nude places like nude beaches.
Some thing I just found 2 days ago: it was a program on tv about child abuse and suddenly he remembered when he was 7 or 8 years old a strange man offered him to give a ride and he accepted. So as he was sitting in the car besides him the driver tried to touch his genital parts and talking to him about how beautiful he is and …. So my husband shouted at him to stop the car and tried to open the door. Fortunately the driver stopped the car and my husband ran away.
Sorry for the long posting.
Thank you for your time.
All the best,
Phosphor

before Staphys he moved a lot, I mean rolling around, chnaging positions and so on. now there is less movement and kind of deeper sleep.but I still I wouldn't say without any movemoent. in the menatime recently he falls into sleep faster than before. I mean before he kind of forced himself to go to sleep but now most of the nights he really wants to go to sleep, which I think is good. one more thing I don't know if this is helpful or maybe it is very silly but no harm to say: he sleeps around the centre of bed after taking Staph. imagine a queen bed; he used to sleep near the edge but now it is more close to centre.
Thanks a lot