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Yes indeed it is running in your family, we will see after the 1M dose. If he does not improve with this dose, then we will think about another remedy.
By the way, did you read about Platina ?
By the way, did you read about Platina ?
sameervermani last decade
6 days after the 1M dose:
-no bedwetting since this dose (but too early to say if it´s gone)
-his mental mode is similar, (which means that after the phosphor he is in a good mood most of the time) but especially in the afternoon and in the evening he gets very moody
-has started to have a lot of pflegm in chest and throat in the night, snoring and mild coughing (I take this as a good sign and hope that the Phosphor is bringing out some old discharges, you know during his first years he had a lot of pflegm, and asthma-liked problems).
I think we need more time to see how long this dose will take him. His condition is not so acute and now in the summer he is usually much better. Maybe we don´t know for sure until the autumn when the weather is getting worse if he is fully cured.
There is also the fact that his big brothers condition has big impact on him and on our whole family. When he is in a good mood everybody is in good mood, and when he is in a bad mood the energy goes away...
I may try later on to give him some milkproducts to see if he can handle them better.
What do you think Sameer?
Best wishes Pia
-no bedwetting since this dose (but too early to say if it´s gone)
-his mental mode is similar, (which means that after the phosphor he is in a good mood most of the time) but especially in the afternoon and in the evening he gets very moody
-has started to have a lot of pflegm in chest and throat in the night, snoring and mild coughing (I take this as a good sign and hope that the Phosphor is bringing out some old discharges, you know during his first years he had a lot of pflegm, and asthma-liked problems).
I think we need more time to see how long this dose will take him. His condition is not so acute and now in the summer he is usually much better. Maybe we don´t know for sure until the autumn when the weather is getting worse if he is fully cured.
There is also the fact that his big brothers condition has big impact on him and on our whole family. When he is in a good mood everybody is in good mood, and when he is in a bad mood the energy goes away...
I may try later on to give him some milkproducts to see if he can handle them better.
What do you think Sameer?
Best wishes Pia
Tintintin last decade
Dear Sameer,
It is now 3 weeks ago since the 1M dose. I am really trying to see what is happening, if something...but it is very hard to see the picture clear for me...
There has been no bedwetting since the last dose, this must be a good sign.
He has had a cold for about two weeks and been quite moody. Now it´s gone but his mood is not so good. He gets irritated easily, and angry also. He is disobedient, obstinacy. Especially in the afternoons and evenings. Still affectionate but shorttempered. If I should compare to his big brother I would say that he doesn´t have the same power in his anger and irritation. Almost always we can talk him out of it, if we just remains calm and give love he soon forget that he was angry. It´s not the kind of temper that stresses us parents. He doesn´t have the same strong will and dominance...More of a mild nature...but still stubborn...
I cannot say for sure that anything has changed, maybe a little worse I think.
Best wishes Pia
It is now 3 weeks ago since the 1M dose. I am really trying to see what is happening, if something...but it is very hard to see the picture clear for me...
There has been no bedwetting since the last dose, this must be a good sign.
He has had a cold for about two weeks and been quite moody. Now it´s gone but his mood is not so good. He gets irritated easily, and angry also. He is disobedient, obstinacy. Especially in the afternoons and evenings. Still affectionate but shorttempered. If I should compare to his big brother I would say that he doesn´t have the same power in his anger and irritation. Almost always we can talk him out of it, if we just remains calm and give love he soon forget that he was angry. It´s not the kind of temper that stresses us parents. He doesn´t have the same strong will and dominance...More of a mild nature...but still stubborn...
I cannot say for sure that anything has changed, maybe a little worse I think.
Best wishes Pia
Tintintin last decade
I think I change my opinion a little, he is more moody since the last four or five days. Maybe the remedy isn´t working anymore and therefor is getting worse...
Pia
Pia
Tintintin last decade
hmm.. Now it is time to move on to the next remedy.
So, tell me is he still cruel towards animals ?
Is there a fear of dogs ?
Does he improve when you rub him with your hands ?
Is he thirsty for small sips of water ?
Any perfectionist traits with his school work ?
So, tell me is he still cruel towards animals ?
Is there a fear of dogs ?
Does he improve when you rub him with your hands ?
Is he thirsty for small sips of water ?
Any perfectionist traits with his school work ?
sameervermani last decade
So, tell me is he still cruel towards animals ?
P:We have discussions about how he treats our dog often. He goes to the dog very often and first he is nice but then it is like he must test if he can scare the dog a bit. The dog doesn´t trust him at all and tries to hide and get away so he is certainly not nice all the time...
Is there a fear of dogs ? P:Well, there was a BIG fear of dogs 2005 when we came home from Thailand (tsunami). He totally panic if he just saw a dog far away outside. After a few months and me doing some EFT(Emotional Freedom Technique = energy therapi) on him the fear was gone. He may still become a little tense when my brothers big dog is coming to visit...
Does he improve when you rub him with your hands ? Yes, he responds very well to this, just love it...He reacts strongly to music also, he plays the piano and likes it a lot...
Is he thirsty for small sips of water ?
P:No, I think he drinks a half or a whole glass most of the time.
Any perfectionist traits with his school work ?
PHmmm...he is certainly not a careless child but I´m not sure if he is perfectionistic. I know that he can sit and concentrate with his schoolwork for a long time. And this is also true when doing something else. Great endurance.
One thing that is very characteristic about him is his strong desire to win everything. He is very competetive about everything. I´m sure that this is true about his schoolwork also. He just cannot take loosing...I know that he did his mathbook as quick as he could because he wanted to get ready first...He also talks about that he is the best reader in his class...Overall he is very good at school and also in playing soccer...almost the best in the team. Which he knows and it is very important for him. Maybe he is a perfectionist, what do you think ;)?
Thankyou so much for your great work with our family Sameer!
Best wishes Pia
P:We have discussions about how he treats our dog often. He goes to the dog very often and first he is nice but then it is like he must test if he can scare the dog a bit. The dog doesn´t trust him at all and tries to hide and get away so he is certainly not nice all the time...
Is there a fear of dogs ? P:Well, there was a BIG fear of dogs 2005 when we came home from Thailand (tsunami). He totally panic if he just saw a dog far away outside. After a few months and me doing some EFT(Emotional Freedom Technique = energy therapi) on him the fear was gone. He may still become a little tense when my brothers big dog is coming to visit...
Does he improve when you rub him with your hands ? Yes, he responds very well to this, just love it...He reacts strongly to music also, he plays the piano and likes it a lot...
Is he thirsty for small sips of water ?
P:No, I think he drinks a half or a whole glass most of the time.
Any perfectionist traits with his school work ?
PHmmm...he is certainly not a careless child but I´m not sure if he is perfectionistic. I know that he can sit and concentrate with his schoolwork for a long time. And this is also true when doing something else. Great endurance.
One thing that is very characteristic about him is his strong desire to win everything. He is very competetive about everything. I´m sure that this is true about his schoolwork also. He just cannot take loosing...I know that he did his mathbook as quick as he could because he wanted to get ready first...He also talks about that he is the best reader in his class...Overall he is very good at school and also in playing soccer...almost the best in the team. Which he knows and it is very important for him. Maybe he is a perfectionist, what do you think ;)?
Thankyou so much for your great work with our family Sameer!
Best wishes Pia
Tintintin last decade
Remedy A
So, does he always insist on finishing whatever he has started ? Is he difficult to distract from his desires?
Can we call him reliable and hard working ?
Ever noticed any sour sweats or sour stools ?
Does he always wish to do things by himself showing a desire to be independent and self-sufficient ? e.g. if you want to feed him , he will refuse and insist on eating himself.
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Remedy B
1/. Is the patient very profoundly affected by thunderstorms, and other natural phenomenon?
2/. Does the patient have a 'cafe au lait' (milky coffee) type colour to their complexion?
3/. Is the patient very emotional, and particularly, empathic towards others? Do they worry over relatives etc?
4/. Is the patient very independent? Obstinate? Are they very sensitive to reprimand?
5/. Is the patient VERY profoundly affected by music? Is there a great love of dancing, and keen sense of rythm?
6/. Do they feel as if they have suffered from some kind of great loss?
7./) Does he have some what of an eye for detail especially when it comes to sense of beauty ?
So, does he always insist on finishing whatever he has started ? Is he difficult to distract from his desires?
Can we call him reliable and hard working ?
Ever noticed any sour sweats or sour stools ?
Does he always wish to do things by himself showing a desire to be independent and self-sufficient ? e.g. if you want to feed him , he will refuse and insist on eating himself.
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Remedy B
1/. Is the patient very profoundly affected by thunderstorms, and other natural phenomenon?
2/. Does the patient have a 'cafe au lait' (milky coffee) type colour to their complexion?
3/. Is the patient very emotional, and particularly, empathic towards others? Do they worry over relatives etc?
4/. Is the patient very independent? Obstinate? Are they very sensitive to reprimand?
5/. Is the patient VERY profoundly affected by music? Is there a great love of dancing, and keen sense of rythm?
6/. Do they feel as if they have suffered from some kind of great loss?
7./) Does he have some what of an eye for detail especially when it comes to sense of beauty ?
sameervermani last decade
Remedy A
So, does he always insist on finishing whatever he has started ? Is he difficult to distract from his desires?
P: Well, he is consistent and want to finish his work. When he is doing something you can´t talk to him cause he is so concentrated.
Can we call him reliable and hard working ?
P:Yes, I think you can call him that.
Ever noticed any sour sweats or sour stools ?
P:I don´t think so..havn´t noticed...
Does he always wish to do things by himself showing a desire to be independent and self-sufficient ? e.g. if you want to feed him , he will refuse and insist on eating himself.
P: Yes, from early childhood he has been doing a lot of things by himself, like making his own breakfast, put on clothes, fixing things...doesn´t want help, gets angry if we try to...
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Remedy B
1/. Is the patient very profoundly affected by thunderstorms, and other natural phenomenon?
P:No havn`t noticed...
2/. Does the patient have a 'cafe au lait' (milky coffee) type colour to their complexion?
P: No, his more pale in his colours...
3/. Is the patient very emotional, and particularly, empathic towards others? Do they worry over relatives etc?
P:No, not so emotional.
4/. Is the patient very independent? Obstinate? Are they very sensitive to reprimand?
P: Well , he is obstinate but in a soft way. Can be quite stubborn but most of the time you can talk him out of it. I don´t think he is especially sensitive to reprimands although he can be sad sometimes.
5/. Is the patient VERY profoundly affected by music? Is there a great love of dancing, and keen sense of rythm?
P: He likes music very much. You can see in his face that he changes expression as soon as there is music. And he needs to move his body and feel the rythm. When he was younger he loved to dance...When he plays the piano you can see that he has a keen sense of rythm.
6/. Do they feel as if they have suffered from some kind of great loss?
P: No this doesn´t match
7./) Does he have some what of an eye for detail especially when it comes to sense of beauty ?
P: No, I don´t think so...
Which remedies are you proving? It would be interesting to read about them...
Thankyou!
Best wishes Pia
So, does he always insist on finishing whatever he has started ? Is he difficult to distract from his desires?
P: Well, he is consistent and want to finish his work. When he is doing something you can´t talk to him cause he is so concentrated.
Can we call him reliable and hard working ?
P:Yes, I think you can call him that.
Ever noticed any sour sweats or sour stools ?
P:I don´t think so..havn´t noticed...
Does he always wish to do things by himself showing a desire to be independent and self-sufficient ? e.g. if you want to feed him , he will refuse and insist on eating himself.
P: Yes, from early childhood he has been doing a lot of things by himself, like making his own breakfast, put on clothes, fixing things...doesn´t want help, gets angry if we try to...
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Remedy B
1/. Is the patient very profoundly affected by thunderstorms, and other natural phenomenon?
P:No havn`t noticed...
2/. Does the patient have a 'cafe au lait' (milky coffee) type colour to their complexion?
P: No, his more pale in his colours...
3/. Is the patient very emotional, and particularly, empathic towards others? Do they worry over relatives etc?
P:No, not so emotional.
4/. Is the patient very independent? Obstinate? Are they very sensitive to reprimand?
P: Well , he is obstinate but in a soft way. Can be quite stubborn but most of the time you can talk him out of it. I don´t think he is especially sensitive to reprimands although he can be sad sometimes.
5/. Is the patient VERY profoundly affected by music? Is there a great love of dancing, and keen sense of rythm?
P: He likes music very much. You can see in his face that he changes expression as soon as there is music. And he needs to move his body and feel the rythm. When he was younger he loved to dance...When he plays the piano you can see that he has a keen sense of rythm.
6/. Do they feel as if they have suffered from some kind of great loss?
P: No this doesn´t match
7./) Does he have some what of an eye for detail especially when it comes to sense of beauty ?
P: No, I don´t think so...
Which remedies are you proving? It would be interesting to read about them...
Thankyou!
Best wishes Pia
Tintintin last decade
The features are fine and delicate, the hair is quite thin, the skin is pale. Great litheness. His hair grows very slow compaired to the rest of the family. He is shy to adults, talks very quiet if answering at all...Did not answer the teacher in school for the first half year, better now...
Another thing is that he is a little 'fighter'. Meaning that if someone hits him or does anything bad he successfully protect himself. In school he has been protecting his big brother, he just jumps on the bigger boys and he is so intense doing this that he makes them leave...No one will ever hit him I think he is very strong mentally. Actually I think it turns him on a bit. We have tried to talk to him and say that you cannot hit anyone etc but he never listen and if there is a situation when some of his friends are being hit he helps them immidiately, no hesitiation whatsoever. Maybe he has learned from being a little brother...
Another little feature is that he spontaneusly hits us in the family. I don´t mean anything severe, just annoying small hitting whenever he passes...It is af he cannot help doing it...
Another thing is that he is a little 'fighter'. Meaning that if someone hits him or does anything bad he successfully protect himself. In school he has been protecting his big brother, he just jumps on the bigger boys and he is so intense doing this that he makes them leave...No one will ever hit him I think he is very strong mentally. Actually I think it turns him on a bit. We have tried to talk to him and say that you cannot hit anyone etc but he never listen and if there is a situation when some of his friends are being hit he helps them immidiately, no hesitiation whatsoever. Maybe he has learned from being a little brother...
Another little feature is that he spontaneusly hits us in the family. I don´t mean anything severe, just annoying small hitting whenever he passes...It is af he cannot help doing it...
Tintintin last decade
I´ve been studying and do you think that Silicea is worth trying? I think the mind does match..
Mind.
Quiet and self-contained.
THE PATIENT WILL ADMIT TO HAVING CONVICTIONS WHICH HE DOES NOT ARGUE, even seeming to acquiesce to another's viewpoint though internally keeping his own view.
children who 'weep when reprimanded.'
Shy children who will not answer the prescriber directly but instead whisper to the mother who must relay the information.
The above is perfect match!!!
Another thing is slow growth. Has been smaller than average children, in the last year or so he has grown a lot so now he is like his equal as the same age...He has always been treated as younger than he is because of the fact that he looked younger...he has also behaved like a younger boy. Liked to be treated as a little boy....
Mind.
Quiet and self-contained.
THE PATIENT WILL ADMIT TO HAVING CONVICTIONS WHICH HE DOES NOT ARGUE, even seeming to acquiesce to another's viewpoint though internally keeping his own view.
children who 'weep when reprimanded.'
Shy children who will not answer the prescriber directly but instead whisper to the mother who must relay the information.
The above is perfect match!!!
Another thing is slow growth. Has been smaller than average children, in the last year or so he has grown a lot so now he is like his equal as the same age...He has always been treated as younger than he is because of the fact that he looked younger...he has also behaved like a younger boy. Liked to be treated as a little boy....
Tintintin last decade
I am inclined more towards a dose of Calcarea Carb as you answered to all the questions for remedy A ( which was Calc) as a 'yes' above.
The strong amelioration from rubbing is not present in Silicea, and it does not have the cruelty towards animals :) , and moreover the strong focus to finish his tasks by himself is seldom found in Silicea, and this is more of a Calc symptom.
Hmm... so please give him 3 'wet' doses of Calcarea Carb 30c equally spaced on a single day.
Report in 1 week after this.
The strong amelioration from rubbing is not present in Silicea, and it does not have the cruelty towards animals :) , and moreover the strong focus to finish his tasks by himself is seldom found in Silicea, and this is more of a Calc symptom.
Hmm... so please give him 3 'wet' doses of Calcarea Carb 30c equally spaced on a single day.
Report in 1 week after this.
sameervermani last decade
Okej, I trust you of course. I don´t have the experience...just trying ;)
Thankyou so much for your help again!
Thankyou so much for your help again!
Tintintin last decade
You might want to check with Loijtis , I think she has Calcarea Carb with her.
sameervermani last decade
For your information I have Calc.carb D200. Probably you don´t recommend that potency right now for little John???
Loijtis
Loijtis
Mammiz last decade
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
10 days after Calc carb 30C.
I cannot see any effect this time. He is still obstinate, irritated and gets angry easily. He seems to be unbalanced...
He has been bedwetting also two times.
What is your suggestion?
Best regards Pia
10 days after Calc carb 30C.
I cannot see any effect this time. He is still obstinate, irritated and gets angry easily. He seems to be unbalanced...
He has been bedwetting also two times.
What is your suggestion?
Best regards Pia
Tintintin last decade
Well, he plays soccer and likes it very much. He also plays the piano and likes it too. Comparing to his big brother I would not say that he is very creative...I mean more than normal...
Tintintin last decade
And, does he often feel insecure or anxious ?
Is he selfish at times or is he generous all the time?
Is he selfish at times or is he generous all the time?
sameervermani last decade
I guess you can say that he is insecure. For example he has never wanted to start any activity like soccer, swimmingschool, pianolessons etc I´ve had to bring him anyway and as soon as he has been there a few times he likes it, but he is anxious before. The answer is yes, he is anxious often...
He is selfish at times and generous at times. But mostly generous, maybe not to his brother although...
Actually right now he is expressing more anger than usually. Can this be due to the Calc carb? He is opposite to almost everything we say...He also cries very easily now. When we reprimand him he cries but also at other times. More than he usually does...
Pia
He is selfish at times and generous at times. But mostly generous, maybe not to his brother although...
Actually right now he is expressing more anger than usually. Can this be due to the Calc carb? He is opposite to almost everything we say...He also cries very easily now. When we reprimand him he cries but also at other times. More than he usually does...
Pia
Tintintin last decade
sameervermani last decade
And to answer your question, yes, Calcarea Carb undid the partial 'good effect' of Phosphorus as it is listed as one of the anti-dotes to Phos. In the hind-sight, it was a mistake. But, I had thought Phosphorus did not do much good.
However, I am pretty sure, we can get to the right remedy soon.
However, I am pretty sure, we can get to the right remedy soon.
sameervermani last decade
No problem! I know you will find the right remedy soon :) Now I have two remedies to order, that´s good cause Helios won´t send them unless I order two....:)
Thankyou again!
Pia
Thankyou again!
Pia
Tintintin last decade
I found out that my mother has D30 Silicea, may I give him this?
And when you say 'equally spaced' do you mean one dose in the morning, one at lunch, one in the evening?
Regards Pia
And when you say 'equally spaced' do you mean one dose in the morning, one at lunch, one in the evening?
Regards Pia
Tintintin last decade
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