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emotional reck
very insecure, jealous, indisicive, hate going out in public with my boyfriend because he cant keep his eyes off of other women. I am particulary jealous of blonds. I often break off our relatitonship after drinking wine. I also get very argumentive, accusitory and sob when drinking wine.I often want to run away from the relationship. I move quite often as well. I do not have close relationships with anyone and push those away who try to be my friend.
I want affection and someone to love me but when I get to that point I push them away.
I cannot seem to bond with others. Including family members. I don.t feel there love even though they say that they love me. My moods are up and down. I get sad, angry and can.t seem to find my place in life. I have always felt this way. I am 48. I prefer hot over cold. I drink to make myself feel better only to make me feel worse. Wine red is my drink of choice. I hate how I look and feel very anxious if there is a female in the room that is prettier then I. I do not get along with women very well and do prefer to be around men.
I do not sleep well unless I have been drinking.
I own my business and work from home. I hate parties and meeting new people. Do not have much to say and feel uncomfortable. To others I appear very outgoing and confident. But inside I do not feel like that. Sometimes I feel confident but most of the time I fight the jealousy feelings.
So far the best remedy has been nat flour.
lakemee on 2008-11-29
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Nux Vomica is not your remedy.
Please answer these questions for me:
Are you able to wear tight clothing or high neck clothes?
Are you suspicious ?
Do you ever have exceptional loquacity marked by a rapid change of subject; i.e. jumping abruptly from one idea to another ?
Do you use your tongue in a very refined but cynical and critical way ? As if you have an intuition about the weakness of others and hence an ability to hurt them with precise sarcastic words ?
Are you intense and passionate ?
Please answer these questions for me:
Are you able to wear tight clothing or high neck clothes?
Are you suspicious ?
Do you ever have exceptional loquacity marked by a rapid change of subject; i.e. jumping abruptly from one idea to another ?
Do you use your tongue in a very refined but cynical and critical way ? As if you have an intuition about the weakness of others and hence an ability to hurt them with precise sarcastic words ?
Are you intense and passionate ?
sameervermani last decade
Thank you both so much for your reply! I have tried Lach and Nux Vomica, neither hold for very long and I have right sided issues not left. However, I do know that Lach was close, but do feel somewhat better when I take nux v. I am very business oreinted and competitive, however, do not feel much like getting out of bed. Depression is always close and pms is awful.
I did some more research and might think that Orig could be a good remedy. Sex drive is very high and I feel very insecure when I am not the center of attention. I always want to run away! The guy that I was recently dating always asks me if I have my running shoes. Iget very anxious and want to get out of there asap. Thinking that he is cheating or just do not feel comfortable at that time.
I am very out going when feeling really good. I do have suicidal thoughts when drinking and want to argue and push people away. I have had quite a few dissapointments when it comes to love. Mainly unfaithful relationships.
The last one that i was in, he was cheating on me with not only women but men. WOW. Kowing even that and the risk I stayed with him. Sex was great and that is important to me. HOW DUMB IS THAT!
I have broken off our relationship when drinking red wine many times and can lash out and be very mean when drinking red wine. I do not get like that with other types of alcohol only red wine, sometimes white. Preferance us red, My dads mother died of cirrouses of the liver from drinking wine.
I do not have a lot of motivation and just want to stay in bed. Probably due to the horrible hang overs and if I drink way to much, the next day later on in the day I get great anixity attachs. I have been depressed since I was about 6. Divorce of my parents. I have been sexually molested 4 or 5 times by different men all of whom I knew.
Once again I do not have many female friends and do not care much for women unless they are older.
I do not trust to many people. I went through a divorce 7 years ago, my choice, had an affair to get out of this relationship because he had cheated and I did not trust him. He would also minipulate me and still does to this day. It is very hard for me to trust and I keep choosing men who cheat.
My mother was cheated on and beat by my father, he was an alcoholic, his grandmother and father were murder. He did not really know his dad and was also very sad and depressed. He died October 12th of this year. I was married oct 12, 86 and got to dance with him for the first time. I did not get to be there when he died. I was on my way but did not make it to say good bye. It always seemed like we were saying good bye to one another. That made me very sad and therefore would avoid going to see him for that reason.
I did some more research and might think that Orig could be a good remedy. Sex drive is very high and I feel very insecure when I am not the center of attention. I always want to run away! The guy that I was recently dating always asks me if I have my running shoes. Iget very anxious and want to get out of there asap. Thinking that he is cheating or just do not feel comfortable at that time.
I am very out going when feeling really good. I do have suicidal thoughts when drinking and want to argue and push people away. I have had quite a few dissapointments when it comes to love. Mainly unfaithful relationships.
The last one that i was in, he was cheating on me with not only women but men. WOW. Kowing even that and the risk I stayed with him. Sex was great and that is important to me. HOW DUMB IS THAT!
I have broken off our relationship when drinking red wine many times and can lash out and be very mean when drinking red wine. I do not get like that with other types of alcohol only red wine, sometimes white. Preferance us red, My dads mother died of cirrouses of the liver from drinking wine.
I do not have a lot of motivation and just want to stay in bed. Probably due to the horrible hang overs and if I drink way to much, the next day later on in the day I get great anixity attachs. I have been depressed since I was about 6. Divorce of my parents. I have been sexually molested 4 or 5 times by different men all of whom I knew.
Once again I do not have many female friends and do not care much for women unless they are older.
I do not trust to many people. I went through a divorce 7 years ago, my choice, had an affair to get out of this relationship because he had cheated and I did not trust him. He would also minipulate me and still does to this day. It is very hard for me to trust and I keep choosing men who cheat.
My mother was cheated on and beat by my father, he was an alcoholic, his grandmother and father were murder. He did not really know his dad and was also very sad and depressed. He died October 12th of this year. I was married oct 12, 86 and got to dance with him for the first time. I did not get to be there when he died. I was on my way but did not make it to say good bye. It always seemed like we were saying good bye to one another. That made me very sad and therefore would avoid going to see him for that reason.
lakemee last decade
I am very intense and passionate. I can hit where it hurts with words when I need to or sometimes when I am feeling vaulnerable and angry about what someone has done to me.
I bring it up over and over again and can't seem to forgive and let it go. But that is only when I have been cheated on. Other things that people do to me I forgive very quickly and do not hold grudges. I only hold grudges to men who hurt me.
I bring it up over and over again and can't seem to forgive and let it go. But that is only when I have been cheated on. Other things that people do to me I forgive very quickly and do not hold grudges. I only hold grudges to men who hurt me.
lakemee last decade
I have taken homeopathic remedies for 20 yrs and have yet to find the right remedy. We get close and I feel better for awhile, but then I run away and go to someone else. I do that with everything. Whether it be to get my hair cut, new relationship visit my family, or move. I am constantly running away trying to find where I fit in and feel safe and secure. Have had some great homeopaths treat me
lakemee last decade
If your last homeopath had actually found the right remedy for you and given in the right potency then maybe you wouldn't have run away from him/her too.
My advice for you is to give preference for remedies of the animal kingdom when searching for your remedy. (for example, Lachesis, Sepia, etc.) You're likely to be one of that group.
I hope you can find it.
My advice for you is to give preference for remedies of the animal kingdom when searching for your remedy. (for example, Lachesis, Sepia, etc.) You're likely to be one of that group.
I hope you can find it.
raphaeloliveira last decade
I forgot to mention that finding the right one corresponds only to 50% of the way, the other 50 is finding the best potency and taking proper dosage.
If you have taken homeopathic remedies for 20 years now then very likely you have tried the right one already, and it's still the right one.
If you have taken homeopathic remedies for 20 years now then very likely you have tried the right one already, and it's still the right one.
raphaeloliveira last decade
sameervermani last decade
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
When some people don't have any clue about how to pick the remedy, they start directing patients to softwares :)
A software is the last thing you should rely on for curing mental and emotional issues.
There is a whole lot of subjectivity which goes into picking the remedy for emotional symptoms, and a software is just not suited for doing such a complex analysis.
A software is the last thing you should rely on for curing mental and emotional issues.
There is a whole lot of subjectivity which goes into picking the remedy for emotional symptoms, and a software is just not suited for doing such a complex analysis.
sameervermani last decade
Okay so, I have a remedy in mind now, but before I prescribe, I would like to know how many doses of Lachesis were tried, and what was the potency and how was the repetition done.
Sameer.
Sameer.
sameervermani last decade
Thank you so much to all for your help, suggestions and concern.
Lach in 200 1m and Lm potencey. It has been awhile since I have taken that one.
Lach in 200 1m and Lm potencey. It has been awhile since I have taken that one.
lakemee last decade
I am very sensitive when it comes to remedies. I have taken sepia and I laughed so hard that i cried. My son was with me one time and he was given stramonium and I felt it. We both started laughing and could not stop and I felt very strange.
I do not sleep with lights off unless with someone and am very afraid of the dark. I do have fears that someone will get me and break into my house at night while i am sleeping.
I just recently took orig. it made me feel like I was high on acid. Yes I have experimented with drugs when in my late teens and early 20s. If drugs are still in your cells, can a remedy bring it out?
I do not sleep with lights off unless with someone and am very afraid of the dark. I do have fears that someone will get me and break into my house at night while i am sleeping.
I just recently took orig. it made me feel like I was high on acid. Yes I have experimented with drugs when in my late teens and early 20s. If drugs are still in your cells, can a remedy bring it out?
lakemee last decade
I did have gall bladder issues which lycopodium helped as well as performance anxiety when speaking to a group of people for my business. I have anxiety when speaking to people at a party that i do not know. Podo also helped with the gall bladder issues. I had fibroids with my last pregnancy that were very painful took mag phos for that. It helped ghet me through my pregnancy along with puls.
lakemee last decade
Okay then , please take just three doses of
HYOSCYAMUS NIGER 6C
equally spaced for ONE single day only.
1 dose = 1 teaspoon from a 250 ml bottle of spring water where 2 pellets or 2 drops of Hyos 6c have been dissolved.
Let me know in 5 days after the 3 doses. I look forward to your response.
Restrictions:
1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets (in your case the liquid) with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin
Sameer
HYOSCYAMUS NIGER 6C
equally spaced for ONE single day only.
1 dose = 1 teaspoon from a 250 ml bottle of spring water where 2 pellets or 2 drops of Hyos 6c have been dissolved.
Let me know in 5 days after the 3 doses. I look forward to your response.
Restrictions:
1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets (in your case the liquid) with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin
Sameer
sameervermani last decade
Thank you so much! I have taken this remedy as well. 200c
Can I drink teas that do not have caffeine?
I have given this remedy to my brother who is schzophrinc and it has worked quite well for him in his bad episodes.
Thank you again. I will head out to the store today to pick it up.
Kari
Can I drink teas that do not have caffeine?
I have given this remedy to my brother who is schzophrinc and it has worked quite well for him in his bad episodes.
Thank you again. I will head out to the store today to pick it up.
Kari
lakemee last decade
sameervermani last decade
o wow... did all 3 doses today as you asked... thinking there is no way this is going to effect me. well............. I was so wrong. first one not so much second dose, felt sick to my stomach and faint, and yes I have had those symptoms befoe. The third dose. I am so hot, normally cold. Laughing drinking rum rather then wine and in moderation acording to my standards. I wont take anymore and will let you know in 5 days.
With happy tears in my eyes. Thank you for caring enough for me to take the time to do this!
With happy tears in my eyes. Thank you for caring enough for me to take the time to do this!
lakemee last decade
Dear Sameervemani,
Thank you!
It has been a subtle, gental and very good experience for me. I feel like I am me... Don't know where to take it from here. I am happy. focused, calm and not argumentive! Wow.. who new?
THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY SOUL.
I am more then greatful!
Kari
Thank you!
It has been a subtle, gental and very good experience for me. I feel like I am me... Don't know where to take it from here. I am happy. focused, calm and not argumentive! Wow.. who new?
THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY SOUL.
I am more then greatful!
Kari
lakemee last decade
Dear Kari,
I am glad you are happy. Now that there has been a striking improvement, we must wait.
Please keep waiting for 5 more days. Do not repeat the remedy.
I am on travel for the next few days so my replies might be a bit late.
Update me in 5 days.
Sameer
I am glad you are happy. Now that there has been a striking improvement, we must wait.
Please keep waiting for 5 more days. Do not repeat the remedy.
I am on travel for the next few days so my replies might be a bit late.
Update me in 5 days.
Sameer
sameervermani last decade
Ok I will wait. Thank you again! I have been in torment for many years. This is such a relief and I am enjoying it with my whole heart and soul. I am becomming a better mom, a better friend to those who care about me and do not take things so personal. It is amazing and I still can't thank you enough!
Have a great but safe trip!
I wish that I could repay you for this wonderful gift that you have given me...
Kari
Have a great but safe trip!
I wish that I could repay you for this wonderful gift that you have given me...
Kari
lakemee last decade
Dear Sameer,
I am updating early. Last night while trying to sleep was not a good night for me. I could not sleep and was very agitated. Got up this morning and was very irritable. Am not feeling so great either. Lighted headed and have been feeling winded, not a whole lot of energy and just want to stay home.
Kari
I am updating early. Last night while trying to sleep was not a good night for me. I could not sleep and was very agitated. Got up this morning and was very irritable. Am not feeling so great either. Lighted headed and have been feeling winded, not a whole lot of energy and just want to stay home.
Kari
lakemee last decade
Let us wait for 2 more days to be sure that this is not a passing phase.
In the meanwhile please procure
HYOSCYAMUS 30c,
but do not take it till I tell you to.
Sameer
In the meanwhile please procure
HYOSCYAMUS 30c,
but do not take it till I tell you to.
Sameer
sameervermani last decade
Ok I will wait. Thank you for your quick response.
I have had alot of heart burn latley as well and really out of breath. But that came before the hyos. as well as after.
Hope your trip was a great one.
Kari
I have had alot of heart burn latley as well and really out of breath. But that came before the hyos. as well as after.
Hope your trip was a great one.
Kari
lakemee last decade
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