Prostate problem / Prostatitis - Which remedy

1)
Urgency to urinate often. Day time better, worse after afternoon. Night time must wake up once to urinate.

Difficult to urinate, if bladder very weak when I urinate there is pain in RIGHT side near belly button sometimes travelling deeper to bellybutton or lower into the right corner.
Sometimes can not begin urination and must wait.
Must sit to urinate, I can not stand as standing when I try to urinate I get intense pain in right side of abdomen (is this ureters maybe?) and feel like I will scream. If this happens I can not stand it feels as though will tear.
Urination can dribble out slowly when I do begin urination.
In morning when I wake up urination begin is okay but I still must sit. Throughout day it is as if the part that allows me to urinate gets weaker and weaker until I sleep and rest.

Sometimes I feel as though someone watching me urinate. (had a problem like this in school long time ago).
Used to not be able to speak in public and I feel uncomfortable at making mistake in public. Receive red flush in face before younger. Sometimes don't want to be with people but close friends I like to be with.

After sex can not urinate, must wait maybe 3 hours.

After alcohol the next day when urinate, a dull pain in the kidneys.

Erection only when excited physically by a woman that is naked. Sex lasts very short time (3 minutes / 5 minutes).
Erection diminishes if I try to keep it.
Sexual thoughts can cause pain in right abdomen side near belly button again (can not urinate if this happens due to intense pain and something blocking me from urination).

Spermatic cords a bit sensitive near groin. More on the left than the right.
Sometimes a stitching pain at beginning part of penis.

Twitching in various parts of body but also happens in root/base of penis, perineum sometimes.

Chills I have ALL the time since these symptoms.

2)
Left ear inside canal upon COLD AIR. Left tonsil a bit.
Right ear inside canal upon COLD AIR.

Lower abdomen right side.

Left penis side and left spermatic cord down left leg.

Down left and right lumbar regions to legs sometimes after urination.

Stitching in penis tip only SOMETIMES.

In beginning hard clear liquid (prostate fluid?) come out after urination sometimes followed by intense pain in right abdomen side.
Acupuncture helped alleviate this. But feels weak still.

3)
I was getting acupuncture and herbal medicine for kidney issues causing acne and stomach troubles. I then became stronger, VERY virile and I had troubles to urinate in morning because of a strong erection. Had to wait 10 minutes to calm down.

I asked for herbs for 'stage fright' and I noticed my bladder weaker (felt even stronger someone is watching me urinate), I could not stand and urinate and after a week chills and entire destruction of genital function through this.

Also during night at same time this happened, I had rough sex with girlfriend and felt I broke my penis. I was shocked. I felt fear I wont be able to have sex ever again.
Woke up next day okay, during this time had stage fright herbs to 'help' me and in turn all turned around and caused problem..

4)
Worse in cold. Worse at night.
Worse after marihuana (although I only smoked marihuana after I get ill so is not the cause).
Worse in afternoon.

5)
Feels better never.

6)
Sleeping usually late at night. But have tried sleeping other hours nothing helped with that.

7)
Sensitive to cold, to being looked at if I have a FLAW or have made MISTAKE. Sensitive to peoples ANGER directed at me. As though being scolded by a teacher in school.
Sensitive to being watched when urinating.

8)
Generally can be happy person, after these problems was very sad. Sometimes feeling hopeless. Less confident, made me feel more that someone looking at a WEAKNESS within me even though it may not be visible.
Generally believe in myself in regards to work and meeting people. But at home I feel I want to be more alone. If I have company I must stay positive and focus on having fun, but hard with these symptoms.
I can be tearful to sympathy.

9)
Spicy food makes worse.

10)
Kidney weakness in chinese medicine diagonsis, had troubles of bladder weakness at times but generally was okay.
Western medicine diagnosed kidneys as fine.

Urine TESTS and SEMEN analysis are normal. Although when urinating looks as though either slightly cloudy urine or sometimes clear with worm-like things in urine that are clearer than the yellow urine.

11)
Antibiotics: Cyprofloxacin.
Made urination harder to begin.
Antibiotics: Doxycycline.
Increase of twitching in root of penis, can not urinate cutting pins in abdomen. Loss of prostatic fluid after urination.

12)
Staphysagria 30CH with Monilia Albicans 9ch (to test if thrush from girl began this or not).

13)
Cold feet.
Ears are very sensitive to cold.
Chills.
Weakness.