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To dr.deoshlok and dr. Niel
Dear doctors, I just want to ask you for a help with my fear of people.I guess it goes from my hard relationship with my father. He is very irritated , and
always shout on me when I was a child and beat me sometimes, especially when we gathered together
to have dinner. I always argued with him, and did not afraid to do this , even I knew that
he could kick me. When I was 16 , I started to drink alcohol, every day, very strong alcohol. Ate some drugs,
narcotics and etc. when I was 20 my first episode of fear appeared, I was sitting with a man and suddenly felt fear,
I took a cup and could not drink from it. Then it became worse and worse, I started to fear eat with people,
talk with people, look at the people, appear when people are, sudden sound, exams , almost everything.
I went to the psychologist, and took some antidepressants.
Now I go to work everyday, but don't talk to people, have no friends and don't like to go out.
And the worse thing that I feel myself like a little baby, so unprotected. And I fear of people and even my father.
If I did not have husband I would not manage to do anything. He is like a mother or father to me.
during pregnancy I discovered that I have chronic hepatitis, some times I feel pain in abdomen (left side) and weakness.
and nothing else. also strange red points on the skin, so tiny that i can barely see them and a wart on the left leg (internal side)
and that's it.
Actually I took a lot of remedies, because ones i tried homeopathy,
I realized that it's the only treatment that can help.
I don't wanna go to any doctor because how I can understand that they are good.
So I decided to ask you according to your posts.
I understand that you have so many patients but If you find time for me I would be so appreciate. Thank you
here is the link on my previous post, maybe it can help somehow. http://abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/254051/
aishan on 2011-01-15
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Dear doctors, I'm trying to find my remedy myself. I am sure I will find it sooner or later.
If you have thoughts about information below. please share it with me.
during a year I've been trying a lot of remedies, and finally came up with 3. Natrum Muriaticum, Sulphur and Sepia.
Natrum Muriaticum because I had a fistula on my left eye, and after I took it, it's gone. Also I felt much much calmer. And my bruises on the legs are gone. and gum stop bleeding.But I woke up every night at 3 to 5 a.m. And my fear was still the same.
Sulfur. because my father is definitely a sulfur. I have the same personality as he, but I always analise my behavior and always feel guilty. My mom is Pulsatilla or Silicea. I don't know for sure. But my sister is definitely silicea. A year ago I gave her several doses of silicea (she had constant pain in left eyebrow.It helped and it turned out to be her similium. She changed so significantly in half a year. So I decided that probably children sometimes take constitution of his parents.
And also I found out this fear 'to look in front of him' and my fear is worse when i am sitting in front of the person, does not matter eating or speaking.
So, I took sulphur 1M in wet dose 2 days, 3 days after it was terrible I could not sleep at night at all, and I took NM 50M. and I felt very good in some days, I could even sleep at the day time, even when it was noisy. And still my night sleep is great. even no awaking at all. After 25 days I took another dose of sulfur. I would say my psihological problems a little bit better, but still exist.
Sepia. I am thinking about Sepia, because when I took it (30 C), I started to communicate with people more and did not have a depression at all. My sleep was good (but I felt very cold at night) And also because I have a fear of meeting. When there are a lot of people in the room I always so panic I am afraid that they would ask me something and I would be in so great panic , that could not answer. And I have these spots on my nose.
And also I could not stand in churches, because I can not smell camphor.
I don't know, maybe someone can help me with advice. I addressed it to dr.deoshlok and dr. Niel. But of cause I will be pleased if another doctors say something.
I tryed Lycopodium, carcinosin, calc carb and etc. etc. and felt different symptoms but not mine
Thank you
If you have thoughts about information below. please share it with me.
during a year I've been trying a lot of remedies, and finally came up with 3. Natrum Muriaticum, Sulphur and Sepia.
Natrum Muriaticum because I had a fistula on my left eye, and after I took it, it's gone. Also I felt much much calmer. And my bruises on the legs are gone. and gum stop bleeding.But I woke up every night at 3 to 5 a.m. And my fear was still the same.
Sulfur. because my father is definitely a sulfur. I have the same personality as he, but I always analise my behavior and always feel guilty. My mom is Pulsatilla or Silicea. I don't know for sure. But my sister is definitely silicea. A year ago I gave her several doses of silicea (she had constant pain in left eyebrow.It helped and it turned out to be her similium. She changed so significantly in half a year. So I decided that probably children sometimes take constitution of his parents.
And also I found out this fear 'to look in front of him' and my fear is worse when i am sitting in front of the person, does not matter eating or speaking.
So, I took sulphur 1M in wet dose 2 days, 3 days after it was terrible I could not sleep at night at all, and I took NM 50M. and I felt very good in some days, I could even sleep at the day time, even when it was noisy. And still my night sleep is great. even no awaking at all. After 25 days I took another dose of sulfur. I would say my psihological problems a little bit better, but still exist.
Sepia. I am thinking about Sepia, because when I took it (30 C), I started to communicate with people more and did not have a depression at all. My sleep was good (but I felt very cold at night) And also because I have a fear of meeting. When there are a lot of people in the room I always so panic I am afraid that they would ask me something and I would be in so great panic , that could not answer. And I have these spots on my nose.
And also I could not stand in churches, because I can not smell camphor.
I don't know, maybe someone can help me with advice. I addressed it to dr.deoshlok and dr. Niel. But of cause I will be pleased if another doctors say something.
I tryed Lycopodium, carcinosin, calc carb and etc. etc. and felt different symptoms but not mine
Thank you
aishan last decade
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♡ Homeopathy International 1 last decade
Gender: female
Age:30
Body Type:slim tall
Height:183
Weight:59
General appearance:
green eyes
soft brown curly hair
sunken face
thin bones
i would say my body is delicate
Have you used homeopathic medicines before? If so what, and what homeopathic potencies did you use?
yes a lot
from 30 to 50M
+
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
fear of eating with people
fear of looking at peoples eyes
fear of speaking on a job meetings
fear of loud sounds
fear that people would judge me
fear of rudeness
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
chronic hepatitis B
high blood pressure and kidney problems during pregnancy
hair falling
cold hand , feet
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
depression in autumn
all my fears
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
I feel panic, as I am shrinking into something small. very unprotected, like a baby. That everyone will hurt me
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
I connect it with an alcohol, I used to drink it a lot. And also it started at the moment when I felt like I became mature enough to leave my family
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
daytime
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
ameliorate - rocking, night. sun warm, rubbing the back of the neck (becouse it's usually very stiff when I am in panic)
aggravate your suffering - a lot of people in the room, when I like a man with whom i'm speaking, when a person is in front of me. when a person is my boss
depression - cloudy cold weather
eating
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
I don't know
I thought maybe with hormones, but it's just my guessing
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
hot dry weather
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am easy going, all people tell me that. I like to have fun, I am very cheerful when i am healthy. I am timid, but only for first time when I don;t know people well.
I am mild but can be strict.
Oversensitive. Easily offended. Very punctual. Very observant. Hurry.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
I used to scared it a lot during those panic attacks.
but before this disease, I felt energy and like it a lot.
Now I'm like a mirror from my real me
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
I don't know
maybe just with my husband
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
yes, but not much
I don't have headaches for example
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
pucker lips when nervous
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
My husband is a very good man, I am glad that he is with me.
I love my child very much, and I always kiss him and play when I have a desire.
but I can also shout on him, or refuse to play with him, if I don't want.
I usually overdo with my friends. I always trying to help them, but sometimes it's more than enough. and I expect the same from them.
I don't miss my parents actually. We a not very close
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
sometimes I dream of my previous boyfriends.
after sepia I always had dreams about water flood
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
I like buns, and pasta, bread, milk
aversions - fat
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less
14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
When I am nervous I don't eat
huger is normal, sometimes excessive
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
no
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
normal
underarms
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
no problems at all
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
very sensitive sleep, wake up on every noise
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
no
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
I crave for information, knowledge.I changed a lot of professions becouse of this.I like to find something new.
I like philosophy.
I always forget names of writers, books, films.
and misspelling words
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
antidepressants
no
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
some mental problems from my father's family. but I don't know exactly.
from my father, mother - no diseases
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
People say that I'm beautiful.
men like me a lot
I would say that I am charming, not beautiful.
bid eyes
small nose
plump lips
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
it's dark
very unpredictable
it can be in 2 weeks
in autumn it can be just in September, and the next one in December
25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.
16 years old - terrible angina
18 years - Pityriasis rosea
20 y o - these mental problems
22 - terrible headache for 3 weeks with vomiting of every food
22 - panic attacs
25 - I got to know that I have a hepatitis, my doctor said that I have Gilbert's syndrome, and cytomegalovirus
oh, that's it I guess
Hope, hope, hope somebody will help me
Age:30
Body Type:slim tall
Height:183
Weight:59
General appearance:
green eyes
soft brown curly hair
sunken face
thin bones
i would say my body is delicate
Have you used homeopathic medicines before? If so what, and what homeopathic potencies did you use?
yes a lot
from 30 to 50M
+
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
fear of eating with people
fear of looking at peoples eyes
fear of speaking on a job meetings
fear of loud sounds
fear that people would judge me
fear of rudeness
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
chronic hepatitis B
high blood pressure and kidney problems during pregnancy
hair falling
cold hand , feet
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
depression in autumn
all my fears
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.
I feel panic, as I am shrinking into something small. very unprotected, like a baby. That everyone will hurt me
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
I connect it with an alcohol, I used to drink it a lot. And also it started at the moment when I felt like I became mature enough to leave my family
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
daytime
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
ameliorate - rocking, night. sun warm, rubbing the back of the neck (becouse it's usually very stiff when I am in panic)
aggravate your suffering - a lot of people in the room, when I like a man with whom i'm speaking, when a person is in front of me. when a person is my boss
depression - cloudy cold weather
eating
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
I don't know
I thought maybe with hormones, but it's just my guessing
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
hot dry weather
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am easy going, all people tell me that. I like to have fun, I am very cheerful when i am healthy. I am timid, but only for first time when I don;t know people well.
I am mild but can be strict.
Oversensitive. Easily offended. Very punctual. Very observant. Hurry.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
I used to scared it a lot during those panic attacks.
but before this disease, I felt energy and like it a lot.
Now I'm like a mirror from my real me
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
I don't know
maybe just with my husband
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
yes, but not much
I don't have headaches for example
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
pucker lips when nervous
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
My husband is a very good man, I am glad that he is with me.
I love my child very much, and I always kiss him and play when I have a desire.
but I can also shout on him, or refuse to play with him, if I don't want.
I usually overdo with my friends. I always trying to help them, but sometimes it's more than enough. and I expect the same from them.
I don't miss my parents actually. We a not very close
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
sometimes I dream of my previous boyfriends.
after sepia I always had dreams about water flood
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
I like buns, and pasta, bread, milk
aversions - fat
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less
14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
When I am nervous I don't eat
huger is normal, sometimes excessive
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
no
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
normal
underarms
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
no problems at all
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
very sensitive sleep, wake up on every noise
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
no
20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?
I crave for information, knowledge.I changed a lot of professions becouse of this.I like to find something new.
I like philosophy.
I always forget names of writers, books, films.
and misspelling words
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
antidepressants
no
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
some mental problems from my father's family. but I don't know exactly.
from my father, mother - no diseases
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
People say that I'm beautiful.
men like me a lot
I would say that I am charming, not beautiful.
bid eyes
small nose
plump lips
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.
it's dark
very unpredictable
it can be in 2 weeks
in autumn it can be just in September, and the next one in December
25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.
16 years old - terrible angina
18 years - Pityriasis rosea
20 y o - these mental problems
22 - terrible headache for 3 weeks with vomiting of every food
22 - panic attacs
25 - I got to know that I have a hepatitis, my doctor said that I have Gilbert's syndrome, and cytomegalovirus
oh, that's it I guess
Hope, hope, hope somebody will help me
aishan last decade
Niel Madhavan last decade
Hi Niel,
just want to add some information while it comes to my mind.
I am an artist. Since my childhood I knew that I would be an artist.
I like to dance, and I feel rithm well.
the shape of my body is like a guitar, but still thin.
My tongue is white-yellow with red patches and raffle edges.
A week ago, I took Lachesis and got burning heart (never had before)
at my work I don't like long lasting projects, I like that everything be done for day or two.
my chakra is Swadhisthana. I like blue, bright red and orange color. I like dogs, hate cats. and afraid of maggots and cockroaches very much.
Here it is )))
Maybe usefull
just want to add some information while it comes to my mind.
I am an artist. Since my childhood I knew that I would be an artist.
I like to dance, and I feel rithm well.
the shape of my body is like a guitar, but still thin.
My tongue is white-yellow with red patches and raffle edges.
A week ago, I took Lachesis and got burning heart (never had before)
at my work I don't like long lasting projects, I like that everything be done for day or two.
my chakra is Swadhisthana. I like blue, bright red and orange color. I like dogs, hate cats. and afraid of maggots and cockroaches very much.
Here it is )))
Maybe usefull
aishan last decade
Hi Aishan
To start with, I would want you to take a single wet dose of Syphilinum 200.
Please dissolve a single pellet in 500 ml of mineral water and allow it to dissolve for 10 minutes. Stir vigorously with a spoon for about 10 minutes and take a single teaspoon from the solution. Throw away the remaining.
Just one dose needs to be taken. No repetition after that.
Do let me know of your condition 3 days from taking the remedy.
Regards,
Niel
To start with, I would want you to take a single wet dose of Syphilinum 200.
Please dissolve a single pellet in 500 ml of mineral water and allow it to dissolve for 10 minutes. Stir vigorously with a spoon for about 10 minutes and take a single teaspoon from the solution. Throw away the remaining.
Just one dose needs to be taken. No repetition after that.
Do let me know of your condition 3 days from taking the remedy.
Regards,
Niel
Niel Madhavan last decade
Hi Niel, I ordered the remedy.
While I am waiting I'm going to make the last shot and try some remedies before the nosode. Sulfur with Natrum (because it worked well) and then Mercurius (if you think that it's syphilitic miasm).
I decided that it's impolite to not tell you that.
So after I take Syphilinum I'll report to you right away.
Thank you for your help,
Aishan
While I am waiting I'm going to make the last shot and try some remedies before the nosode. Sulfur with Natrum (because it worked well) and then Mercurius (if you think that it's syphilitic miasm).
I decided that it's impolite to not tell you that.
So after I take Syphilinum I'll report to you right away.
Thank you for your help,
Aishan
aishan last decade
Please don't take any more remedies. It would make more sense to wait for Syphilinum.
Every remedy changes the presenting state and these remedies may further complicate the picture.
If you want to keep self-medicating, your decision. i would not be able to help you in such a case.
Every remedy changes the presenting state and these remedies may further complicate the picture.
If you want to keep self-medicating, your decision. i would not be able to help you in such a case.
Niel Madhavan last decade
Thank you, Lycopodium, for your support. That is so terrible how people can suffer.
I wish you good luck too.
Don't give up. ))
I wish you good luck too.
Don't give up. ))
aishan last decade
Hi Niel,
I got the remedy. It's called Luesinum. it's the same as Syphilinum, right? That's how they told me in the pharmacy.
I am going to take it tomorrow morning.
Thank you one more time for your help,
Aishan
I got the remedy. It's called Luesinum. it's the same as Syphilinum, right? That's how they told me in the pharmacy.
I am going to take it tomorrow morning.
Thank you one more time for your help,
Aishan
aishan last decade
Hi Niel, so I am reporting after three days.
The first day when I took the remedy I felt really great. I was happy, communicated with people, smiled and was very active. a little unconcentrated, unfocused.
no physical symptoms at all. sleep was good.
but next day I returned to my usual state again. Physically I felt pulsation in my left ovary, especially while lying, then heaviness in all low part of abdomen. and burning pain in my right wrist (third knuckles) and that's it.
not much ))
The first day when I took the remedy I felt really great. I was happy, communicated with people, smiled and was very active. a little unconcentrated, unfocused.
no physical symptoms at all. sleep was good.
but next day I returned to my usual state again. Physically I felt pulsation in my left ovary, especially while lying, then heaviness in all low part of abdomen. and burning pain in my right wrist (third knuckles) and that's it.
not much ))
aishan last decade
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