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Attention : Daktersaab.

Temperatures are running high and so are member’s emotions. Welcome to the verbal battle ground. The war of words is being fought with great passion between members. Our forum is the latest territory for all verbal battles. Is it that members are captivated by displays of dominance and therefore verbal outburst comes naturally? This knee-jerk demand for status can push us to get outraged and to lose focus of our larger goals to help the needy patients. “If you need to take on to someone on, do it with a bit of humour. But there are boundaries you should not cross.

Public outburst is here to stay. Some times the provocation might be a bit too much. How contained can you be? It’s too much to expect Members to be perfectly behaved. They are constantly in highly stressed and pressurised state, while dealing the calls on this forum. The nuances of handling such calls on open forum like this are immense. Let us not forget most of the big members come with a big EGO (Laughing). The code of ethics demands your reaction remain within the bounds of decency. Being Professional means not getting personal. Can we really do that? A small impulsive reaction can jeopardise your image.

“Verbal outbursts can be acceptable if the body language of a person is positive. An outburst shows accumulation of negative feelings and stress. Freeze the verbal onslaught”. A WAR of words can also be a tremendous FUN; members are no different from rappers. We verbally joust and seek to incite each other. It is better for the forum if members restrict themselves saying anything mindlessly.

Dakter Saab, we have better thread introduction for our friends, to keep them smiling viz. ABC-Laughter.


Ending my note with a smile :-)
Nikkie.

Attention : Nawaz Ge

How are you! There was call from your side to the moderator. Oops! The same old scenario in that thread. I always wanted you to restrict yourself from LOOP threads. Why not make use of your expertise, for ppl who cares it. Now for the explanation, Loop threads are the threads which run to multiple pages with illusion like symptoms and which are fanned by one JOKER or POKER. They are bound to exist, they move on this forum thru different ids. Let me tell them this is not a chat forum where you build castles in air, it is a forum to help patients in trouble, who seeks immediate attention. Over all i am not interested in such thread at all. But seeing the fellow member getting trapped in it is a serious issue.

Nawaz Ge, Joe sir is handling this sought of situation with good tactics and i appreciate it. I would request you to follow the same strategy.

I request Patient to concentrate more on there treatment. As per my experience goes, If the patients treatment period is taking long time with no results it is better he should get in touch with the Local Dr. for his treatment. And if he is not taking this advice i think he is just here for FUN. And let me remind such sought of patients; it is not a funny business here. Any member who respects the ETHICS of Medicine and his profession will not support and encourage such nuisance on this forum. And if somebody is supporting, then he is just playing with his TIME.

I don’t think there is need to disturb moderator for such small stuffs :-) Just enjoy the Loop and the Loppers.

Regards,
Nikkie.

Dear Nawaz Ge,

Thank you very much for your prayers.


Regards,
Nikkie.

Dear All,

ABC-Laughter, treats lifestyle disorders effectively. I try my very best to bring in the deliciuos cocktails for you all. Take full advantage of this thread and give your soul a fresh and younger Looks.
Laughter is like a sponge in a soft toy. Do vist this thread often-ly to avoid moving around with wonky smile. The biggest thing these days is to get a cocktail of humour that can help you look years younger and give your skin a perfect fresh look's.

With lots of laughter,
Nikkie.

Dear Nawaz Ge,

How are you ! Appreciating your hard work on this forum.

Apprecation for all the members on this forum for givin there best in treating the patients.

Regards,
Nikkie.

Dear Joe,

How are you !
What is this 'match stick' subject in one of your treatment post. Please explain me..

Regards,
Nikkie.

Attention : Badshah.

I see you quite often hopping inside the threads which has Heights mentioned in there subject line. Dont jump to some thing which is served to others as per there symptoms. If you are blindy following that, please bring it to the notice of your homeopath. It is important since you are under treatment.

Use said you are afraid of 'HEIGHTS' .... !

LOL,
Nikkie.

Dear Nawaz ge,
>> What do you think of someone who is sick and treating a healthy person?
Sick people deserve special treatment; and often, those who are taking care of the sick are not prepared to give them even normal treatment. Treat people who are sick with sincere sympathy. Just suppose a person was not really sick; he had a psychosomatic illness brought on by his own mental attitude. That person needs as much sympathy as a person who has typhoid fever or some type of trauma like a broken arm.
Remember that the greatest doctors have compassion for the sick but they do not lose their integrity by becoming mentally, psychologically, or physically ill themselves. Ask yourself, 'How does my illness help my loved one recover from his?' The answer will be, it doesn't, it won't, it can't. So, when treating the sick, keep yourself well.

Regards,
Nikkie.

Dear Nawaz Ge,

>> what do you think of a treatment that is dead on arrival?

The fact is, we should be very good at removing the 'person' from the patient... we show sympathy, and treat everyone with respect, but at the end, we should rarely take anything home. It should not bother us as long as we know everything that could have been done was done. If the call is a cluster, then we have more difficulty; not because of the fact of the “DOA” but because of the error(s) made during the treatment.

Regards,
Nikkie.

Dear Nawaz Ge,

>>Would you like to reconsider your advice for asking me not to post on that thread ?
If the request comes from the patient itself you can enjoy your freedom :-) uptill then make ample use of this thread to broadcast your views across this forum.

Regards,
Nikkie.
[message edited by Nikkie on Sat, 08 Oct 2011 18:14:40 BST]

Dear Nawaz Ge,

>>Answer to your final Qs !
You are obviously an intelligent person, if somebody says anything, you can reciprocate by saying he is good at manipulating people to get his own way in other words he is a spoilt brat who has learnt to do this in order to get what he wants. But I respect you more because you’re honest and straightforward. Be PROUD. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. When life kicks you in the ass, roll up your sleeves and kick it back. Never let someone bring you down when you’re up and never sink to a lower level to be something or someone you're not. You never have to impress someone that you don't like.
People spend too much time finding other people to blame too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being, and not enough energy putting themselves on the line, growing out of the past and getting on with their lives.

Funny stuff around,
Nikkie :-)