Social fear and problem in public

Thanks Dr. Nawaz,

First of all I would like to thank you very much for coming forward and help me out. You are doing a wonderful job in helping the world to be healthy. Please find details as required.

1. ID : Skmishra
2. Age : 45 years
3. Sex : Male
4. Single/Married : Married
5. weight : 60 KG
6. Height …. : 5’7”
7. country : India
8. climate : Cold/Hot/Humid (3 seasons of almost 4 months each)
9. List of your complaints : Social fear, lack of confidence, pus discharge from ears (left and right), not able to speak in public at all, delaying important things and taking easier ones on priority, confused with roads and streets, anxiety, constipation and gastric trouble, very sensitive to smell and noise. In childhood I had severe problem with fire crackers and sound. Slowly it got reduced.

10. Since how long are you suffering from each complaint : Since childhood

11. Diabetic or non-Diabetic : Diabetic
12. Desire sweets/sour/salt : Was taking a lot of sweets till 4 years before. Stopped now because of diabetes.
13. Thirst : Very less
14. Tongue and Taste : Tongue whitish and teeth yellow (Do not smoke at all and brush teeth twice daily)
15. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine) : No BP problem

16. What exactly is happening? I am unable to speak in public. When ever I tried to speak after a lot of efforts, I just spoke one or two sentences and do not remember what I said. I can not meet my seniors / bosses in office just because of shyness/fear and they take it otherwise. I am unable to express my feelings. I avoid meeting people and seniors. I have fear in taking responsibilities while everyone says I am capable. I am unable to express my strength. I am submissive and do not prefer to argue. I feel blocked when ever I tried to speak in office meetings or in front of even small gathering.

17. How do you feel? Insecure, worried. I feel since I am from poor background, these things are just because of that.
18. How does this affect you? No progress in my career. I work hard and always do a perfect job in office but did not get any promotion. My juniors have bypassed me whom I have trained. I fear in asking for senior role in office.

19. How does it feel like? Worried, shameful, hiding from everyone, not able to face anyone in office
20. What comes to your mind? I feel people are not understanding me and my strength. I always try for safer things in career just because do not want to fail.
21. One situation that had a big effect on you? I have been doing better job in office than most of my colleagues. But since I had no habit of meeting bosses, I got laid-off recently while company is doing cost cutting. My boss took advantage of my silence and saved his position.

22. How did that feel like? Worried, insecurity increased, lost faith and trying to know the people who do politics at work. I feel as if everything is finished in life. I have to restart again.
23. What sensation do you experience in that situation? Revenge

24. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand (Habits or Actions)? Whenever I feel unable to speak, my hands start moving here and there.

25. Current and previous remedies/medicines you are taking or took in the past? Currently started Lycopodium 200 since 5 days

26. Family Background : Father was a farmer, mother house wife, 4 brothers and 3 sisters. I am the youngest. Poor family from a village
27. Educational Qualifications of the patient : Engineering graduate and did post graduation while at work long ago.

28. Nature of work, what do you do for living? Computer Software engineer and currently at managerial role. I am very good individual performer as a technical architect.

29. Desires, likes and dislikes for food : Liked sweet always. Stopped taking sweets because of diabetes. Perfer taking cold food.

30. Name of foods which increase your problem : Never felt any

31. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient…and so on.. How are you different from other persons, public speaking or not , you can describe all of the details about your behavior, love and affections.
Less anger and irritable comparatively, always in hurry and impatient, try to finish thing as soon as possible like taking bath, brushing teeth etc. I feel comfortable with youngers and very uncomfortable with seniors. Can not speak in public at all. Shyness in nature.
32. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases) : More during humid season.

33. Attached here your photographs of the affected area. (if required/optional)

34. Location of the disease
35. Side of the problem (Right or Left), (Upper or Lower part of body)
36. Color of the secretions/discharges e.g urine, stool, sputum, Saliva etc.: Urine is clear, pus from both ears (sometimes alternatively)

Thanks Dr Nawaz, for your quick reply.

Around 14 years ago, I visited to an astrologer for my career growth advice. He suggested some stones and also Lyc 200 and Selenium 1M. That time I was not aware of all my these problem but I took these medicines for around 6 months. I myself observed that Lyc 200 is helping me releiving from anxiety and boosting some memory as well.
Now again when I am very much upset from my problems, I searched in Google and found this medicine to work for some people.
I started it myself. Seeing some positive results but not completely.
Need your suggestions to go forward please.

Regards
Skmishra

Thanks Dr. Nawaz,

I was taking 3 drops, 3 times a day for both Lyco 200 and Sele 1m.

Regards
Skmishra

Thanks a lot Dr. Nawaz,

I will start taking Arg. Nit. 200C today itself and report you my progress just after 4 days.

With Warm Regards,
Skmishra

Hello Dr. Nawaz,

Hope you are doing great. As per your prescription, I took Argentum Nitricum 200, 4 drops once daily for last four days.
I am feeling better. My memory is slightly improved and I am getting good sound sleep now. Anxiety is less, howerver I did not get any chance to check for my public fear.
Sould I stop taking this medicine now?
I am worried that my problem should not come back again. I had the same improvements from Lyco 200 but problem reverted back after some time.
Need your suggestion please.

Regards
Skmshra

Thank you so much, for your kind reply.

With Warm Regards
Skmishra

Good Morning Dr. Nawaz,

Hope you are doing great. I wanted to inform you about my progress and feeling these days.
After taking Arg. Nit 200 for 4 days as per your suggestion, I was feeling more confident and my anxiety and social fear problem was improving.
Unfortunately since last 2 days, it seems like I am again coming back to my previous stage. I am feeling very low, avoiding talking to people and have some sort of social anxiety. I feel inferior and feel like everyone is better than me.

Is my problem again coming back or I need some more dosses of the Arg. Nit 200.
Please reply as soon as you can.

With Warm Regards
Skmishra

Thanks,

Will report after 2 days.

Regards
Skmishra

Hi,

This is another very serious problem which I have been noticing that I read very slowly. I get embrassed when I am reading something alongwith an other person. Everybody finishes when I am in the mid of the article.
This is very noriceable and people comment also.
Need help please.

Thanks
Skmishra

Thanks Dr. Nawaz, for replying quickly.

1. These days after taking Arg.Nit. 200, I am slowly recovering from social fear and anxiety.
2. I always feel myself inferior when I talk to someone who is better than me. I am not able to face even. I am good with my family and younger guys.
3. Physically I do not have any issues as such.

Could you please be a bit specific to your question so that I can answer as per your expectation.

With Regards
Skmishra

Thanks you Dr. Nawaz,

This is a very good question you have asked. I read slow just beacuse if I try to read faster, nothing goes into my mind. I try it several times but again come back to my slow speed to understand things.

Answers to your questions are as under.

1. How is your energy level? Very low. I feel tired

2. How is your sleep? Any dreams? I get good sleep for 2-3 hrs only. After than I feel everything happening around me while I am sleeping.

3. What are your likes and dislikes? I like sweet food. Like old movies and music full of poor people's problem. I am down to earth by nature.

4. Do you feel comfortable in summer? I feel better in summers as compared to winter and rainy season. Rainy season is worst for me. In humid rainy season, I feel like I have taken some drugs. Mild headache and sensation of omitting.

5. How is your anger? I usually do not have anger. If required sometimes, I have to show-of as if I am angry.

6. I always get confused with even well known roads. This is very severe. I am not able to recall instead of many tries.

7. I have very deep lines on the forehead skin since I was 25-26 years old.

Thanks Dr. Nawaz,

I am seeing some improvement after taking remedy, that is why it came to my mind that why not to try for complete cure.
Also one more problem from which I have been suffering since my childhood is getting pus from ears. Some times interchangely (right to left, or both).
I took several medicines many times after consulting ear specialists but did not get any cure. I thought that it will now go with me. My elder brother also has this same ear problem.

Regards
Skmishra