Dr. David Kempson(Brisbanehomeo) please help me

Dear Dr. Kempson


I am going to write everything about my health, I hope I can explain everything that I have been suffering with for all these years. I can’t write them briefly because I am not good at writing and my English is not that good, so please forgive me for my poor writing skills


I used to masturbate a lot in my teens as most boys in this age do, I started masturbating since I reached puberty considering it to be a normal and healthy thing as described by most people who are in the health business(doctor and shrinks etc).

About 3 years ago, I started noticing symptoms like seminal emission,week erection and urinal discharge as I felt something was coming out with urine especially for 1-2 days after the ejaculation, I didn’t take it seriously and ignored it, thinking it would go away with time, but instead it keep getting worse.

After 6 months, my symptoms reached to a whole new level as I started experiencing excruciating pain and discomfort after ejaculation, during and after erection.


Then I realized, it’s time for me to see some doctor, initially I went to a homeopathic practitioner who put me on some treatment including Ashwaganda and other medications but it didn’t do much for me.( perhaps because I didn’t stop masturbating even in those days). When I didn’t find the answer from a him, I thought it would be better for me to look into other options.

I went to see a herbal practitioner whose medicines really helped me for a while as I saw some improvement in my symptoms, but because I couldn’t control my habit of masturbation, the symptoms keep on getting worse


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I finally came to a conclusion that I should see the conventional and allopathic doctors, it’s then I started seeing allopathic doctors(some urologists and physicians). Earlier on, my urologist diagnosed that it’s just an inflammation in the bladder and there is nothing wrong with my prostate, he prescribed me some antibiotics and anti-inflammatory medicines which I took for about 3-4 weeks which didn’t heal me, when i went back to see him, he said it could be “Chronic prostatitis(non bacterial) as there was nothing appearing in my tests/reprtos(Urine exam, blood test & Ultrasound) and gave me some more antibiotics to take, which I took for almost 1 month and still didn’t see any sign of improvement.


Not getting any help from him,I went to see another doctor (general physician) who completely ruled out the chances of Chronic prostatitis saying that I am too young to be suffering with something like chronic prostatitis especially when I never had an intercourse in my life, he said, ‘there might be something wrong with the nerves in the Perineural area” and put me on some sedatives(alprozolam) and painkiller ,I took them for a while, they did help me to relax but didn’t improve the symptom….


Overall my symptoms are as under:

1)Severe pain on the bladder area which joins with the penis(I don't know what we call it, my anatomy is really poor but it’s the lower portion of penis where it joins with the bladder), sometimes in the penis, irritability around the anal area(it used to happen in the past but not anymore)

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I mostly suffer with this pain after ejaculation and I believe I am also suffering with “Premature ejaculation” as it doesn’t take me much time to reach the climax and my semen discharges from my body lot earlier then it should, I also get aroused even seeing a little seductive things, there is an urge to masturbate whenever I see something arousing or seductive.

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2)Ejaculations make things worse for me. Whenever I ejaculate, a lot of energy is depleted from my body and it takes me quite a time to recover. Usually these symptoms last for 1-2 weeks, the first 2 days (after the ejaculation) are the worst as I feel weakness, inexplicable pain which is usually in the area near the bladder and the thighs adjoining the bladder area, apart from the weakness and pain.

I stay lethargic most of the time, my communication is also affected knowing that I stutter(stammer) while talking to the people(especially to the strangers)

When things start recovering a little bit, I start feeling pain with the erection; it feels like if my body is rejecting the idea of erection as this pain is also connected with my stomach, pain isn’t on/in penis but on the area of the bladder and belly just below the penis.

I feel something is stretching/pulling my stomach toward the bladder area, it is accompanied by the severe weakness and the pain in my thighs.


3)Urine color is dark yellow with uric acid in it, it used to get completely colorless after ejaculation in the past, but now that's only sometimes(as it rarely happens now), i feel burning sensation with my urine (only when I haven’t ejaculated for sometimes and my erection is recovered and painful)


4) Because of this disease and the medicines that I have been taking for all these years, my digestive system is also severely affected, my body is not properly utilizing the nutrients that I am taking from the food. There is also a fairly bad reaction to some of the food items(mostly aphrodiasic and inflammatory) like tea, Carbonated beverages and etc.

I would like to shed more light on digestive system which is fairly connected with my urogenital problems but i don't have the right words to convey it, it's just that I start drinking milk or take vitamin supplements(mostly from food and juices) to help me heal quickly and initially it does help me to heal quickly but when the erection gets better I feel pain which I have described before, also there is sometime discharge with the urine.


5) I used to contract diarrhea sometimes with the excessive ejaculation, last year I was hospitalized for 5 days because of dehydration and that was due to the excessive ejaculation, can you believe that?

Although I rarely get diarrhea now, but I do feel irritability at my rectal portion sometimes (usually for first 3-4 days after the ejaculation)


6) My cognitive abilities are also declining, my memory has become week, I stay lethargic most of the time (sometime I even don’t know what’s going on around me) I feel stoned(I have never done drugs in my life, I have smoked cigarettes occasionally but never did drugs or drank alcoholic beverages) so it effects my learning and working ability, My communication power as I mentioned before is effected during the recovery time(i.e after the ejaculation till the time when I feel pain with the erection)


7) My physical appearance is changed alot as I am aging prematurely, my hair are getting thinner, I have looks of a fragile and tired face with dented cheeks,there are strange reddish marks(they are not acne and I have never suffered with acne in my whole life), there are Big eye bags and dark circle to welcome me when I see myself in the mirror, overall things have changed a lot for me in the last 2-3 years and it also effects my confidence level and self esteem…people also notice me due to my appearance and affected communication



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You also need to describe the actual pain in detail, not just talk about when it happens or why it happens. The actual sensation itself is often vital to understanding the case and prescribing the correct medicine.

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I have tried to describe the 1st problem(urogenital) in the best possible manner that I could, about the pain in the feet problem, it feels like if there is something inside the feet trying to severe my tendons and tissue when I try to walk or try to stand on my feet for long time,
the pain usually comes in a shock or electrified manner and only effect the underneath portion(palm) of the feet


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I am not asking about food allergies - I need to know what kinds of foods you crave or have an aversion to.
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The food that I usually crave are: Bar B Cued chicken and fish food, Rice, lentils, some beans and sweet dished, I don’t like to eat vegetables but I do eat vegetables at home although in a very lesser quantity
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Who do you see in the mirror now when you look?
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I think I have explained the changes in physical appearance above as i believe i am aging prematurely.
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Describe more on 'fragile'.
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I feel myself week, lethargic, stoned and unimportant the whole day.


What exactly do you mean by 'overmasturbation'?

I believe the term ‘over masturbation’ differs for every individual, I know some people who have been Masturbating like 1-2 times on the daily basis since they reached puberty and are still healthy and have no serious issue.

My masturbation average was 3-4 times/week with variance but I believe my unhealthy way of masturbating may have also affected my condition as sometime when I used to masturbate, I used to hold my penis strongly with my hand just before the ejaculation in order to stop it from ejaculating, it may have caused some damage, although my penis is healthy or at least I don’t feel pain in my penis.



Describe more on being 'pessimistic'.

My body and mind is full of negative energy, I rarely believe on something optimistic and don’t want to go for something which is a little risky. I believe nothing is going to happen for me in the future no matter how harder I will try so I don’t try at all..

Describe more on your 'whole persona diminishing'.


I feel neglected in the crowd due to this disease, I am not being able to convey myself among the people properly whom I really care about, I can’t communicate confidently with the strangers and the people with whom I feel a little insecure (Usually healthy and more confident people).

Describe more on 'takes time to perceive things properly'.


As I said I feel lethargic most of the time, so it becomes a little hard for me sometimes to understand what people are talking about around me, I can’t concentrate myself on the subject matter and instead my mind start wandering in other places


What happens at night that makes you not feel like sleeping?


It’s just that I have been on sedative pills for last 2 years which is why my whole sleeping routine is disturbed, I am also not a very athletic person, I rarely do any exercise which is why I don’t feel sleepy at night, I sleep late in the nights and wake up late in the morning.
One more thing, my exercising ability is also badly affected, I can’t run for more than 400 meters, my heart starts pounding heavily after that It feels like that it will come out of the chest.



What is the feeling after masturbation?


I don’t feel relaxed after masturbating. Because of the fact that masturbation has ruined me I feel more tensed and stressed after masturbating, I stammer while communicating with the people and spend the time as being stoned and lethargic.

Dr Kempson,

It has been almost 2 weeks and i am still waiting for you to reply.

please tell me, can you help me ???