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> hi i am married and i have 3 kids. recently i have gone through a few traumas and i have tried alot of holistic healing but i seem to be stuck in the past.
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> in 2006, my mother was murdered. since then i have developed panic attacks. i have a lot of fear in me. i always panic when my husband goes to work and my kids go to school. i have alot of anxiety till they come back home. this has made me very sick that i can not even work.
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> i have gained weight since then,have no confidence in myself, have social phobia, most of all the fear is making me sick all the time, my stomach is always hurting.
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> i have tried some homeophatic remedies: pulsatilla, ignatia,sepia.
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> please advise,
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> thank you
 
  mungu on 2012-04-28
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
pls describe ur fear in detail. for example:

1: what you mean when you say you stomach hurts? where and how exactly it hurts?

2: are u constipated?

3: when your symptoms are more aggresive? thinking about them or when u think about fear?

4: how is your apetite?

5: do you have any irruptions on ur skin. like wars or other?

6: how is ur sleep?
 
tabish007 7 years ago
: what you mean when you say you stomach hurts? where and how exactly it hurts?

in the solar plexus area.there is a constant throbbing pain there as though something is stuck there.

2: are u constipated? sometimes

3: when your symptoms are more aggresive? thinking about them or when u think about fear?

thinking about them. i fear i will lose them too.

4: how is your apetite?
increased.

5: do you have any irruptions on ur skin. like wars or other?

when iam very worried or stressed, i get hives on my body

6: how is ur sleep?

hardly sleep. always feeling anxiety
 
mungu 7 years ago
hi tabish,

I see this is your first post on this forum.

Are you a homeopath or what is
your homeopath experience?
 
simone717 7 years ago
mungu, where are you?
have you tried seeing a homeopath
in person?

You said you tried ignatia, sepia
and pulsatilla. Did you try them on
your own? or did someone prescribe
them?

What were the potencies, of those remedies?
How long did you take them for?
What happened after you took them?

thanks
 
simone717 7 years ago
Thank you Varun for the remedy.

I just want to understand the dosage you have given me. is it Berberis Vulgaris 10M one dose every 2 months for the next 6 months?
 
mungu 7 years ago
mungu-

if you decide to take the 10M, please
keep posting your progress on here
so we can all benefit from how it goes.

Thanks, Simone
 
simone717 7 years ago
simone717, i am a homeopath, dealing with cronic cases for about 10 years. from india.

i do not know how this forum work, because i asked for the detailed symptoms from paitent and someone already suggested the medicine, which from my opinion is too hurry to prescribe anything at this state.

this kind of fear takes root in an unhealthy body only, there must be some deep seated issues that has been ignored in the past. there r many people around the globe who went through the same situation like 'mungu' but fear doesnt get settelled in every miasm like this.

if 'mungu' likes to go with the above prescribed medicine then i should stop investigation.

pls let me know if you would like to move further with me?

regards
tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Hi Tasbih,

I have a serious problem here since 2006 and i have tried to use every kind of healing to sort it out. I had even posted the same problem in this forum in 2009 and the remedy that was given to me did not help me. I have reached a point in my life where i cannot go on living like this in fear because i am stressing my family too. I need help from professional homeopaths and i am open to all the advise i can get.

I think Tasbih, you are right i might behaving some deep seated issues that have to be addressed since it has taken too long for this fear to go.

i did go to a professional homeopath who gave me remedies as follow:

NUX VOMICA - First 3 days
SULPHUR - 6 days morning.
LE- Once a week for 4 weeks
TH- Once, break for 1 day
PURSATILLA- 15 days
break 1 day
TH - BREAK ONE DAY
PURSATILLA- 15 DAYS. 3 TIMESA DAY.

I don't know how this forum works but can we all work together sort this problem out.

Thank you all for your help
 
mungu 7 years ago
tabish007-welcome on here and
thanks for providing assistance.

Click on some user names like Dr.Showrav and others and the profile
will come up. so you should please
put your 10 years of being homeopath
and whatever else you want in the profile
so people can know who they are talking
to. Sometimes since this forum is open
to all , people out of nowhere with no
experience write some odd prescription
and then leave.

Tell the patient- especially when
there are the white boxes showing
no one has responded that you want
to take their case. Once someone has
taken the case usually others do
not interfere with the exception of
a few people , just ignore them.

kind regards,
Simone
 
simone717 7 years ago
Thanx simone717.. i will defenetly do the same.. first let me ask some questions from Mungu.. in next reply
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Hello mungu,

I have few questions for you, please reply without hiding anything. No matter how absurd symptoms/ thoughts seem, you fell free sharing it with me.

1)Are you cold by nature or not? Like you love to have hot water or cold bath? Feels hot in bed in night? Usually chilly or like to be in cold atmosphere?

2)Your body type? Weight?

3)How is your skin?

4)Any discharge from anywhere? Like ear, nose, gentiles’? if any then nature of discharge?

5)Any suppressed discharge in past? Like sweat or any skin issues in past?

6)Have you ever suffered with piles?

7)How is stool? Any issue in rectum?

8)When you feel best? What time or with what generalities?


9)When your thoughts crowd most?


10)Do you feel that there is any trigger for your fear?


11)How far this fear has gone, like how deep you think and what exactly you think?


12)When exactly it hurts the stomach, when you start thinking or when the fear is over?


13)Do you get irritated easily?


14)Does that “lump” feeling in stomach remains all the time or returns only when you think?


15)What you like to eat? Sweet or slat? Bitter or sour?


16)How many times you eat? You eat with ease or in hurry?


17)Do you ever feel urge for stool when fear strike?


18)Do you feel nausea when fear strike?


19)Any pulsation in stomach, navel or abdomen?


20)Do you weep easily? Emotional about little things?


21)Do you lack courage too?


22)Do you sweat easily? If yes then exactly where?


23)How is your sexual life?


24)Any sort of pain anywhere in the body? Back, neck, shoulder or anywhere else?


25)Have you ever got operated?


26)How old are you?


27)Do you like to go out and have fun with family?


28)What homeopathic medicine given you any kind of short relief ever?

29) Any other secret you would like to share with me?


Regards
Tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
)Are you cold by nature or not? Like you love to have hot water or cold bath? Feels hot in bed in night? Usually chilly or like to be in cold atmosphere?

ans: i feel cold most of the time. i prefer hot baths. when i am in bed, initially i am feeling cold, then i get very hot. i do not like to be in cold places. i feel miserable when i am cold.

2)Your body type? Weight?

ans: i am 5ft 1in. i am 125 pounds. i used to be 105 pounds before this problem.My weight sometimes goes up 2-4 pounds a month and no diet or exercise is helping reduce the weight. i get very upset when i am told that before i was skinny and now i look fat.

3)How is your skin?

ans: i used to be very fair but now i look tanned. My skin colour has changed.

4)Any discharge from anywhere? Like ear, nose, gentiles’? if any then nature of discharge?

ans: no discharge

5)Any suppressed discharge in past? Like sweat or any skin issues in past?

ans: i do not sweat easily and i have noticed whenever i am stressed, i get hives on my body.

6)Have you ever suffered with piles?

ans: no

7)How is stool? Any issue in rectum?

ans: itchy around the anus area. stool seems normal

8)When you feel best? What time or with what generalities?


ans: Because i always have anxiety, i do not sleep well so i wake up in the morning feeling very tired and my whole body is hurting. on an odd day, i wake up feeling lighter and happy. i do not know what triggers it but the day my health is good , i feel happy.

9)When your thoughts crowd most?

ans: my mind is always cluttered. i am constantly thinking and worried about myself and family.


10)Do you feel that there is any trigger for your fear?

ans: When i do not hear from my loved ones. If i call them and they do not answer for some reason, i start getting into my panic mode. it has become really bad over the years.Or if they are travelling, school trip etc, i get into the panic mode.


11)How far this fear has gone, like how deep you think and what exactly you think?

ans: i feel it is deep because i have tried alot of healing like reiki,accupuncture,meditation,deep breathing,ayurvedic remedies,etc and i can't seem to overcome the fear. it feels like something is stuck in my solar plexus area


12)When exactly it hurts the stomach, when you start thinking or when the fear is over?

ans: there is a constant pain in my stomach and it hurts more when i am in a negative environment.i am also sensitive to energies.


13)Do you get irritated easily?

ans: yes

14)Does that “lump” feeling in stomach remains all the time or returns only when you think?

ans; it is there all the time.


15)What you like to eat? Sweet or slat? Bitter or sour?

ans: spicy and sweet


16)How many times you eat? You eat with ease or in hurry?

ans: 3 meals a day. most of the time at ease.

17)Do you ever feel urge for stool when fear strike?

ans: all the time.

18)Do you feel nausea when fear strike?

ans: all the time


19)Any pulsation in stomach, navel or abdomen?

ans: abdomen


20)Do you weep easily? Emotional about little things?

ans: yes


21)Do you lack courage too?

ans: yes

22)Do you sweat easily? If yes then exactly where?

ans: no i don't sweat.

23)How is your sexual life?

ans: i have no interest.


24)Any sort of pain anywhere in the body? Back, neck, shoulder or anywhere else?

ans: my whole body hurts at all times but more pain in stomach, shoulders and arms.

25)Have you ever got operated?

ans: have had 3 c-sections

26)How old are you?

ans: 45


27)Do you like to go out and have fun with family?

ans: yes


28)What homeopathic medicine given you any kind of short relief ever?

ans: The fear is always there.

29) Any other secret you would like to share with me?

ans: i do not feel any love emotion anymore for anyone. it is like i am dead inside and just living for the sake of it. no i am not depressed but at the same time i am not happy inside. i want to get back to what i was before i lost my mum. i was happy and very energetic. Now i have an inferior complex . i have a social phobia, i am scared to meet people who will tell me that i look sick .

most of all tasbih ,it is my fear that is worrying me the most. As soon as i don't hear from my loved ones, i start visualising that something has happened to them and i visualise that someone has come home to give me the bad news. my body starts hurting,my stomach starts hurting, i feel very very nauseous, i feel dizzy and i almost faint.

After the panic attack, it takes me a few days to get better. My body becomes very weak.

i cannot handle any kind of stress. if i hear any bad news or undergo any kind of stress. it takes me a couple of weeks to recover. i become very weak.

i have also gone to a psychiatrist for help. i have done a mindul based mediation course.

Because of my fear problem, my siblings are sick and tired of it so they have stopped communicating with me. The only people who are trying to be understanding are my husband and kids but at tmes they are getting frustrated too.

what do you recommend. is there any homeophatic remedy that can help me overcome this fear.

Thank you for your help

Regards

Mungu
 
mungu 7 years ago
Hi Mungu,

The very first thing, you will be cured for sure. No question about it.

The medicine you will have to get from your homeopathic medical store is:

Natrum Mur 30

Now the important part, how you are going to have it:

1)Take one bottle of spring water

2)Empty it 1/4


3)If the medicine is in Pills format, put 2 pills, or if it is in liquid form, put 2 drop in this water.


4)After putting pills/drops in that 1/4 water, stir it for at least 5 minutes. If there were pills, it should be dissolved completely.



5)Now take another fresh bottle of spring water, and empty it 1/4


6)Take one teaspoon of water from previous bottle (in which you have dissolved the medicine) and put it in this new fresh water bottle.


7)Now stir this new bottle for 5 minutes


8)Take one teaspoon (from this second bottle) from this early morning


9)Give at least 30 minutes gap between medicine and breakfast


10)You have to take just one dose early morning daily, only single dose in a day


11)Take for 5 days and report me back


ask me if i am not clear anywhere, but the medicine should be made as i told.

You will be cured for sure and you have to trust me. I have treated more complicated cases of fear than this. So pls rest assured.

No matter if any other homeopath have already prescribed same medicine in past, you need not to bother about it. You just do as I say.

My prayers are with you.

Regards
Tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Mungu,

Please do not forget to throw the first bottle in which you dissolved the medicine. You will have to take doses from second bottle only.

Regards
Tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Thank you Tasbih for your help and prayers.

Just want to understand what i have to do. i pour 3/4 of water from the bottle and just leave a 1/4 bottle full of water. then i make the second bottle. is this right?

Tasbih will i be cured with this remedy. will i start leading a normal life again?
 
mungu 7 years ago
Hi Tasbih,

Thank you for all your help and prayers.

I will have the remedy you have prescribed and let you know what happens in 5 days.

Tasbih, i really hope i can start living a normal life now.

Regards

mungu
 
mungu 7 years ago
Yes Mungu, you can definitely have a normal life soon, trust me. Do not need to panic anymore, you will be cure for sure.

Yes, just leave one fourth of water in the bottle.. in both bottle you have to empty one fourth.

for example if you have a 1000 ml bottle you have to empty til it becomes 250 ml.

Please let me know if you have any confusion regarding making the medicine.

The ideal water amount is 120 ml in each bottle.

Regards
Tabish
[message edited by tabish007 on Tue, 01 May 2012 05:45:40 BST]
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Hi Tasbih,

i have a bad cold and the doctor has asked me to have antibiotics for one week.

should i wait for one week till i finish the antibiotics or should i just start with the natrum mur.

please advise.

thanks

mungu
 
mungu 7 years ago
hello mangu,

no, start natrum mur only when you are finished with your antibiotic.

let me know if anything else u wanna know.

take care
tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Hello Tasbih,

I finished the 5 day remedy that you asked me to have.

On day 1 , i cried alot. i thought of my mum and my siblings and i cried.

The past couple of days,i have had short intervals where i was feeling light hearted and then back to what i always feel. sad and heavy hearted.

My daughter has gone out of town for a school trip and i did have a couple of panic attacks when she did not answer the phone.

so i think the fear is still there.

What am i suppose to do now.

Thanks

Regards

Mungu
 
mungu 7 years ago
hi mungu,

as i mentioned, mental issues are due to cronic miasm.. so it wont go like magic. infact, symptoms that came ealry will go in last.

please wait for atleast 3 days and report me back with the symptoms explained i asked erliar.

you will be required proper treatment in which we will use series of medicines. we will work on one layer at a time.

natrum mur was suppose to make things eaiser for the next course of medicine. you will defenetly feel changes.

tell me in detail about the stomach symptoms and pain, knots and other things related to fear.

if you r thinking that all will be gone with just medicine then its not true in ue case. mental cases usualy require few more medicines one by one and you will have to be paitent.

let me know in detail, dont worry i am with you and will be motnitering your situation very carefully.

warm regards
tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Hi Tasbih,

First of all i really want to thank you for helping me and may you always be blessed with lots of happiness.

I do understand in my case i will not get cured overnight but just wanted assurance from you that i will eventually get cured.

i will report back to you in 3 days but as of today, i am just crying alot, i don't want anyone to call me just want to be left alone.

My Stomach is still hurting alot and my body is hurting even more. i have also become more sensitive.i vomitted a couple of times.

Thanks

Regards

Mungu
 
mungu 7 years ago
dear mungu,

thank you for your blessings.

aggrevation in symptomps are positive signs, so just have faith. its a positive move. just b strong and let the medicine work.

regards
tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
hello mangu,

how are you feeling today?

i wanted you to have next medicine in your hand so that whenever i tell you to have it, you should do that instant.

medicine is

kali carb 200

get that and keep with you, tell me your condition now with all the symptoms.

warm regards
tabish
 
tabish007 7 years ago
Hi Tasbih,

I am still crying at the smallest thing that is wrong.

My stomach pain is less but feels heavy.

Body pain is less but very tense shoulders andpain on shoulder area.

My weight has gone up in the past week.

i still want to be left alone.

I have very low self esteem. i have no confidence in myself and am scared to meet people because i don't want to hear any critism from them.

As i was growing up, i was always compared with my sister and was critized about my looks,colour and how smart she is in business and i am very soft and gullible. i always used to be in a shell.All those feelings seem to come back and i am feeling very down thinking about all this.

Tasbih, i feel like i have always tried my best to please everyone but i have pleased no one. i lack self love. i have put a very small value on myself so why should i expect anyone to think highly of me. My whole life has been based on what people think of me wherever i go. and now i don't feel like going anywhere because i am scared of what they will tell me.

I am sorry ,i know i have asked you to help me on my fear but i don't know why my inferiority complex is also bothering me.

I will buy the kali carb and wait for you to let me know what i should do next.

Thanks

regards

Mungu
 
mungu 7 years ago

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