Genital wart?

I believe I may have a wart on my penis. I believe I may have had two when I was 13 years old but they went away after a year or so and I have not seen any signs since. I am now 32. I have been in a relationship for 15 years and have been only with her a she only with me. Until this latest outbreak I never gave it much thought because I had many warts on my hands and one on my face as a child. I figured that the ones on my penis just spred from my hands. Now I realize that these are two different types and the kind on my hands can't be spred to the penis. Is it possible that the HPV virus stayed dormant all these years and for some reason now has become active? Please advise.

Anyway, I have one wart like growth. It is very small and soft. It is not coliflowered or anything. But it does seem to be getting bigger. I fear it is all ready too late and that i have spred this to my Girlfriend but I still want this gone. What would be best for me. Thank you.