different health issues, please help.

Hi, I seek medical advice from the homeopathy experts please
I am 30 year old male with following medical condition
Back pain- I have been suffering from lower back pain since last 13 years. In 2007 I was diagnosed with spondylitis and was told to do some exercise. I did the exercise as advised but couldn’t do it every single day due to work load and the back pain troubles me. Also since last 5-6 years I have also started experiencing upper back, neck and shoulder pain. My upper back pain has got worse and sometimes when I wake up in the morning, my neck and shoulder are sore and then I get a massive headache. I also get little feeling of vertigo and stress in my neck muscles. When my headache is really bad I vomit.
Almost every night during sleep, my arms become numb to the point where I can’t feel them until I wake up panicked and start to push blood in my arms and slowly I start to feel the sensation in my arms, this also happens with my legs and I feel little needles in my legs, doctors told me this was due to my lower back pain. In the scan I was told my L4, L5 and S1 are all out of shape (disc swollen).

Fatigue, tiredness- most of the time I feel tired, fatigue and lethargic, so much so that even if I run for 300M I can’t breathe and would have to sit down. I also feel weak inside me.
Indigestion, acid reflux- I suffer from stomach ailments like indigestion and almost every day I get acid reflux with some painful heartburn on occasion. I also suffer from smelly flatulence and can feel my stomach making noises as if some chemical reaction was going inside it and something was rotting. I can’t eat much and my stomach accumulates fat. I don’t know if it’s my slow metabolism or what? Drinking hot green tea does give me some relief and also chewing ginger based digestion aid tablets.

Premature ejaculation- I suffer from premature ejaculation and I also feel I am a sex addict, so much so that I even masturbate.

Mental weakness- although I am an intellectual person, but I suffer from mental weakness as in sometimes I get a mental block and I can’t think or speak. I also have weak memory and apart from life incidents which I remember correctly, I tend to forget almost everything. I also suffer from lack of concentration and reasoning skills and I feel embarrassed thinking I am dumb and dull as compared to others and it takes me a while to understand things.

Nervous- I am a nervous and anxious person, in addition to my mental weakness I get really nervous before doing anything and I often say things which either don’t make sense or my tongue gets stuck and I pronounce words wrongly making a fool of myself, thins thing is really taking a toll as I am now keeping quite more often and my social circle is fast shrinking.
I also feel worried and stressed even about little things.
If I don’t meditate at night and ‘switch off’ my mind, I can’t fall asleep and I also feel that I don’t get good night sleep as a result I am always yawning and stretching throughout the day.
In addition to above following are my other symptoms
I hate cold weather, I love warm weather, I love rain.
I have sensitive throat and almost every year in cold weather I get throat related problems.
I have sensitive teeth and my gums bleed.
I don’t feel strong as compared to other man of my age.
I get paranoid if people don’t listen and do things my way (especially people close to me)
I like to be alone because of problems listed above and this is really effecting my personal and professional life.
I am shy and I lack self-confidence.
I can never make up my mind and always keep thinking of the other option/side.
Before anything important my palms and feet get freezing cold.
It takes me lot of time to clear my bowels in the morning.
My palms have lot of white spots.
I always worry about what other people are thinking talking about me, I feel everyone makes fun of me and as a result I am becoming increasingly shy and quite.
If I don’t drink tea in the morning and evening my head starts to become heavy and I get a headache.

Someone a while ago (he was not a homeopath) advised me to take Nux vom 30c 10 drops in water every night before bed, I do feel my digestion is better when I take it.
He also told me to take urtica urens 7 drops in water twice daily for my backache. I don’t take I every day, I take once in a day and that too 3-4 times a week.
In summary, I feel like a 70 year old trapped in a 30 year old body.
I please request with my folded hand to every homeopath expert to investigate my case and suggest remedies, as these issues are running my life.
Please help.