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Hi- I am going to go over this again. I thought previously that your constitutional
remedy is Cal Carb. Cal Carb would cover everything including sleep.

So I was thinking short term sleep help here - bc you don't take one remedy for sleep
and another for the rest of things.

Will think about this today and advise.
 
simone717 9 years ago
sure please check and advise i will be waiting for your reply.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi- I went over all this again, I still think you should take Cal Carb.
That remedy has a lot of insomnia in it.

When you take the remedy, throw away what is left. When you need another dose
make it up new.

It also seems to me that a lot of your problems are caused by living in another
country and your work there. It sounds like if you could live in India, within some
proximity to your parents, you would be much happier and not so worried and anxious.

Think about how you could have this happen. It is really important to live somewhere
that you like, have family and friends around for enjoyment and support, have work
where you are doing well and not afraid of the boss. These are basic human needs.

Sometimes we have to go without some of them, but you seem to be going without all of
them and they are as important as food and water. You are lonely where you are and I am
not surprised this situation is affecting you like this.

Get the herbs for sleep while you are there. Try the Cal Carb when you get there and let me
know a day after you take it.

Regards,

Simone717
 
simone717 9 years ago
In my hometown there are no goood jobs i have to live away in india to work, there i get lesser salary here i am geeting very good salary, flying distance to india is 4 hours from here. If i live in india and work sumwhere else train journey will be atleasr 5 hours. So choosed this place to work. Once i vil reach india i vil buy this medicine. If i vil be ok dere i will not take this medicine i do not want to show my family that i am pateint. But i will surely bring that medicine here once i return.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi- Ok I understand.

One thing I suggest you do is email another homeopath on here- he is a homeopathic
dr. and is from India but works as an engineer in the same country you work in (
am almost sure about that)

You can ask him to look over this thread, he might have a different idea of what
you should buy when you are home, but I think it would be good for you to
connect with him.

This is poster name Rishimba, email is vital.force At yahoo dot com.
[message edited by simone717 on Sat, 17 May 2014 05:42:36 BST]
 
simone717 9 years ago
Hi Simone,

Hope you are doing well i have returned from my vacations. i have got Cal Carb 30 and 200 potency. i have taken one dose so far and will take another today morning and will update you.

As you told me i have to take two tablespoon water in which i have to add two drops of the medicine after that i will take one tablespoon out of this for one dose, remaining i will keep for the next dose. please correct me if i am wrong
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-

Yes, please go ahead.
 
simone717 9 years ago
Hi simone,
Hope you are doing well, i am taking calc carb. 30 from past one month even more than month but i am still in the same situation i cant sleep still specially when i have a plan to get up early in the morning, thoughts are always present in my mind which does not allow me to sleep for hours. My confidence is not building up, urine frequency and urgency is still high specialy at night it increases. I have Cal Carb. 200 too do i need to change the potency
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-

You know I wanted you to take 3 doses on 6-25 and then report 24 hours
after the last dose.

How many doses have you actually taken?

What have you noticed as far as any effects ( I know it is not doing anything
to the symptoms you mentioned)

But I need to know if you noticed anything and if you are having anything
new go on that was not there before.

on constipation-how often do you go? Describe the stool.
Are you constipated when you are at home?

Is it possible for you to get ahold of some biochemic meds (Dr.Reckewege)
or other brand?


I will look this over again today for you.

Regards,

Simone717
[message edited by simone717 on Thu, 07 Aug 2014 17:27:44 BST]
 
simone717 9 years ago
I have taken approx 90 doses i mean i take it twice a day since i started.
About constipation i could say yes dere is bit relief into that but still not i feel constipated everyday stool is soft n yellow in color if i pass it in the morning, if i am constipated it turns into black. I go once in a day only mostly in afternoon not at morning my stomach only gets clear when i take lunch or breakfast but Overcall stomach condition is better than previous state.
The new thingh i noticed is i used to feel pain in my ears and sometime it used to get blocked also but now it does not happen. My tooth also used to bleed during brushing but it has also stopped but i have changed my toothbrush too. And sometime i feel very anxious inside the mosque when i stand with the mob to pray at that i have a feeling that i must go to washroom and pass the urine but which starts killing me at that moment i feel it is better to dye rather than skipping prayer beacause people will notice me if i quit the prayer. But when the prayer is over that feeling and urge is also killed and i can sit another one hour without passing urine.
One more thing now a days my sleep is little deep but i have to fight for hours to get asleep

I have reckeweg BC16 and five phos too.
And sorry i did not inform you as u had mentioned i am really very lazy and slow in my life
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Dear Shaizdin,

If you want to work with me, please report on time from now on. Taking that
many doses could have been a very bad thing. You needed that remedy,
and it is good your ears and gums cleared up and other things. The point
of helping here is so you can have a happy, healthy life, which is possible
and you deserve that-Which is why I am spending my time to help. I don't
think you are lazy, I think you are slightly depressed which will make you
feel lazy.

ok-

1.You are not constipated. Constipation is not going at all for several days.
Your stool should not be yellow or black. This means your liver is not
at normal performance. I will address this.

But I want you to give me an example of what you eat on a regular day.
And also tell me if you exercise at all???

2.The urine issue at prayer is nerves. Tell me about what is going on
with the frequency and amounts and smell and color the rest of the time.

3.Sleep- how long does it take you to get to sleep? What is preventing this-
still having the thoughts? Tell me what are the thoughts now?

4.On BC16- and 5 phos. When did you last take them? how long did you
take them for? What was the result of taking them?

5. Stop Cal Carb.

6. Are you still sad, worried about the emails from boss, still feeling
'like a failure, like you destroyed yourself' etc- Describe in detail.

7. Do you have a social life or any hobbies?

8. List anything else going on that is bothering you.

Thank you.
 
simone717 9 years ago
I am sorry again i will respond on time
1. I eat most of the time indian spicy food at afternoon i take rice with lentils or only fried rice so overall at afternoon i take rice with some sort of indian vegetable, chicken mutton or lentils gravy
At dinner t take non veg chicken mutton gravy some time vegetable gravy with indian or arabic brownbread at night sometimes i take an apple pear or any fruit to add some fiber in my diet.
But one more thing if i take a green vegetable like lady finger which has seeds then in stool i can c seeds in the stool i also pass lot of gas while passing stool. And if i take spinach in dinner then stool color turns into green. My stomach does not clear in one time i hardly feel that i have emptied my stomach the amount of stool is less.
2. As i told u i have gone through a urethral surgury for stricture. After the surgury stream was like a horse but now its moderate sometime it seems to me that urine is coming from a squeezed pipe not from a cylindrical pipe. If i drink half litre water in evening after 6 pm within 30 mins i will have strong urge to pass the urine and when i finish passing it again i have a urge to pass the urine after 15 mins samething happens at night iif i drink half litre water at 9:00 pm i will have to go twice till 10:30
In the morning urine color is yellow but it iis very foamy and smell is very bad. I have noticed the urnine color is yellow and foamy when it is of long interval otherwise it is white with no foam if its of short duration
I want to add one incident here when i was in india, it was sweltering heat There in june month i was doing a lot of physical work and sweating a lot but drank a lot of water too but in the evening i started feeling pain around my both the kidneys. Since then i have faced same pain around both the kidneys somtime at lef side sometime at right side but now a days it is not happening that pain is not severe its just little, it also used to happen before isurgery
3. Sometimes it takes 3-4 hours to make me sleep if i have morning shift which starts in morning at 7:00 for that i place an alarm for 5:30 but still i have a thought that this alarm will not ring so i always double check my cell and enable multiple alarms. Even if i sleep at 2:00 am i get up again at 3:00 and then i am not able to sleep beacause i feel i have now just 2:30 hours what is the use of sleep and blah blah
Thoughts are same of day to day life related not fearing or negative thoughts

4. I have not taken five phos or bc16 i jus took it bcuz i read it somewhere it is a nerve medicine i also have R14 drops which i had taken last year for insomnia but it did not work
5. I still have fear of reading emails today is my week-off and i have around 50 emails to read because i feel one email can ruin my week-off but i have no fear of failure and not feeling destroyed i am very positive that i can recover i used to be a topper and i will be
6. I have no social life i have a fear of urine urge, i have faced embarrassing situations with my friends in past so i do not go out at public places my urge is increases and out of my control and i do not do exercise but i wanna do.
Thing that is bothering me is that my libido is poor but i have to marry next year thats bothers me but still i am positive due to this i have quit musturbation i think cal carb helped into that
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi again.

We are taking all this step by step.

For right now, I want you to take the 5 phos, 3 tabs, 3 times a day for FOUR days.

4 days only and report in to me on Day 5.-This should help with sleep and nerves.

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The digestion of having yellow stool, and having green after spinach means
your digestion is rapid and you are not absorbing nutrients properly-
there is not enough bile sitting in the intestine as a regular process that turns
things brown. As far as seeds, that is normal for them to pass thru intact.

I want to know if you are taking any iron supplements, or eating black or blue fruit,
or eating licorice, or having Pepto Bismal?

If no, then you need to go to the gastro dr.to discover what makes the stool black at
times- this indicates bleeding and it could just be hemorrhoids or it could be a stomach
ulcer-the point is- you have to find out what it is. You should also get a liver panel done,
showing the levels of the liver enzymes. Remedies can work on whatever it is- but
one should not guess on this.

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Next- do you know what probiotics are? They replace the bacteria that got destroyed
from antibiotics. You have to have the right flora to digest correctly and after
antibiotics people are advised to do probiotics for a month or two. If you can't find
them , then you should have a cup of natural plain yogurt bc it naturally has probiotics.
Otherwise try to get probiotics that have 8 strains and you may have to experiment
with these to see what ones you feel good with. Start slow- one pill a day or teaspoon.------

No one can be strong if their gut is not working well- so get back to me about the 5 phos
and make the Dr. appt and let me know results. You probably should call and they will
give you something to bring in a stool sample.
[message edited by simone717 on Fri, 08 Aug 2014 07:30:41 BST]
 
simone717 9 years ago
Thanks simone,

for you precious time

i will start fivephos from tomorrow on-wards at this time i m in office.
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simone. before i visit a Dr. for stomach issue i want to consult again with that urologist who did my surgery because as i told you i have started feeling pain around my kidneys, which looks serious to me, after this i will surely visit the gastro Dr. because i can not take multiple medicines at a time.
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i know probiotics a little i think it is good for digestion.
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what is yogur i know only yogurt.
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still need your advise who to visit first urologist or gastro its yur call.
but my condition is like once biteen twice shy. dont wanna take risk into the matter of genetials, about stomach i can manage
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-

1. I did write Yogurt-it should be natural, no added
things in it.

2. When I read about Kidney pain, it seemed that you
had it and then No longer had it.

Definitely see the Urologist first about that. Let me know
the outcome. You may be able to ask him about the
stool also.

3. Are you still taking Silicea 6x? If so how long, how
many tabs?

4. You can get ahold of Nat Sulph 6x for the stool
if possible. Take 3 tabs 4 times a day. Take at a different
time than 5 phos. The 5 phos should also help with
the stool.

5. Please add in some kind of mixed green salad everyday-
you are not getting enough fiber. Drink enough water.
Important to walk- it would be good to walk after
dinner- walking tones up the intestines, and helps
everything! Including the nerves.

You have to start to build new habits. It does not matter
if at first you forget and/ walk for just 5 minutes- if you
have the intention, gradually it will all fall into place.
 
simone717 9 years ago
please ignore yogur, by this incident u can understand that my attention to the things is lost i was writing something else but wrote yogur, well ignore it.
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no i am not taking silicea 6x i just took it for few days, from past one month i took only one medicine which is Cal Carb.
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i will start walking after dinner and will try to do exercise as well. i just need a good sleep because i loose my 12 hours of the day for sleep only.
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shaizdin 9 years ago
Ok. Try to get hold of the Nat Sulph 6x.

We will see what the 5 phos does for nerves and sleep in 4 days.

Update me on the urologist appt.

You have a lot going on, it is hard to keep focused for anyone when
they have too much going on. When I have too much going on, I do
things like put my car keys in the refrigerator. This is all going to
get sorted out.

Regards,

Simone717
 
simone717 9 years ago
H simone,

i cant arrange Nat sulph, instead i can manage nat phos 6x would it work.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Nat Phos is part of the 5 Phos, so you
already have it. It can address scanty stool.

Lets just see what happens after the 5 phos and your dr. Appt and go from there.
 
simone717 9 years ago
Hi Simone,

Hope you are doing well.
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i am taking five phos. and a cup of yogurt as perscribed by you. stomach is good not feeling constipated. but stool is not normal, anyways it is soft.
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now a days i am working in afternoon shift whcih starts at 3:00 PM and ends at 11:00 PM. SINCe i have taken 5 phos i noticed i hardly took 15-20 minutes or average to sleep. overall i slept well. but during this shift when i have no alarm placed and no wory to get up early in the morning i slept well. still i need to check what happens when i work in the schedule from 7:00 to 15:00, or in night from 23:00 10 7:00 AM, soon i have night shift for two days i will notice how this works when i sleep at day.
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negative impacts
from day one since i took 5 phos sexual thoughts have increased coming into my minds i have done masturbation twice , which i had left before when i was taking Cal Carb. please tell me how to kill these thoughts and avoid masturbation. i dont wanna lose more fluid.
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urine frequeny and urgency is almost same i could not get appointment from urologist since he is on vacations i will try to visit him soon.
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overall i am feeling better and more confident. i believe i can win this battle if i quit masturbation, beacause i feel week and gloomy after doing this. it decreases my morale.
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shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-

Some questions.

1. What color is the stool now?

2. After you had the surgery, was the urge to pass urine frequently gone?
Did the urine still smell strong and was it frothy?

3.Describe the smell, is it a sweet smell, like ammonia smell, like coffee or
nutmeg smell or fishy or brine type smell- use your own description.

4. Is the frothy part, all white, greenish white, violet white or violet rings?

5.Feeling bad after masturbation-

Is there any real physical sensation of feeling weak, low energy, etc
going on?

Or is this just going on in your mind that this is a bad habit ?

Or that it is a bad habit and and is also harming you by fluid loss?
 
simone717 9 years ago
1. stool color is dark not very dark but it is soft.
2.No after the surgery only stream was improved urge and frequency was little decreased but still not normal, when i had stricture frequency was too high because i used to pass only little amount of urine.
urine is still frothy at morning.
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3. i would say its a very bad smell at morning cant say exactly what it is like but its nearly like fishy smell.
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4. frothy part is mostly yellow i would say color is near to green.
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5. ya after masturbation i feel lost and bad my morale goes down i feel i can never recover and and will never be able to perform. as per Ayurveda(yunani or greek) practitioners as they say i am telling you. that my urinary bladder is weak due to excessive masturbation as i am doing it since the age of 13. due to this i always feel twitching inside my body like in biceps or at calf, i also faces cramps at my calf muscle or to some other muscles when i make a fully body posture for yawning. i hope i have described well this in English people say it happens due to weak nerve system which is caused due to excessive masturbation.
i believe this is a bad habit and have caused fluid loss in me. i know if it in limit it is ok but i think i have done excessively.
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i describe you one more thing when i sit on a chair or even on a mat if i put my leg on another leg and sits for 10 mins in the same posture the leg which is below and hips get numbed same happens with the hand also if i keep my palm on my chin and the elbow is on bed and i m watching something at tv at that moment my hand has my body weight then same hand gets numbed, same things happens when i ride the bike for long time my testicles even penis gets nubmed. i have described the situation with my poor english hope you would understand.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Can you get ahold of Bryonia 6c and 30c? and keep trying for nat sulph 6x.

On the stricture, causes are often an injury to the area, or an STD,
and many times they don't know.

I am suggesting Bryonia bc it matches almost everything you have
including the stricture.

Masturbation is not the cause of any of these things.

In the meantime- keep up the yogurt, keep taking the salts 3 times a day, the numbness is
from the spine- bad posture, no walking, sitting for 3 hours at a time,
sleeping wrong, bending the neck and so on. You can set some kind of timer
at work, so every half hour, you stand up, stretch, move around for 5 minutes-
this type of sitting still will do this to you- it builds up. You have to do
the walk once a day to get the blood moving thru the nerves and spine-
otherwise it is like a stagnant river. These are the essentials.

Let me know about the Bryonia.
[message edited by simone717 on Fri, 15 Aug 2014 20:27:04 BST]
 
simone717 9 years ago
getting a homeo medicine is really difficult almost impossible in this country.but still i would try to get that, please dont mind last time u said Cal Carb. matches me in all the area so i brought that. i know one person he have some medicines i told him to give me nat sulphar but he did not give. either he does not have or he does not wanna give. still trying to get that, now will search for bryonia
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i think stricture caused due to my one bad habit whenever i used to had urge to pass urine i used to squeeze my dick tightly to hold it until i reach WC, sometime for 10-15 minutes i think that caused it.
 
shaizdin 9 years ago
Hi-

Can you check around and see if you ordered some remedies
from Helios pharmacy in the Uk- which they ship in a package
that is marked- 'vitamins' if that would be a problem.

Cal Carb did match you and it helped your gums, your stomach,
and your ears. You took 90 doses instead of 3 and if it was wrong
you would have had some big side effects.

I now understand that the stricture issue is from an outside cause-
Injury of the soft tissues -

That has to be handled in a different manner due to the cause.

I changed my mind here now on this-

I would like you to find Bellis Perennis 6c and 30c and Arnica 6c and
30c. These are for repair of injury to soft tissue.
 
simone717 9 years ago
Or-I know you don't want your parents
to know you are taking meds. But you
could tell them you bumped your leg-
and then is it possible they could get
these 4 things- put the pills in little
vitamin bottle or Ayurvedic herbs bottle
and send them?
 
simone717 9 years ago

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