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Remedies don't cover situations. Situations are real things, and cannot be cured.

The specific symptoms need to relate to the individual's particular way of experiencing the situation. For a homoeopathic prescription to work well, this experience should not be the common, expected reaction but something unusual and specific to that person.

Cheating on a partner, in a society that frowns on it (like ours) would be expected to create guilt and a fear of getting caught. Humiliation is a fairly common tool used by society to shame such people. Hiding it and not wanting consequences is pretty much what everyone does in this situation. None of these things are going to point to a remedy.

There are two possible peculiarities here. One is the fact that the person is suffering strong emotions years later about it. That suggests a particular sensitivity to the emotions.

The second one is the fear of punishment. This MAY be peculiar if there is no actual risk of punishment. However, if punishment is a real risk and even a historical fact for previous transgressions, then it is not a real symptom.

The situation and the reaction need to be explored further. There isn't enough here to point to a remedy or remedies, not with any confidence.

I have given you this same answer, more or less, in previous posts. I know you are trying to find a remedy for yourself. I also know I have tried myself to treat you in the past I believe. I am still willing to help you if you can dedicate yourself to taking the medicines and providing regular detailed follow up.
[message edited by Evocationer on Thu, 02 Apr 2015 00:41:59 BST]

If you would be open to recieving the help Evocationer is very knowledggable and skilled at his work. It is really a gift that he doesvthis in his spare time offering free help outside of his profession. It cost a lot to see a homeopath. So if you can be willing and open he can helo you but like he said, it is the way in which the patient percieves reality right now on a day to day basis in the present, not of what happened in the past.

Homeopathy is based on equating all of your symptoms, from food cravings or dislikes to time sensitivitys. Or for instanve what makes you feel better or worse when yoy experience certain things like a headache or constiption. And then each person experiences it differently.

Some people could have headaches that come on in the afternoon and are on the left side of the head and the light and sound bother.

Another person could feel like a vice is gripping their head and comes on at night and the cold air brings relief.

Then you have mental symptoms. So if you are afraid of getting punished. You have to ask why are you afraid? For instance is this person back in your life. Did you never tell the person? Do you feel afraid a current person will judge you based on your history?

Then there could be other things going on. Life story or a pattern of the same thing going on. And where does this fear of judgment come from?

Or if one is faithful now perhaps a fear of it happening again? Or sadness because maybe the person lost someone because of the cheating thus they may never feel like they will be good enough or find another person....

Just food for thought. Hope yoy find the solace andbpeace in which you seek.

Sorry I did not make use of proper language. I did not mean to sound like I thought you were the person. I was tired when I was filling it out.


It is more so not a matter of how a remedy would make a person react.

A homeopathics focus is to set off motion of the vital life force of the person to help restore balance and head in direction of healing and a way of equilibrium.

If a person in this case was able to take this remedy naturally they will start to feel better and thkngs will move into homeostasis.

There is also the chance that a healing episode will take place where the feelings or physical symptoms will be a little more intense and then subside and they start to feel better.

There also may be the case that the person may remove a layer and then other things reveal themselves.

And of course one be careful not to self treat on a chronic level as there is chance for one to take on a proving of the remedy which means one will start developibg the symptom. That is why if a medicine prescribed is not taking affect one waits on the prescriber and even in the case of not taking too many does as then this can back track progress.

This is all based on my understanding.

I was just reading with plants silica can help get rid of weeds. It can also help plants thrive. Give weeds one dose they will thrive. Give flowers or fruits etc 1 dose they will also thrive. Give weeds 2 doses then they will become unfertile. Give 2 doses to plants you want to grow they will die.

This is why again a person spends years training to become homeopath. Even with all I know I am just sharing my view of what I understand and I am sure there is always more to learn. I only know the basics and acute remedies.

For this other person homeopathy will only help to the degree the person wants the help. Hypotheticals will not help. Even someone writing for another person takes away from the personalization and wording/language of the person which helos the homeopath see the expression of the patient.

The more the patient is able to share all that is going on and with less generals and more openess it can helo the homeooath. But then again if a child does not say much the Homeopath sets out to find any and all subtle clues to lead to a remedy.

Is this person seeking peace? What exactly are their current feelings that are happening today? Not just about this but how they relate to the wold, family, any relations including friends?

And is it your desire that you want to help this person?

Just know that everything takes time. I was not able to have my mom try homeopathy at all. Then she finally tried it 2 years later. I onky gave it in low dose for knee pain. And it helped her. Then it took her another year to go on the forum.

I wish you peace and this person you speak of.

would they not care now, would they fess up?

Its not that they would not care. Deeo down all people desire healing and peace.

We can not really tell the unfolding of someone's response to these things. But with starting off with low dosing can prevent too much stimulation to the person which means a lesser healing trigger.

So the healing is slow and steady instead of sudden and fast which might be like a jolt to the system.