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No smoking, never, very occasional drinking/once a month - two glasses of wine.
I never had any troubles in my sex. life / of course except the last year of my last long term relationship, when i didnt really love my boyfriend anymore, but somehow stayed with him because of my insecurity, fear of being lonely/- at that time i had sex.relat. with him, despite not feeling like that. i desperately tried to persuade myself that i can love him again, get over it, that i will start loving him again and i wont be lonely. it didnt work, ended up refusing sex completely, agressive and frustrated.
BUT, i had another short relat. afterwards a felt that sexual energy again, no problem...
n
Now with my current relationship, i seem to feel similarly about sex like it was before / refusing sex, aggresive.../.
I never had any troubles in my sex. life / of course except the last year of my last long term relationship, when i didnt really love my boyfriend anymore, but somehow stayed with him because of my insecurity, fear of being lonely/- at that time i had sex.relat. with him, despite not feeling like that. i desperately tried to persuade myself that i can love him again, get over it, that i will start loving him again and i wont be lonely. it didnt work, ended up refusing sex completely, agressive and frustrated.
BUT, i had another short relat. afterwards a felt that sexual energy again, no problem...
n
Now with my current relationship, i seem to feel similarly about sex like it was before / refusing sex, aggresive.../.
silvia153 last decade
possible any of sexual relationa at all --partner may have been treated for veneral disease in their past?maybe before became envolved with you?
when (date) first sexual encounter?
when (date) first sexual encounter?
♡ John Stanton last decade
No one has ever mentioned anything like that.
First interc. winter 1993, as long as i remember , i was 17,5.
First interc. winter 1993, as long as i remember , i was 17,5.
silvia153 last decade
please explain this period of life thoroughly---before meeting compared to during and after--please emphasize before meeting your frame of spirit as well...
♡ John Stanton last decade
John,
Before: i dont really remember this period, just maybe i felt a bit lonely as i always do when there is no "central" /boyfriend, good friend/ person around, on which i usually build my world around.
During: I was on and off relationship, during off periods i started suffering depression. it was really bad, i felt hopeless, lost, life has no meaning, uncapable of anything....without that person.
i had a great deal of confidence when i was with him. at that time started my up and down conflicts with my parents. i felt they dont care about me, my feelings, what i went through... they never asked how i feel about anything. feelings are forbidden in my family....i therefore tried to get my parents affection and attention by hysterical rages, crying and shouting at them. it didnt help. they just didnt understand, it was very disappointing that there is no one who understands you, ask you how you are... lots of depression for this, crying...then i gave up.
after one of these break ups i had that nervous break down / that incident i described before.../
i was so mentally overtired.
when i finally broke up with him / 5 years on and off relat../, i had to go through psychoterapy / 1 year/. very depressed, melancholic, crying, no future, end of life../
With my therapeut we found out, that i always lok for those things i think parents did not give me - more emotional attention, love, support....
To help me get out of this torture, i left for england, to live there for a year. it helped a lot...
did it help?
silvia
Before: i dont really remember this period, just maybe i felt a bit lonely as i always do when there is no "central" /boyfriend, good friend/ person around, on which i usually build my world around.
During: I was on and off relationship, during off periods i started suffering depression. it was really bad, i felt hopeless, lost, life has no meaning, uncapable of anything....without that person.
i had a great deal of confidence when i was with him. at that time started my up and down conflicts with my parents. i felt they dont care about me, my feelings, what i went through... they never asked how i feel about anything. feelings are forbidden in my family....i therefore tried to get my parents affection and attention by hysterical rages, crying and shouting at them. it didnt help. they just didnt understand, it was very disappointing that there is no one who understands you, ask you how you are... lots of depression for this, crying...then i gave up.
after one of these break ups i had that nervous break down / that incident i described before.../
i was so mentally overtired.
when i finally broke up with him / 5 years on and off relat../, i had to go through psychoterapy / 1 year/. very depressed, melancholic, crying, no future, end of life../
With my therapeut we found out, that i always lok for those things i think parents did not give me - more emotional attention, love, support....
To help me get out of this torture, i left for england, to live there for a year. it helped a lot...
did it help?
silvia
silvia153 last decade
One more thing:
Pankaj asked me before if after i am angdry shut myself in the room and dont wanna comunicate. thats me, i cant face any argument /conflict, trouble/, desperately try to avoid. Supress it if i cant anymore then overeact, shout, aggressive... rather escape. When i get into troubles/not very often, as i am scared to risk../i behave very cowardly. blaming others, circumstancies....scared to death.
silvia
Pankaj asked me before if after i am angdry shut myself in the room and dont wanna comunicate. thats me, i cant face any argument /conflict, trouble/, desperately try to avoid. Supress it if i cant anymore then overeact, shout, aggressive... rather escape. When i get into troubles/not very often, as i am scared to risk../i behave very cowardly. blaming others, circumstancies....scared to death.
silvia
silvia153 last decade
has this "..anger shut yourself in room.." ALWAYS been this way...? please explain with reference to past..
♡ John Stanton last decade
if i remember rightly it started sometimes around my teenage years after fights with my parents. i used to be really angry, hysterical, demanding attention. then i would cry , shout for hours, they refused to talk to me unless i calm down.then i just gave up and not to talk to them at all. i found it useless.
thanks
silvia
thanks
silvia
silvia153 last decade
i think it was after, because i dont really remeber much before that period.
btw. that break up and depression afterward was by far emotionally most difficult thing in my life.
btw. that break up and depression afterward was by far emotionally most difficult thing in my life.
silvia153 last decade
Hi,
Maybe one more thing, i used to do this very often in the past - i kind of punished myself. I never took an easy way, always the harsh one, as if this supposed to "help" me to become a "better" person. These days i dont do so much of "punishing" now its a bit less cruel - i just dont allow myself much plesures in my life. i think i dont deserve them...i still think i should "improve myself' by some activity, doing something useful...or finding a new challenge to make my life harder.
This started very early when i was a kid...
Thank you
silvia
Maybe one more thing, i used to do this very often in the past - i kind of punished myself. I never took an easy way, always the harsh one, as if this supposed to "help" me to become a "better" person. These days i dont do so much of "punishing" now its a bit less cruel - i just dont allow myself much plesures in my life. i think i dont deserve them...i still think i should "improve myself' by some activity, doing something useful...or finding a new challenge to make my life harder.
This started very early when i was a kid...
Thank you
silvia
silvia153 last decade
for example - my friends would go for a holiday, i would use that month working / student job/, for little money. but i thought it would make me a better person, would get more respect for myself,admiration of others, satisfaction...i dont deseve holiday. never really worked long term.
i am not sure if its clear
silvia
i am not sure if its clear
silvia
silvia153 last decade
Astra,
( John and Murthy.too....)
Can you now see why I prescribed Ignitia......she had a break up with a boyfriend and till date not been able to get over it.
What I could pick up in the first few posts..... is all here in detail now.
And Astra !.... at that time you threw a fit at my recommending Ignitia.
Silvia...first the Ignitia ...and then Phosphorus.....like I said at the start of the coversation. (See page 1 & 2).
Take your time in making up your mind ...but that is what you need.
Best,
Pankaj Varma
( John and Murthy.too....)
Can you now see why I prescribed Ignitia......she had a break up with a boyfriend and till date not been able to get over it.
What I could pick up in the first few posts..... is all here in detail now.
And Astra !.... at that time you threw a fit at my recommending Ignitia.
Silvia...first the Ignitia ...and then Phosphorus.....like I said at the start of the coversation. (See page 1 & 2).
Take your time in making up your mind ...but that is what you need.
Best,
Pankaj Varma
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
♡ John Stanton last decade
hello everyone,
after break up - we didnt really meet that much, but generally my attitude was better,/emotions not that strong/ but i still prefer not to talk to him. we also live now in different countries.
we didnt really have much in common after that break up, not to mention now...
i haven't taken anything yet, a i have been battling flu for two weeks. i was given amoxicilin , which i took for a week, , i got better. after two days i had a relapse / even worse ../. i dont want to take any more antibiotics, can anyone help me with homeopathy alternative?
silvia
after break up - we didnt really meet that much, but generally my attitude was better,/emotions not that strong/ but i still prefer not to talk to him. we also live now in different countries.
we didnt really have much in common after that break up, not to mention now...
i haven't taken anything yet, a i have been battling flu for two weeks. i was given amoxicilin , which i took for a week, , i got better. after two days i had a relapse / even worse ../. i dont want to take any more antibiotics, can anyone help me with homeopathy alternative?
silvia
silvia153 last decade
Are you still suffering with flu?
Tell us all the symtopms pf flu.Don't mix up with your other symtoms.
You have to tell us about the symptoms,which you are experiencing after the attack of flu.
Murthy
Tell us all the symtopms pf flu.Don't mix up with your other symtoms.
You have to tell us about the symptoms,which you are experiencing after the attack of flu.
Murthy
bandarbabu2000 last decade
flu symptoms:/second week/
sore throat
blocked / runny nose
cant hear properly because of that /feeling like my whole head is "clogged"/
hot flashes in my cheeks and face, occasional fever in the evening
feeling cold most of the time
looking pale
tired
drowsy
lethargic
irritable
thanks
silvia
sore throat
blocked / runny nose
cant hear properly because of that /feeling like my whole head is "clogged"/
hot flashes in my cheeks and face, occasional fever in the evening
feeling cold most of the time
looking pale
tired
drowsy
lethargic
irritable
thanks
silvia
silvia153 last decade
single dose nux-vomica 200c
♡ John Stanton last decade
John
Nux is ok.But single dose,in flu?I take it as an acute disease,and is it not better to give minimum three doses,and review the case afterwards?
It is very rare for a single dose to cure acute problems.
I would like to know your opinion.
Murthy
Nux is ok.But single dose,in flu?I take it as an acute disease,and is it not better to give minimum three doses,and review the case afterwards?
It is very rare for a single dose to cure acute problems.
I would like to know your opinion.
Murthy
bandarbabu2000 last decade
♡ PANKAJ VARMA last decade
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