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And, he is very sensitive to reprimand ?

Can he think he was insulted where no insult was actually meant ?

A harsh tone of voice can make him think you are trying to insult him ?

Is honour and dignity a big issue with him ?
 
sameervermani last decade
And, he is very sensitive to reprimand ?
Sensitive but not very much I would say...

Can he think he was insulted where no insult was actually meant ? I cannot think of any situation right now but I think this may be true...

A harsh tone of voice can make him think you are trying to insult him ? Well, he reacts strongly if I use a harsh voice to him...

Is honour and dignity a big issue with him ? If you by that mean that he is careful with what is right or wrong it´s true, he watches us so we don´t do or say wrong things...
 
Tintintin last decade
Does he think a lot about past events where he was hurt ?

How does he react when you use a harsh voice ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Also, do you think the problems might have started due to the bossy behaviour and domination by his elder brother ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Does he think a lot about past events where he was hurt ?

I don´t think he does this, atleast he doesn´t talk about it...He talks about his elder brother and that he is not nice to him...

How does he react when you use a harsh voice ? He yells back most often but sometimes he gets sad and cries...

Also, do you think the problems might have started due to the bossy behaviour and domination by his elder brother ?

I really think that this is the main reason, because this has been very hard for all of us and probably most for John..
 
Tintintin last decade
Tell me more about his intolerance to injustice..

has this been always the case ?
 
sameervermani last decade
I think that this behaviour started about maybe 2-3 years ago...(I´m not really sure..)
Well, he watches his big brother and in case he is doing or saying something wrong (which happens quite often ;) ) he tells me immediately...

Some months ago he also was very concerned if we (mum and pa) would swear then he would be very harsh on us...but nowadays he has stopped this and has started to swear by himself instead...'

he also watches us if we eat a cookie or some sweet then he gets upset and wants one too...and telling us that we cannot eat without him knowing it...He wants to know everything I think...he doesn´t like when something happens when he´s not around...He is a little observer and he tells me that he sees everything and hears everything...

The most recently incident about this intolerance to unjustice is: - He went to a birthdayparty on saturday with all of his schoolfriends. Then when I picked him up he was upset because he thought that everybody was invited except for two children because they were not there...and he had heard one of the parents telling that these two were not invited...this was of course an misunderstanding but he refuses to listen to this. He is totally convinced that he has heard the truth and he is still very upset with this...

Thankyou so much!
Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
He has to win every game and cannot tolerate loosing anything...

When he gets ian injury he is very durable, hardly complain at all even if it bleeds...
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, please give him 3 doses of Staphysagria 30c equally spaced, report in 5 days.

1 tsp doses.

Sameer.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

It is now two weeks since I gave him Staphysagria 30c. I cannot see any reactions. He is irritated and angry very often. Maybe it got a bit worse during the first days after the doses but no improvements later on.

Many thanks Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Pia,

Please give him 3 doses of Lycopodium 30c , each dose being 1 teaspoon.

Report in 5 days.

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
It´s now 5 days since the doses.

Wednesday: (took the doses)He was a bit more angry for about 3 hours in the afternoon...

Thursday-saturday: Big improvement, sweet, affectionate, behaved very well, so nice all the time...

Sunday: Still good except for 30 minutes in the afternoon in the 'old' bad mood.

Monday: The old bad mood seem to return, had several 'attacks' in the afternoon after school.

Thanks Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, please wait for 3 more days. We will see if this passes over.

I know you have the Lyco 200c with you.

We will use it if this persists for 3 more days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Tuesday: A moody day also, he hurt his foot/wrist in school, it is red/blue and swollen.
Wednesday: A mild cold started, better mood
Thursday-friday: the mood seems better again

I think we need to wait and see what happens...

Thanks Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Let us keep waiting then.

Keep reporting as necessary.
 
sameervermani last decade
saturday-monday: I am not sure but I think that he still is a little better than before the lyco but he is moody and angry some moments and other he behaves nice, it´s shifting...

Thanks Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Please wait for 1 more week to be sure.
 
sameervermani last decade
tuesday-monday

It´s still the same. He is better some moments and some moments he is very angry and frustrated. It´s still shifting...but the better moments are more than before the lyco dose...

Some more mental traits:
-he´s grinding teeth in the night when asleep
-hits us often, even when not angry
-very stubborn
-constantly moving
-clumsy, hurt himself, fall and drop things, gets messy when eating especially
-a new peculiar (since about one month) act is that he suck his sleeves on his sweaters

Is it time for the 200c dose?

Thanks Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, dissolve 2 pellets of Lyco 200c in 250 ml water, and give him just 1 spoon from there.

Report in 1 week.
 
sameervermani last decade
9 days since the 200c dose lycopodium.

There has been small change if any at all. Maybe he is a bit less angry...He has been talking two times about not wanting to live anymore. Yesterday he said that he wants to suicide when he gets older...He is not happy but most of the time he plays and doesn´t show what he feels. In the afternoons and evenings he is very moody...

Pain in stomach two times.

One thing about him is that he is mostly not so talkative but in some moments he can talk a lot. But it´s only about subjects that he is 'in to' he goes on and on about some subject. Doesn´t listen to what others say and answer as little as possible. He is totally busy with his own thoughts.

Best regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Dear Pia,

Please give him a single dose of Sulphur 200c.

2 teaspoon dose.

Report in 5 days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
5 days after the Sulphur dose.

Friday-saturday: noticed no change
sunday-monday: more hyperactive than normal a bit worse in temper but also some good moments in between
tuesday-wednesday: anger reduced and he seems to improve slowly, more affectionate and happy...

I´m hopeful Sameer...let´s see what will happen :)

Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, keep in touch
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

Thursday: in a good mood
Friday: high fever, pain in stomach, headache and sore throat
Saturday: a little better but still lying and fever
Sunday: a little better no fever in the day and is up a little bit, don´t eat.

The mental state seems very good, very nice and affectionate...

I have had to give him painkiller especially in the night...

Is this perhaps Sulphur bringing something out or what?

Regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
This is good news, there might be some vomiting or diarrhea soon.

Hold on tight.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

I got so dosappointed when the other family-members got the same symptoms...I was hoping for the Sulphur to bring something out...

But now the flu is gone and he has been in a very good mood until yesterday. He started to yell again when answering us. He has also today been frustrated for some moments...

Best regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade

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