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I found out that my mother has D30 Silicea, may I give him this?

And when you say 'equally spaced' do you mean one dose in the morning, one at lunch, one in the evening?

Regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Hmm.. yes, this should be enough to judge the response.

Go ahead. Give the doses at 2 hour gap.
 
sameervermani last decade
If you think it´s better for him I can wait because I have already ordered the 30C potency. But it will take a week to get it. The D30 I can give him tomorrow...

Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Go ahead with D30.
 
sameervermani last decade
7 days after the D30 dose...I cannot see any reaction at all with this remedy. He is still unbalanced and gets angry easy and frustrated...

Now I can see that the Phosphor did a good job cause he was much better when it was working.´May it be that I wasn´t patient enough to wait for slow recovery...? What can I do now? Can I give him phosphor again?

Many thanks again Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Hmm..

Does he get fastidious at times ?
 
sameervermani last decade
If you mean fastidious as hard to please...hmmm...Well when he is in that bad mood nothing will please him, it´s difficult to get him talkable, he just don´t listen to any argument, he gets totally opposite to everything. He just say(read shout) NO!! I won´t do that!! He may hit or shout for a while...mostly when we want him to do things like getting dressed, brush his teeth and so on...

He usually starts crying after a while, very upset and angry cry and then he gets calm if we let him be by himself, not saying anything to him....

Ask me more if you need to...
Thanks Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, please give him 3 doses of Arsenic Album 12c or D30 equally spaced.

Let me know in 3 days.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

I see no reaction whatsoever in these four days after the D30 dose of arsenicum...he is still the same, very opposite and angry, frustrated especially in the evenings. Difficult to get him to do his duties...hardly don´t answer when talking to often busy playing around and don´t listen to anyone...

Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay then, please give him 3 doses of

Carcinosin 30c.

1 tsp dose.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

9 days since the Carcinocin 30c dose. I cannot see any reaction to this remedy at all.

He is quite tired in the afternoons and is also very moody and irritated. He doesn´t answer when spoken to unless you really make him notice you. He has caught a mild cold now like his big brother also have.

Thanks again for your help!
Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Just 1 single dose of Tuberculinum 200c.

Report in 1 week.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

It has now been 13 days since the Tuberculinum 200c dose.

The mild cold that he had before the dose has become more severe. And he has been very stuffy in the nose all the time. The last 4 days he has pain in his left ear.

It´s hard to tell if there are some mental changes. Some moments I think he is a little bit softer but if there is a change then it´s very small...

Do you think that the cold is an healing aggravation? We all have had the virus in different forms the last weeks...

Best wishes Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
He has had nose-bleeding today, a lot of it. Never before!

Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, I think there should be an improvement in the coming week.

Keep waiting.
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,

I think there is a mental improvement Sameer!

The flu-like virus just won´t go away so I don´t think this was an aggravation. But the thing is that he is in a good mood though being pretty ill. And usually the mood is very bad as soon as there is a cold or so...

Is it possible to give an acuteremedy cause the cold is very stubborn.

For now he is having pain in right ear (gets relieved by nosespray and painkiller). He has also lots of mucus, stuffy nose, and bad coughing. His nose bleeds easily, and bleed a lot...

Regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
No remedy for him.

I do not want to interfere homeopathicaly here.

You are free to seek allopathic relief
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
You are probably right :)

He seems to get better already and is indeed in a good mood. So sweet and affectionate...The tuberculinum must have helped...

He had severe pain first in the left ear for some hours and after a few days in the right ear...it reminds me of when he was 7 months old. He was completely healthy until he had an bad earinflammation in both ears and had to take penicillin. After that he didn´t completely recover, he got his asthma and also milkallergy in the following year...Maybe this cleared this old stuff out. I surely hope so...Let´s watch and see!

Thankyou for everything!

Regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
This is good news :)
 
sameervermani last decade
Dear Sameer,
The cold is gone now but the mental state is worse again.
The last 5 days he has been quite moody and easily frustrated...especially in the afternoons.

Regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Let us try from scratch once more. List all his current symptoms.
 
sameervermani last decade
Okay, I will try to describe the way he behaves right now..

-my main concern right now is that he is often irritated, frustrated and yells at us
-when reprimanding he cries easily
-long time since bedwetting
-catches cold easily when weather is windy, rainy
-Watches especially his brother trying to catch him doing something wrong, like eating candy...and gossips
-is a observing child, meaning he notices everything that happens but stays aside watching, is a child that you don´t notice in a group...quiet, calm...
-yesterday he was sad because his teacher doesn´t see when he wants to say something in the classroom...you just don´t see him...the other children may cry out loud wanting something but John waits and waits...
-has opened up a little and told me about some stuff bothering him in school..
-is quite shy with strangers, answers questions but with a low voice
-is very talkative when alone with him, but not in a group...or with his elder brother - he always talks:)

This is very difficult to find any more sumptoms Sameer. My main concern is his mental condition. I can sense that he is not in balance and that he is not happy, unsatisfied...Very angry with me, doesn´t respond affection or show so much of it...I know that he does this when in balance...

Regards Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
A new cold virus started today so that´s why he has been so moody the last days..
Runny watery nose..sneezing...again
Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
So, tell me does he have a tendency to be bossy with people ?

Do you know, what has started all this ? Any life event ?
 
sameervermani last decade
well, I don´t think he is bossy...(that´s more his older brother), he can be very stubborn when in bad mood, you can´t talk him out of it if he has decided to be anti...but if you just let him be alone he will forget it in time (although not so fast)...he is upset with children in school who steels toys, or behaves badly in some way, if he is angry with someone you can never make him to see it another way...very stubborn...
-he dislikes when I talk about him with anyone, always has that. doesn´t want me to talk to the teacher about him for example...
-the events that I can think of is that he had this earinfection when he was 7 months old and the asthma, milkallergy and frequent colds started after this...
-then I also know that he is very deep affected by the conflicts with his brother...I think this is the big issue...
-I have also one incident, that I have a guilty conscious of, it´s when he was about 2 years old and I got very angry with him for something and he was soo upset that he urinated in his pants...(sometimes I think that´s the situation where the bedwetting come from)
-at home he always comment what Felix do and say and that annoys Felix very much, he almost watch him and sees if he behaves well and then comes to me and tell...
Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
And, he is very sensitive to reprimand ?

Can he think he was insulted where no insult was actually meant ?

A harsh tone of voice can make him think you are trying to insult him ?

Is honour and dignity a big issue with him ?
 
sameervermani last decade

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