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But he cry sometimes when angry also...mixed angry and sad...often it´s about his big brother...he is very mad with him...he says things like he want to die or today when he was angry with me cause he couldn´t get candy he sais that he sould move away from us..
 
Tintintin last decade
Let us list the symptoms again.
 
sameervermani last decade
-introvert, seldom tells how he feels, but if you really talk to him and ask many questions he starts to cry and then he really talks about how hurt he has been many times by his brother...you understand that he suffers inside and that he carries a lot of sadness...
-doesn´t answer questions, just talks about what is on his mind
-refuse to do what we tell him, like go to bed, he just doesn´t answer, continues doing what he is doing...
-'emotional breaks down' several times a day, angry, frustrated and often cries also
- is not happy, seems almost depressed sometimes
-wants consolation but never asks for it...but as we know it we give him anyway and then he likes it...but first he can deny it...
-very sensitive to reprimand, he reacts with a hard tough attitude but you can see that he is deeply hurt, and cries if it´s too harsh...
-tend to blame himself about things that happens, never tells but I can see that he does...
-for example he missed to push the stop button when going by bus....and he gets furious if you try to talk to him about it, he blames himself deeply about the mistake
-quite orderly with his things, doesn´t break things or mess things up, if we ask him to clean his room, no problem!
-always do what the teacher says
-quiet and works well in school
-always behaves well when we do things or visit friends or so, is quiet and don´t ask for much
-shy to adults, don´t answer
-always look down when (other adults)speeks to him
-when in a group, he is quiet, observing
-smart and intelligent, always knows what and how to do in school, never asks the teacher for help
- teacher says he is almost 'invisible'
-loves his cat, is very kind of her
-generally a very sweet child
-can be obstinate when in bad mood, for example if he has nothing to do and wants do sit by the computer or TV he can go on and on for some hours nagging about it...
-worse in the afternoons
-has a strong need for affection
-desire for sweets
-often hard to fall asleep
-looks thin, pale and weak
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Sameer,

Yesterday afternoon and this morning he is actually in a very good and happy mood. Maybe we should give it another week to see if it lasts...

He had a dose on saturday and sunday was a bad day...

Perhaps only one drop next time would be better (I gave 3 drops).

thankyou Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, let us wait and watch then.

You are becoming a homeopath yourself by handling so many patients ;)
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Sameer,

Yes, it´s working now...he has been happy until thursday so I gave him one drop on friday and after that he is happy and satisfied again...Such a relief for him!

Thankyou Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Sameer,


The happiness did not last long (2 days. He got one more dose on friday 21 may but no improvement.

He is quite weepy and irritated. Answers with an irritated voice when spoken to...Complaines over different pains, mostly the stomach...Seems like he always has something that he is unhappy with. A common theme is his brother, how he has been mean to him many times.

Best wishes Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Bumping up
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Pia,

Give him Natrum Mur 30c, 3 doses.
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Sameer,

The nat mur didn´t work well. He is frustrated, irritated and angry often. He answers very irritated if answering at all. He complaines over everything and is not happy at all. He makes up sad stories how he has been bad treated and tells them weeping. Also stomachpain.

Best wishes Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Sameer,

He is now in a rather bad state. He is angry, irritated and frustrated most of the day to us. But when he plays with his friends he is alright.

He doesn´t answer when spoken to and when he answers he yells irritated.

Should I try phopshor again Sameer?

Best wishes Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Sameer,

I have tried Platinum and since it gives good relief I will continue with it every 5-6 day...

Best wishes Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Pia, Sorry I missed your earlier post.

Good job with the Platinum !
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi Sameer,
My son has been taken calc phos the last 4 months up to lm3 and it has helped him a lot. But now it does not help him anymore. His symptoms are:

-very irritated and easily angry
-he raises his voice and yells to us when we speak to him
-seems tired
-quite obstinate but only when discussing, he always follow our rules afterwards.
-likes affection and is warm-hearted in general
-sometimes pain in stomach, when he hasn´t eaten
-difficult to concentrate and focus
-seems unbalanced and unhappy
-is a bit cautious with new things and situations, he refuses new situations strongly
-gets easily distracted
-it is difficult to reach him with communication, he doesn´t listen, his mind seems to be occupied with his own thoughts and it is difficult to get his full attention, you can talk to him but afterwards he hasn´t heard a thing of it...
-he is quite independent
-he sweat easily and it has a strong odor

What do you think Sameer?

Best wishes Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
Above are good general themes, but I need something peculiar to zoom in on the right remedy. Anything else you can tell me about him which would help me understand his condition better ?

How about his generals ? (things that makes him better/worse in general)

Food cravings/aversions ?

Any fears ?

What times and on what body parts does the perspiration happen ?
 
sameervermani last decade
I know Sameer but I have trouble seeing any peculiarity...

-some bashfulness, used to be more but has improved
-consolation and affection ameliorates..but only sometimes, when he is in bad mood he wónt let us be close to him
-I would say that he is yielding and submissive in general but also angry and obstinate
-eating ameliorates..when hungry he is in a terrible mood
-you have to treat him gently otherwise he burst out in an angry manner
-fear of darkness
-perspiration under arms and sometimes in the face
-food cravings are sweat, carbohydrates and also sour food like lemon and limefruit
-he behaves well at school and works at the lessons but he complains that he has trouble to concentrate sometimes, lack of mental focus, easy distracted
-is a friendly boy that most people like, always kind to younger children...they love him
-grind teeth during sleep
-he is sensitive to pain, gets almost hysterical if in pain in any way...and cries and hyperventilates
-may have difficulty falling asleep, sometimes comes to our bed
 
Tintintin last decade
once again
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Pia,

How is his thirst ?
 
sameervermani last decade
He is not especially thirsty, he likes cold drinks...and lemon taste
 
Tintintin last decade
Any particular times of aggravation ? Please mention a time window if there is one.
 
sameervermani last decade
Well, for some months ago I would have said that he is worse in the evenings when tired but nowadays he seems to be irritated and angry when he wakes up in the mornings and the whole day...

I cannot see any timewindow unfortunately...
 
Tintintin last decade
Hi Pia,

Have we ever given him Pulsatilla ?
 
sameervermani last decade
We have tried d30 without any result...but maybe it was too low...because I also see symptoms relating to pulsatilla...
What else could it be?

Best wishes Pia
 
Tintintin last decade
-introvert, seldom tells how he feels, but if you really talk to him and ask many questions he starts to cry and then he really talks about how hurt he has been many times by his brother...you understand that he suffers inside and that he carries a lot of sadness...

Here is lies the crux of the case. So, there is suppressed anger you think ? Explain more.
 
sameervermani last decade
he has changed since that comment Sameer. He is not so introvert anymore and he does not cry anymore when spoken to. He expresses his anger freely now. He gets angry with me when I tell him to do things or when he cannot get things he wants or if I say that he cannot sit by the computer for example...

He can also be quite bossy and commanding both with us and with his friends...but it´s like it´s nothing behind the words, he is quite a mild person and there is no real power...

He is also very stubborn and nags and hassles about things that he wants to buy...he can go on for hours...
 
Tintintin last decade
Okay, please give a dose of Pulsatilla 200c, and report after 10 days.
 
sameervermani last decade

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