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it is a tough question. I love kids and I can make good relationship with them. I would love to have my own child. and even if for some medical reason I can't have one I would like to adopt one. to be honest with you I don't feel that I am not suited for this. the only thing is sometimes I think the age difference between me and my child would be 35 years and that is too much. I mean when he/she gets 20 years old I would be 55 and I don't feel good about this. but what can I do? my only concern is about my husband, I know that he will be a good father in terms of loving his kids, spending time with them, and so on. but I am not sure if he wants to continue this smoking grass thing, would he be able to continue his sane living?
I wish I knew a little bit of future.

if I want to compare myself with my husband I would say my sexual desire is much less than his. I mean he is ready for it anytime, everday. I am not. I am good for a few days after my period and then eventually it becomes less as I get closer to the next menses. so for 8-10 days after period I am good and then after that I don't mind if I don't have intercourse at all (but it is not the case).
but the change is interesting:
I had a very good sexual desire. but because of premature ejaculation problem of my husband most of the time I couldn't get satisfy with our sexual relationship so I guess eventually that made me less interested in sexual stuff. now it is getting better again. I mean I talked to him and it is getting better. but still I am not as active as 4-5 years ago. before I was so axhausted by his sexual demand and now there are days that we don't have intercourse and to me it is good.

any more questions?

I know this has nothing to do with the subject.
is there anything in homeopathy to help me get rid of the puffiness under my eyes?
Thanks

ok, the puffiness is not like those kind of baggy eyes. but instead its kind of spread puffiness. it spreads almost up to my cheek bone. so you would see a line that makes my cheek into 2 parts, upper part and lower part. the line is not very visible though but if you take a close up picture of my face you can see that.
it starts after my marriage, I don't know if it is related to my marriage but it starts 5 years ago. as we moved to canada it gets worse. now it is not as bad as before but still there and I don't like it at all.
usually it is worse in the morning, or maybe it would be more accurate if I say after sleeping. I changed my pillow 200 times. any kind of pillow that is exist on earth I have tried. the only thing was without pillow it gets worse. another time that it gets worse is after intercourse!!! I mean it will get worse sepcially in no-orgasm situations. if eat something salty at night again it will be worse in the morning. when I am tired again it gets worse. I don't remember anything else for now.
Thank you

Dear John,
Is everything allright? I haven't heard back from you. I already explained everything about the puffiness.
Best,
Phosphor

Great;)
Thanks a lot.

Hello Dear John,
Hope you are doing great. I was away during the past week for a conference so I couldn't get back to you sooner. Last night I took one dose (3 pellets) of Nat mur 30 ch. So far I don't feel any changes, but I will keep you posted.
Regards,
Phosphor

John,
The puffiness looks less than before;)
Should I take one more dose?
Do I need this remedy during the vacation? we will be away from Dec 08 til Jan 10.
Thanks,
Phosphor
P.S. You are amazing.