Chronic Problems and Constitutional

I have chronic anemaia that i get an iron infusion every year for since 2001. I also have a lot of digestive problems that have gotten worse from doing as the doctors have told me. I have now quit listening to them. They found nothing wrong with me to cause the anemia. they treated me for h-pylori and about killed me. I now follow only homeopathy but am not so successful in doing it on my own. I went to a homeopath in Finland when i lived there but there are none here where I live in the USA now. Well maybe I have too many problems to treat but really would like to know my constitutional. In Finland they said it was Sepia but I think now it might have changed.

Can you help me figure it out?
Appearance: Female
Dark brown when yournger /now salt and pepper color.
hazel eyes
over weight but smaller long waistline, shorter legs -do not carry the weight in my middle
pale olive skin
sad look people say.

character:
feel sad a lot
anxiety over what will happen in future or next day
do not like being in a crowd.
sensitivity to the grief or injustice that others suffer
love to read and talk one on one but not in a group
sisters say i was always the quiet one stayed to myself
struggle with inner anger over many things
mild tempered outwardly and patient
like to help people
sometimes jealous and suspicious
after talking with people, other than family, i keep going over and over conversation
very passionate and mood affected easily by music
like thunderstorms and lightening although i get a bit frightened

Health:
trouble sleeping often up 1 -2 hours a night
many digestive problems
muscle pain most of the time -more after activity
heat help the pain
feel cold often and hot often
very dry skin
often itchy very small bumps on skin and itchy scalp
Chronic anemia many tests reveal no reason.
get regular iron infusions.1 every year since 2001
eyelid infection-blepharitis will not clear up-right outer eye corner