Worry, fear, very low pulse rate, tiredness, cannot tolerate spicy food, feels chilly even in slightly cool weather- Help for my mother doctor Sameer _{Page 2 of 9}

Dear Sir,
Kindly read previous 2 posts.

We had called relatives for dinner yesterday. The day before my mother had great anxiety as to how we would manage and that's why on my simple suggestions there was quarrel.
So she has this anxiety (of an upcoming event esp. at home) when we want to call people for dinner.

Surprisingly she is the very lady who used to conduct small parties/dinners at home successfully and out of her own willingness. It seems because of past successes she is concerned of present success.

Kindly advise next step for her.

No.

My posts have been confusing. At specific times she has displayed problems as expected. But otherwise she has been 'okay' if not better. Esp. w.r.t physical symptoms. But mentally not worse.

That's why I feel like giving Nit-ac 200 and observing if it makes observable changes.

She has had lack of thirst in general. She has become thin and surprisingly her back has got bent from mid few years ago as if she was from earlier generations when backs used to get bent on aging.

Her main aim is to make others do things according to her, dominate and nobody should fall ill. Those who do are 'defective' pieces whom she is not much fond of.
(This behavior has brought discipline and benefits when in balance and with healthy state but not these years.)

She has always talked of how he or she is so fit and 'kaatak' (immune) and how the body looks healthy and strong. And the next thing she says or feels is how one or more of us are not fit and healthy.

Sameer ji.
Sorry. My previos post not brief and to the point.

I will do as suggested.

My mother wants all recepies more sweet.
If the 'dal' is even slightly less sweet, she asks for sugar and puts 1/2 a spoon.
If 'Shrikhand' is even slightly sour or juice or even vegetable, she takes some extra sugar.
She wants very mild drinks. Sour drinks immediately discomfort her throat.
She needs more salt too but avoids it to prevent high BP.

I forgot to tell this. I aksed her how she felt mentally. As usual she wasn't specific. When I forced her to tell if she was better or worse, she replied 'better'.

So I will go for Nit Acid 200.

I have given Nitr. Acid 200c one dose to my mother today afternoon. It was Bio-India Pharma (probably collaboration with Bio-Force Switzerland) because Nitr. Acid 200 in Reckeweg was going to come after 2 days.

Dr. Sameer do let me know if there is any problem.

Sameer ji, it is 2 weeks since my mother took Nitr. Acid 200.
I am too tired to write due to so many things but it is not needed also.

In few lines the feedback is that my mother seems to have got benefitted 20-30% overall. One of her main complaints has been fever plus 'sardi' without 'expectorations of any type' AFTER she takes bath with wetting of hair.
She was better in that too.

So I will just say, she is relapsing. We have guests (my sister and her daughters). She has a lot of work load. She did well but she is getting tired again. Wetting of hair is again causing discomfort. She was going to take one Crocin Pain Relief and I have agreed.

My feeling is that benefits are over. She should take, say, Nitr. Acid 1M if I go by your style.

Should I purchase and give her Nitr. Acid 1M? Sameer ji kindly reply urgently.

Dr. Sameer,
Kindly reply. Should I purchase Nitr. Acid 1M?

Little milder relapse mentally but almost full relapse physically, esp. exhaustion. Just an hour ago, her pulse was the same - 36 (per minute).
Actually, till some events happen (and I hope testing times do not come) it is hard to say how much she has improved and how much relapsed as of now.

So, amount of relapse is hard to quantify but that she was definitely better after Nitr, Acid is sure.

(She felt much hungry these days after long time.)

Sorry,.. hard to answer the question.

This 11:40 at night. My mother was just awake for 5 mins. I asked her.
She says-
1. Body ache is the same. Entire body keeps aching.
2. 'Hunger was better, no?' 'Yes, that is there...(improvement in hunger)'
3. 'What about mood, irritation, etc.?' '...Irritation is less....'
(She has gone to sleep again!)

Sameer ji, her own reply will help you.

Dear Sameer ji,
I feel there is further relapse in my mother. She is becoming increasingly tired. I was already wondering if there are more changes and today morning I saw that her usual excitation after getting up is coming back. The way of excitation, speaking, topics...I mean.
I also sensed her worry for money in these 7 days - I may say so....

1. Overall mood is little better.
2. Irritation and anger is still less, not increased but just on the rise.
3. No immediate trouble after bathing with wetting of hair. But earlier she did have after taking Nitric Acid 200. Thereafter it has been very hot summer. So not really tested.
4. Digestion was better but complains again now.
5. Tiredness and body ache is almost back by 80%. Real test will come in cool weather.
6. I measured pulse 3-4 days ago. It seemed to be nearly 40. So I will consider this an improvement provided pulse rate is 40 or more most of the time or permanently. I have seen it go back to 36 in the past.
7. From the medicines kept near her bed I guess she is taking Antax 0.25 mg ON and OFF. Keep aside these 1-2 years. Then she has taken Antax regularly for several years.

I will ask her to stop Antax immediately if she is taking it.

Sameer ji, should we go for Nitric Acid 1M? Kindly advise.

This Digitalis also comes into picture for low pulses (and other things). But I see that it is stressed in Kent that there has to be low pulse rate first and then high. In any case, kindly write a line or two on why you didn't choose Digitalis. Which mentals / physical symps were different?

It is ok mkharpuri.
It is natural to do this.

I have no problems.

Sameerji, I am very hopeful of better progress by Nitric Acid 1M.

But Sir, just a comment or two on Digitalis?

I may say, the effect of previous remedy has died off or saturated.
So what is left is somewhat less intense symptoms.
I am writing because my mother was quite disturbed today. Tense, excited as earlier. So much so that my wife told the same thing in the evening. Even she added that my mother had had indigestion. My mother confirmed this later.
I quickly purchased Nitric Acid 1M.

I may not wait another three days.

Many guests are coming tomorrow for two days. She will have a tough time.

I am likely to give her 1M today itself in few minutes.

Finally I actually did not give the medicine to my mother.
I shall give her on 22nd as decided earlier.

I gave Nitric Acid 1M to my mother on 22nd May.

I was typing this post and power went off. I am now reluctant to type everything again but I will try.

In 2 days there was aggravation. My mother has a habit of discussing on certain topics early morning. That increased. She felt sleepy also and slept more. She was more sensitive and sometimes a little more excited. She cried/wept over small things 2 or 3 times.

She was better with respect to her bath with wetting of hair. Trouble of teeth is in control.

Yesterday she got upset on a trivial issue. I said 'Why did you cook it, my wife would have done it.' My wife too said the same. She felt that I was not going to like that item cooked by her.
Anyway she got upset and wept a little and all that.

My daughter was ill with fever, so that was a test of my mother. She got worried and anxious and did and said things as expected. But nothing too much.
(Of course, we had to face exactly the same problem as earlier that my father not only took her to allopath nearby but also gave her antibiotics. This was due to the combined view of my mother-father. Later we did take her to her homeopath.)


But all in all I think she has been ok. I think let us keep observing. I think improvement is happening.

Sameer ji, I have managed to write here even as I am facing troubles as mentioned in my case. This is to keep you updated.

Had it not been for my mother I would already have gone for endoscopy due to my trouble. But as I have said elsewhere, all her progress will reverse if she finds that I am ill.

My mother is ok. She has benefitted from the remedy.
Her vitality was better even though her low pulse used to put me in great stress.

My father's case is more tough.

My mother's pulse seems to have very slight improvement. Maybe it is 39 now. When I measure it seems to be between 39 and 42.

I will wait a little more.

'I will wait a little more' was not with respect to pulse only. It was a general remark.

Dear Sameer ji,
My mother was finally very worried about my interview, her travel later and all. She cried (wept) a lot in afternoon. Then normally there are unwanted discussions and arguments amongst us due to each others' worries (mother, father and me, my wife, daughter are already out of city). This further worsened the situation. I could not help much.
Now:
1. Mother has been anxious/worried throughout the afternoon and evening and has gone to sleep in same mood.
2. My father too was affected much due to the drama even though he is not the kind to get affected by career things. So has started to have gases as usual. He has constantly has burping / belching /eructation. (I hope I had not used incorrect English word all these days for 'dakaar'.)
3. I had started to come out of anxiety through afternoon and by evening. I was feeling a bit better. But it was undone to an extent due to the worries and associated discussions of each other again when my parents returned home after having gone out for sometime.

Kindly note how health of all of us are connected to each other.

My mother's benefits from Nitric Acid were getting died out slightly. But today's unnecessary things that always come by our luck have spoilt here vibrations and seem to have undone some effect of Nitric Acid. This should not have happened.

Anyway Sameer ji, kindly let me know if I need to procure any medicine for my mother and father.

As explained in my previous post most of the time our family lives in fear. We are quite anxious, worried and if I may say, at times terrified (about any future event). If there is any disturbance of health, just do not ask how the ambience of our house becomes bad.

Several years have passed after my surgery but we all have forgotten to live fearlessly and freely.

Even if my deepest layer is Lach or Sulph or whatever, the stronger layer is very likely 'fear and anxiety' and I can gain health only after this layer of fear and anxiety is removed. I am as much worried about my health in changing conditions as I am about any exam, interview or performance. It may seem that 'performance' makes me worried but all this is 'in the light of worry of my health and capacity/energy' after my surgery.
Had surgery and other events not come in, I would still be anxious about performancees but I would normally handle it as I had been doing earlier.

My father too has got frightened after his heart troubles and bypass surgery.

Due to all this fears have settled in my mother too but without blaming my mother I wish to add that she herself has also been the cause of our fears to an extent due to her expectations from us and her running away from sickness.

Dr Sameer please read the previous and this post fully.