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Worry, fear, very low pulse rate, tiredness, cannot tolerate spicy food, feels chilly even in slightly cool weather- Help for my mother doctor Sameer Page 6 of 9
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Too much work again so could not post.
Sameer Sir, we had not reached Ars. Alb. LM1. I do not have it.
What should I procure?
Ars. Alb. LM1 and LM2 both?
Please confirm early.
Sameer Sir, we had not reached Ars. Alb. LM1. I do not have it.
What should I procure?
Ars. Alb. LM1 and LM2 both?
Please confirm early.
arb_all last decade
I could order Ars. today only. I am unable to manage things.
Yesterday I was at home to take rest. Due to license work, I had a hard time outside and could not take rest. Even my slight complaint about loss of time and effort and inability to take rest disturbed my mother. She immediately started saying many things, got anxious and started weeping.
I cannot tolerate her weeping esp. for highly unjustified reasona, so there was short exchange of words. I expressed my high displeasure.
This interaction between us does not allow both of us to get well. That is why both cases are put in same hands.
Her high concern and anxiety has caused her not to allow me to do whatever I wish. As explained earlier, she has been even anxious about my office leave lest I may lose 'something' in my safe job. She doesn't feel free in context of my health. She has tried to change and has changed a bit in 10-15 years but deep inside things have changed little.
I had written to a webmaster homeopath earlier about us. He commented that my mother could not be fully cured unless I was cured. Perhaps he was correct but it seems that 'I' cannot get cured unless I get a minimum threshold support from my mother for which she must have minimum threshold health.
I will inform here when I get Ars. Alb.
Yesterday I was at home to take rest. Due to license work, I had a hard time outside and could not take rest. Even my slight complaint about loss of time and effort and inability to take rest disturbed my mother. She immediately started saying many things, got anxious and started weeping.
I cannot tolerate her weeping esp. for highly unjustified reasona, so there was short exchange of words. I expressed my high displeasure.
This interaction between us does not allow both of us to get well. That is why both cases are put in same hands.
Her high concern and anxiety has caused her not to allow me to do whatever I wish. As explained earlier, she has been even anxious about my office leave lest I may lose 'something' in my safe job. She doesn't feel free in context of my health. She has tried to change and has changed a bit in 10-15 years but deep inside things have changed little.
I had written to a webmaster homeopath earlier about us. He commented that my mother could not be fully cured unless I was cured. Perhaps he was correct but it seems that 'I' cannot get cured unless I get a minimum threshold support from my mother for which she must have minimum threshold health.
I will inform here when I get Ars. Alb.
arb_all last decade
Sometimes after displeasing incidents when things are settled, she appears better. This is typical as seem from homeopathic view point. Problem followed by a fight against it and then better.
Actually she tries to give all her support but it seems that on key points (imp or unimp) she is unable to let things free.
Actually she tries to give all her support but it seems that on key points (imp or unimp) she is unable to let things free.
arb_all last decade
arb_all last decade
given ars. lm1 to mother at ~ 6 am on 10/12/2010. 3 drops in 250 ml, 1 sp.
arb_all last decade
Day before yesterday my mother told that she was feeling good when I asked her how was she feeling, esp. mentally.
Sameer Sir, should I repeat Ars. LM1 ?
Sameer Sir, should I repeat Ars. LM1 ?
arb_all last decade
Given Ars. Alb. LM1 at 06:50 am with 10 hits (3 drops in 250 ml, one spoon).
It is clear that there was aggravation very soon. It started around 10 am and I saw it increased by 12:30 pm. My mother uttered some complaints and even cried/weeped a little. So, by 'aggravations' I mean aggravations of those symptoms that are typical of her, not any symptoms.
Now I am more hopeful of Ars. Alb. for mother.
Aggravations (due to similar remedy) whatever the potency are normally very quick. That is my feeling by my experience.
Let us see how things go.
It is clear that there was aggravation very soon. It started around 10 am and I saw it increased by 12:30 pm. My mother uttered some complaints and even cried/weeped a little. So, by 'aggravations' I mean aggravations of those symptoms that are typical of her, not any symptoms.
Now I am more hopeful of Ars. Alb. for mother.
Aggravations (due to similar remedy) whatever the potency are normally very quick. That is my feeling by my experience.
Let us see how things go.
arb_all last decade
My mother was highly disturbed by my problems.
She said she would get highly worried and anxious. As usual she wept and all of us even sat down for sometime to discuss a possible (job) change.
Finally things settled a bit as usual. For a change parents went to pilgrim 100 km away with my sister. Hopefully they got relaxed even if only a bit.
Mother had indigestion and fever since day before. Yesterday she told me of aching around navel after trip and outside food.
So I gave her next dose of Ars. Alb. LM1 after 10 hits at about 5 pm. I didn't consult you Sameer Sir since you are normally not available on forum that time. I hope it was correct to give next dose. She appears slightly better today.
But overall (in the past few months) it is very hard to say if she is (mentally) better or not better. Just cannot say at the moment.
Please comment.
She said she would get highly worried and anxious. As usual she wept and all of us even sat down for sometime to discuss a possible (job) change.
Finally things settled a bit as usual. For a change parents went to pilgrim 100 km away with my sister. Hopefully they got relaxed even if only a bit.
Mother had indigestion and fever since day before. Yesterday she told me of aching around navel after trip and outside food.
So I gave her next dose of Ars. Alb. LM1 after 10 hits at about 5 pm. I didn't consult you Sameer Sir since you are normally not available on forum that time. I hope it was correct to give next dose. She appears slightly better today.
But overall (in the past few months) it is very hard to say if she is (mentally) better or not better. Just cannot say at the moment.
Please comment.
arb_all last decade
I had given her Crocin Pain Relief day before yesterday. Also I am allowing her any antacid (Gelusil, etc.) which she may prefer.
arb_all last decade
Sameer Sir,
Nearly 2 days after LM1. I hope I did right.
(Long term thoughts)
Sometimes, it appears there is a change in her. Other times she still gets worried and all that.
Very very hard to tell of any improvement/changes as I said previously. There may be.
If no comments from you I shall report after 3-5 days.
Nearly 2 days after LM1. I hope I did right.
(Long term thoughts)
Sometimes, it appears there is a change in her. Other times she still gets worried and all that.
Very very hard to tell of any improvement/changes as I said previously. There may be.
If no comments from you I shall report after 3-5 days.
arb_all last decade
sameervermani last decade
Sorry, I wasn't well first. Then even before I could understand I got lost in 10-12 hour office work for 3 days.
1. I think my mother is quite worried about opinion of other people. I have generally explained this to homeopaths. When father or me used to be ill, she would be more worried about what people might say if she didn't do her duties (which she didn't want to since she would get worried/anxious and feel upset and helpless). She would say, 'Can I not go out and enjoy now...what ill people/society say...?'
2. She had usual sense of comparison/jealousy/envy when she was young. But not specifically. Rather she learnt all these years during times of illnesses that one should not boast too much. She has compared and complained about how other families have enjoyed health, etc. but I think, 'envy' is not the right word for her feelings. She has rather been (highly) tolerating envy of other relatives silently.
Sameer Sir, let me know if I need to ask any thing to my mother.
1. I think my mother is quite worried about opinion of other people. I have generally explained this to homeopaths. When father or me used to be ill, she would be more worried about what people might say if she didn't do her duties (which she didn't want to since she would get worried/anxious and feel upset and helpless). She would say, 'Can I not go out and enjoy now...what ill people/society say...?'
2. She had usual sense of comparison/jealousy/envy when she was young. But not specifically. Rather she learnt all these years during times of illnesses that one should not boast too much. She has compared and complained about how other families have enjoyed health, etc. but I think, 'envy' is not the right word for her feelings. She has rather been (highly) tolerating envy of other relatives silently.
Sameer Sir, let me know if I need to ask any thing to my mother.
arb_all last decade
Sameer Sir,
Happy New Year. Many Thanks for handling cases of my parents.
Please reply on my post.
I will add that my mother gets very very upset if we happen to say something to her suddenly.
Suppose I suddenly say something w.r.t. electrical appliance for safety, her face would drop immediately and she would get very upset and even about to cry.
Please tell next step.
Happy New Year. Many Thanks for handling cases of my parents.
Please reply on my post.
I will add that my mother gets very very upset if we happen to say something to her suddenly.
Suppose I suddenly say something w.r.t. electrical appliance for safety, her face would drop immediately and she would get very upset and even about to cry.
Please tell next step.
arb_all last decade
I repeat this imp thing as winter has set in.
My mother keeps sitting in front of heater. Then of course she doesn't like to move away. Late morning to noon, she keeps sitting in the sun. She will even sleep on 'chataai' in sun for few minutes.
Considering other factors (age, strong winter, etc.) her need for heat seems a little too much (as usual).
Mentally she seems okay but condition dependent. I think Ars. was good to handle a layer (of fear) but not full similimum.
Next step as you suggest.
My mother keeps sitting in front of heater. Then of course she doesn't like to move away. Late morning to noon, she keeps sitting in the sun. She will even sleep on 'chataai' in sun for few minutes.
Considering other factors (age, strong winter, etc.) her need for heat seems a little too much (as usual).
Mentally she seems okay but condition dependent. I think Ars. was good to handle a layer (of fear) but not full similimum.
Next step as you suggest.
arb_all last decade
Sameer Sir, I hope you are working on this case.
One very imp point to add:
Whenever my mother goes out for any purpose, say shopping or listening to spiritual discourse or any type of outing she comes back very tired and immediately needs help like somebody should pick up her bag, pay rickshaw-wala, make space for her, give her something to eat just in case she is hungry.
She needs desperate help. It may be surprising to others who do not know how much bewildered and tired/exhausted she is.
This is very characteristic of her and is going on for years together.
About recent winter, I might have exaggerated my mother's reaction. Actually the weather has been too cold in the past 5-7 days. Everybody of all ages has found difficult to tolerate winter. So her feeling too cold is somewhat expected.
Finally, today she isn't feeling well. In morning my wife said jokingly that my mother is (most) annoyed (by the recent school decision), then me and then others. She didn't like it. (My wife's joke too wasn't appropriate). This time at night she says she has caught cold, ENT.
Sameer Sir, kindly tell next step.
One very imp point to add:
Whenever my mother goes out for any purpose, say shopping or listening to spiritual discourse or any type of outing she comes back very tired and immediately needs help like somebody should pick up her bag, pay rickshaw-wala, make space for her, give her something to eat just in case she is hungry.
She needs desperate help. It may be surprising to others who do not know how much bewildered and tired/exhausted she is.
This is very characteristic of her and is going on for years together.
About recent winter, I might have exaggerated my mother's reaction. Actually the weather has been too cold in the past 5-7 days. Everybody of all ages has found difficult to tolerate winter. So her feeling too cold is somewhat expected.
Finally, today she isn't feeling well. In morning my wife said jokingly that my mother is (most) annoyed (by the recent school decision), then me and then others. She didn't like it. (My wife's joke too wasn't appropriate). This time at night she says she has caught cold, ENT.
Sameer Sir, kindly tell next step.
arb_all last decade
arb_all last decade
Her acute problem is okay. I didn't try to find out what allopathy she took.
Sameer Sir, it is 4 doses of Ars. LM1 till now in a month. What next?
Sameer Sir, it is 4 doses of Ars. LM1 till now in a month. What next?
arb_all last decade
Mother doesn't look so excited as earlier. Maybe we can carefully go for Ars. LM2..?
arb_all last decade
You can go to Ars LM2.
sameervermani last decade
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