Porn-induced erectile dysfunction [HELP]

Newly married, virgin before marriage.

Age - 29
Height - 165 cm
Weight - 53 kg

Never smoked, never drank alcohol or took illegal drugs for pleasure.


I'm watching porn and doing masturbating since last 12-13 years. Minimum once every week to maximum every day.

While watching porn, my penis becomes rock hard but with my wife, it takes a lot of time to get hard (even after a lot of foreplay), that too not a good one. And goes soft within a few seconds or as soon as I put a condom. So stopped using a condom now. Handjob by wife have nearly no effect on my penis. I do not feel any sensation while my wife is giving me a blowjob, only near the penis top I feel something.

I've stopped watching porn and stopped masturbating also since last 8 months.

Never had sex before marriage. I had strong desire for sex before marriage time, but after trying for first time, I feel like I have lost my desire completely. Marriage was 7/8 months ago. Now I feel excited about sex and all, but still not much once naked.


Till 5 months into the marriage, I was getting erections, some of the times - not always, good enough for penetration but ejaculated within 30 seconds or the penis got relaxed within a minute if not touched/excited etc. I had to take out my penis from the vagina if I wanted to not ejaculate and wait for 10 seconds and then tried again. Repeated this 3-4 times in a single session before ejaculating prematurely.


Now from last 1-2 months, I am not even getting hard enough to penetrate.

Last 3-4 months, I took remedies from a homeopathic doctor nearby. He gave me patented medicine whole time along with some mother tinctures which he kept on changing - Damiaplant (for 3-4 months) + R 41 (last 2 months) + Acid Phos Q (fist 30-40 days) + Tribulus Tettris Q (last 30 days) + Lycopodium 1M (2 times with a gap of 2+ weeks) + many other mother tinctures and globules which he didn't tell me their names. He charged 300 rupees for medicines which costed less than 150 MRP. I have lost faith in him because now I'm not even getting hard enough for penetration.

He advised me several tests - CBC, Lipid, RBS, Urine routine, Vit D & Vit B12, ECG, TMT & Echo-cardiography, Thyroid, testosterone, semen analysis.

All came normal except Vit D & Vit B12 for which he gave me corresponding vitamin tablets (again overcharged) 2.5 months back. Felt a lot better mentally & physically after taking those for 15-20 days. Earlier I used to feel exhausted after evening even if I sat in the office for whole day, not now.

I tried to discuss him with many times that porn + masturbation has altered the chemicals in my brain and that is primarily causing the ED but he suggested to 'try' sex with wife every day or every other day at the minimum.

Let me tell you about my mental state. I feel excited when I wake up with a feeling that today is a new day and I will do something worthwhile today. Then even after writing a to-do list, I do non-essential things like browsing internet and all. Back in my mind, I get this vibe that I have whole day to do whatever I have planned today. So this "do-later-I-have-time" attitude wastes my entire morning. Then comes afternoon. I try my hand at some of the things in my to-do list. Complete just 1 task and then relax till evening. Also, I start getting restless from the mind - even when I have a to-do list, I can't seem to know what to do, where to begin etc. From evening, my brain gets into the actual mode and I start working and complete 2-3 work. Then if I have any pending work and more than 30 minutes to sleep, I tell myself "Will do it tomorrow" and this process repeats. And then I often think about how I wasted my time.

I'm an introvert and prefer to be left alone. Do not want to talk to anyone unless necessary.

I get distracted easily, even by slight noise. I constantly think of what other people talk/think about me. Due to a lot of failures in my life, I often think negatively. However, I still get myself into a positive state the next morning.

I get irked if someone interrupts me in the middle of a work. I'm out of a regular job so I have this constant feeling of what will happen next month. How will I get my next client or a regular stream of income etc.

Physically, I'm healthy but my weight never crossed 55 kg. If I eat outside or take a heavy meal with lots of spices, oils etc, I get a huge load of poop the next morning. Normally, I have some kind of constipation - I get the poop feeling near 11 am, not when I wake up and drink lots of water.

I'm a vegetarian.

Please suggest a homeopathic remedy along with doses & time period. Thanks.


Please note that I do not worry about ED or PE as I know these will be cured with homeopathy and also because I have stopped watching porn & stopped masturbating.
[Edited by ahomeoguy on 2019-12-15 17:07:29]