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Urgent help for lack of confidence
I am 31 year old. I have to attend classes, teach classes, give presentations, attend meetings and report to seniors as a part of my job.I feel extreme lack of confidence during briefing or discussion. I starrar (stammar) during my speaking. And uncontrolled pauses occur during stammar. Can't talk smoothly.
Next a training session is coming in which i have to speak on stage multiples times. I am very worry and getting inferior complex.
In short i can't talk in a group of people, either new people or old ones, with females, in front of people who are in authority, during such discussions which go in anger, during a demanding situation ih which i have to tell something like a normal introduction can't tell my name. Plz help. I have taken three years allopathic medicines. During medicine i remain bit ok but after medicine worst symptoms occur. Please help
alik on 2021-03-02
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FIRST FEEDBACK AFTER 7 DAYS.
NUX VOM 200
15 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HR BEFORE DINNER. FOR THREE DAYS
DAY 4 ONWARDS
GELSEMIUM 30.
Dose five (5) drops/pellets , taken at the same time 3 Times daily.
Take the remedies until symptoms are improved.
Keep all doses 30 minutes before or after food, drink and teeth brushing.
IN ADDITION SILICEA 6X AND NAT MUR 6X FIVE TABS OF EACH THREE TIMES A DAY FROM DAY 1.
NOTE
The Success of the prescription depends largely upon your ability to describe your symptoms. Let modesty not prevent a full statement.
While taking medicines the use common sense in diet avoid everything you know to be hurtful, or doubtful.
To accomplish desirable results every case must be individualized, every symptom from head to feet, must be given, every variations from positive health must be known.
WHATEVER IS NOT AS IT SHOULD BE IS A SYMPTOM AND MUST BE RECORDED.
FOR FAQs visit u/m site
https://www.theaahp.org/consumer-informa...
Dreams are an expression of the unconscious and of our personality. They are therefore of great significance for remedy selection in homeopathy.For more about dreams visit u/m site.
https://www.homeopathy360.com/2017/01/17...
NUX VOM 200
15 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HR BEFORE DINNER. FOR THREE DAYS
DAY 4 ONWARDS
GELSEMIUM 30.
Dose five (5) drops/pellets , taken at the same time 3 Times daily.
Take the remedies until symptoms are improved.
Keep all doses 30 minutes before or after food, drink and teeth brushing.
IN ADDITION SILICEA 6X AND NAT MUR 6X FIVE TABS OF EACH THREE TIMES A DAY FROM DAY 1.
NOTE
The Success of the prescription depends largely upon your ability to describe your symptoms. Let modesty not prevent a full statement.
While taking medicines the use common sense in diet avoid everything you know to be hurtful, or doubtful.
To accomplish desirable results every case must be individualized, every symptom from head to feet, must be given, every variations from positive health must be known.
WHATEVER IS NOT AS IT SHOULD BE IS A SYMPTOM AND MUST BE RECORDED.
FOR FAQs visit u/m site
https://www.theaahp.org/consumer-informa...
Dreams are an expression of the unconscious and of our personality. They are therefore of great significance for remedy selection in homeopathy.For more about dreams visit u/m site.
https://www.homeopathy360.com/2017/01/17...
♡ anuj srivastava 3 years ago
Thank you very much for your kind response.
I start meducine and give you feedback.
You told Kali Phos 6x for depression and bach flower remedy. Should i also use it? Or just latest prescription of today ?
Although I have little bit depression (felt it by my laziness, lethargic, not willing to do any work, lack of interest) but I feel my problem of lacking self confidence more than depression.
I start meducine and give you feedback.
You told Kali Phos 6x for depression and bach flower remedy. Should i also use it? Or just latest prescription of today ?
Although I have little bit depression (felt it by my laziness, lethargic, not willing to do any work, lack of interest) but I feel my problem of lacking self confidence more than depression.
alik 3 years ago
♡ anuj srivastava 3 years ago
Hello.
I hope you are doing well!
Due to unavailability of medicines, i had started yesterday. Kindly change gelsemium and Nux Vom to tabular form either to low potency. Liquid form contains alcohol, although it is used for perseverance but my religion doesn't allow me to use and I have confirmed it from religious experts. I hope you will understand and will suggest tablet form.
Started using remaining (Silicea 6x, Nat Mur 6x).
The purpose for which I want to use medicine is a just ahead by the next week. I was thinking of it in October having sufficient time to cure but today received orders of course (It is a refresher training course of 30 days in which I have to speak on stage in front of huge audience few of them i don't know. I can't speak on stage and perform verbal task. Everyday I will have to speak and introduce about myself to new trainners/speakers).
Most interestingly, I can't introduce myself. I can't tell even my name. When someone point out me or on my turn in a group to introduce myself, I can't tell my name. At that moment, my mind gets block and whole body, soul and mind unanimously try to pronounce few words i.e, my name but it really becomes challenging. All audience surprise and comment whether I forgot my name or there is other problem. Due to focus of audience, situation becomes really tough. All my struggle is to tell my name and get rid of this introduction. I never ask a Question in my whole life in class or in a group as I want but couldn't. I avoid such meetings, presentations in which i have to participate for introduction.
I think of the situation in imagination to get confidence but at same time, get panic, face blushed, fast heartbeat and my belly penetrate more inside. I tried to remain cool, calm. Prevent myself to think but in actual situation, all went wrong. This limiting my life, career, self esteem and bringing inferior complex for me.
You advised to tell any little and single symptom so I told in detail.
I hope you will help me. Thanks a lot for your precious time.
[Edited by alik on 2021-03-08 15:55:52]
I hope you are doing well!
Due to unavailability of medicines, i had started yesterday. Kindly change gelsemium and Nux Vom to tabular form either to low potency. Liquid form contains alcohol, although it is used for perseverance but my religion doesn't allow me to use and I have confirmed it from religious experts. I hope you will understand and will suggest tablet form.
Started using remaining (Silicea 6x, Nat Mur 6x).
The purpose for which I want to use medicine is a just ahead by the next week. I was thinking of it in October having sufficient time to cure but today received orders of course (It is a refresher training course of 30 days in which I have to speak on stage in front of huge audience few of them i don't know. I can't speak on stage and perform verbal task. Everyday I will have to speak and introduce about myself to new trainners/speakers).
Most interestingly, I can't introduce myself. I can't tell even my name. When someone point out me or on my turn in a group to introduce myself, I can't tell my name. At that moment, my mind gets block and whole body, soul and mind unanimously try to pronounce few words i.e, my name but it really becomes challenging. All audience surprise and comment whether I forgot my name or there is other problem. Due to focus of audience, situation becomes really tough. All my struggle is to tell my name and get rid of this introduction. I never ask a Question in my whole life in class or in a group as I want but couldn't. I avoid such meetings, presentations in which i have to participate for introduction.
I think of the situation in imagination to get confidence but at same time, get panic, face blushed, fast heartbeat and my belly penetrate more inside. I tried to remain cool, calm. Prevent myself to think but in actual situation, all went wrong. This limiting my life, career, self esteem and bringing inferior complex for me.
You advised to tell any little and single symptom so I told in detail.
I hope you will help me. Thanks a lot for your precious time.
[Edited by alik on 2021-03-08 15:55:52]
alik 3 years ago
Feedback after 8 days
Took Nat Mur 6x and Silicea 6x 5 tabs thrice a day with best possible care.
Did not find gelsemium tab in any potency. So didn't use Gelsemium and Nux Vom.
No visible symptoms or side effects were observed except extreme pain in teeth, constipation and excessive night fall. I don't believe that these are associated with homeopathy medicines.
Improvement:
1) Able to talk with people. Heart beat is comparatively less during talk.
2) Able to tell my name. Problem occur but less stammar.
3) I have assigned tasks to myself to talk a bit to authority figures and I am 60% successful.
4) my course was cancelled due to Covid and will help in May.
Overall I have seen 25% Improvement.
When someone not fulfils my geniune expectations like asked for a leave, I mentally prepared for a war in imaginations. I have a repetitive thought cylce of harsh exchange of sentences in my imaginations/mind and i jumped to extreme end *( misbehave, quite a relation, leave home, resign a job)
I have anslyed that i didn't have practice of stress situation that's why got anger. I did not have practice of exchanging debate in tough situations.
It can only be developed with a medicine and with practice. Do u agree with that?
I have heard Lycoppdium and Kali Phos also works in lack of self confidence.
Do u suggest?
Took Nat Mur 6x and Silicea 6x 5 tabs thrice a day with best possible care.
Did not find gelsemium tab in any potency. So didn't use Gelsemium and Nux Vom.
No visible symptoms or side effects were observed except extreme pain in teeth, constipation and excessive night fall. I don't believe that these are associated with homeopathy medicines.
Improvement:
1) Able to talk with people. Heart beat is comparatively less during talk.
2) Able to tell my name. Problem occur but less stammar.
3) I have assigned tasks to myself to talk a bit to authority figures and I am 60% successful.
4) my course was cancelled due to Covid and will help in May.
Overall I have seen 25% Improvement.
When someone not fulfils my geniune expectations like asked for a leave, I mentally prepared for a war in imaginations. I have a repetitive thought cylce of harsh exchange of sentences in my imaginations/mind and i jumped to extreme end *( misbehave, quite a relation, leave home, resign a job)
I have anslyed that i didn't have practice of stress situation that's why got anger. I did not have practice of exchanging debate in tough situations.
It can only be developed with a medicine and with practice. Do u agree with that?
I have heard Lycoppdium and Kali Phos also works in lack of self confidence.
Do u suggest?
alik 3 years ago
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