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hi!,
I am a professional Homeopath.No doubt your case is being handled by competent homeopaths.Here, i am writing from the perpective of your husband to try to select the best homeopathic remedy for him with a hope to help to mitigate the misseries being faced as a family.
It is really a classic case, so far as the disposition of your hubby is concerned.Your's is a situational case purely impinged on due to apathy of your husband not only towards you but towards himself also.Through narration of the whole scenario you have spoken volumes about his temperament,attitudes and being indifferent to his surroundings and marital responsibilities.All this at his part must be attributable to something,may be in his childhood days.Can you throw some light as to how he spent his childhood,how was the temperament of his mom and dad,were the parents quarreling between themselves.Were there any problems with him at his school or college level?If you can tell any negative happening or happenings in his life because no effect is without any cause and Homeopathic medicines are selected while addressing the reasons or causative factors.
Withregards,
Ram saini(Professional Homeopath)
I am a professional Homeopath.No doubt your case is being handled by competent homeopaths.Here, i am writing from the perpective of your husband to try to select the best homeopathic remedy for him with a hope to help to mitigate the misseries being faced as a family.
It is really a classic case, so far as the disposition of your hubby is concerned.Your's is a situational case purely impinged on due to apathy of your husband not only towards you but towards himself also.Through narration of the whole scenario you have spoken volumes about his temperament,attitudes and being indifferent to his surroundings and marital responsibilities.All this at his part must be attributable to something,may be in his childhood days.Can you throw some light as to how he spent his childhood,how was the temperament of his mom and dad,were the parents quarreling between themselves.Were there any problems with him at his school or college level?If you can tell any negative happening or happenings in his life because no effect is without any cause and Homeopathic medicines are selected while addressing the reasons or causative factors.
Withregards,
Ram saini(Professional Homeopath)
sarup last decade
AOA
Sadgirl, do you believe in spiritualism? Many cases that are not cured through medicines are perfectly cured with spiritual treatment that is 'Aayaat from Quran Sharif'. They are called 'Wazeefay'. Also the relationships get better and worse due to some spiritual ailment. Have you tried any of these?
Sadgirl, do you believe in spiritualism? Many cases that are not cured through medicines are perfectly cured with spiritual treatment that is 'Aayaat from Quran Sharif'. They are called 'Wazeefay'. Also the relationships get better and worse due to some spiritual ailment. Have you tried any of these?
medhompath last decade
hi!
husband is extremely quiet and never talks about himself. What happened at school and college will never be known. His parents did not have anything in common. She was a good woman. He was a mean man. They argued alot.
My husband was sent away to boarding school when he was 11. And never lived at home after that.
My husband is very good at his work and heads an investment bank. However he is a failure st most if his relationships.
husband is extremely quiet and never talks about himself. What happened at school and college will never be known. His parents did not have anything in common. She was a good woman. He was a mean man. They argued alot.
My husband was sent away to boarding school when he was 11. And never lived at home after that.
My husband is very good at his work and heads an investment bank. However he is a failure st most if his relationships.
sadgirl last decade
Seeing the parents fight all the time, has a very very negative effect on children.
Many of them result decreased desire for sexual relations and dysfunction.
Many remedies are only prescribed to people who pass through this trauma.
His detail must be given in detail.
Many grief remedies such as
Ignatia, Nat Mur, Staph etc
can be chosen on the basis of his detail temperament details.
Many of them result decreased desire for sexual relations and dysfunction.
Many remedies are only prescribed to people who pass through this trauma.
His detail must be given in detail.
Many grief remedies such as
Ignatia, Nat Mur, Staph etc
can be chosen on the basis of his detail temperament details.
gumby last decade
How can he give the forum details when he has never shared his 'details' with me?? Not shared a single personal story or feeling with me in 15 years.
He keeps saying & believing he is truly happy. He does not want to change.
I can offer the answers as best as I know....
He keeps saying & believing he is truly happy. He does not want to change.
I can offer the answers as best as I know....
sadgirl last decade
Are you serious sad girl after all the love for your husbend you sems to intrested in dr rishimba??wow
♡ imran655 last decade
I have come across only two groups of people in this forum.
One group is grieved over their suffering or the suffering of a loved one. They seek the advice of experts kind enough to take their case with no worldy reward in return.
The second group consists of the kind hearted souls that give selflessly to this forum from their time. They put in time, hard work & energy from their minds and their hearts into helping people lead better, healthier & happier lives. May God reward them generously for their kindness. Ameen.
It is therefore unfortunate to see a third kind of entry. Yours. Surfing the forum to seek cheap thrills. None exist here mr imran! Your message is in bad taste! Go elsewhere to look for your 'wow who-is-interested-in-who-connection' and do not try and cheapen this very noble forum!
One group is grieved over their suffering or the suffering of a loved one. They seek the advice of experts kind enough to take their case with no worldy reward in return.
The second group consists of the kind hearted souls that give selflessly to this forum from their time. They put in time, hard work & energy from their minds and their hearts into helping people lead better, healthier & happier lives. May God reward them generously for their kindness. Ameen.
It is therefore unfortunate to see a third kind of entry. Yours. Surfing the forum to seek cheap thrills. None exist here mr imran! Your message is in bad taste! Go elsewhere to look for your 'wow who-is-interested-in-who-connection' and do not try and cheapen this very noble forum!
sadgirl last decade
♡ imran655 last decade
I accept your apolgy.
We are all human. We all make mistakes. It was decent of you to admit to your mistake and apologize.
I too wish you good luck.
We are all human. We all make mistakes. It was decent of you to admit to your mistake and apologize.
I too wish you good luck.
sadgirl last decade
this remedy is for the husband:
mix 10 drops each of yohimbinum Q and agnus cactus Q in some milk or beverage and make the husband drink it.this may act after a long time.
mix 10 drops each of yohimbinum Q and agnus cactus Q in some milk or beverage and make the husband drink it.this may act after a long time.
sorahamsha last decade
Hey....have been out of circulation....but wish to catch up.....
Is dr risimba around??
I need to tell him about the coolest homeopathic doctor my cousin took me to....it was an awesome experience!!
Is dr risimba around??
I need to tell him about the coolest homeopathic doctor my cousin took me to....it was an awesome experience!!
sadgirl last decade
Hi! sad girl,
My querry dated dec 25,2008 are still awaited. My approach to visualize your case is totally from a different perspective being a very professional and deep in my analysis of cases of my patients also. so, please do reply if you need real and true homeopathic help with the proper homeo remedy.
My querry dated dec 25,2008 are still awaited. My approach to visualize your case is totally from a different perspective being a very professional and deep in my analysis of cases of my patients also. so, please do reply if you need real and true homeopathic help with the proper homeo remedy.
sarup last decade
Hi sarup! i replied to you the same day. 2008.12.25.
'Husband is very quiet and never talks about himself.....'
'Husband is very quiet and never talks about himself.....'
sadgirl last decade
Hi! sad girl,
Pl. take one dose of Ammonium-sulphuricum-200 on one single day. The dose is not to be repeated.
Pl. take one dose of Ammonium-sulphuricum-200 on one single day. The dose is not to be repeated.
sarup last decade
Hello dr rishimba....happy to read your reply...feels good to be reconnected to friends again!
I dont want to tire you with details but to cut a long and sad story short....
i could not bare my situation any longer....i left home, my friends helped me restart my new life....within months my entire family had grouped against me....such unfair and cruel pressure....
well, i am back. my husband behaves like it did not matter i left nor that i am back.
it hurts.
i never hated anyone before. but i think there are times when i hate him now.
that hurts too.
i also now know i can never ever leave and must live in this unloving relationship for the rest of my life....
no matter how brave i act....i must confess....every day is hard...very hard....
I dont want to tire you with details but to cut a long and sad story short....
i could not bare my situation any longer....i left home, my friends helped me restart my new life....within months my entire family had grouped against me....such unfair and cruel pressure....
well, i am back. my husband behaves like it did not matter i left nor that i am back.
it hurts.
i never hated anyone before. but i think there are times when i hate him now.
that hurts too.
i also now know i can never ever leave and must live in this unloving relationship for the rest of my life....
no matter how brave i act....i must confess....every day is hard...very hard....
sadgirl last decade
hi sadgirl,
its good to talk to you again but i find myself helpless in reversing the situation you are in.
'..more things are wrought by prayers than the world dreams of and god fulfills himself in many ways otherwise one good custom shall corrupt the world..'
share your feelings at times if it helps to lessen the pain !!
its good to talk to you again but i find myself helpless in reversing the situation you are in.
'..more things are wrought by prayers than the world dreams of and god fulfills himself in many ways otherwise one good custom shall corrupt the world..'
share your feelings at times if it helps to lessen the pain !!
♡ rishimba last decade
Hi sarup.
i just read 'the ammonia clouds' in the materia medica 1. i am impressed by your prescription.
i read up on the prescription not because i doubt it but because one knows oneself best. it is not possible to remember to write down ALL the symptoms. sometimes one forgets or thinks they are not important enough. other times one may not even be aware of some of them. so its good to read up to see if you can assist your dr. then it is up to him to decide.
please see if i am suited better for ammonium carbonicum or ammonium muriaticum (both quite close themselves) I list the reason why.
i dont agree with ammonium sulphuricum because i am not jealous or envious AT ALL. i feel very happy in others happiness and blessings. i also do not have a volcanic temper. when i get angry its for a few minutes and once i have said it i quickly forget.
however like ammonium carb and mur...
i feel trapped.
i feel short on oxygen all the time.
i always have water retention. sometimes i cant wear shoes. cant clench my hands. when i poke my legs above my ankle it indents.
i feel a cloud of disappointment.
i feel pain around the heart or a very heavy heart.
headaches.
i cough for a few minutes in the day and just before sleeping-have always wondered why.
till my 20's i had a fear of someone bad living under my bed! i still have a fear of darkness. its quite severe.
i feel constantly tired, mentally-emotionally-physically.
when i see my husband i feel i am boiling up inside!
i have a fear that some misfortune will take place.
lack of love in my marriage is definately the aetiology.
(the one thing that certainly does not match is bad relations with parents. I love and respect my mom and was totally crazy about my dad)
interestingly, it says ammonium mur patients are more than often diagnosed and given nat mur.
kindly consider this feedback and advice. sarup, thank you for your time and interest.
i just read 'the ammonia clouds' in the materia medica 1. i am impressed by your prescription.
i read up on the prescription not because i doubt it but because one knows oneself best. it is not possible to remember to write down ALL the symptoms. sometimes one forgets or thinks they are not important enough. other times one may not even be aware of some of them. so its good to read up to see if you can assist your dr. then it is up to him to decide.
please see if i am suited better for ammonium carbonicum or ammonium muriaticum (both quite close themselves) I list the reason why.
i dont agree with ammonium sulphuricum because i am not jealous or envious AT ALL. i feel very happy in others happiness and blessings. i also do not have a volcanic temper. when i get angry its for a few minutes and once i have said it i quickly forget.
however like ammonium carb and mur...
i feel trapped.
i feel short on oxygen all the time.
i always have water retention. sometimes i cant wear shoes. cant clench my hands. when i poke my legs above my ankle it indents.
i feel a cloud of disappointment.
i feel pain around the heart or a very heavy heart.
headaches.
i cough for a few minutes in the day and just before sleeping-have always wondered why.
till my 20's i had a fear of someone bad living under my bed! i still have a fear of darkness. its quite severe.
i feel constantly tired, mentally-emotionally-physically.
when i see my husband i feel i am boiling up inside!
i have a fear that some misfortune will take place.
lack of love in my marriage is definately the aetiology.
(the one thing that certainly does not match is bad relations with parents. I love and respect my mom and was totally crazy about my dad)
interestingly, it says ammonium mur patients are more than often diagnosed and given nat mur.
kindly consider this feedback and advice. sarup, thank you for your time and interest.
sadgirl last decade
Hi rishimba.
unfortunately, i dont think anyone in this world can help me change my situation. the ones who can improve it, dont want to! and actually work against it!
but it would be nice if homeopathic medicine can get rid of my fears, my emotional and pysical fatigue, my constant cloud of disappointment, my water retention, help with weight loss etc. and i feel all that will help me minimize my thoughts on my failed marriage and help me become the positive and energetic person i use to be......
unfortunately, i dont think anyone in this world can help me change my situation. the ones who can improve it, dont want to! and actually work against it!
but it would be nice if homeopathic medicine can get rid of my fears, my emotional and pysical fatigue, my constant cloud of disappointment, my water retention, help with weight loss etc. and i feel all that will help me minimize my thoughts on my failed marriage and help me become the positive and energetic person i use to be......
sadgirl last decade
dear sadgirl,
it seems you are close to ammonium mur. infact i diagnosed you as a nat mur patient initially which i feel is still your constitution.
ammonium carb is aggravated by cold which is not the case for you. thus, this cannot be your remedy.
it seems you are close to ammonium mur. infact i diagnosed you as a nat mur patient initially which i feel is still your constitution.
ammonium carb is aggravated by cold which is not the case for you. thus, this cannot be your remedy.
♡ rishimba last decade
HI Sad girl,
There is always a cause behind an effect. Imagine the opposite situation, that is,had your husband been interactive, social,unbounded,vivacious,outgoing,expressive,communicative etc then might be you were not to see this forum. Each salt in a homeopathic compound remedy speaks for areas of problems in that or those relationships. I am a Homeopathic psychiatrist also who deals with problems arising out of relationship not going as per the liking of either party and the mental, emotionl turbulence experienced by the person at the receiving end has to be understood deeply before selecting the appropriate Homeopathic remedy. According to me ammonium- sulph is your remedy, as i am not prescribing it for the first time but in numerous cases in my active Homeopathic practice spanning 36 years, good luck.
There is always a cause behind an effect. Imagine the opposite situation, that is,had your husband been interactive, social,unbounded,vivacious,outgoing,expressive,communicative etc then might be you were not to see this forum. Each salt in a homeopathic compound remedy speaks for areas of problems in that or those relationships. I am a Homeopathic psychiatrist also who deals with problems arising out of relationship not going as per the liking of either party and the mental, emotionl turbulence experienced by the person at the receiving end has to be understood deeply before selecting the appropriate Homeopathic remedy. According to me ammonium- sulph is your remedy, as i am not prescribing it for the first time but in numerous cases in my active Homeopathic practice spanning 36 years, good luck.
sarup last decade
Hi sarup!
if ammonium-sulph is still what you want me to have then i will take it. 200. single doze. few drops in a spoon of water. and will report in a few days.
last 5 years my personality has taken a 180 degree turn. i use to be happy, energetic, positive, never angry or irritated, loved to go out, loved to talk, laughed easily, sound sleep......and now i seldom laugh, always irritated, no energy, negative because brooding, avoid going out, its a big effort to talk, disturbed sleep....
i am desperate to feel and think like the same person i use to be.....
if ammonium-sulph is still what you want me to have then i will take it. 200. single doze. few drops in a spoon of water. and will report in a few days.
last 5 years my personality has taken a 180 degree turn. i use to be happy, energetic, positive, never angry or irritated, loved to go out, loved to talk, laughed easily, sound sleep......and now i seldom laugh, always irritated, no energy, negative because brooding, avoid going out, its a big effort to talk, disturbed sleep....
i am desperate to feel and think like the same person i use to be.....
sadgirl last decade
Oh btw....i wanted to share this experience....
2-3 months ago i was visiting my country when my cousin came to me and said she had discovered this great homeopath who had performed a few 'miracles' on people personally known to her. knowing my interest and belief in homeopathy, she was eager to take me to see if he could help with my spinal stenosis and spine degeneration problem.
only issue is that he lives 6 hours away....and sees new patients only at 7 in the morning...
we had to work around that, got the necessary permissions and at midnight we were finally on our way....
on the highway i was told by my cousin that the homeopath is 100 years old and extremely ill tempered...
when we entered his room it was like going into the past...there were books upto the ceiling, old, musty. there were tables and tables of files of patients on 3 sides of the room. the furniture had not been changed since 75 years atleast. it was dark and cold and there he sat bundled up in his woolies....
we greeted him and sat down. he did not greet either of us. just stared at me, then started yelling. why do you have lipstick on? dont you know its poison? i was startled but apologized for my lipstick. it was quite uncomfortable.
the first appoinment is almost for one hour since he has so many questions to ask, my cousin had informed. so i sat and answered all the questions. hundreds of them. and he kept writing....
it was now over one and a half hours and he kept saying there is something missing....
he saw old patients from 9 till noon. his room started filling up. he asked us to remain sitting. he would give a follow up medicine to an old patient then ask me a few more questions then say something is missing! he kept doing that.... then staring at me as if my face would tell him his answer then say something is missing....it was past noon, the last of the patients remained and us...it had been over 5 hours, and his consulting time was up....i was wondering now what.....
suddenly his cellphone rang, the old phone ringtone, he answered it. prescribed something. turned to me and smiled. he said i have caught it. i was confused...caught what?
caught your ailment he screamed! then smiled again.
he told me feel your fingertips! i am sure you cannot feel them! sure enough when i felt my fingertips i was shocked to find out they were all numb, i could not feel a single one of them!
then he told me, when his phone rang he noticed i slightly flinched. and thats how he assessed my NERVES were the problem not my spine! he said the nerves are like wires that go through the spine and when they are stressed they short circut and that damages the spine, which degenerates. once the nerves are repaired then i will have no further degeneration, God willing. he said fingertips are the other place that house the nerves. and if my nerves were so bad that they were damaging the spine then they are had surely damaged the tips too!
then he asked me a few more questions and i realized that since last 4-5 years i had stopped watching news, found it very stressful. stopped watching tv, found it too loud. stopped listening to music, which i loved. stopped going to the cinema, didnt seem to have the patience to sit through a movie! and i was a total movie buff!
it all started making sense.....
the good part is that after taking his medicine one doze a week, for the last 2-3 months, i have sensation in all my fingertips. actually i started having the sensation within a few days of the medicine. but the bad part is the homeopath gives white powder in small folded paper and refuses to give the name of the medicine. so i dont know which medicine has helped me.
i have started listening to music since the last 2 weeks and am really enjoying that. i had packed away all my cd's a few years ago and never even realized that!! I also went out to see 3 movies last weekend with my friends! i had not seen a movie in almost 3 years!
also realized that i had been avoiding 2 of my friends for a long time, who talk non-stop. met up with them for lunch and quite enjoyed their chatter.
there are 3 more dozes to be had in the next 3 weeks.
i would like to add that when i started getting the sensation in a few days following the medicine i first felt a needle and pin pins sensation. after a week tips became very sensitive to cold water. a week afte that, if i rubbed my hands it felt like electric currents passing through my hands but soon after that they have normal sensation now.
just wanted to share that.....
2-3 months ago i was visiting my country when my cousin came to me and said she had discovered this great homeopath who had performed a few 'miracles' on people personally known to her. knowing my interest and belief in homeopathy, she was eager to take me to see if he could help with my spinal stenosis and spine degeneration problem.
only issue is that he lives 6 hours away....and sees new patients only at 7 in the morning...
we had to work around that, got the necessary permissions and at midnight we were finally on our way....
on the highway i was told by my cousin that the homeopath is 100 years old and extremely ill tempered...
when we entered his room it was like going into the past...there were books upto the ceiling, old, musty. there were tables and tables of files of patients on 3 sides of the room. the furniture had not been changed since 75 years atleast. it was dark and cold and there he sat bundled up in his woolies....
we greeted him and sat down. he did not greet either of us. just stared at me, then started yelling. why do you have lipstick on? dont you know its poison? i was startled but apologized for my lipstick. it was quite uncomfortable.
the first appoinment is almost for one hour since he has so many questions to ask, my cousin had informed. so i sat and answered all the questions. hundreds of them. and he kept writing....
it was now over one and a half hours and he kept saying there is something missing....
he saw old patients from 9 till noon. his room started filling up. he asked us to remain sitting. he would give a follow up medicine to an old patient then ask me a few more questions then say something is missing! he kept doing that.... then staring at me as if my face would tell him his answer then say something is missing....it was past noon, the last of the patients remained and us...it had been over 5 hours, and his consulting time was up....i was wondering now what.....
suddenly his cellphone rang, the old phone ringtone, he answered it. prescribed something. turned to me and smiled. he said i have caught it. i was confused...caught what?
caught your ailment he screamed! then smiled again.
he told me feel your fingertips! i am sure you cannot feel them! sure enough when i felt my fingertips i was shocked to find out they were all numb, i could not feel a single one of them!
then he told me, when his phone rang he noticed i slightly flinched. and thats how he assessed my NERVES were the problem not my spine! he said the nerves are like wires that go through the spine and when they are stressed they short circut and that damages the spine, which degenerates. once the nerves are repaired then i will have no further degeneration, God willing. he said fingertips are the other place that house the nerves. and if my nerves were so bad that they were damaging the spine then they are had surely damaged the tips too!
then he asked me a few more questions and i realized that since last 4-5 years i had stopped watching news, found it very stressful. stopped watching tv, found it too loud. stopped listening to music, which i loved. stopped going to the cinema, didnt seem to have the patience to sit through a movie! and i was a total movie buff!
it all started making sense.....
the good part is that after taking his medicine one doze a week, for the last 2-3 months, i have sensation in all my fingertips. actually i started having the sensation within a few days of the medicine. but the bad part is the homeopath gives white powder in small folded paper and refuses to give the name of the medicine. so i dont know which medicine has helped me.
i have started listening to music since the last 2 weeks and am really enjoying that. i had packed away all my cd's a few years ago and never even realized that!! I also went out to see 3 movies last weekend with my friends! i had not seen a movie in almost 3 years!
also realized that i had been avoiding 2 of my friends for a long time, who talk non-stop. met up with them for lunch and quite enjoyed their chatter.
there are 3 more dozes to be had in the next 3 weeks.
i would like to add that when i started getting the sensation in a few days following the medicine i first felt a needle and pin pins sensation. after a week tips became very sensitive to cold water. a week afte that, if i rubbed my hands it felt like electric currents passing through my hands but soon after that they have normal sensation now.
just wanted to share that.....
sadgirl last decade
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