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Some - not all - some of the fighting with her brother has subsided, but she is still screaming and the other thing that worried me the most is how she has isolated herself - she doesn't even want to play with her friend next door. She doesn't seem bothered by it, but I am!! I asked her how she was feeling since she had taken the remedy and she said it makes her feel like she just wants to play by herself and not do the things mom and dad ask her to do (she has been defiant).

Thank you Sameer - I do appreciate the time & effort you put in.

Ok - will try this - thank you.

Sameer,
I did not give the phos as it was close to the holidays & did not want to have a reaction to remedy then. She has gotten much worse, screaming, tantrums, defiant. I am so broken hearted over her. I don't know what to do anymore. Am I expecting too much from homeopathy? I am just so depressed over this. Should I give her the phos now? I really need your input. Thanks

It just seems we have been struggling to find the right remedy for so long (she was seeing homeopath for 4 years prior). And when she becomes so defiant she is not afraid of any consequence I may give her, she is so strong willed then I lose it with her - screaming at her and then we all end up feeling terrible. I have said things to her that I swore I would never say to my child. I just don't understand it. Its like some days she wants to be grown up and have all the privelages, etc. but then she talks like a baby, and doesn't handle responsibility well. She is also developing breasts at age 9!!!! and she said to me the other day 'I don't want to grow up'. I don't know what to think or what to do to help her anymore. Meanwhile, I have become very depressed over this and hate myself even more because I feel I am a terrible mother.

Thank you for the support. I do trust Sameer. And Sameer, you must know you are a blessing - helping people with your knowledge and wisdom. I am grateful for your advice. I am learning to grow in patience and discover perhaps a deeper meaning in all of this.

She had the phos Jan 14 - the next day was much better. She is still doing an occasional scream, fighting with her brother - but overall very much improved!! When asked to do something she does it, and is generally so much more pleasant to be around. Thank you so very much Sameer! I cannot thank you enough. Will update you in the days to come.

She is doing well overall. Less defiant & doing better at school - socially that is. She was even invited to a b-day party. She still is very critical of others & quick to write them off i.e. her hair is too curly so I don't want to be her friend. She is always finding fault with everyone. She is a bit more emotional & tearful at times but I believe this to be related to hormones as she is starting to develop breasts already at age 9! (Pray for me) So generally things are going well - perhaps a bit of fine tuning?

OK will follow this. Thanks

Is the 200C available at retail store or must I order it? Also, she has been c/o legs hurting, breasts hurting, etc. - which I attribute to childhood growing pains. She also c/o having bloody nose & sores in her nose. She notices this upon awakening in the morning. She will get a crust around nostril. She (like her mother) also goes from zero to 60 in 2 seconds especially if someone has physically hurt her i.e. accidentally bumped her. She gets very angry & starts punching her brother or kicking him while screaming at him then gets tearful and stomps away. She also gets very crabby if she hasn't eaten. Just trying to be thorough.

Received the phos 200c today & am giving to her tonight. Will update you in one week.

Gave her the phos 200c one dose on March 3. The past few days have been trying - she is defiant, fighting with her brother - 'nothing is fair', very judgemental of everyone. I am hoping this will settle down in a few days.