Dr Sameer, Please advise! _{Page 11 of 13}

Please see my previous post as well.
I forgot to mention that he has a bry upper lip and sometimes cracked. only upper lip.

Hi Sameer,
I have a quick question whenever you get a chance, could you please take a look:

is it safe if I take tissue salts without consulting? this is for myself not for my son. I am looking at:
calc-sulph
kali-phos
mag-phos
for myself as I said before.

Thanks a lot
beth

Hi Sameer,
It has been 2 days since Lyc 30 for my son. His stuttering is worse, kind of back to what it was before Lyc 6. Is that ok?

Many thanks,
Beth

Hi Sameer,
it has been 6 days since Lyc 30 for my son.

I am confused so can not say if he is on the right track or not.

his stuttering is different now. it used to be that he would repeat the first syllabel fast and in general he would talk fast but now he is slow specially for the first syllabel he would open his mouth as if he wants to do a deep breath through mouth, wait a few seconds and then he repeat the first syllabel twice and the rest. compare to 3 days ago he has less stuttering but in general he was definitely better after Lyc 6. he also uses a minor voice to talk!!! like sometimes really soft. other times he would be fine and uses his regular voice.

he also grinds his teeth really pressing them hard. he bites his nails again, sometimes bites his plush or his shirt.

since this morning he has started hiccups. 4 times today.

he has started not going to sleep easily again. you know kind of when he took sulphur.

he wants his pillow cold, so before completely sleep he would turn the pillow once or twice.

Please let me know what you think.

Thanks a lot,
Beth

Hi Sameer,
I have a stupid question:
Tonight I gave my son the stram dose (couldn't do it sooner because I didn't get a chance to go to pharmacy). Meanwhile his stuttering is better. I should have not given him the stram dose, right?
Did I mess it up?

Please let me know.

Sameer,
I know this is probably aggravation but just to let you know his stuttering is worse again. I will report back in 3 days.

I realized a few facts regarding my son which could be important for picking the right remedy for his stuttering.

1. he would be really scared if someone talk to him loudly (almost shout or yell). even a younger kid who shouts at him stop, or no, etc would make him scared. the other day he was saying to me that do whatever you want but don't shout.

2. he does many things just to please me. or probably to prevent any anger of mine. eventhough I have been soft to him recently. sometimes even he express his requests with a smile and a very good manner. you know it is not his natural way of requesting things. he used to be very confident and knows what he wants. he is obviously trying to keep me calm and satisfied with him. Am I a mother or monster? I have done this to my baby. please please help me to correct his problem.

3. when he goes to sleep at the very first minutes of his sleep he moans like someone who is suffering from some pain.

That's all for now.

I will report back in 3 days.

Hi Sameer,

It has been 3 days since Starm 6c. His stuttering has changed and it is less frequent. right now when he talks he would make a sound like aaaaaaaaahhhhhh or eeeeeeeeeeeehhhhh and then he starts his sentence or he simply goes like moooooooooooommy. He rarely repeats the first syllable like dadaddy and the repeating syllable will be repeated at most 3 times. It also occurred to me that he has less stuttering after he wakes up. On the other hand more stuttering when he is having a bowel movement, or if he feels that I might get angry with his behavior or acts, and when he wants to talk to strangers (like kids he sees them first time in playground).

I also realized that he has a tendency to hit me somehow, in a sneaky way. You know for example he would do that with one of his toys while playing so it would be considered as accident. But I can see that he is doing it to hit me. Whenever we play together he destroys whatever I build, saying that he is a destroyer machine and he can't stop the engine. Despite all the above mentioned he wants me to hug him from time to time and he won't go to sleep without me besides him.

one thing I can say for sure: apparently he has been forced to do things he didn't want to and he is really really scared of me. Please note that he doesn't have the same interaction with his dad. he is much more easier and more relax with his dad. so what I am doing right now is that I am not forcing anything to him (the other day he wanted to have ice cream exactly before lunch and I didn't prevent him) and also I am hiring a babysitter to minimize his interaction with me for now (or maybe I should say until I correct myself).

He bites his nails and fingers a lot. His speech speed is better meaning he speaks faster but still not as fast as he used to. He is getting back to being a smart kid again. But still not as he used to be. another important issue is that he is NOT a follower, I mean he is a leader by nature. Unfortunately he because of my wrong behaviors & interaction with him he has turned into a fearful, follower kid.

His bowel movement all of a sudden is better, at most every other day. The only issue is he won't poop in potty (it has been like this for the past 4 months). He doesn't wear a diaper either so.... On the other hand he doesn't have any accidents regarding peeing.

That's about it for now. What do you think Sameer?

I have one quick question as well:
right now my son is far far away from his constitutional type. Will he be back to his constitutional?

Thanks a million
Beth

Hi Sameer,
His stuttering is completely gone.
Once again thank you soooo much for your helps.

Can you please tell me what you think about one dose of Nat-m for him?

I really appreciate it.

Beth

Hi Sameer,

I am making a list of new conditions of my son. I understood you mentioned that no remedy for a week. At the same time I don't want to ignore any of his symptoms so Could you please kindly take a look and let me know about your professional thought.
I cordially appreciate your time.

recently he has become very obedient. to the point that even a younger kid can easily force him to do/not doing something in playgroup. also when I take him to the class he doesn't pay attention to teacher as much as he used to before. it has nothing to do with his ability to be focused because he has a very good attention span and good focus at home.

when we meet anybody he would be stressed and not talking much and constantly looking at me for assurance. he is also avoiding eye contact. this feature is very very weird for him because since his birth he has been always well-known for being such a social, funny, and very relaxed in any type of communication. he used to even talk to a stranger with a very friendly manner. he didn't have any fear of communicating with anybody. if he decides to talk with someone it would be a very soft voice and you barely can hear it. if he wants to ask for something from somebody as soon as he meets the person he forgets and I have to remind him (please note that I let him settled in for a good amount of time before I remind him, in other word I give him the opportunity to remember his request, and he doesn't or I believe he is too tense to be able to talk)

he becomes embarrassed easily. as soon as he makes a mistake he would either withdraw or he would cry or at the best case he would become very shy and wants to hide. he has a tendency to self-blame sometimes.

full of resentment and hatred of me

he is very very low in activity compare to what he used to be before and he is not interested in being active. there are times of the day that he would just lie down on the floor alone and does nothing!!!! and in general he is not as happy as he used to be.

mentally he has become slow compare to his past. I mean really slow. he used to be very smart, fast learner. he used to ask a lot of question and very curious but not anymore.

it has become hard for him to fall asleep. he will keep his eyes open as much as he can. sometimes he breath very rapidly during sleep.

lips are often dry, specially upper lip.

although his stuttering is completely gone, he may stutters in certain situations of the above mentioned, mostly when he is in a group of people and feel stressed. please note that the condition of the group is not stressful, but it is him that feels so stressed.

I know recently I have been wasting your time a lot, but at the same time I don't want to give him any remedy without your advice.

thank you so much,
Beth

Dear Sameer,
This is regarding myself. Here is the list of my current issues which I think I need some sort of homeopathic treatment:

1. I got worms (oxyure)I can take regular medication for this if you advised that

2. for the past few days I have been trying not to get angry and not to yell. I have found that in some certain situations it would be extremely hard for me to control the urge which comes from inside. it is as if at one point something changed inside me and I yell and becomes angry like crazy. other times I am in control. mostly it happens when I mention something 3-4 times and the other person doesn't pay attention or so.

3. I realized that recetly I behave and act like a man. you know kind of masculin.

4. I did a complete blood/urin test. a complete set of ultrasounds. nothing irregular except that there is a fibrom in the uteres which is already calsified.

Those are big and bold issues. if you think I should explain more just let me know.

Many thanks for your help.

as for my son I will report in 2-3 days since it has to a week as you said.

Beth

Hi Sameer,
an hour ago my son had a bowel movement. the last part of it was almost like egg white in terms of its texture and the smell was like rotten fish. now he farts and every time he does a little bit of water-like discharge comes out along with the fart. also the fart smells like rotten fish.

Do you recommend anything?

Other than the above he hasn't had any symptoms regarding this specific issue.

many thanks,
beth

Hi Sameer,

it has been 14 days since stram 6c for my son.

1. His stool still smells like rotten fish although not watery anymore. could it be some sort of bacteria?

2. his stammering has been back since 5 days ago. it was on and off but since 2 days ago the frequency is higher and he stutters most of the time. I am not sure if there is any correlation between taking his pacifier about 3 months ago and his stuttering. the reason I am saying this is that recently he puts everything in his mouth. I mean everything and he bites or chew them. many times he would chew his fingers. he bites really hard his plush.

3. he is less obedient and more back to his normal attitude which is do what he wants to do. he is questioning me if I ask him not to touch or do something which kind of his normal attitude. but with strangers he would not do that easily. what I mean is he acts stronger at home compare to outside.

4. he definitely stutters as soon as he meets others.

5. he cries a lot. many times you can tell that it is fake and he is doing it to make us do his request.

6. his emotions towards me is much better but still I can see some resentment and hatred

7. he is back to highly active, curious, smart and almost happy boy (not as happy as he used to be though).

8. I am not sure if this has any relation or can be of any help: he doesn't poop in any kind of potty. He would poop only in his underwear.

9. He doesn't go to sleep easily sometimes it takes 1 hour but he sleeps very well. he has micro jerks during sleep.

I am still working on report for myself.
As always I am very thankful.
Beth

Sorry I forgot to mention the followings. Please see my previous post as well.

1. there are some tiny bumps on the upperlid of his right eye since 3-4 days ago. one of them is bigger than others and red.

2. there is a bump behind his right ear. it is kind of yellow and has a red circle in the middle and apparently has some discharges. becuase I can see the trace of discharge at the back of his ear. it is also painful when I press it a little bit.

Dear Sameer,
This is the report for myself. Please take a look at my 2 previous posts as well regarding my son.

Thanks a million

1. acne/pimples (really don't know the difference) on face only cheeks and mainly right cheek, also on upper back. they all filled with pus sometimes white sometimes yellow. some of them very painful when touched some are just white head small ones. worse after having chocolate. better when drink a lot of water and take multivitamins.

2. no/little thirst.

3. a week before my menses I have painful breasts.

4. lower eyelids are swollen(worse in mornings)

4. I am tolerant and patient. but if the person that I am tolerating goes beyond the limits I would be mad and angry like crazy. I might not act as though but I feel it inside. I usually yell and it is really loud. in extreme cases I would slam doors or throw things or hit things on a table. this of course would be very scary for a 3 year-old boy. I have to give you an example to make it more clear. Since the birth of my son I have had this philosophy that he should be allowed to touch/work with anything he wants unless it is dangerous. so I have been trying my best to use the word 'no' as minimum as possible. but when he doesn't listen to me specially when I am already tired and exhausted I get mad immediately.

5. I don't like disease. I mean that is my first concern (fear) always. I hate being sick. I hate it even for closed ones.

6. I am very proud (or maybe a better word would be I have a lot of ego). I give an example: if somebody says something about my values/morals I would be extremely offended. I reply back very straight.

7. I feel anxious before having intercourse. I also have no libido, no desire what so ever. I don't even feel very feminine recently. you know the way I talk or act is kind of mannish.

8. in general I am better when I have time for myself. I enjoy being alone for 2-3 hours per day. On the other hand I don't like to be alone all the time and would love to interact and have conversation.

9. I feel good eating good food. although I am slim. When I don't get my meal at the right time I become extremely sensitive and may get angry or may overreact. If I don't eat breakfast soon enough after waking up I feel dizzy and feel like I am going to faint.

10. feel very good after doing yoga but I really don't get the chance to do it very often.

That's all I can think of for now in addition to what I mentioned before.

Hi again,
Sorry too many posts. I just don't want to miss any info that can be useful.

this is about my son:

if I yell at him he would go back to his own kind of world for a few hours. You know kind of not interested in any interaction.

He wasn't like this before. He used to forget things and continue his play happily.

Please see my 3 previous posts as well.

many thanks
beth

Thank you so mcuh.

I just have to add one more thing regarding myself:

I have headache on the first 3-4 days of my period. It is tolerable you know kind of in the background but still it makes me less functional than normal. I feel the pressure at the back of my eyes. SOmetimes one side is more painful than the other side. It gets worse when I close my eyes. and my neck become stiff when I wake up in the morning during those 3-4 days of headache.
that'a all.
thanks