HELP PLEASE! chronic cold and allergy

Hi, I have had chronic cold and allergy like symptoms for the past 2 years specially around my pms and period time, sinus throat eye inflammation, runny nose and eyes, and have seen doctors many times, they told me i have allergy, but non of the allergy medicine they gave me worked for me, i have inflammation in other parts of my body, lymphatic system is inflammed, almost all my body is inflammed and swallon, stomach inflammation and irritaton and acidity, they gave me allery medicine, antibiotic, anti acid, acid blocker, and none seemed to work for me, untill few weeks ago they did herpes test and they Dr. told me i have both oral and genital herpes! i was really surprised, I knew my husband cheated on me before, but I never thought I had any stds since I didn't have symptoms, my doctor told me that in rare cases herpes virus has this kind of symptoms! I don't know if you can give me a remedy for these symptoms, while I was having my cold allergy and stomach problems i tried belladonna and nat phos and they did not really work for me, i mean symptoms would come back after stopping, please help me if you can, thank you