Sexual dysfuction and DepressionHi, My problem is in regards to Sexual dysfunction from past 8 - 9 years. This may be because of excessive masturbations from young age age 15 to 32 ( Presently 40 ). My depression levels are so high that I just cannot make a proper eye contact with anyone. My eye balls fall directly on pvt parts of ladies or men. It is very embarrassing. I love to have sex but i often am afraid as the recurrence of depression levels increases drastically.I just cannot socialize and things are not improving even after following all types.Medicines that i take does not hold good immediately after which I have sex with my wife. Semen levels and quality is very low on me. Even a little discharge and I see the depression effect immediately in 2 hrs.max.
I am afraid that I am unable toget the correct suggestions how to go about and improve my health. please hlp.
Kingarthur24 on 2011-01-31
It is important to describe all your problems in as much detail as you are able. One word answers and short sentences are not particularly helpful. Discuss each problem one at a time, providing (as a minimum level of detail) the following information.
1. What exactly happens?
2. Describe all sensations and pains. Each pain or sensation should be described in such a way that allows us to imagine having the same pain.
3. What causes the problem to get worse after it has started occurring?
4. What creates some relief for the problem?
5. What triggers the problem into occuring?
6. What time of the day or night does the problem occur?
7. When did the problem start? What was happening in your life at that time? Did some specific event or treatment take place just before the problem started?
Move from one problem to the next, doing the same thing. IT IS VITAL THAT YOU GIVE A COMPLETE PICTURE OF YOUR HEALTH BY PROVIDING ALL PROBLEMS YOU HAVE, EVEN IF NOT CONNECTED TO THE MAIN ONE, AND EVEN IF YOU CONSIDER IT OF LESS IMPORTANCE.
As well as this, please describe any traumatic indicidents that have taken place in your life. Discuss anything that has had a lasting impact on you mentally, emotionally or physically.
Discuss the way that you manage or deal with your problems, or any problems that occur in your life.
Discuss any patterns you have noticed in your behavior.
Discuss any part of your life where you feel stuck or unable to change and grow.
Describe your childhood and the kind of environment you grew up in, with reference to your relationships with your family, your school experiences, and any serious childhood diseases.
If your earlier discussions have not mentioned these already, please describe:
1. The specific foods that you crave (not just like) or hate
2. The specific drinks that you crave or hate
3. What your sleep is like
4. How the weather and the temperature affects you
5. What kinds of things in the environment you are particularly sensitive to
6. What your general level of energy is like
7. What your level of sexual energy or desire is like
♡ brisbanehomoeopath 9 years ago
What exactly happens?
Nothing happens in the sense that there is no pain. Depression levels are o high it is just impossible for me to communicate with any given person Men / Lady. My focus line shifts downwards as i get into the details of any subject while discussing. It is just impossible for me to keep focus while speaking and discussing. This same thing happens while i am just observing anybody.
This is my main pain area. communications.I ffeel as if my nerves have low energy and they are unable to hold on and therefore going downwards.
My mind also makes me behave such ways as if i am habituated over this years.
This started way back in December 2001 first time. I have been a compulsive masturbator even after marriage and satisfied with my wife completely. I just could not hold myself when i see a good woman and that thoughts are so powerfull that unless i masturbate that i cannot come out of that feeling and then it is under control.
I have basically put myself in a room these days.
I communicate the least try to find the answer on my laptop and am desperate to find a solutions.
The problem triggers when i have sex which is why i have not had a good sex since one month. I am afraid. Even my wife understands and helps but i just cannot have a good regular sex relationship because of this depressions. It is very embarrassing for me after that.
No such event has occured before it started. This has been a gradual process i just go to know when the situation aggravated very badly and out of control. The symptoms initially were with ladies i would not see them eye to eye but with men it was fine but as the problem grew it became very bad and i could not communicate with men as well in a perfect manner.
I am never frightened with any problem and i accept that head on. but i am unable to resolve this issue.
Medicines just dont work They work for some time that is if i have started those medicines today till the next time that I have sex till that time and not beyond that.again the same problem starts.
Lately through some net i started to take ZincPhyte but that has also not matched to expectations.
Earlier i was very aggressive and things had to be my way and i was like its me or you attitude.
But then after this depressions i have changed a lot i listen to others specifically my wife and try to work around the situations.
I am unable to take a job because i have this problem.
Inthe past 8 years i have changed 6 - 8 jobs and now i have lost hope.
I was a marketing Manager in IT Firm.
I had been a very playfull and a serious type of guy. I use to take things at face value as it appeared. no further thinking.School was normal.
At a very young age i had a squint in my left eye which is why my eye sight is only with the right eye.
otherwise all is well other than this depression.
I am pure Vegetarian and Jain love to eat good food and crave for sweet after dinner and lunch if there in the kitchen.
Sleep is beautifull cool and peacefull.
Temperature and weather are normal only too much of cold is unacceptable to me.
Nothing specifically in the environment.
Sexual energy : It is at times when i em exited i can do good sex but after that is the biggest problem. Ejaculation is thin water and at times fast.
Kingarthur24 9 years ago
Please fill out the homeopathic intake form for new patients. The more information you can give us, the more accurate our homeopathic recommendations can be. Hopefully someone here will help you begin real homeopathic treatment to resolve your issues.
Homeopathy International 1 9 years ago
1 there is point when u feel ur going to ejaculate at that point u must squeeze the lower part of the penis imagine penis like a pipe u find the deep lower part of the pipe fingers wrap around the pipe squeeze hard . u must do this just before ejaculation happen
2 at the same time ur other hand fingers squeezing the top part of the penis
3 u must continue breath in and breath out
4 u have to apply this technique very quickly just before ejaculation happen
when u do this the sperm can not come out when sperm dont come out for 3 months u will start to recover
5 u have to practice many time to get this technique right
When ur about ejaculate testicals will come very near to the lower part of the penis u must gently push them down with one of ur finger while squeezing
Cut ur fingers nails so they wont cut ur skin while squeezing
u can also practice this technique when ur not having erection imagine penis is like a pipe try find the very lower part of the pipe squeeze fingers around the lower part of the penis then squeeze the top of the penis with other hand fingers around top part of the penis breath in and out continually
u will recover but it can take some time be patient
when u start to recover plz let me know thanks
this maybe help too try to control when ur urinate when u urinate stop in the middile of urination count 5 then urinate gradetully stop then count 10 then urinate at first it difficult but u can control try this at home when u strat 2 have control urinate a little stop wait 1 minute then urinate it will work but it can take months.
vishnu5 7 years ago
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