Constant headache from 15 years.

I, male, (41) residing in Chandigarh, is in Government
service and use computer for my daily work. Despite constant headache,
I manage my duties efficiently, though not with interest. The main
problem is sleep. I sleep for about 8 hours daily, but awakens
restless and unrefreshed, as if no relief from sleep. This caused a
never-ending constant headache with not a single second relief. After
this prolonged headache, I now remain irritating and frustrating.
Searching for any solution and very desperate for recovery, as I also
want to live without this headache. I consider my case as the most
complicated, as no doctor can give me a single second relief, despite
best efforts. Even no pain killer works. My nature is jealous,
suspicious, hurried. changeable mood. For example, at times, my wife
seems to me the best in the world and at times, the worst. I am quite
timid type person, desire for total peace around my surroundings. I
dislike certain persons and cannot tolerate them. I feel total tired
and exhausted after waking and this remains throughout the day. No
inclination for any effort. Want to be on the bed all the time and at
chair in the office. No exercise, no walk. I get involved in sexual
activities from an early age and is having early ejaculation, very
early. I don't like hot things, chilly, lemon and like ice-cream, cold
weather and cold surroundings.

My head has become numb and also the brain due to this prolonged
headache. Although I am considered one of the few efficient officials
in the office yet I feel afraid all the time, like never listens music
on computer etc. etc. (a kind of fear that I will be caught for some
non-sense thing or like that). My mood is very changeable. When
anticipating something, the anxiety is at its peak. A feeling has also
developed that there is no treatment for me, as I have seen a number
of chronic cases, but they get relief for one day or some time, but,
no medicine has given me relief for a second during these about 15
years. My headache has not gone even for a minute. I have tried rikie,
sujok and everything, but no relief.
Sir, please help, I will feel really indebted. I also want to live
like a normal person. Now I am angry at very little things and shout
at my son, who is very sincere and regrets at the same time.

The filled in form :

1. Describe your main suffering?
The main suffering is constant headache from last about 15 years, as
if both temples compressed. Lethargic, tired, exhausted, no
inclination for any effort. These days, I am even facing memory problem, e.g. what is the day today and date, etc.

2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Flatulence, improper stool, mucous like. My nose remains blocked (right nostril), especially when lying on bed. Pain in abdomen (like hitus hernia).

3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your
physical sufferings?
I get excited when anticipating events, rather I am very
apprehensive and anticipate something will happen. Anxiety for son
and wife. Very jealous, suspicious, nervous, timid. irritating and at times, cheerful. I am
very shy and even cannot talk on phone if a person is sitting close to
me. I often don’t like to meet people and want to be alone. I like very few persons and like their company only. Although I avoid doing any work, if not urgent, but the work which requires immediate attention, are performed by me in a great hurry.

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the
sensation in your own words.
My headache increases and I feel much more tired, exhausting, frustrating, etc.

5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
I recollect two events. First, when I got the Government service, the atmosphere there was very poor and created some problems to me. Second, when I was going to be married, I was confused as the height of my wife is little small.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
All the day, especially getting up in the morning. More tired. Pain in eyes.

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are
those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure,
rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.
I dislike hot weather and hot things and like cold weather. I feel little more tired after eating.

8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli
(like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the
body, like, menses (in females)?
I dislike certain persons. I also dislike to being looked at and
spoken to and also contradiction. I love to be praised and loved and given special attention.

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid
or dry weather?
Feel better in cold and dislike hot.



10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant,
Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended,
Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

Moody, arrogant, changeable, nervous, suspicious, easily offtended,
irrigating, lazy and like peace in all my surroundings. Gets angry at little-little things and repentance is also very quick. I have no hesitation in accepting my mistake.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
Nothing.

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Sometimes yes and sometimes no.

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
Yes. Noise, strong odours and bright light. I think any person, who is suffering from headache, would not like noise or light.

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?
I weep after every sentimental scene of a film, even if seeing 10th
time. Sad music also makes me weep. I introspect a lot.

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and
especially your husband / wife?
I have very few friends. I love my wife and son very much. I have
anxiety about them, especially son, for going his outdoor, crossing
the road, etc.
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
I have a great deal of fear. Almost for everything. Unknown fears, like something will happen and apprehending something all the time. Anxiety about son. I am very timid-type person.

12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
I like ice-cream, not much chilly and tasty foods and also non-veg, and averse to
chilly, lemon, hot drinks and very heavy food.

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
I drink much water but in small quantities.

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less. If I take something before my regular meal, I can’t take my meal properly.

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?
Very spicy and fat.

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more:
Head, Trunk or Limbs?
Less as I make no effort. In summers, sweat is normal and especially
on the head and face.

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
Not proper. Mucous and seems with indigested food. Flatulence is also there.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
I sleep for about 8 hours daily, but awakens in the morning restless
and unrefreshed. I cannot sleep while travelling with anxiety of
something bad like window of the vehicle can open, etc.etc.. I have dreams all the night. Fast, anxious and exhausting dreams. I have to make effort to first go to sleep as it
takes about an hour for me to go to sleep, thereafter, I sleep for
about 8 hours and wakes as if from fright and restless with tired feeling and pain in eyes.

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
No, I have premature ejaculation. Very early. I am very lustful,
wants sex, desire increased but with premature ejaculation.

20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings?
How are you different from others?
Yes. It seems that I am different from others. Very restless, nervous,
no desire to meet anyone, like only few persons. I am very affectionate as well. Makes every effort to please my dears, even if not well, by going outside with them, though I don’t like to go outside.

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the
diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the
medication?
I have consulted a number of homeopaths and took the medicines given
by them. I feel that the symptoms of all the medicines match with my
symptoms. I have taken a number of homeopathic medicines.

22. What major diseases are running in your family?
My wife – gout and skin problems.

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the
irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.

25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please
write them in a chronological manner.
TB about 10 years ago and nothing more to remember.
[message edited by gireeshnarang on Tue, 13 Sep 2011 19:36:29 BST]