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Depression, isolation from the people, headache, memory loss

Please help me.
I am a 37 year old woman.
About 20 years I feel depressed, which was particularly intensified after the birth 14 years ago.
I am feeling depressed, I am no longer interested. I live only for my son. Life does not interest me. I long for the time when I was a cheerful, hard-working, optimistic and having a lot of interest.
Angry about the details, I start to scream, and then regret.
Throughout life many times I had an unhappy love. In addition, many times frustrated with people when they have me misunderstood, criticized, rejected, did not want to friendship with me. So now I miss the people and avoid contact with them.
20 years ago with severe kidney inflammation. I was treated with antibiotics. Later, the ovarian cyst, which will also be treated with antibiotics, then iðoperavo. I am a few times had a trichomoniasis. I have set, and HPV (human papilloma virus). For cervical erosion, it is treated prideginant laser. Many times the vaginal fungus and bacterial vaginosis. Treated as traditional chemical drugs. For a long time plagued by frequent need to urinate during the night.
For years, plagued by insomnia at night.
About 15 years suffer from bloating. Sometimes constipation. Occasionally bowels of anal blood appears.
Rigid joints. 15 years suffering from joint pain, especially in the lower part of back, left shoulder and left hand club. Is an increase in feet big toe bones. Metacarpal joints of strawberries.
Often have a headache. Previously pain before menses. Now, almost constant pain in the left side of the head. Pain in my left eye and the upper left side of the jaw.
Sometimes I feel like the melting of the left side of the head, left hand.
Periods are plentiful.
Deterioration of memory. For some time I can not work in clerical work, because I can not concentrate, focus of attention. Constantly forgetting something, so I have to take notes.
On several occasions, aching ear. It was hot, very sore, swollen. Now I feel a deep pain in the left ear. Sometimes they appear pale brown liquid.
I am nearsighted, wear glasses.
Brittle nails, hair lûþinëja.
Drying lips, dry, peeling skin from.
Teeth dark.
On the face, back and chest rising from teenage spots. Recently, on the shoulders and chest appeared round pink spots. On the shoulders of a small, but higher on the chest.
I feel very tired.
Ringing in the ears, Howling in mind.
The nose is dry, dry.
I can not use any chemical drugs. Me from their worse headache, nervousness, I can not sleep, soluble in hand, are convulsions, tinnitus worse.
Before taking chemical antidepressants, and now I can not.
Often cold feet.
In the morning is swollen paakiai.
The throat tends to accumulate in yellow or white phlegm.
I love the heat of the sun. I like to eat meat and fish.
I ask for advice on which drugs to use.
Thank you in advance.
  Jinai on 2011-12-29
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Please take three doses of Calcarea Carb 200 as follows and report back after 15 days (only 3 doses in 15 days).

day 1 morning
1st dose

day 1 evening
2nd dose

day 2 morning
3rd dose

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.
kadwa last decade
Kadwa, thank you very much.
Before I have taken another homeopatic pills. If I should wait some time before taking Calcarea Carbonica?
Jinai last decade
Yes. You should. If there is relief from your earlier medicine no need to take calc carb.
kadwa last decade
ok. thanks.
Jinai last decade
Hello, Kadwa,
I report because 14 days passed of the Calcarea Carbonica use.
On the first day after two doses I could not sleep a half of night, and the third day all day I was bleeding from the anus. For so long has not ever bled. No further deterioration of the felt. Still do not feel an improvement, too. Except today I feel pain at right knee. It`s strange.
During this period, I split up with my common-law husband. I find it difficult and sad, I cry a lot.
Concentration of attention disorder, I could not work from October 2010 to October 2011. From 2011 October to December I worked a little, and from 2012 I started working 4 hours a day as an accountant again.
I started attending the gym.
I want to be with people and maintain good relationships with them. However, I am afraid of people. Still have thoughts that they can do something wrong with me. For example, to cheat me. They can spread about me bad things and I suffer from it. They may think wrong things of me and I will be very sad. I am a perfectionist and I try to do everything well. I try to be good and true to people. However, sometimes I'm angry. I think I`m angry because I`m afraid.
Now I split with my second husband. My fear also dit it`s job...
I can not make friends with people who I like very much because I feel that they don`t need me. I am very afraid to be left out. I'm friends with men who are not at all like me, and I have a feeling that they tolerate my weaknesses because I tolerate their shortcomings. But it takes a little while.
My free time is sad. There is a lot of things I can not do because I find it hard to keep in touch with people. I feel redundant.
I understand that I am beautiful and intelligent (I hear those compliments) but it seems to me that people will find me still defective and will not want to be with me.
I do not like to be alone, I miss the people. I feel depressed.
Life has no longer at yourself any goals, I see no point in living. I live only for my son.
Previously, I attended gym, I lattended latino dancing. But not for long time because I feel again as people hate me. It seems to me that no one loves me. Though my son, parents and friends say they love very much. I can`t bedieve this.
I do not trust people.
I think a lot of conflicts with people that have taken place recently or long ago. In my mind many times I think what we said, what could I say. In my mind I continue the conflict, I want them to win. Or I thing a lot what I did wrong and what I could do otherwise.
I am afraid to be humiliated. I afraid to be spurned as many times I was...
I am disappointed with my life.

I still feel ringing in the ears. Aches forehead, left temple. Someone moving from the inside of the left eye and left nostril. Increased pain on the left side of the head above the nape of the neck.
Breathing is shallow, short. I cannot do deep breath of air, do not do full yawn. Pressure on the heart.
Dry lips.
I want to be warm. In the morning I do not want to get out of bed. In total I do not want to move.
I want to eat meat and fish. I like coffe with milk.
I have financial difficulties and can not eat what I want or go where I want.
I'm afraid to live .
I am thinking that my life will be long suffering until death, it will be even worse and worse.
Thank you again for your help.
One thing I like is to help the unfortunate and ill people. Could you advise me what possibilities are to become a homeopathist.
Best regards,
Jinai last decade
I forgot to tell, that I 2010 October used a lot of sedatives at hospital (I lost job and I was very sleepless and worried). When I stopped using sedatives I lost memory at all, I even could not organize my life at all.
But before using these alopatic drugs I also had problems with concentration when I was stressed. I was stressed because I lost job rather few times when economic crisis started. I live only with my son so I`m responsible to pay dues and I cannot get help from anywhere.
Next, as I sayd before, I am alone, I can`t make permanent relationships so I am stressed because of this too...
I lived with my parents in a steading far from other people untill I was 6 years old. Then we moved to a willage. I had no expierence how to communicate so I failed often. My father beat my mother it was awfull. My father didn`t love me and my brother, too. I was alone and I couldn`t plain to anybody. Here wasn`t anybody who could hear me. So I felt unsafe even when I was a child.
Jinai last decade
Please take a single dose of Lycopodium 200 and report back after 15 days.

One dose means
If the medicine is in pills form 2 pills. Don't touch pills with hand. Use cap of bottle to take pills.
If the medicine is in liquid dilution form, 2 drops in some 20 ml water. Sip up slowly.

Please follow homeo restrictions like no coffee, no raw onion/garlic, no strong perfumes, don't eat or drink anything within 30 minutes before or after taking medicine.

There are no certification or degree courses in homeopathy that give anyone entitlement to practice homeopathy globally. The local laws of land decide who is entitled to practice homeopathy. Generally at majority of places there are no strict restrictions. It is always better to avoid making any false claims like calling oneself doctor when one is not.

You may start learning homeopathy by reading the following books...
1. Any good text book on human anatomy and physiology.
2. Organon of Medicine by Dr Samuel Hahnemann
3. Leaders in Homeopathic Therapeutics by Nash.
4. Lecture Notes on Homeopathic Materia Medica by Kent
5. Boericke's Materia Medica

All these books are available free of cost on the internet. You should gain confidence only in the course of time.

[message edited by kadwa on Tue, 17 Jan 2012 09:35:35 GMT]
kadwa last decade
Hello, Kadwa,
I report because 14 days passed of the Lycopodium use.

I have no interests. I spend a lot of time in my minds. I`m not interested in the outside world. I almost don`t watch TV.
I lack of motivation. I`m very lazy. I`m defiant to authority, I diminish them. I`m passive.
Lack of energy, lach of behavioral intentionality, lack of purpose. I can not decide.
I am a shy and secretive, socially distanced myself. Since I have no interest, I do not know what to talk when I meet people. But solitude depressing me, I`m longing for contacts.
I only taking care of my health and I want very much to feel better.
I take care of my Sons, my Moters and my friens healthiness.
Headaches - the temples, forehead. More pain in left side of the head. On the left side of the head sometimes I feel a deep stabbing pain.
Solid neck, it cracks and crepitate when I turn or bend mu head. It is hard to turn my neck, he is as wooden or as filled with something.
It hurts my back at the waist and at the sacrum. Spine at the waist by a hernia. I have a few outgrowthes by the spine. Spine is also cracking when I move it.
Hands and feet crack, crepitate when I move them.
The entire body is stiff and inflexible.
Myopia. Before my eyes I see like a small black fly flying, black spots trouble to see good.
Tinnitus, roaring in the ears.
Shallow breathing. If long-lasting tension and stress, the heart begins to push , palpitations, breathing difficulties.
After the stress is often need to go to urinate at night . Urine is drained a little, but I can not lie, because it is so irritating to the bladder.
Jinai last decade
I feel as all persons are not worthy, beneath.
Jinai last decade
I think I have negative symphtoms of schizophrenia.

I forgot to report about Lycopodium. The 3rd day after I started treatment I felt a great misanthropy, I realy hated all people and averything in this Earth.
No more symphtoms from Lycopodium.
Jinai last decade
If dr.kadwa agrees a very useful medicine named Aswagandha-Q can be used as complementary medicine. This has almost all the symptoms of the patient.

dr. mahfooz
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Dear dr. Mahfooz, thank you for your recommendation.
The matter is, I feel more than nervous exhaustion, irritability, sadness.
I want medicines what affect to my personality and to heal from the mental trauma a long time ago I suffered. I was suffering the whole my life.
Keywords are: trust issued, the inability to create intimacy.
I love my son very much , but I feel some kind of anxiety with him, too. My depression became more pronounced after my child was born. I did not know how to be a mom. What it means to be a mother. I did not know how to care for, love, how to raise my son.
I grew up with both parents and a Brother. Grandparents lived nearby. But I had no one with whom I have a close relationship. I did not have anyone to open up my heart, I did not have anyone to tell my thoughts and dreams.
My father hated my mother very much and also he hated me and my brother. I've heard a lot of contempt father's words. He beat my mother.
Mom was suffering. I do not know why she did not split with him.Sometimes she said that she lived with my father because there children, my Brother and me. So I felt as if I am guilty that my mother is suffering. If the mother was so much suffering for me, I do not have the right to be happy.
My brother was born first, then my mother was pregnant but got an abortion because she
did not want to raise another child with our father.
I was the third. Parental relationship was poor, being pregnant my
mother suffered a lot and cried. I believe that I have as a mother'swomb, I did not want to come into this world.
Yet I have thought that the father sexually abused me when I was 4 or 5 years. But I'm not 100% convinced that this is true. I do not want to know the truth because it
may be too difficult to live with
this reality.
I remember when I was
abused by my father he
said that I have to say
nothing to my mother because my mother is mad at me. Then
I felt that I did something very bad and I can not get the exemption
because it is forbidden to talk about it.
I live in families where there were a large number of negatyve
emotions. Joy has been almost completely.
Father is sharply critical of the mother, as well as brother and me.
I felt unsafe.
When I was 13-14 years old my father had suspected me
paranoid that I had a promiscuous sexual life. But I did not and I have been very painful to listen to. No one interceded for me, my mother was weak and weird. Father and
his friends said that I am a
harlot, bitch.
When I was 16 I had a boyfriend, but after half a year, he left me. It
was a big trauma for me.
17 years old I started lax sexual life. It was the only
way for me to get attention, warmth, because I could not have spiritual
intimacy, which I really needed.
I fell in love to
my sex partners.
I got married 22 years out of love. I loved because I felt that the man took care of me. I really need someone to take care of me.
It was difficult to maintain a long and close relationship we divorced.
Then again, I supported sexual relationships with men at random.
I rarely had a steady lover.
I told all this in order to clarify and emphasize as I lacked a close
relationship, and how desperate I was looking for it in any way.
This is the basis for my sickness - distrust and longing.
I now 37 years old.
I stopped maintaining casual sexual contacts about 7 years ago. I
realized that it can not continue longer.
I realized that I needed to create a real
intimate relationship.
Since that time I lost the source who gave me pleasure and inspiration.
I feel guilty about that way I acted. I want to hide from the
people my story.
At the same time I took myself out of the 'drug' namely the sex.
It seems to me that I will never have a good man. I feel I am not worthy
of a good man. In addition, there are very few good men.
Maybe that's why I lost the meaning of life.
I always did everything that I would loved by someone. I cook,
sew, knit, grow flowers. I studied in college and university. I did a career. I took care of my appearance. I did my
beautiful house.
And when I can achieve my goal to be loved I do not want to do anything more. Life seems to me expired.
In spite of my mistakes I am very keen that my son would be
happy. I do not want him to suffer what I suffered. Therefore I listen very carefully of him,
I`m interested about his school, hobies, friends, etc.
I support him and encouraging.
I still feel guilty about my son that I have destroyed the family and
split with husband. My son meets his father every day.
I have a feeling that I live very wrong, wasting my life.
I am upset and embarrased
and I do not know who I am and what I want. I do not understand what I do in life, what is my task. I do not know why I
live. My relationship with my family and to society is weak. I feel
like I am 'overboard“,
as if I am seceded and unnecessary.
Take this story on my medication, please.
Jinai last decade
Let us see dr.kadwa's comments.

Mahfoozurrehman last decade
I wait for comments of dr. Kadwa.
Dr. Kadwa, I am grateful for your help.
I study homeopathy myself and I think the best remedy for me is Anacardium.
Isn`t it?
Jinai last decade
Yes of course if it matches to your symptoms intoto.

Mahfoozurrehman last decade
If you have not taken Anacardium, i would suggest you to see how a single dose of Sulphur 200 affects you in 15 days.
kadwa last decade
Thank you, dr. Kadwa.
I didn`t take Anacardium still. And before finding out Anacardium I got an answer by the software to take Sulphur. You confirmed this now.
I`ll take Sulphur.
Thank you!
Jinai last decade
Benefits of Ashvagandha:
Helps to reduce stress
Helps to prevent stress-induced complications
Helps to inhibit oxidative stress
Beneficial for men suffering from stress-induced infertility
Helps to reduce anxiety and depression
Helps to improve memory
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Dr. Mahfooz, thank you.
I believe Ashvagandha is realy useful medicine.
As I have problem with my health fr a long time already I have done some conclusions for myself. Phytotherapeutic medicines are useful to eliminate symphtoms arising after stress. If we have complicated situation we feel stressed and we can eliminate stress symphtoms if it continues not too long time. When we have mental affections it`s not enough to eliminate symphtoms. I could take phytotherapeutic medicine the whole remaining life and my health and my life would be easier. But I hope to relief not only symphtoms as a result of a disease but a disease, too. For this I have to elimintate the reason of disease. The reason of stress can be fear, lack of self`confidence, old mental trauma, unfair wiewpoint, physical diseases, etc. I used a lot of phytotherapeutic remedies such as Valerian, Melissa, Motherworth, Hawthorn, Hop, Ginkgo, Granadilla, Lavender, etc. Their impact is short-lived. I`ll take Ashvagandha if necessary later. Now I try to cure myself with homeopathic remedies. I do not use any other medicines (phytotherapeutic or alophatic) as I want to feel homeopathic remedies action. I hope to get healthy. Like these people: http://hpathy.com/materia-medica/soul-loss-and-recovery-with...
Kind regards!
Jinai last decade
I received a heavy coryza.
At first, very itchy nose and throat, slightly itchy left ear. A lot of sneezing. Then began to rise phlegm in the throat, nose to flow sharply.
Jinai last decade
You may take arsenic alb 30 thrice a day for few days.
kadwa last decade
Jinai last decade
Ars Alb 200 in the morning and evening for 3 days. Stop on relief.
kadwa last decade
Thank you dr. Kadwa.
Now coryza stopped.
I have got my left-side headache again.
Pain is at left temple, left cheekbone and left eye strong. Not so strong pain is at left jawbone, left side of neck and occiput.
My face got swollen a little.
I had to go urinate 4 times at night.
Expectoration dificultly removes.
This pain recurs periodically about once per two mounthes during about 5 years. Without taking remedies the pain reliefs after 3 days. Pain here is at night, too.
The last year this pain occured after using medicines such as vinponcentine, paracetamol, antidepressants, even vitamins. Now it occured after Ars Alb.
Tinitus I feel at left side stronger.
[message edited by Jinai on Mon, 06 Feb 2012 08:56:39 GMT]
[message edited by Jinai on Mon, 06 Feb 2012 09:01:09 GMT]
Jinai last decade
Please take three doses of Nux Vomica 200 at a gap of 12 hours.
kadwa last decade

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