Anxiety and fearHi,
I am 35 yrs male married. I have anxiety problem for the last 5-6 years. I sweat a lot in the forehead when i am anxious. Palpipation, heat sensation in the head. I feel like passing Stools(especially when i watching the tensed cricket matches). I am married and never had an issue with my sexual life.Sometimes i have pain and burning sensation in the lower back after sex. i am facing anxiety problems for las one week. I have put my comments for the questionnaire. Please help me here..
Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.
1. Describe your main suffering?
I have anxiety problem for the last 5-6 years. I sweat a lot in the forehead when i am anxious. Palpipation, heat sensation in the head. I feel like passing Stools(especially when i watching the tensed cricket matches). I am married and never had an issue with my sexual life.Sometimes i have pain and burning sensation in the lower back after sex. I went for a vacation before couple of weeks and was with my close friends for a week. Those days we were frequently speaking sex stories of my friends.I never had a sexual relationship except my wife. For the last 10 days i am thinking most of the time about sex which makes me more feared and anxious.It disturbed my sleep. Very less sleep for the last one week. For the past one week i am observing my erection is not upto the mark. Sometimes it is 80% sometimes 50% sometimes less than that. I went to a near by homeopath and got a medicine Dr. Reckweg Vita C forte. He asked me to have it for a month with a dosage of 5ml 2 times a day for 15 days and 1 time after that till the medicine finishes. I started that medicine before 3 days and i could sense less anxiety, palpitation especially 60-70% reduction in the feeling of passing tools. But the no change seen in ED and my sleep. Till last i never had any ED problem. I am worried about this.
I do exercises regularly for the past 4 years. I walk/Jog for 3-4days a week (60-90 mins/day). I am really happy about my physical activities.
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Back pain esp after having sex or mausterbation.
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
It lows my confidence.
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
I think about it too much and fears which make me anxious.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
I had some anxiety and depression kind of problem during my early days of my College. Because I was home sick and the ragging in the college made me so. I was treated with allopathic medicines for 1 year or so. Then i became normal.
But this anxiety started back 5-6 years from now. One fineday, I had some giddiness, eyes were dark and slight pain in my left shoulders and left hand.I went to the GP and he took ECG it was normal. Then a X-ray of back and neck and conclued it was due to Cervical spodylosis. I was very much worries about CS and this anxiety problem. I used to always think about it. Started fearing i will get BP, Sugar etc. I can't see cricet matches, or to my female collegues, During presentation/some stage events i felt very anxious.I used to smoke and stopped it using cold turkey method.I quit smoking by sep 2009. During this time i started feeling back pain. But after series of tests and scans my ortho conclued it is just a weakness and no problems in my back. I was under treatement for 6 months. But no improvemnets. Later i went a Unani Doctor and he treated it. My physical pains are gone. From that day onward i started doing exercise and doing it reularly.But still i had anxiety issues.Thats continuing till now.
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
I don't think any specific time.
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
- Thiking about my fears
- Anticipation of situations
- Soeaking with my friends
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Weather doesn't make any difference
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am very nervous and sometimes i show my short tempers to my wife/Mom/kid or my close friends. Not to any unknown persions. I some times feel I think too much about -ve incidents or diseases and it negatively effects me.
- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
No such diff feelings
- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
Not at all. Nothing bothers me.
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
Yes, Nail Biting and now a days talking to one self
- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
They are all I have. I love them more than anything in this world and they love me even more. I know it !
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
Fear of getting diseases. Sometimes dreams make me wake. but not sure what kidn of dreams they are.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
Completely normal. Sometimes feeling passing stools when i am anxious.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
I sleep by 11 PM and wake up by 5:30 AM. I will sleep for 30 mins to 1 hour after my breakfast. I travel near by one hour to my office. Sometime i sleep during that travel too.
20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
I fear a lot when i compare me with other persons.
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
in my past, i have visited homeopaths. below are the medicines. And no allopathic medicines for last 4 years.
Cannabies Indica 200 - (For backpain after Sex/Masturbation) - One or two times if i get pain.
Dr. Reckweg's Vita C forte - 5ml doses twice. Taking for the last 4 days.
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
My mother and Brother have mile BP related issues.
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
5'98'', 70 Kg, slim and smart (athletic body), brown eyes, black hair. Typical south indian Colour and structure
psyed on 2014-10-17
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1. Age,sex,weight,body and face appearance, country, occupation.
2. Main complaints and other associated troubles.
a)Where is the trouble; The exact locality of the complaint like hands,legs etc; duration of trouble.
b)What exactly do you feel, Sensation as pain, how pain feels or burn etc.
c)What are the factors that causes this trouble acc. to you.
d)What makes it worse/better; Condition under which the complaint is aggravated or you feel better like,cold or hot application,cold or hot weather,position as standing,walking,rest etc.
e)Any other complaint any where in the body.
f)Onset time of troubles in detail.
g)Treatment method adopted and its result.
h)Any other complaint any where in the body.
3. History of diseases in family.
4. Personal History.
c)Any major incidents in life and the effect of it on life.
d)How you are satisfied with your sex life, friends, family members, company etc.
a)Smoking, Alcohol,Sleeping pills, Laxative etc.
b)Masturbation and frequency.
6. How is your Appetite and Thirst.
7. Likes and Dislikes.
a)Alcohol Bread Butter Bitter Salt Sweet Sour Fats Milk Mud Chalk Egg Spicy food Meat Fish Fruits Fried Food
Warm food-drink Cold food-drink Ice Ice cream Chocolates Tea Coffee.
b)Anything else about likes and dislikes.
8. Bowel movements.
a)Nature of stool, frequency, satisfactory or not.
b)Any discomforts associated with stool.
a)Frequency, nature, volume.
b)Any discomfort before, during or after urination/odour
10. For men.
a)Any difference in erection/want of erection/weak erection/Ejaculation early/late.
b)Any other trouble in sex.
11. For Females.
a)Menses, Regular, Irregular,Early, Late.
b)Duration of menses.
c)Nature of flow, Scanty, Blood colour, Consistency, Odour, Staining, itching/ when and what makes it worse/better.
a)The quality of sleep, the quietness or restlessness of sleep,
position of sleep, times of waking and reasons for waking,
need for cover over various parts of the body,
whether the window must be open or closed etc.
common dreams, peculiar sounds or gestures during sleep, etc.
a)How much, what parts, staining, Odour.
a)Tolerance to heat and cold, dryness, humidity, weather changes, sun,
foggy weather, wind drafts, closed rooms, etc.
15. Mental Status
a)The quality of the patient's life in relationship to loved ones, family, friends and colleagues. Overall quality of energy available to function in daily life, and under various circumstances.
b)Any mental/emotional shocks occurring in the patient's life-grief, major financial losses separation from loved ones, death, identity crisis and other stress in life.
c)Memory,ability to concentrate/comprehend.
d)Are you fearful of anything eg: Animals, people, being alone, darkness, death, disease, robbers, thunder, storm, high places.
e)Are you anxious about anything: if yes, give details.
f)Are you impatient.
g)Are you doubtful or suspicious.
h)Are you hurt easily (emotionally)how do you react. Does it cause hatred/revenge.
i)Does your pride get hurt easily.
j)Are you depressed, if so, reason/circumstances.
k)Do you like to share your problems.
l)Effect of consolation.
m)Do you ever become suicidal when? How.
n)Memory- quality if poor, for what ( eg. Names, places, people, what you read).
o)Do you weep easily, effect of weeping, ie, does it make you worse or better.
p)Are you easily irritated. What makes you angry, how do you express it.
q)Are you destructive.
r)How good are you in making decisions.
s)Do you like company or like to remain alone.
t)How seriously are you affected by disorder and uncleanness in your surroundings.
u)How does failure appear to you?
v)Are there any matters that you deeply dislike?
w)What activities you deeply like? How does it affect your mood?
x)Are you affectionate? How does others sorrow affect you?
y)Any present fear in your life or future.
z)Any present life or future life desire.
♡ homeo.mzp 5 years ago
Anxiety with fear
Anxiety about one's own health
Thoughts, sexual, with impotence
Sleeplessness from sexual thoughts
Anticipation, stage fright
Fear of disease
I would also be considering Staphysagria based on some of the symptoms, although my feeling is more for Caladium.
Can you obtain Caladium 30c in liquid form (oral dosing liquid).
If you instead have pillules or pellets, you will need a small bottle and a dropper to make your own liquid dose. Mix water and alcohol into this small bottle to the ratio of 5:1. Dissolve 3 pillules/pellets into this bottle. All doses will be made from this bottle.
If you already have a liquid dose just start from step 1.
1. Hit the bottle 5 times firmly against the palm of the hand
2. Place 3 drops into 100mls of clean fresh water
3. Stir very thoroughly
4. Take 2 teaspoons out into the mouth and hold for 20 seconds, then swallow.
This is one dose and the same steps should be taken for any further doses, unless I ask you to change them in some way.
I would like you to take 3 doses, one dose each day (so 3 days maximum).
If any old symptoms reappear, or any current symptoms worsen, this is a GOOD sign in most cases. DO NOT SUPPRESS them with other kinds of medication unless you are in real danger (which is a highly unlikely reaction to a remedy).
However, if you are on regular medication it is also important that you do NOT stop taking this. Once it is determined the medicine has acted beneficially, we can look at reducing such medication if safe to do so.
♡ Evocationer 5 years ago
I will follow the same.
But need a clarification.
For now I am having the homeopathic Tonic
Dr. Reckeweg Vita-C 15
Do I need to Stop this tonic and start Caladium 30c or both can be taken?
Thanks in advance.
psyed 5 years ago
♡ Evocationer 5 years ago
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