Shyness, Anxiety, lack of confidence, stage fright, public speaking fear, palpitation, Negative thinking, depression & Sex problem (Attention: Evocationer please help)I just would like to inform you that I copied this from one of your previous post of Raodi and made very few changes only as all these symptoms matches with my condition.
1. I am very shy, timid, quiet, introvert, cowardice, bashful guy. Lack of self-confidence.
2. Dislike of talking, desire to be silent and alone. I always quiet and silent even with parent, family and friends. Stay away from social situations, public meeting and public appearances. I don't like interacting with people. Not easily mix up with people, few friend, Isolate myself. Dont desire to going party & function, not knowing what to say or do.
3. When I start talking to anyone, my heart beat increase, my face, nose muscles start trembling. Palpitation and hesitation when talking.
4. I can't speak in public meeting and stage speaking. stage fright, fear of public speaking, fear of making speech.
5. I can't speak in job Interview, presentation, Group Discussion (GD), any debate.
6. I cannot make eye contact with anyone. I feel nervous, timid, shy when people look at me.
7. Anxiety of an exam, an interview, presentation, group discussion (GD), public meeting, public appearances, stage speaking, public speaking, giving speech, performance anxiety, fear of being late, anxiety before anything, anxiety of doing anything etc.
8. Fear of drive bike or car, fear of accident. Fear of height. Fear about my health, carrier and future. Fear of failure, fear of making mistakes, fear during taking decision, fear of taking risk, Fear of doing wrong, fear of cheating, fear of facing world, fear of doing anything,
9. I have strong fear or anxiety of Sex and Marriage. I can't talk to girls and can't look on girls. When I look to girl or think about girls or sex, my heart beat increase (Palpitation).
10.A lot of masturbation in childhood i.e. for approx 7 to 8 years is also causing problems like nightfall, early discharge and erectile dysfunction and hence I remain always worried about my health. I am avoiding getting married as I believe that all these sexual problems would spoil my marriage life.
In all above case:
11. a) Heart beat increase; Fear to speak out; face, nose start trembling,
b) Lack of self confidence, lack of solid gut feeling, negative thinking.
c) I become totally blank minded, Words are not coming in my mind, unable to think, not knowing what to do or say, deficiency of ideas, cant make decisions, confused, hopeless.
d) I feel Shyness, cowardice, timidity, Palpitation, trembling, hesitation, embarrassed, self-conscious, inferior, introvert, underestimate myself, no good quality, feel stupid, underdog, sometimes diarrhea problem,
e) Nervous, always in a hurry, Worries over little things, blaming myself, stress, depress,
f) Dislike of talking, desire to be silent and alone, Stay away from social situations, public meeting and public appearances. Isolate myself. Not knowing what to say or do.
g) Weak memory, bad concentration, slow comprehension.
h) Sympathetic to others suffering, hard to show emotions, low self esteem.
i) No positive attitude, no positive thinking, no vision, no will power, no courage to do anything, no enthusiasm, no creativity; no faith, no dare to take risk in life, no leadership quality;
j) I feel I am not perfect, sensitive to being observed, sensitive to the opinions of others, sensitive to making mistakes, Feeling of committing a crime, mistakes, being caught doing something wrong, I always think what others will think about me. Feeling of being watched or looked.
k) Always feel dull, depressed, down, sadness, with low or no energy at all for daily work activities.
12. Start thinking in mind before or after meeting with person or events, what they will ask me and how i will reply, How to start the topic (over thinking) etc.
13. I always live in my imagination; over thinking about any things.
14. I can't say "NO" to anyone for any things. Try to please everyone. I always think what others will think about me, I am afraid of fighting with anyone; I can't argument with anyone, hates conflict.
15. I plan everything for my carrier and future but cant implement the same. always avoid to do work. Lack of interest in doing anything. Over thinking before doing anything. Anxiety of doing anything.
16. It has become my attitude that I accept defeat before the battle begins and start thinking negatively about anything.
17. I want to do everything in my life which is best for me but I don't have confidence, guts, courage, attitude, faith, will power, vision, persistence, focus, creativity, decision taking power, risk taking power etc. accept defeat
18. Dry face, sunken cheeks, sunken eyes, physical weakness. I think all these affect my personality. It feels uncomfortable. very concerned about how i appear to other people.
Anonymousmusam on 2015-04-01
Please fill out my questionnaire without referring to someone else's answers. Make the answers your own, from your own thoughts and imagination and fears etc.
CASE PRESENTATION FOR CLASSICAL HOMOEOPATHIC PRESCRIBING
1. Try to be as descriptive as possible. When describing pains or sensations use descriptions along the lines of feels as if someone is squeezing it with their hand or it is like an insect crawling around inside or it is as if someone is standing over me threatening to kill me. Long descriptions are always better than short ones. One word answers are difficult to use successfully.
2. Another important part of symptom description for homoeopathy are the modalities. These are situations, events, activities or conditions which modify the symptom in some way. We usually refer to this as what makes them better or worse (amelioration/aggravation). The situation may actually provoke the symptom into appearing, make it vanish altogether, or just increase or decrease it in some way. Modalities are vital information for prescribing.
Modalities are typically related to (but not exclusively) the following situations:
A. Temperature, weather
B. Time (day, night, specific times, frequency, periodicity, season)
C. Position, activity
D. Emotions, thoughts
E. Food and drink
F. Drugs, medication
3. How the symptom is perceived is important too odour, appearance, sound, touch. What colour is it, what is its texture? For gestures, describe what it looks like the patient is doing, or what you feel you are doing while making the movement eg. they look like they are swatting flies or I feel like something is pushing my hand upwards or it is like I stick a fork in an electrical outlet which throws my body backwards. Description it is key to accurate prescriptions.
4. When did the symptom or set of symptoms start? The apparent cause can be useful in determining the remedy, although it is not of the same importance as the previous factors. It may have been a specific event, a disease, an accident or even an emotional experience.
5. Use your own words. Do not copy phrases or descriptions found in our various remedy pictures. Try not to use other peoples ideas or thoughts or words. If you are reporting on behalf of someone else, report their exact words, however you can also report your own observations of them (not opinions).
6. Does the symptom occur alongside another specific symptom? Do particular symptoms only occur together? Does a particular symptom occur with a particular thought or emotion? For example, a headache that always comes with visual disturbances, or stomach pain that appears alongside anger, or anxiety that makes you feel like running down the street screaming.
7. Each complaint should be described fully before going on to describe another complaint. Try not to mix different symptoms or complaints together. Each modifying feature must be clearly attached to a particular symptom/set of symptoms. Any mistake you make here is a mistake the homoeopath will also then make.
BEFORE MOVING ON TO THE NEXT SET OF QUESTIONS, DO THIS NOW FOR EACH PHYSICAL PROBLEM YOU HAVE. LOOK AT ANY POSSIBLE SYMPTOM YOU HAVE, NOT JUST THE ONE YOU ARE ASKING FOR HELP IN RESOLVING.
♡ Evocationer 7 years ago
(Please spend the most time on this section and give DETAILED answers - the homoeopathic remedy is very often decided on the basis of the mental and emotional state of the patient!)
1. What are the issues in your life that bother you the most. Not physical issues but mental or emotional ones. List each one separately and describe why each one bothers you so much and how you cope with them.
2. What emotions are the most troublesome for you? What situations provoke these emotions. How do these emotions make you act? Do you feel any ill effects from expressing or not expressing these emotions.
3. What incidents in your life have had a deep impact on you? Describe each incident in detail and how they made you feel? What did you do in those situations? What effect have they had on your life?
4. What are you afraid of? Especially important are phobias, but it might be objects, situations or events that just produce a high level of anxiety. How do you manage your fears? How do you react when confronted with these fears? What would be the worst situation for you to be put in that would provoke these fears? You may need to talk about each fear/anxiety separately.
5. What hobbies do you have? Why do you like each of these activities?
6. Do you have any persistent thoughts, ideas or beliefs that are difficult to stop or cope with? What are they?
7. Do you have any unusual gestures or movements of the body? Do you feel any unusual sensation or pain throughout your body? What exactly does it feel like is happening in your body?
8. When you experience your fears, persistent thoughts, or difficult emotions, what kind of sensation or reactions do you get in your body?
9. When did you feel at your best in your life? What was that like for you? If you imagine the complete opposite of this feeling or moment, what would that be like?
10. Do you feel like you are stuck in a pattern of behavior, especially when trying to deal with your problems? What is this pattern? THIS IS AN IMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE CONSIDER CAREFULLY AND GIVE DETAILS.
11. What difficulties or problems do you have in relationships? Talk about your family, your romantic relationships, your spouse or partner, your friends, and your work colleagues. You may need to talk about all of these separately.
12. List 5 positive things about yourself. Are there any situations where this positive attribute becomes negative (is a problem)?
13. List 5 negative things about yourself. Are there any situations where this negative attribute becomes positive (is useful)?
14. Do you have any reoccurring dreams? Describe them in detail, including any feelings that come while dreaming. Dreams are very important in unlocking the deepest truth of a patients case, but it is not enough to simply describe them in a sentence. Give as much information as you feel comfortable doing.
15. Did you have any reoccurring dreams as a child, or earlier in your life? Describe those in detail including any feelings that came with them.
16. What were you like as a child, your character, your personality, your fears, your dreams, your problems?
17. What kind of environment did you grow up in? What problems where there at home, with your family, with your parents, with your siblings, with school?
♡ Evocationer 7 years ago
(Symptoms that dont fit anywhere else, but are things that tend to affect all of you as a person, but are not emotions or thoughts)
1. Sleep - what position do you tend to sleep in?
- what position can you not sleep in?
- do you do anything unusual in your sleep?
- any problems with going to sleep, staying asleep, or waking up?
2. Appetite - What foods do you crave/desire strongly?
- What foods do you hate eating (have an aversion to)?
- What foods have a negative effect on you or cause symptoms?
- What foods have a positive effect on you or seem to improve your health or symptoms in some way?
- What is the effect of hunger or fasting on you?
- What did you crave in the past?
3. Thirst - What drinks do you crave/desire strongly?
- What drinks do you hate to take (are averse to)?
- When are you most thirsty?
- When are you least thirsty?
4. Stool - Do you have any problems with your bowels or passing stool?
- What is the shape, color, odor of the stool?
5. Urine - Do you have any trouble passing or retaining urine?
- What is the color, odor of the urine?
- Do you have any sediment or debris in the urine?
6. Sweat - How do you feel about the amount of perspiration you have?
- Where do you have the most sweat?
- What is the odor?
- What color does it stain clothing?
- Does anything in particular cause you to sweat abnormally?
7. Sexuality - Any problems with your sexual desire?
- Any problems with your sexual ability or function?
- Any history of sexually transmitted diseases?
8. Menses (Women)
- How many days is your cycle?
- How many days does the flow go for?
- What is the appearance of the flow?
- What is the odor of the flow?
- What kind of stain does the flow leave?
- Any discharge before, during or after?
- Any pain before, during or after the flow?
- What symptoms come before the flow?
- What symptoms come after the flow?
9. Environment How does the weather affect you?
- How does the temperature affect you?
- How does the season affect you?
- What physical activities affect you?
- Is there anything else in the environment you are sensitive to?
10. Anything else you feel is important that hasnt been covered by previous questions?
♡ Evocationer 7 years ago
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