Need urgent help please, boy 4 years old, provided all details. _{Page 4 of 4}

Thank you, Doctor, for all your time. I was trying to provide all even small details that could help you. Thank you.

He uses anything to climb on top, he looks at me smiling and I tell him no climbing and then he still does and if he is on top of book shelf, he will jump down right on couch. He loves to jump on bed and trampalin. He uses a potty, a stepper, a toy, anything to step on, then he helps himself with his arms up and lifts his leg, hanging and lifting himself up, and soon enough he reaches whatever he wants on the counter or anywhere else. He loves to climb big rocks as well, and top row of benches that are used for audience that watch baseball game. He likes to be on top. When he is angry, he yells, throws himself on the floor and refuses to go, or he throws things around. He will angrily yell to me- no, stop it mama. He might even hit me, but then he gets scared of consequences. If he sees that I still try to reason with him, he will yell more and angry and he might hit me second time. If I tell him, that that was it and I tell it strictly, and tell him to go on a time out, he will cry and say that he does not want to go on a time out. I still put him in corner where I can see him and ask him to think of his behavior, he might get angry there too or try to come out.

When we go out, he always runs in front of us, he runs and only occasionally looks back, he does not want to walk and hold me by my hand, he may run fast and fall down. But since he was a baby, he would run in front of us and do not even look back. He likes to swing in kids swing, he used to like to swim, he is scared of water ow though and does not enjoy swimming, he still loves water and bathing, and baby pool with slides.

He does not dance, he does not care about dancing and never was. He loves to sing though and has good ear for music. He has his peculiar taste, when I am taking him somewhere and there is some song on the radio, he will say- I do not like this song, turn it off, like Eminem one song that he hates. If I start singing, he will yell and tell me not to sing, he hates it. Today I left him and his brother in gym child watch, and when I came to pick them up, they had a dance contest there, a lot of kids were dancing, both my kids were busy playing with toys, no interest in dance at all.

I do not think he has fallen when he climbs, he had a book case fallen on him, no trauma though, he just got scared, because he was climbing it. He has fallen once, but I would say it was a not very safe landing or he got really distracted on his little brother who was climbing the same pile of hardwood in boxes, he cried after and I comforted him and right away he climbed back up. He gets on top and puts his arms up, his fingers separated and fully stretched and he may shout. Or he just stands there and yells for his little brother or he just stands there and thinks of where it would be best to jump down. If I am watching him, he tells me- look mama, I am so big.

I am not sure that he likes to be naked with sexual focus. He does that only at home, I demand that he puts his underwear on, he does, he says he wants pants though and in couple minutes he is naked again. I let him play in the backyard only in clothes, and very often I find him without clothes there, so I tell him to put clothes back on. He does not focus on his penis then though, he just likes to be naked for some reason. On the other hand, when he wears my clothes, especially silk, he will undress particularly for that and I think that the touch of silk on his body has a sexual excitement for him.He likes my underwear too.

Here is a picture of my son on the big rock which he climbed.

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[message edited by Lexus on Sat, 25 Jun 2011 02:12:01 BST]

Doctor, did you come up with a medicine that is appropriate for my child?
Thank you

Doctor, I will try to buy the remedy today if it is available in store, if it is not, I will order it online.
Speaking about running in circles, he does not do that anymore,I have not seen him for couple weeks do that, so this symptom decreased. I will report when I find the remedy.
I am very grateful for your attention and your advice, thank you, doctor
Inna

Doctor, my husband says he saw him running in circles yesterday, I do not see that though, so it is definitely not as often as before. I believe he stopped doing that during saccharum. Also I forgot to say that he is scared of tunnels, I remembered today because we were walking next to the zoo, they have a train there and he gets terrified when he sees it, the trains rides through a long dark tunnel and he is scared of that tunnel.
The store closed early today, I will go there tomorrow to buy remedy. Thank you

Doctor, please advise the potency for lac felinum. I am searching for it now. Thank you.

Doctor, I bought causticum today, but 30C, because they did not have 200C, I can order 200C online though when I order Lac Fel and Stramonium. Please advise.

Thank you

Thank you, doctor, I will start today! I will keep you informed

Doctor, I decided to use this remedy on Wednesday, because Wednesdays and Thursdays my son stays at home with me and does not go to daycare, so I will be able to see this reaction to medication and give a better update. Wednesday morning right after he wakes up I will give him his medication and will inform you. Thank you

Doctor, I gave my son remedy as advised. To this point I have noticed following changes- it is easier to reason with him, we can negotiate better, yesterday he woke up absolutely dry in the morning, today his diaper was full, but at least the bed was dry, before every morning I had to change bed sheets. He falls asleep in his room by himself, he asks to leave his door open though, and he tells me that he is scared before getting in bed, I tell him that I will leave the door open and he is fine then. I will watch him at practice tomorrow and report back. He is still climbing things, I am watching him standing on a shelf now, he climbed there and said- mama, look. He is still impulsive, when I do not give him what he wants, he can easily sit down in the middle of the street, I can calm him down easily though, distract him somehow. When I am holding his hand and we are standing he needs to jump and he will jump all the time, pulling my hand, like he can not hold still.

Doctor, I will wait until his bad cough is gone, or should I just go ahead and give him the dose?? Please advise further treatment, which remedy should I get him in which potency.

I also wanted to update you that he is not biting his finger nails as much as he did before, I see him biting, but not even nearly as often as he used to, so there is obvious improvement there. He wet the bed tonight, but he slept really long and before bed time I gave him blended fruit with juice. Running in circles stopped completely, have not seen it for a while.

I wanted to mention that he hates everything warm, if soup is warm, not hot, he will not eat it, he needs it almost room temperature. His bath if it is warm, not luke warm, but warm, he will cry and and say that it is too warm for him, so he resents warm, he wants room temperature and washes his hands in coldish water.