pe and pd (please help dr. kadwa)To Respected Dr. Kadwa,
I am writing this post with an expectation to get right guidance from your side. I hope your will go through my problem and prescribe me a right medicine. I will be highly thankfull to you for your effort and time.
Here I have field questinaries :
1. Describe your main suffering?
A. Early Ejaculation within 30 seconds , Sometimes even before penetrating.
B. Do not get hardness in penis, stay soft though just before ejaculation get some hardness but
C. liquid is very sticky and less in quantity and without force. When I ejaculate , I feel that
something still remain inside, I do not feel any special excitement during ejaculation.
D. I do not feel any excitement when watching porn movie and nothing happens in my penis. It still stay in normal position.
E. Even I do not feel any excitement in my penis when I see my girlfriend naked. Though
after few minutes of foreplay I manage to get some some eraction but ejaculate soon
after penetrating ( 3-4 strok) or before.
F. When my girlfriend comes on top then I ejaculate a bit delayed than I being on top.
G.After Ejaculation ( first time ) I feel like a completely dead person. I do not feel any
attraction towards her. I feel tired and like to sleep after ejaculation.
H. I am not able to perform second round .
I. I do sleep in day time . I do not feel seeply in night upto 2.30 AM.
J. I feel more fresh during evening till midnight .
K . feels that my Penis size is small and thin ( during eraction 4.2 inches long and gridth is 1.2
2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
A.I feel headche/ havyness in my head after sex. I feel pain in my thigh during standing postion just after few hours of sex.
B. I have cold porblem. I have alergy from dust. I always Sneezz in the morning time.
I do take 'Cetrizine tablet ' to avoid alergy but not frequent. I have asthama as well. But it is in control. I rarely feel breathing problem ( once in a 7-8 months or year and it is very mild). I use spray to control it.
C. I do have constipation and Gas problem since 3 years.
D. I feel very lazy and usually wake up late in the morning around 9 Am.
3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
A. I do not get concentration. Very weak memory.
B.I like to watch porn movie ( since age of 16 ) but do not feel any excitment and
penis doesnt eract ( stay in normal position ) during watching movies.
C. I feel an hunger for sex from heart but no sexual picture comes in mind .
D. I do not get focus on any subject or work. I do take any new work with strong
commitment but I always get bored and stop it incomplete.
4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
A. I have an nature to incourage myself everytime whenever I feel negativity but
never follow my own commitment. I feel splited in two parts from inside.
B. Since past two years I am going through big financial loss. I went through deep bad
phase of my life where I lost my Job ( Which was never give a good money) , Lost
my father , went on debth, get cheated by friends and finally break up with my
girlfriend. In all these situation I only incouraged my self though I was in big
C. After breakup from my Girl freind I was completely broken ( 7 months before ) and I was crying in alone and many times I got sucidal thoughts ( First time in my 31 years of life, Though I am very positive and fun loving guy and never thought about sucide before).
D. Since then I decided to stay at my hometown with mom and now I recovered from all these odds.
E. But still I get very frustrated some time and often I sought on my Mom on any small talk which I dont like.
5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
I was doing masturbation since 14 years. I encountered first time with female at the age of 29 ( 4 years back ) when I hired a female escort. After a big frustration. She stayed whole night with me.We had dinner togheter. I was very excited but feeling shy and guilty as well. We were laying toghter besides of each other naked It was first time when I realized that I am unable to do sex. I tryed every possible way and even she co oprated a lot but my penis did not get any eraction. Penis was in a very normal position and even smaller than normal ( One ench Aprox). I realized that I was feeling hunger for sex from heart but no thoughts or picture was there in mind. My mind was completley blank and I was feeling very frustrated. At last we slapt without having sex. In morning time I got some eraction in penis I was in hurry to feel the sexual pleasure. As I touched her organ I got Ejaculated . It was an horrible experience for me.
Before this incident I was enjoying regular masturbation with fantasy thoughts. But after this incident I lost completely my interest toward masturbation and sex for few weeks. Untill I found my girl friend.
Same thing happend again with my girl friend when I did it first time with her. So I asked one chamist to give some drug.
I started taking sildenafil ( Suhagra by Cipla) 25 mg one hr before sex and It gave me very satisfying result . I was getting full hardness and 10 to 15 minutes and even more if I stop for few minutes( first time ) and 25 30 Minutes ( second time ) ejaculation duration. But it side effect was so horrible. I was use to consume one pill or two pill weekly. Soon after few months 25mg stoped giving good results so I started with 50 mg and was consuming till this Jan 2011. But it was also stoped working on my body at last.
Now I do masturbation very rarely. Once or twice in a month. ( Beocuse I am not in a relationship with my Girlfriend now.)
6. Which time of the day you are worst?
In day time , around 11 AM to 5 PM when I feel very lazyness and sleepy.
7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?
8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?
I dont think so. Changing a place doesnt effect.
9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
Better in Cold ( normal ) and Dry Weather.
10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.
I am very flexible in nature. Takes time to mixup with new people. A bit feeling of hasitation in new group of people or friend. I feel infiriority in amoung rich and new friends. Feel hasitation and try to escape as soon as possible when I meet beutiful , modern look and smart girl. I Always avoid to mixup with old age people and I give them very much respect. I become very friendly with the people of same age after few meetings. I am quiet by nature and talk limited most of the time. Though I talk a lot and crack a joke amoung the friends. I always keep thinking on any matter.
I gets angry immediately on my close people and object by my hard words. But soon after I become cold like ice.
Any small cheating by anyone ( like when autorickshow guy ask more money then meter or when she some news on TV ) hearts me lot and keep thinking on same.
How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
Coooool.... Relaxed....Feels like completely in meditative stages. Wants to hold my Girl firned in my arm in Balcony.
Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Yes I like sometime...But I am very practical guy... I like that someone shuold come and show me the right path and real solution of my problem. Beouse from starting no one has guided me in right direction. I only created my path.
Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
No. Though good perfume smell from female side attarcts me lot.
- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
Talking to one self Sometime yes-
How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?
My maximum friends has cheated me financially. So Now I am avoiding friendship. Only I have few freinds but those are far away and not in touch.
In my family , I am close to my mother and sister .
I am 32 years old unmmaried guy and I dont have any interest in marriege though family members are forcing .
11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?
I am 33 years now and people avarage life is 60 years so I wasted my more than half life without doing anything . All dreams and desires are getting died with my strugle in life. I didnt achieved anything till now which I wanted in my life. What Identity I will leave here in this world when I die. These are my fears.
And I do not remember any dreams.
12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
I eat anything. At home mostly Veg. And if outside then sometime prefer nonveg.
13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
Less. Hardly 3- 4 glass of water in whole day.
14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
15. Is there any kind of food which your body cant stand?
No. I eat almost everything.
16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?
From last two years I am realizing that I sweat more in Head area. Sometimes my palm get sweat when I am in tense.
17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?
Stool often normal. I go one time in morning. Though since last 15 days its coming hard when I had taken ' Lycopodium ' for few days. I have gas problem generally in the morning time when I wake up.
18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?
Generally I sleep late night around 2 AM and wakeup 8 9 in morning. And I also sleep in day time .
I feel very sleepy after taking lunch , specially when I take rice , which I usually.
19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?
20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?
21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?
Sildenafil ( Suhagra ( Cipla) or Manforce tablet 25 mg and 50 mg ) - Regulary taken when ever I was doing sex.
I went through ABC Remedy Finder and forum started self diagnosis 15 days before.
Lycopodium 30 C - 5-6 drops once daily in night -
Yohimbinum Q - 5 drops thrice daily
Both medicine I took for 5-6 days and I felt heavy constipation ( stool was not coming out ) then I stopped immediately without any noticeble effect.
Caladium S 200 C 5 drops one time daily in night - After stopping avobe medicine I read somewhere about this medicine and started taking this since 6 days.
No Noticeable effect. Though I noticed a mild pain and heavyness in my right testis ( which is larger then left one) . It contineus for few hrs only. Still taking.
22. What major diseases are running in your family?
My father had diabetic problem and died with prostatic ( extanded to liver and Bone ) .at age of 67.
23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance
I am 5 feet 8 inch tall. 73 Kg weight . Cylindrical body. My hands and wrists are avarage thin.
Chest are inside and fat on belly. Round face with glass on eye since childhood. Mild baldness on top side of head. Inner front side of the body are fair ( like chest and abdomen area and leg. ) Small dry pimpple always come out on back shoulder area and hip.
[message edited by sagar1sam on Sat, 24 Sep 2011 10:06:39 BST]
sagar1sam on 2011-09-24
Please come back after one month as you have already taken too many doses of indicated remedies.
♡ kadwa 8 years ago
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