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Gave him the dose as I mentioned above, about 6 hours ago (he is in bed now). No aggravation yet, less annoying behaviors. He actually was being crazy earlier and saw me looking at him and stopped and kind of laughed and said, 'I was just being silly'. Still hyper, but not as much. He tends to be pretty constipated, not going for days, but went about 1/2 hour after the dose and no issues with it. More conversational, asking me questions about me actually, and affectionate toward me and his dad. He started talking about a kid in his class who always wants to sit next to and play with another kid, and wondering why he does this because the other kid doesn't always like it. (Seems like social awareness! He usually seems oblivious to things like this). He actually told me a lie today, when I asked him if he washed his hands and he kept telling me yes. I realized it wasn't true and he finally admitted it. He has never lied in his life, lol. Easier going, fell down and laughed about it, rather then screamed. Also wasn't walking on toes so much and ran with his arms. Remembering things we had talked about a long time ago and telling me things he did today at bed time (he never remembers what he did that day and doesn't usually talk about it). Seems positive so far! Bracing myself for an aggravation though. Will keep you updated.
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allicando last decade
Well well, that looks like a great result so far. Very wide reaching as any good remedy should be. Excellent.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
He is actually finding things to occupy himself with today instead of wandering around bored and whiny! He is being creative too, we built a castle out of pillows that was all his idea. He seems more independent, we went to the park and he didn't wander around in circles looking confused or need me to be within 5 feet of him. He's been playing by himself for the past 20 minutes, and that never happens! :)
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allicando last decade
Well it is early days, I don't want either of us to get too excited. There can be false starts in treatment as you know. But certainly this appears more in line with the kind of reaction I would expect from the simillimum. You can see the difference between this and a partial similar.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Yes, I am trying to be reserved. The first time on this remedy the dosing was horrible and it ended up going haywire so that was confusing and a dissapointment. So it will depend a lot on that and I think that will tell me over time if he needs something else or not. With a lot of the other remedies we have tried I would see certain things improve while other things stayed the same or got worse. Like only certain things were helped and only for a short time. I can't think of something I have concerns about that isn't (even slightly) better - at least yesterday and today. The first time around there would be a hard relapse at around day 6. (This was after repeated dry dosing every two weeks). I don't know if that will happen again or not - if so I hope it will be more gradual.
allicando last decade
Last night he woke up and had diarrhea. The same kind he has had every time I have given him this remedy. Same color too, orange-ish. Is this strange? Its not usually orange and he is usually constipated. This has never happened on any other remedy. My mom notices he is more calm and seems more confident and affectionate. :)
allicando last decade
That is wonderful! A discharge is being set up to relieve the internal disturbance. That is an excellent sign. Do nothing to suppress that!
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
:) I didn't suppress it. He is a little bit more hyper today and more spacey, clumsy...not as bad as he usually is though. Could he be aggravating? It is day 4. I had a thought that I was dosing so much originally (like a year ago) that by the last of the 'dose', 3 days later would seem to be a major relapse (and this was 6 days after the beginning, as there were 3 days of dosing). Of course that's what I thought it was at the time, when it very well could have been the aggravation from the last of the 'dose', since it was 3 days after that. Right? Maybe I should have waited through that but it was so bad and I had no clue. Thought that meant I needed to redose. :/
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allicando last decade
Still seems more spacey, hyper, little irritable, but not as bad as before the dose. I can't imagine it is time to redose already (it is only day 5). Could there be some minor aggravation? Should I just wait and see if the next few days get better again?
allicando last decade
Yes he could be aggravating, so it is necessary to wait and observe. A genuine relapse will be obvious when it happens.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Not really, not for a chronic problem. I see aggravations happen anytime in that first week. Everyone has their own blueprint for getting well.
Remedy reactions are divided into 3 phases.
1. The immediate medicinal effect
2. The reaction of the vital force to the medicinal effect (the pushback)
3. The actions of the vital force that is now healthier, and its attempts to clean up the mess.
All of this is often seen as the 'aggravation' although really only phase 1 is. However it is all part of the healing process.
Remedy reactions are divided into 3 phases.
1. The immediate medicinal effect
2. The reaction of the vital force to the medicinal effect (the pushback)
3. The actions of the vital force that is now healthier, and its attempts to clean up the mess.
All of this is often seen as the 'aggravation' although really only phase 1 is. However it is all part of the healing process.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
So the initial positive response to the remedy is really the aggravation?
(I wonder why the whole concept of aggravation was never even explained to me in the very beginning, leaving me to think that he was only helped for a few days. Kind of frustrated that our first homeopath just went along with my thinking and told me to keep redosing him...leading to major proving symptoms and a year's worth of wasted time, money, and stress. A lot of the side effects and lost time could have been prevented had I known what to expect/look for. It majorly bums me out to think about it so I just can't. :/)
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(I wonder why the whole concept of aggravation was never even explained to me in the very beginning, leaving me to think that he was only helped for a few days. Kind of frustrated that our first homeopath just went along with my thinking and told me to keep redosing him...leading to major proving symptoms and a year's worth of wasted time, money, and stress. A lot of the side effects and lost time could have been prevented had I known what to expect/look for. It majorly bums me out to think about it so I just can't. :/)
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allicando last decade
He seems better the end of yesterday and today. Still not as good as the first couple days but it does seem like the aggravation (or whatever you would call it, those couple intense days) are fading off. Should I expect his behavior to go back to how it was those first couple days or it will level out at better than normal but worse than first couple days? (If you get what I am saying, I am picturing a bell curve in my head, lol)
allicando last decade
No the initial negative reaction is the medicinal effect, the improvement is the secondary effect, and the various ups and downs that follow (assuming the remedy was a good one) are the long term effect of the vital force trying to restore order to the body.
It is quite possible your homoeopath just didn't understand it. It seems that many students just gloss over things in college (where the lecturer may also not have understood it, shameful as that is). I don't really get why you wouldn't try to fill in any gaps in your knowledge as a practitioner - it seems to me it would be of great interest to me to know those kind of things.
It is quite possible your homoeopath just didn't understand it. It seems that many students just gloss over things in college (where the lecturer may also not have understood it, shameful as that is). I don't really get why you wouldn't try to fill in any gaps in your knowledge as a practitioner - it seems to me it would be of great interest to me to know those kind of things.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
I had to make a new username for now since I have had trouble logging in and my password is not being sent to my email :( Anyway, he is back to being hyper and very noisy today...I don't know what to think anymore.
I also realized that I have had a lot of amalgam (mercury) fillings in my mouth since childhood and that could have affected him in utero, since it says it can cause nervous system dysfunction and developmental delays in the fetus. I cannot afford to get them removed at this time but I am sure they are affecting me! They can cause mood swings and fatigue, etc. UGH.
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I also realized that I have had a lot of amalgam (mercury) fillings in my mouth since childhood and that could have affected him in utero, since it says it can cause nervous system dysfunction and developmental delays in the fetus. I cannot afford to get them removed at this time but I am sure they are affecting me! They can cause mood swings and fatigue, etc. UGH.
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♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
I think it was only 9 days ago. He is not continuing to improve...
He is being very annoying again, just not as bad as before this remedy. I don't know if its still part of the aggravation or what. He's not as spacey as before either, its just not continuing to get better, sort of a plateau, without the improvements of the beginning.
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He is being very annoying again, just not as bad as before this remedy. I don't know if its still part of the aggravation or what. He's not as spacey as before either, its just not continuing to get better, sort of a plateau, without the improvements of the beginning.
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♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Oh wow, we only had a couple good days and then he aggravated for a couple more. Now I don't know what's going on. Doesn't seem worth it to repeat the dose when there are more or the same number of aggravated days then of beneficial ones...
I used 1 drop in 2 full cups of water. Shouldn't a 1M be lasting longer than that if it is a good remedy?
I used 1 drop in 2 full cups of water. Shouldn't a 1M be lasting longer than that if it is a good remedy?
allicando2 last decade
Well you are using the Sacchrum which was not my preferred choice of medicine, so yes it is possible this is showing that the medicine is not really suitable. I still believe the Carc is probably a better choice.
However, it is always important to give a second dose before abandoning a remedy, since it can often take more than a single dose to set the reaction in a patient.
However, it is always important to give a second dose before abandoning a remedy, since it can often take more than a single dose to set the reaction in a patient.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Ok. Well he is going to bed now, I will see how he is in the morning and possibly redose him after school. To be fair, I was gone most of the day but my husband said he was just loud and hyperactive all day, and he still was when I saw him. He is fairly happy though and responsive. I guess I would expect this remedy to deal more with the hyperactivity (at least for longer) but who knows. I will feel him out as to when to give a second dose. Should I use 3 cups this time?? (Since you said I should dilute more)
allicando2 last decade
I did not redose today because he seems better (I am so confused with all this up and down!) School said he was excellent. Little bursts of being hyper here and there, but pretty good eye contact and conversation. Creative play with blocks and played well with me with them. It seems like he might be constipated again, I haven't noticed him going for the last couple of days, and he has a lot of gas (which he seems to find hilarious).
allicando2 last decade
Problems never just magically disappear. There is a whole process that has to happen. Homoeopathy is like counselling - you don't just go talk to someone and come out with no problems. You come out with perspective, a change in attitude, some tools to make further changes, and so on. The remedies do this as well, but on a much deeper level. He may be sorting things out now, changing, learning how to do and not to do things. It is important to be patient with it, as long as you continue to see positives.
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
He is more calm today and pretty good connection. His teacher made a special trip out to my car today to tell me how wonderful my son was today and what a good listener he was! After school we went to the park for a bit where he saw a kid from his class and was really happy to see him - they played together and my son even gave the other kid half of his sandwich (his favorite kind of sandwich!) without being asked! He shared all by himself! I guess it is still working...:)
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