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dear evocationer :
dulcamara 200 c liquid was given to my son 9 days ago.
this is what i saw so far :
on the third day, he vomited one time, and also had liquid stools , two times .
no related to any virus or anything else, he was just fine and it didnt happen after that.
it seems that he had a better week, brought good grades from school, and even though he did confronted me and my husband, and did yell, he felt sorry almost immediately and said that he didnt want to fight with us.
that he wanted to be good and in peace, i also noticed that he kissed me more and told me that he loved me , which was not that usual for him.
bedweting i am not able to report , i have to wait a little bit more, and also nervous tics on the right eye.
i can write to you in a few days and tell you what else is happening.
i do think that the remedy is working .
i thank you for your time, please let me know what you think.
take care
dulcamara 200 c liquid was given to my son 9 days ago.
this is what i saw so far :
on the third day, he vomited one time, and also had liquid stools , two times .
no related to any virus or anything else, he was just fine and it didnt happen after that.
it seems that he had a better week, brought good grades from school, and even though he did confronted me and my husband, and did yell, he felt sorry almost immediately and said that he didnt want to fight with us.
that he wanted to be good and in peace, i also noticed that he kissed me more and told me that he loved me , which was not that usual for him.
bedweting i am not able to report , i have to wait a little bit more, and also nervous tics on the right eye.
i can write to you in a few days and tell you what else is happening.
i do think that the remedy is working .
i thank you for your time, please let me know what you think.
take care
love and peace 9 years ago
Excellent. He had an aggravation first, and then this is followed by improvement. My advice also would be to watch and wait for the time being. This is promising but we do need to see how things progress over a longer period of time. He may need more doses, or higher potencies, or eventually to change to a new remedy especially if something acute comes up. It is important when you start the process of healing to not immediately go back to using orthodox medicine for any acute conditions that appear.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
dear evocationer :
after the first week and the initials things i wrote, this is what happened :
he got a lot better with nervous tics and also bed wetting , amazing ! since i read from dulcamara it doesnt seem to cover this issues but it did an amazing job !
so far, only stramonium was doing that job.
his fear of somebody in the house, got worse and now is better not completely healed but better.
his behavior in the house and with us got also better.
now,,, this past 2 or 3 days the nervous tics came back in his eyes.
he seems to be difficult again in school and here in the house, fighting with us.
this coming friday it will be a month that i gave him the remedy.
overall, he got better and now some things are showing up again.
thank you for your help and time .
please, let me know what do you suggest .
after the first week and the initials things i wrote, this is what happened :
he got a lot better with nervous tics and also bed wetting , amazing ! since i read from dulcamara it doesnt seem to cover this issues but it did an amazing job !
so far, only stramonium was doing that job.
his fear of somebody in the house, got worse and now is better not completely healed but better.
his behavior in the house and with us got also better.
now,,, this past 2 or 3 days the nervous tics came back in his eyes.
he seems to be difficult again in school and here in the house, fighting with us.
this coming friday it will be a month that i gave him the remedy.
overall, he got better and now some things are showing up again.
thank you for your help and time .
please, let me know what do you suggest .
love and peace 9 years ago
Something many people don't understand is that a remedy does not have to cover every little symptom in a case to cure those symptoms. The symptoms are produced by a disturbance in the central control system (vital energy), so if you can find a remedy to match that central disturbance, it can put right all those little symptoms itself.
It is not unusual to see someone need several doses over a long period of time. I would repeat the remedy again exactly as before. Let me know the result in about a week or so.
Good news so far though.
It is not unusual to see someone need several doses over a long period of time. I would repeat the remedy again exactly as before. Let me know the result in about a week or so.
Good news so far though.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
dear dr :
thank you so much for the explanation about how remedies can help even though they are not listed to cover that symptom.
simply amazing, i didnt know that , now i understand better.
ok, the remedy will be repeated .
i will keep you posted.
thanks and have a nice weekend!!
thank you so much for the explanation about how remedies can help even though they are not listed to cover that symptom.
simply amazing, i didnt know that , now i understand better.
ok, the remedy will be repeated .
i will keep you posted.
thanks and have a nice weekend!!
love and peace 9 years ago
dear evocationer :
the remedy was given to my son 10 days ago for the second time.
this is what happened :
on the third day he bedwet again, this time at 6 am but he did realized usually he didnt.
his nervous tics got worse and also the fear to the unkown person in the house.
he got better in school and with his sister, just for 3 days.
after that, he got worse at school, and very bad in the house, producing a lot of fighting between his sister and us.
he told me that his fear was almost gone.
now, yesterday, better with sister, and his fear was really bad and also the pimples he has in his back.
so far, that is all.
thank you for your help.
i wait for your answer.
take care.
the remedy was given to my son 10 days ago for the second time.
this is what happened :
on the third day he bedwet again, this time at 6 am but he did realized usually he didnt.
his nervous tics got worse and also the fear to the unkown person in the house.
he got better in school and with his sister, just for 3 days.
after that, he got worse at school, and very bad in the house, producing a lot of fighting between his sister and us.
he told me that his fear was almost gone.
now, yesterday, better with sister, and his fear was really bad and also the pimples he has in his back.
so far, that is all.
thank you for your help.
i wait for your answer.
take care.
love and peace 9 years ago
This is a complete list of his symptoms. Next to each one write Better, Worse, or Same. If better or worse please also write a percentage % to represent how much.
Cannot sit still for more than 10 minutes
Very anxious
Fights with parents a lot
Won't follow rules
Always does the opposite
Constantly arguing
Aversion to washing hair
Selfish
Fights with sister all the time
Needs to follow his own routine
Bored with everything
Afraid of someone in the house
Shortness of breath
Fear at night
Fear of being alone
Aversion to going to school
Talking too much
Desire to wrestle with everyone
Upset easily
Sleeps on stomach with legs up and crossed
Talking during sleep
Screaming during sleep
Desires cold drinks
Desires ice cream
Aversion to fish
Aversion to onions
Desires soda
Impatient wants things now
Fear of storms, tornadoes
Constipation
Retains stool till he passes in pants
Retains urine
Sweat smells of onions
Cannot sit still for more than 10 minutes
Very anxious
Fights with parents a lot
Won't follow rules
Always does the opposite
Constantly arguing
Aversion to washing hair
Selfish
Fights with sister all the time
Needs to follow his own routine
Bored with everything
Afraid of someone in the house
Shortness of breath
Fear at night
Fear of being alone
Aversion to going to school
Talking too much
Desire to wrestle with everyone
Upset easily
Sleeps on stomach with legs up and crossed
Talking during sleep
Screaming during sleep
Desires cold drinks
Desires ice cream
Aversion to fish
Aversion to onions
Desires soda
Impatient wants things now
Fear of storms, tornadoes
Constipation
Retains stool till he passes in pants
Retains urine
Sweat smells of onions
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
dear evocationer :
thank you so much for your answer .
1) same
2)same
3)better 20%
4)better 20%
5)better 10%
6)better just a little 5%
7) same he really hates to wash his hair.
8)better 20%
9)better 10%
10)same
11)better but he does gets bored pretty easy.
12)better ( but at the beginning got worse) 30%.there were days he said he didnt have any fear at all.
13)worse 60 %
14)better 30%
15)better 20%
16) same he really hates going to school, he complains every single day.
17)same
18)same, he wrestles all day long, even with the dog.
19)better 30%
20)better 10%
21)better 40 % ( the first days was really worse )
22)better 20%
23)same
24)same ( a lot )
25)same he hates fish, only thing is shrimps
26)same, he hates onions.
27)better 20%, but we dont have sodas in the house, is only when he goes out and not every time .
28)same, very impatient.
29)same, very afraid of tornadoes, and here are few 30)better 35 %
31)same, he holds the stool until the very last moment.
32)same , same as above.
33)same, he hates onions in any form.
i hope this helps, i am sorry i only put numbers and didnt copy everything, i dont have internet anymore and i have a limited time here .
also, that is why i am not answering right away.
thank you for all your help.
take care
thank you so much for your answer .
1) same
2)same
3)better 20%
4)better 20%
5)better 10%
6)better just a little 5%
7) same he really hates to wash his hair.
8)better 20%
9)better 10%
10)same
11)better but he does gets bored pretty easy.
12)better ( but at the beginning got worse) 30%.there were days he said he didnt have any fear at all.
13)worse 60 %
14)better 30%
15)better 20%
16) same he really hates going to school, he complains every single day.
17)same
18)same, he wrestles all day long, even with the dog.
19)better 30%
20)better 10%
21)better 40 % ( the first days was really worse )
22)better 20%
23)same
24)same ( a lot )
25)same he hates fish, only thing is shrimps
26)same, he hates onions.
27)better 20%, but we dont have sodas in the house, is only when he goes out and not every time .
28)same, very impatient.
29)same, very afraid of tornadoes, and here are few 30)better 35 %
31)same, he holds the stool until the very last moment.
32)same , same as above.
33)same, he hates onions in any form.
i hope this helps, i am sorry i only put numbers and didnt copy everything, i dont have internet anymore and i have a limited time here .
also, that is why i am not answering right away.
thank you for all your help.
take care
love and peace 9 years ago
When doing these assessments, please copy the list of symptoms and write next to them. Otherwise I have to keep going back and forth counting down the list to see which symptom you are referring to.
Ok significant improvements in some areas, small ones in others, with some symptoms unchanged. This has come after an aggravation which is good.
The one symptom that is worse is a local one (breathing/lungs) and this follows the direction of cure (inside to out).
However it is not enough of a change to wait longer. Repeat the dose with the following changes:
1. Hit the bottle 10 times instead of 5.
2. Place 2 drops instead of 3
3. Use 250mls of water instead of 200mls
Ok significant improvements in some areas, small ones in others, with some symptoms unchanged. This has come after an aggravation which is good.
The one symptom that is worse is a local one (breathing/lungs) and this follows the direction of cure (inside to out).
However it is not enough of a change to wait longer. Repeat the dose with the following changes:
1. Hit the bottle 10 times instead of 5.
2. Place 2 drops instead of 3
3. Use 250mls of water instead of 200mls
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
dear dr :
i did what you told me to , and the remedy was given to my son 10 days ago.
so far this are the reactions:
BEFORE taking the remedy he was doing really bad with nervous tics, open and closing his mouth all the time.
once i gave him the remedy the nervous tics got worse and this past 2 days they are a lot better , almost gone .
fear of a stranger in the house , almost completely gone, amazing !! i asked him today .
during the whole week, he was really bad with us, defiant, fighting with everybody all day long, and then crying a lot .
completely out of control, then those things started to release not all gone.
worse shortness of breath, it got worse, yesterday, and today.
wrestling,,, still the same it is insane is the only thing he wants to do .
the remedy is working much better than any other i saw, thank you so much, for your so valuable help.
i would like to ask you something if you can answer, could you please recommend me a book to read ? about homeopathy? i do have 2 but they only talk about the remedies, something that i can learn deeper if you have time.
take care
i did what you told me to , and the remedy was given to my son 10 days ago.
so far this are the reactions:
BEFORE taking the remedy he was doing really bad with nervous tics, open and closing his mouth all the time.
once i gave him the remedy the nervous tics got worse and this past 2 days they are a lot better , almost gone .
fear of a stranger in the house , almost completely gone, amazing !! i asked him today .
during the whole week, he was really bad with us, defiant, fighting with everybody all day long, and then crying a lot .
completely out of control, then those things started to release not all gone.
worse shortness of breath, it got worse, yesterday, and today.
wrestling,,, still the same it is insane is the only thing he wants to do .
the remedy is working much better than any other i saw, thank you so much, for your so valuable help.
i would like to ask you something if you can answer, could you please recommend me a book to read ? about homeopathy? i do have 2 but they only talk about the remedies, something that i can learn deeper if you have time.
take care
love and peace 9 years ago
dear evocationer :
i forgot to mention that my song has been biting his nails and finger tips a lot more.
i asked him why , and he said one is because daddy does it, and second because i cant stop, and that is something that got a lot worse.
thank you .
i forgot to mention that my song has been biting his nails and finger tips a lot more.
i asked him why , and he said one is because daddy does it, and second because i cant stop, and that is something that got a lot worse.
thank you .
love and peace 9 years ago
dear dr :
this coming friday it will be 3 weeks from the last dose of dulcamara 200c.
i already left 2 updates , and this is what is going on right now, his fear of someone in the house is a lot , lot worse, he cant even take a shower by himself.
also, he has been fighting with me a lot, and then cries for no reason,,, and ask me to forgive him .
please, let me know if i should wait or repeat the remedy .
please check all my previous responses if you have time.
i appreciate your effort and help.
take care
silvia
this coming friday it will be 3 weeks from the last dose of dulcamara 200c.
i already left 2 updates , and this is what is going on right now, his fear of someone in the house is a lot , lot worse, he cant even take a shower by himself.
also, he has been fighting with me a lot, and then cries for no reason,,, and ask me to forgive him .
please, let me know if i should wait or repeat the remedy .
please check all my previous responses if you have time.
i appreciate your effort and help.
take care
silvia
love and peace 9 years ago
Silvia,
Give him another dose now.
Evocationer is off the forum as of today,
for 4 days. He must have missed your
previous posts. If they get missed
again for some reason, post for me
or click my name and email me and I
can usually alert him via another thread
he is answering.
Give him another dose now.
Evocationer is off the forum as of today,
for 4 days. He must have missed your
previous posts. If they get missed
again for some reason, post for me
or click my name and email me and I
can usually alert him via another thread
he is answering.
♡ simone717 9 years ago
thank you simone , could you please let evocationer know about this last posts?
i will repeat the dose as you suggested.
take care
i will repeat the dose as you suggested.
take care
love and peace 9 years ago
♡ simone717 9 years ago
dear evocationer :
just wanted to let you know, that another dose of dulcamara 200 c was given to my son last friday, as simone suggested .
i did it the same way as last time, i hit the bottle 10 times and took 2 drops from there.
i will keep you posted, hope you are doing well , and thanks.
just wanted to let you know, that another dose of dulcamara 200 c was given to my son last friday, as simone suggested .
i did it the same way as last time, i hit the bottle 10 times and took 2 drops from there.
i will keep you posted, hope you are doing well , and thanks.
love and peace 9 years ago
dear dr evocationer :
thanks for coming back and still help with my son's case.
also thanks to simone that helped me too.
another dose was given to my son like 10 days ago , i did it like last time ( hit the bottle 10 times and 2 drops )
this are so far the reactions :
nervous tics are back, and really bad .
fear of someone in the house, a lot better he said 99 % better.
very emotional , fights and then cries asking for forgiveness.
fights with sister and very defiant with us.
misses old things ( like friends and the other school he was in , this year is a new one )
keeps bitting fingertips but seems to be better.
not following directions .
talks during sleep, worse the first days.
sleeping with legs crossed worse.
some of the things i mentioned they do get worse and then better or the other way around.
i think the remedy is acting very deeply and helping him a lot.
do you want me to keep you an update in a week or so ?
thank you very much, dr for your help.
hope you are doing well.
thanks for coming back and still help with my son's case.
also thanks to simone that helped me too.
another dose was given to my son like 10 days ago , i did it like last time ( hit the bottle 10 times and 2 drops )
this are so far the reactions :
nervous tics are back, and really bad .
fear of someone in the house, a lot better he said 99 % better.
very emotional , fights and then cries asking for forgiveness.
fights with sister and very defiant with us.
misses old things ( like friends and the other school he was in , this year is a new one )
keeps bitting fingertips but seems to be better.
not following directions .
talks during sleep, worse the first days.
sleeping with legs crossed worse.
some of the things i mentioned they do get worse and then better or the other way around.
i think the remedy is acting very deeply and helping him a lot.
do you want me to keep you an update in a week or so ?
thank you very much, dr for your help.
hope you are doing well.
love and peace 9 years ago
Ok let's do a reassessment, just as we did before. When you do the percentages though, compare it to how he was prior to taking the Dulcamara (so an overall improvement or worsening).
Cannot sit still for more than 10 minutes
Very anxious
Fights with parents a lot
Won't follow rules
Always does the opposite
Constantly arguing
Aversion to washing hair
Selfish
Fights with sister all the time
Needs to follow his own routine
Bored with everything
Afraid of someone in the house
Shortness of breath
Fear at night
Fear of being alone
Aversion to going to school
Talking too much
Desire to wrestle with everyone
Upset easily
Sleeps on stomach with legs up and crossed
Talking during sleep
Screaming during sleep
Desires cold drinks
Desires ice cream
Aversion to fish
Aversion to onions
Desires soda
Impatient wants things now
Fear of storms, tornadoes
Constipation
Retains stool till he passes in pants
Retains urine
Sweat smells of onions
With such a profound aggravation of the pathology, I am thinking we might have an issue with potency here.
Cannot sit still for more than 10 minutes
Very anxious
Fights with parents a lot
Won't follow rules
Always does the opposite
Constantly arguing
Aversion to washing hair
Selfish
Fights with sister all the time
Needs to follow his own routine
Bored with everything
Afraid of someone in the house
Shortness of breath
Fear at night
Fear of being alone
Aversion to going to school
Talking too much
Desire to wrestle with everyone
Upset easily
Sleeps on stomach with legs up and crossed
Talking during sleep
Screaming during sleep
Desires cold drinks
Desires ice cream
Aversion to fish
Aversion to onions
Desires soda
Impatient wants things now
Fear of storms, tornadoes
Constipation
Retains stool till he passes in pants
Retains urine
Sweat smells of onions
With such a profound aggravation of the pathology, I am thinking we might have an issue with potency here.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
hi evocationer :
thank you for your answer .
here is what i have seen so far :
cannot sit still for more than 10 minutes - same ( it gets worse right after the remedy )
very anxious - same
fights with parents a lot - better 30 % ( gets worse right after the remedy )
wont follow rules - better 20 %
always does the opposite - better 20 %
constantly arguing, better 20 % ( a lot worse right after the remedy)
aversion to wash hair - better 30 %
selfish - same ( some days shows a little improvement)
fights with sister all the time - better 30 % ( worse after the remedy )
needs to follow his own rutine - same ( very strict his routine, everything at the same time )
bored with everything- same
afraid of someone in the house - better 60 % ( but he gets better after the remedy , then an aggravation like today , he is a worse, and then gets better again )
shortness of breath, better, 60 % but a lot worse a couple of days after the remedy, accompany with crying and emotional release
fear at night better 60 %
fear of being alone- better 60 % ( worse and then better)
aversion to going to school- same
talking too much - same ( school notes about that)
desire to wrestle with everyone - same, worse right after the remedy
upset easily- better 20 %
sleeps on stomach with legs up and crossed - better 30 % worse after the remedy
talking during sleep , a lot better 70% worse right after the remedy
screaming during sleep, better 60 %
desires cold drinks, same
desires ice cream , same
aversiont to fish, same
aversion to onions, same
desires soda, same
impatient wants things now - same
fear of storms, tornadoes better 30 %
constipation- better 40%
retains stool till he passes in pants better 20%
retains urine same
sweat smells of onions, better 40 %
other things : bedweting issue , so far 100 % better.
nervous tics, were gone 100% with the previous dose, now with this dose he is having an aggravation .
his lips dry out , and he opens and closes his mouth all the time .
and he scratches his mouth all day long .
i believe the remedy is removing the block energy .
so far, for me , is the best remedy he took .
also , i noticed that he cries for no reason, if he is arguing with me or my husband , then he starts crying like if it is a terrible situation when is actually not.
he is taking the 200 c liquid form, and as i said i hit the bottle 10 times , put 2 drops in 250 ml of water and gave him 2 teaspoons .
thank you for your time .
thank you for your answer .
here is what i have seen so far :
cannot sit still for more than 10 minutes - same ( it gets worse right after the remedy )
very anxious - same
fights with parents a lot - better 30 % ( gets worse right after the remedy )
wont follow rules - better 20 %
always does the opposite - better 20 %
constantly arguing, better 20 % ( a lot worse right after the remedy)
aversion to wash hair - better 30 %
selfish - same ( some days shows a little improvement)
fights with sister all the time - better 30 % ( worse after the remedy )
needs to follow his own rutine - same ( very strict his routine, everything at the same time )
bored with everything- same
afraid of someone in the house - better 60 % ( but he gets better after the remedy , then an aggravation like today , he is a worse, and then gets better again )
shortness of breath, better, 60 % but a lot worse a couple of days after the remedy, accompany with crying and emotional release
fear at night better 60 %
fear of being alone- better 60 % ( worse and then better)
aversion to going to school- same
talking too much - same ( school notes about that)
desire to wrestle with everyone - same, worse right after the remedy
upset easily- better 20 %
sleeps on stomach with legs up and crossed - better 30 % worse after the remedy
talking during sleep , a lot better 70% worse right after the remedy
screaming during sleep, better 60 %
desires cold drinks, same
desires ice cream , same
aversiont to fish, same
aversion to onions, same
desires soda, same
impatient wants things now - same
fear of storms, tornadoes better 30 %
constipation- better 40%
retains stool till he passes in pants better 20%
retains urine same
sweat smells of onions, better 40 %
other things : bedweting issue , so far 100 % better.
nervous tics, were gone 100% with the previous dose, now with this dose he is having an aggravation .
his lips dry out , and he opens and closes his mouth all the time .
and he scratches his mouth all day long .
i believe the remedy is removing the block energy .
so far, for me , is the best remedy he took .
also , i noticed that he cries for no reason, if he is arguing with me or my husband , then he starts crying like if it is a terrible situation when is actually not.
he is taking the 200 c liquid form, and as i said i hit the bottle 10 times , put 2 drops in 250 ml of water and gave him 2 teaspoons .
thank you for your time .
love and peace 9 years ago
dear dr :
just wanted to add something, yesterday and today , his fear is really high, he cant be alone in any room at night , and also his nervous tics are bad as i mentioned and he is starting to add the eye twiching too .
what i observed in him that the first 15 days after the remedy are the worst, usually everything gets worse and then slowly better.
even though in the meantime he can get better in some aspects but just for a day or two, it doesnt stay that way too long , until the aggravation is over.
thank you , take care
just wanted to add something, yesterday and today , his fear is really high, he cant be alone in any room at night , and also his nervous tics are bad as i mentioned and he is starting to add the eye twiching too .
what i observed in him that the first 15 days after the remedy are the worst, usually everything gets worse and then slowly better.
even though in the meantime he can get better in some aspects but just for a day or two, it doesnt stay that way too long , until the aggravation is over.
thank you , take care
love and peace 9 years ago
The potency is too high I think. Can you obtain either Dulc 30c or Dulc LM1 (0/1)?
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
hi dr :
yes , i have already checked online and i can have 30c and prepare it the way you told me to.
this is going to take some days, meanwhile the order come to my house.
once i get it i will let you know.
one question, is that ok in homeopathy to start with one dose and then go lower?
will the remedy help even though the person has already tried the higher dose?
sometimes , homeopathy seems a little bit confuse to me.
thank you , have a nice weekend.
yes , i have already checked online and i can have 30c and prepare it the way you told me to.
this is going to take some days, meanwhile the order come to my house.
once i get it i will let you know.
one question, is that ok in homeopathy to start with one dose and then go lower?
will the remedy help even though the person has already tried the higher dose?
sometimes , homeopathy seems a little bit confuse to me.
thank you , have a nice weekend.
love and peace 9 years ago
Yes you can go lower if the higher potency is not doing what you expect it to do. When it is too high it causes a disturbance that can be modified, even avoided, by the lower potencies.
I prefer to go to LM than a lower C potency, as that seems to do the best work. However, if that is not possible we will try to work with 30c.
I prefer to go to LM than a lower C potency, as that seems to do the best work. However, if that is not possible we will try to work with 30c.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
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