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Diabetes , PE and ED - Evocationer - Akshaymohla
Dear Doctors ,I am a diabetic since 10 years now and suffering from Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation since almost 4 years now. I am emotional and get stressed fast. My age is 44 years , 85 kgs and 178 cms tall.
I really do not know whether the cause of ED/PE is diabetes or stress as I developed strained relations with my partner as well which was the major cause of stress and now I am stressed because of this problem.
I use to have morning erections before but now I don't get any erections. While attempting intercourse, the penis is relaxed and no kind of movement is there. I do masturbate sometimes, like once a week and at that time penis is slightly erected.
I have tried various remedies like Coca , Tribulus terre , Ag cas , Ignatia , Graphites , Baryta Carb , Lyssin etc prescribed by Kadwa but there has been temporary relief although I appreciate his efforts . However, Kadwa recommended me to check with other seniors.
Hence , please help me out with this problem.
Many thanks.
Venus
venus0743 on 2015-03-02
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I'll post my questionnaire, see what I can do to help.
CASE PRESENTATION FOR CLASSICAL HOMOEOPATHIC PRESCRIBING
General Guidelines:
1. Try to be as descriptive as possible. When describing pains or sensations use descriptions along the lines of feels as if someone is squeezing it with their hand or it is like an insect crawling around inside or it is as if someone is standing over me threatening to kill me. Long descriptions are always better than short ones. One word answers are difficult to use successfully.
2. Another important part of symptom description for homoeopathy are the modalities. These are situations, events, activities or conditions which modify the symptom in some way. We usually refer to this as what makes them better or worse (amelioration/aggravation). The situation may actually provoke the symptom into appearing, make it vanish altogether, or just increase or decrease it in some way. Modalities are vital information for prescribing.
Modalities are typically related to (but not exclusively) the following situations:
A. Temperature, weather
B. Time (day, night, specific times, frequency, periodicity, season)
C. Position, activity
D. Emotions, thoughts
E. Food and drink
F. Drugs, medication
3. How the symptom is perceived is important too odour, appearance, sound, touch. What colour is it, what is its texture? For gestures, describe what it looks like the patient is doing, or what you feel you are doing while making the movement eg. they look like they are swatting flies or I feel like something is pushing my hand upwards or it is like I stick a fork in an electrical outlet which throws my body backwards. Description it is key to accurate prescriptions.
4. When did the symptom or set of symptoms start? The apparent cause can be useful in determining the remedy, although it is not of the same importance as the previous factors. It may have been a specific event, a disease, an accident or even an emotional experience.
5. Use your own words. Do not copy phrases or descriptions found in our various remedy pictures. Try not to use other peoples ideas or thoughts or words. If you are reporting on behalf of someone else, report their exact words, however you can also report your own observations of them (not opinions).
6. Does the symptom occur alongside another specific symptom? Do particular symptoms only occur together? Does a particular symptom occur with a particular thought or emotion? For example, a headache that always comes with visual disturbances, or stomach pain that appears alongside anger, or anxiety that makes you feel like running down the street screaming.
7. Each complaint should be described fully before going on to describe another complaint. Try not to mix different symptoms or complaints together. Each modifying feature must be clearly attached to a particular symptom/set of symptoms. Any mistake you make here is a mistake the homoeopath will also then make.
BEFORE MOVING ON TO THE NEXT SET OF QUESTIONS, DO THIS NOW FOR EACH PHYSICAL PROBLEM YOU HAVE. LOOK AT ANY POSSIBLE SYMPTOM YOU HAVE, NOT JUST THE ONE YOU ARE ASKING FOR HELP IN RESOLVING.
CASE PRESENTATION FOR CLASSICAL HOMOEOPATHIC PRESCRIBING
General Guidelines:
1. Try to be as descriptive as possible. When describing pains or sensations use descriptions along the lines of feels as if someone is squeezing it with their hand or it is like an insect crawling around inside or it is as if someone is standing over me threatening to kill me. Long descriptions are always better than short ones. One word answers are difficult to use successfully.
2. Another important part of symptom description for homoeopathy are the modalities. These are situations, events, activities or conditions which modify the symptom in some way. We usually refer to this as what makes them better or worse (amelioration/aggravation). The situation may actually provoke the symptom into appearing, make it vanish altogether, or just increase or decrease it in some way. Modalities are vital information for prescribing.
Modalities are typically related to (but not exclusively) the following situations:
A. Temperature, weather
B. Time (day, night, specific times, frequency, periodicity, season)
C. Position, activity
D. Emotions, thoughts
E. Food and drink
F. Drugs, medication
3. How the symptom is perceived is important too odour, appearance, sound, touch. What colour is it, what is its texture? For gestures, describe what it looks like the patient is doing, or what you feel you are doing while making the movement eg. they look like they are swatting flies or I feel like something is pushing my hand upwards or it is like I stick a fork in an electrical outlet which throws my body backwards. Description it is key to accurate prescriptions.
4. When did the symptom or set of symptoms start? The apparent cause can be useful in determining the remedy, although it is not of the same importance as the previous factors. It may have been a specific event, a disease, an accident or even an emotional experience.
5. Use your own words. Do not copy phrases or descriptions found in our various remedy pictures. Try not to use other peoples ideas or thoughts or words. If you are reporting on behalf of someone else, report their exact words, however you can also report your own observations of them (not opinions).
6. Does the symptom occur alongside another specific symptom? Do particular symptoms only occur together? Does a particular symptom occur with a particular thought or emotion? For example, a headache that always comes with visual disturbances, or stomach pain that appears alongside anger, or anxiety that makes you feel like running down the street screaming.
7. Each complaint should be described fully before going on to describe another complaint. Try not to mix different symptoms or complaints together. Each modifying feature must be clearly attached to a particular symptom/set of symptoms. Any mistake you make here is a mistake the homoeopath will also then make.
BEFORE MOVING ON TO THE NEXT SET OF QUESTIONS, DO THIS NOW FOR EACH PHYSICAL PROBLEM YOU HAVE. LOOK AT ANY POSSIBLE SYMPTOM YOU HAVE, NOT JUST THE ONE YOU ARE ASKING FOR HELP IN RESOLVING.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
Please answer the following questions with as much detail and honesty as you can. Single word or short answer sentences are often of little use to me. Try to be as descriptive as you can. There are no right answers, and no specific kinds of information that I need. These questions are designed to stimulate your mind into thinking about yourself in a way that is helpful for a homoeopathic prescription. If anything is too sensitive or private to mention, you do not need to talk about it.
What is the main problem you have?
How does this problem manifest in your life?
How does it stop you from living your life normally?
What obstacles are in your life?
What kind of patterns do you see occurring again and again in your life?
What can you do to make yourself feel better?
What events in your life do you feel had the most impact on you?
What sort of situations aggravate you or make your life more difficult than it should be?
What are your strongest fears? How do you deal with them?
When do you feel at your worst? Why?
When do you feel at your best? Why?
What was the worst thing that ever happened to you? What was so terrible about it?
What was the best thing that ever happened to you? What was so good about it?
What kind of life have you lead?
What do you think has prevented you from having the kind of life you should have had?
Where do most of your problems come from?
What situations or images appear most often in your dreams or nightmares?
What causes problems in your relationships?
What kind of people do you have the most problems with?
What do people like about you?
What do people dislike about you?
Were you very different as a child, as a teenager, as a young adult? How so?
What is the main problem you have?
How does this problem manifest in your life?
How does it stop you from living your life normally?
What obstacles are in your life?
What kind of patterns do you see occurring again and again in your life?
What can you do to make yourself feel better?
What events in your life do you feel had the most impact on you?
What sort of situations aggravate you or make your life more difficult than it should be?
What are your strongest fears? How do you deal with them?
When do you feel at your worst? Why?
When do you feel at your best? Why?
What was the worst thing that ever happened to you? What was so terrible about it?
What was the best thing that ever happened to you? What was so good about it?
What kind of life have you lead?
What do you think has prevented you from having the kind of life you should have had?
Where do most of your problems come from?
What situations or images appear most often in your dreams or nightmares?
What causes problems in your relationships?
What kind of people do you have the most problems with?
What do people like about you?
What do people dislike about you?
Were you very different as a child, as a teenager, as a young adult? How so?
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
Hi Dr ,
Please find below the answers :
What is the main problem you have?
The main problems I have is of Erectile Dysfunction / PE / Diabetes
How does this problem manifest in your life?
I am unable to have sexual intercourse with my partner since almost 2 years. There is no erection at the time of intercourse and the penis is relaxed. Before, when I use to penetrate it use to ejaculate in few seconds and sometimes even before penetration. There is no libido and I have almost lost desire to have sex due to this problem.
Regarding Diabetes : I have since 10 years when I started losing weight. I had blood test and came to know about Diabetes. My current blood sample report is 106 / 190 fasting and post prand respectively,
How does it stop you from living your life normally?
I cannot have sex and I have lost my self confidence due to that. Also, I am having strained relations with my partner due that.
What obstacles are in your life?
I am quite relaxed in my life except the above problem and quite satisfied with my family and work.
What kind of patterns do you see occurring again and again in your life?
Nothing in particular
What can you do to make yourself feel better?
I love to travel and I masturbate sometimes which makes me relaxed when I think too much about sex.
What events in your life do you feel had the most impact on you?
death of my mother :
birth of my children
What sort of situations aggravate you or make your life more difficult than it should be?
Whenever I feel that my partner wants to have sex with me . I feel like running away from that situation or make any kind of excuse to be away.
What are your strongest fears? How do you deal with them?
To lose any of my dear one : I keep on calling them often to check their well being and feel insecure at night so I double check all the doors at night before going to sleep and also check them in the middle of night.
When do you feel at your worst? Why?
When I feel like having sex and have no erection
When do you feel at your best? Why?
When I travel , and fantasize about other women.
What was the worst thing that ever happened to you? What was so terrible about it?
When i came to that my partner is cheating me due to which I could have developed the problem of ED
What was the best thing that ever happened to you? What was so good about it?
Birth of my children . I love them
What kind of life have you lead?
A very active sexual life with lot of sex, fun and frolic. I use to smoke many years ago but now smoke very rarely. Although I love to have wine and beer but i avoid it after detecting diabetes
What do you think has prevented you from having the kind of life you should have had?
Failed Erections / Diabetes / behavior of my partner
Where do most of your problems come from?
I get stressed up pretty fast and get hyper as well.
What situations or images appear most often in your dreams or nightmares?
My partner will leave me , someone will harm me or my family
What causes problems in your relationships?
Lack of sex my partner's short tempered behavior
What kind of people do you have the most problems with?
Cunning and who show off
What do people like about you?
Honest , knowledge, sense of humour , hard working
What do people dislike about you?
Indifferent behaviour towards them ( sometimes )
Were you very different as a child, as a teenager, as a young adult? How so?
As a child I was more sporty and full of confidence.
As a teenager , I was more into being a pilot
As a young adult , I was more into sexual encounters , porn , masturbation etc.
Please let me know if you require more details.
Thanks
Please find below the answers :
What is the main problem you have?
The main problems I have is of Erectile Dysfunction / PE / Diabetes
How does this problem manifest in your life?
I am unable to have sexual intercourse with my partner since almost 2 years. There is no erection at the time of intercourse and the penis is relaxed. Before, when I use to penetrate it use to ejaculate in few seconds and sometimes even before penetration. There is no libido and I have almost lost desire to have sex due to this problem.
Regarding Diabetes : I have since 10 years when I started losing weight. I had blood test and came to know about Diabetes. My current blood sample report is 106 / 190 fasting and post prand respectively,
How does it stop you from living your life normally?
I cannot have sex and I have lost my self confidence due to that. Also, I am having strained relations with my partner due that.
What obstacles are in your life?
I am quite relaxed in my life except the above problem and quite satisfied with my family and work.
What kind of patterns do you see occurring again and again in your life?
Nothing in particular
What can you do to make yourself feel better?
I love to travel and I masturbate sometimes which makes me relaxed when I think too much about sex.
What events in your life do you feel had the most impact on you?
death of my mother :
birth of my children
What sort of situations aggravate you or make your life more difficult than it should be?
Whenever I feel that my partner wants to have sex with me . I feel like running away from that situation or make any kind of excuse to be away.
What are your strongest fears? How do you deal with them?
To lose any of my dear one : I keep on calling them often to check their well being and feel insecure at night so I double check all the doors at night before going to sleep and also check them in the middle of night.
When do you feel at your worst? Why?
When I feel like having sex and have no erection
When do you feel at your best? Why?
When I travel , and fantasize about other women.
What was the worst thing that ever happened to you? What was so terrible about it?
When i came to that my partner is cheating me due to which I could have developed the problem of ED
What was the best thing that ever happened to you? What was so good about it?
Birth of my children . I love them
What kind of life have you lead?
A very active sexual life with lot of sex, fun and frolic. I use to smoke many years ago but now smoke very rarely. Although I love to have wine and beer but i avoid it after detecting diabetes
What do you think has prevented you from having the kind of life you should have had?
Failed Erections / Diabetes / behavior of my partner
Where do most of your problems come from?
I get stressed up pretty fast and get hyper as well.
What situations or images appear most often in your dreams or nightmares?
My partner will leave me , someone will harm me or my family
What causes problems in your relationships?
Lack of sex my partner's short tempered behavior
What kind of people do you have the most problems with?
Cunning and who show off
What do people like about you?
Honest , knowledge, sense of humour , hard working
What do people dislike about you?
Indifferent behaviour towards them ( sometimes )
Were you very different as a child, as a teenager, as a young adult? How so?
As a child I was more sporty and full of confidence.
As a teenager , I was more into being a pilot
As a young adult , I was more into sexual encounters , porn , masturbation etc.
Please let me know if you require more details.
Thanks
venus0743 9 years ago
I will look at this today, but I feel like this new questionnaire of mine is not eliciting the kind of information I need. Strangely enough, it appears to be encouraging short answers with no useful information in them.
Let me post my old one, and answer those questions instead.
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL DESCRIPTION
(Please spend the most time on this section and give DETAILED answers - the homoeopathic remedy is very often decided on the basis of the mental and emotional state of the patient !)
1. What are the issues in your life that bother you the most. Not physical issues but mental or emotional ones. List each one separately and describe why each one bothers you so much.
2. What emotions are the most troublesome for you? What situations provoke these emotions. How do these emotions make you act? Do you feel any ill effects from expressing or not expressing these emotions.
3. What incidents in your life have had a deep impact on you? Describe each incident in detail and how they made you feel? What did you do in those situations? What effect have they had on your life?
4. What are you afraid of? Especially important are phobias, but it might be objects, situations or events that just produce a high level of anxiety. How do you manage your fears? How do you react when confronted with these fears? What would be the worst situation for you to be put in that would provoke these fears? You may need to talk about each fear/anxiety separately.
5. What hobbies do you have? Why do you like each of these activities?
6. Do you have any persistent thoughts, ideas or beliefs that are difficult to stop or cope with? What are they?
7. Do you have any unusual gestures or movements of the body? Do you feel any unusual sensation or pain throughout your body? What exactly does it feel like is happening in your body?
8. When you experience your fears, persistent thoughts, or difficult emotions, what kind of sensation or reactions do you get in your body?
9. When did you feel at your best in your life? What was that like for you? If you imagine the complete opposite of this feeling or moment, what would that be like?
10. Do you feel like you are stuck in a pattern of behavior, especially when trying to deal with your problems? What is this pattern? THIS IS AN IMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE CONSIDER CAREFULLY AND GIVE DETAILS.
11. What difficulties or problems do you have in relationships? Talk about your family, your romantic relationships, your spouse or partner, your friends, and your work colleagues. You may need to talk about all of these separately.
12. List 5 positive things about yourself. Are there any situations where this positive attribute becomes negative (is a problem)?
13. List 5 negative things about yourself. Are there any situations where this negative attribute becomes positive (is useful)?
14. Do you have any reoccurring dreams? Describe them in detail, including any feelings that come while dreaming. Dreams are very important in unlocking the deepest truth of a patients case, but it is not enough to simply describe them in a sentence. Give as much information as you feel comfortable doing.
15. Did you have any reoccurring dreams as a child, or earlier in your life? Describe those in detail including any feelings that came with them.
16. What were you like as a child, your character, your personality, your fears, your dreams, your problems?
17. What kind of environment did you grow up in? What problems where there at home, with your family, with your parents, with your siblings, with school?
Let me post my old one, and answer those questions instead.
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL DESCRIPTION
(Please spend the most time on this section and give DETAILED answers - the homoeopathic remedy is very often decided on the basis of the mental and emotional state of the patient !)
1. What are the issues in your life that bother you the most. Not physical issues but mental or emotional ones. List each one separately and describe why each one bothers you so much.
2. What emotions are the most troublesome for you? What situations provoke these emotions. How do these emotions make you act? Do you feel any ill effects from expressing or not expressing these emotions.
3. What incidents in your life have had a deep impact on you? Describe each incident in detail and how they made you feel? What did you do in those situations? What effect have they had on your life?
4. What are you afraid of? Especially important are phobias, but it might be objects, situations or events that just produce a high level of anxiety. How do you manage your fears? How do you react when confronted with these fears? What would be the worst situation for you to be put in that would provoke these fears? You may need to talk about each fear/anxiety separately.
5. What hobbies do you have? Why do you like each of these activities?
6. Do you have any persistent thoughts, ideas or beliefs that are difficult to stop or cope with? What are they?
7. Do you have any unusual gestures or movements of the body? Do you feel any unusual sensation or pain throughout your body? What exactly does it feel like is happening in your body?
8. When you experience your fears, persistent thoughts, or difficult emotions, what kind of sensation or reactions do you get in your body?
9. When did you feel at your best in your life? What was that like for you? If you imagine the complete opposite of this feeling or moment, what would that be like?
10. Do you feel like you are stuck in a pattern of behavior, especially when trying to deal with your problems? What is this pattern? THIS IS AN IMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE CONSIDER CAREFULLY AND GIVE DETAILS.
11. What difficulties or problems do you have in relationships? Talk about your family, your romantic relationships, your spouse or partner, your friends, and your work colleagues. You may need to talk about all of these separately.
12. List 5 positive things about yourself. Are there any situations where this positive attribute becomes negative (is a problem)?
13. List 5 negative things about yourself. Are there any situations where this negative attribute becomes positive (is useful)?
14. Do you have any reoccurring dreams? Describe them in detail, including any feelings that come while dreaming. Dreams are very important in unlocking the deepest truth of a patients case, but it is not enough to simply describe them in a sentence. Give as much information as you feel comfortable doing.
15. Did you have any reoccurring dreams as a child, or earlier in your life? Describe those in detail including any feelings that came with them.
16. What were you like as a child, your character, your personality, your fears, your dreams, your problems?
17. What kind of environment did you grow up in? What problems where there at home, with your family, with your parents, with your siblings, with school?
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
I will look at this today, but I feel like this new questionnaire of mine is not eliciting the kind of information I need. Strangely enough, it appears to be encouraging short answers with no useful information in them.
Let me post my old one, and answer those questions instead.
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL DESCRIPTION
(Please spend the most time on this section and give DETAILED answers - the homoeopathic remedy is very often decided on the basis of the mental and emotional state of the patient !)
1. What are the issues in your life that bother you the most. Not physical issues but mental or emotional ones. List each one separately and describe why each one bothers you so much.
- marital relations with my partner - unable to concentrate on my work , feel like running away from myself , feel timid due to the ED issues.
2. What emotions are the most troublesome for you? What situations provoke these emotions. How do these emotions make you act? Do you feel any ill effects from expressing or not expressing these emotions.
- emotions leading to desire to have sex and that too intense. Since I cant perform in bed , i masturbate and release the emotions.
3. What incidents in your life have had a deep impact on you? Describe each incident in detail and how they made you feel? What did you do in those situations? What effect have they had on your life?
- when my mom expired , it left me half dead since i was very much attached to her. I was heartbroken and i use to cry for many days. But i gathered courage and moved on.
- secondly , i was hurt to know that my partner was cheating on me due to which I had lot of stress and eventually I had ED / PE
- i felt out of the world when my children were born
4. What are you afraid of? Especially important are phobias, but it might be objects, situations or events that just produce a high level of anxiety. How do you manage your fears? How do you react when confronted with these fears? What would be the worst situation for you to be put in that would provoke these fears? You may need to talk about each fear/anxiety separately.
- of late , i have been scared of heights, traveling by air.
- sleeping at night - i fear for my children , partner and family members about their safety. Therefore i sleep late and often check the room doors if they are locked or not.
- i grt scared to get close to a women so that she shouldnt come to know my ED / PE issue
5. What hobbies do you have? Why do you like each of these activities?
I love to travel and know different cultures as it gives me to gain knowledge about various things.
6. Do you have any persistent thoughts, ideas or beliefs that are difficult to stop or cope with? What are they?
I am quite suspicious in nature and generally get into small details of everything.
7. Do you have any unusual gestures or movements of the body? Do you feel any unusual sensation or pain throughout your body? What exactly does it feel like is happening in your body?
I sometimes feel some kind of pain in left afrm
8. When you experience your fears, persistent thoughts, or difficult emotions, what kind of sensation or reactions do you get in your body?
I feel pain in left part of my body
9. When did you feel at your best in your life? What was that like for you? If you imagine the complete opposite of this feeling or moment, what would that be like?
I felt best when my children were born. I shouted on top of my voice out of happiness and even cried.
The complete opposite would be losing any of my family member.
10. Do you feel like you are stuck in a pattern of behavior, especially when trying to deal with your problems? What is this pattern? THIS IS AN IMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE CONSIDER CAREFULLY AND GIVE DETAILS.
I generally be quiet and get irritated , frustrated with life while getting stuck dealing with problems. I also tend to be rude and shout on my children , partner and other family members
11. What difficulties or problems do you have in relationships? Talk about your family, your romantic relationships, your spouse or partner, your friends, and your work colleagues. You may need to talk about all of these separately.
Family - i get impatient at times while dealing with my children and parent.
Romantic relationships are generally good and my partner finds me intelligent , keen in sex, good sense of humor.
Spouse - gets tensed up since no physical contact since years. Get into argument easily.
Friends and work mates have no issues and are good.
12. List 5 positive things about yourself. Are there any situations where this positive attribute becomes negative (is a problem)?
Sense of humor
Hard working
Indepth knowledge of many things
Patience
Caring and loving.
They become negative once i have fight with my wife and i feel very sad and dissappinted.
13. List 5 negative things about yourself. Are there any situations where this negative attribute becomes positive (is useful)?
Gets rude at times - but once i am alone i get fine.
14. Do you have any reoccurring dreams? Describe them in detail, including any feelings that come while dreaming. Dreams are very important in unlocking the deepest truth of a patients case, but it is not enough to simply describe them in a sentence. Give as much information as you feel comfortable doing.
I feel very insecure in dreams like someone will harm me and my children .
I also dream of having sex with various women . Sometimes on beach, in elevator and other weird places.
15. Did you have any reoccurring dreams as a child, or earlier in your life? Describe those in detail including any feelings that came with them.
As a child, i dreamt of being a pilot / flying an airplane. Later in my teens , i was more inclined on playing sport and later in life , felt like watching porn and masturbation.
16. What were you like as a child, your character, your personality, your fears, your dreams, your problems?
Quite sporty, happy , intelligent and dreamt about being a successful person in life.
17. What kind of environment did you grow up in? What problems where there at home, with your family, with your parents, with your siblings, with school?
Didnt have any problems with my sibling or parents as such. I lost my sibling quite early and parents were heartbroken after that.
No problems were there at the school.
My mother died few years ago.
Let me post my old one, and answer those questions instead.
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL DESCRIPTION
(Please spend the most time on this section and give DETAILED answers - the homoeopathic remedy is very often decided on the basis of the mental and emotional state of the patient !)
1. What are the issues in your life that bother you the most. Not physical issues but mental or emotional ones. List each one separately and describe why each one bothers you so much.
- marital relations with my partner - unable to concentrate on my work , feel like running away from myself , feel timid due to the ED issues.
2. What emotions are the most troublesome for you? What situations provoke these emotions. How do these emotions make you act? Do you feel any ill effects from expressing or not expressing these emotions.
- emotions leading to desire to have sex and that too intense. Since I cant perform in bed , i masturbate and release the emotions.
3. What incidents in your life have had a deep impact on you? Describe each incident in detail and how they made you feel? What did you do in those situations? What effect have they had on your life?
- when my mom expired , it left me half dead since i was very much attached to her. I was heartbroken and i use to cry for many days. But i gathered courage and moved on.
- secondly , i was hurt to know that my partner was cheating on me due to which I had lot of stress and eventually I had ED / PE
- i felt out of the world when my children were born
4. What are you afraid of? Especially important are phobias, but it might be objects, situations or events that just produce a high level of anxiety. How do you manage your fears? How do you react when confronted with these fears? What would be the worst situation for you to be put in that would provoke these fears? You may need to talk about each fear/anxiety separately.
- of late , i have been scared of heights, traveling by air.
- sleeping at night - i fear for my children , partner and family members about their safety. Therefore i sleep late and often check the room doors if they are locked or not.
- i grt scared to get close to a women so that she shouldnt come to know my ED / PE issue
5. What hobbies do you have? Why do you like each of these activities?
I love to travel and know different cultures as it gives me to gain knowledge about various things.
6. Do you have any persistent thoughts, ideas or beliefs that are difficult to stop or cope with? What are they?
I am quite suspicious in nature and generally get into small details of everything.
7. Do you have any unusual gestures or movements of the body? Do you feel any unusual sensation or pain throughout your body? What exactly does it feel like is happening in your body?
I sometimes feel some kind of pain in left afrm
8. When you experience your fears, persistent thoughts, or difficult emotions, what kind of sensation or reactions do you get in your body?
I feel pain in left part of my body
9. When did you feel at your best in your life? What was that like for you? If you imagine the complete opposite of this feeling or moment, what would that be like?
I felt best when my children were born. I shouted on top of my voice out of happiness and even cried.
The complete opposite would be losing any of my family member.
10. Do you feel like you are stuck in a pattern of behavior, especially when trying to deal with your problems? What is this pattern? THIS IS AN IMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE CONSIDER CAREFULLY AND GIVE DETAILS.
I generally be quiet and get irritated , frustrated with life while getting stuck dealing with problems. I also tend to be rude and shout on my children , partner and other family members
11. What difficulties or problems do you have in relationships? Talk about your family, your romantic relationships, your spouse or partner, your friends, and your work colleagues. You may need to talk about all of these separately.
Family - i get impatient at times while dealing with my children and parent.
Romantic relationships are generally good and my partner finds me intelligent , keen in sex, good sense of humor.
Spouse - gets tensed up since no physical contact since years. Get into argument easily.
Friends and work mates have no issues and are good.
12. List 5 positive things about yourself. Are there any situations where this positive attribute becomes negative (is a problem)?
Sense of humor
Hard working
Indepth knowledge of many things
Patience
Caring and loving.
They become negative once i have fight with my wife and i feel very sad and dissappinted.
13. List 5 negative things about yourself. Are there any situations where this negative attribute becomes positive (is useful)?
Gets rude at times - but once i am alone i get fine.
14. Do you have any reoccurring dreams? Describe them in detail, including any feelings that come while dreaming. Dreams are very important in unlocking the deepest truth of a patients case, but it is not enough to simply describe them in a sentence. Give as much information as you feel comfortable doing.
I feel very insecure in dreams like someone will harm me and my children .
I also dream of having sex with various women . Sometimes on beach, in elevator and other weird places.
15. Did you have any reoccurring dreams as a child, or earlier in your life? Describe those in detail including any feelings that came with them.
As a child, i dreamt of being a pilot / flying an airplane. Later in my teens , i was more inclined on playing sport and later in life , felt like watching porn and masturbation.
16. What were you like as a child, your character, your personality, your fears, your dreams, your problems?
Quite sporty, happy , intelligent and dreamt about being a successful person in life.
17. What kind of environment did you grow up in? What problems where there at home, with your family, with your parents, with your siblings, with school?
Didnt have any problems with my sibling or parents as such. I lost my sibling quite early and parents were heartbroken after that.
No problems were there at the school.
My mother died few years ago.
venus0743 9 years ago
My first suggestion would be NATRUM MURIATICUM for the following reasons:
Ailments from loss of parents/loved ones
Ailments from disappointment
Ailments from disappointed love
Fear of heights
Fear of airplanes
Fear of robbers at night
Fear of intimacy
Suppression/control of emotions
Conscientious about trifles
Lascivious dreams
Obtain both Nat-mur 30c and 200c, preferably in liquid form. You will start with 30c first and NOT use 200c until I advise you to.
If you have obtained pillules or pellets, you will need a small bottle and a dropper to make your own liquid dose. Mix water and alcohol into this small bottle to the ratio of 5:1. Dissolve 3 pillules/pellets into this bottle. All doses will be made from this bottle.
If you already have a liquid dose just start from step 1.
1. Hit the bottle 5 times firmly against the palm of the hand
2. Place 3 drops into 100mls of clean fresh water
3. Stir very thoroughly
4. Take 2 teaspoons out into the mouth and hold for 20 seconds, then swallow.
This is one dose and the same steps should be taken for any further doses, unless I ask you to change them in some way.
If any old symptoms reappear, or any current symptoms worsen, this is a GOOD sign in most cases. DO NOT SUPPRESS them with other kinds of medication unless you are in real danger (which is a highly unlikely reaction to a remedy).
However, if you are on regular medication it is also important that you do NOT stop taking this unless it is perfectly safe to do so. Once it is determined the medicine has acted beneficially, we can look at reducing such medication. Regular medication in this instance is NOT defined as other homoeopathic medicines which MUST be stopped. Tissue salts are the same as homoeopathic medicines and are in this category, as are Bach Flowers, Flower Essences, and Bush Flower Essences.
For 30c, take 3 doses, one each day, and then report any changes after 7 days.
Ailments from loss of parents/loved ones
Ailments from disappointment
Ailments from disappointed love
Fear of heights
Fear of airplanes
Fear of robbers at night
Fear of intimacy
Suppression/control of emotions
Conscientious about trifles
Lascivious dreams
Obtain both Nat-mur 30c and 200c, preferably in liquid form. You will start with 30c first and NOT use 200c until I advise you to.
If you have obtained pillules or pellets, you will need a small bottle and a dropper to make your own liquid dose. Mix water and alcohol into this small bottle to the ratio of 5:1. Dissolve 3 pillules/pellets into this bottle. All doses will be made from this bottle.
If you already have a liquid dose just start from step 1.
1. Hit the bottle 5 times firmly against the palm of the hand
2. Place 3 drops into 100mls of clean fresh water
3. Stir very thoroughly
4. Take 2 teaspoons out into the mouth and hold for 20 seconds, then swallow.
This is one dose and the same steps should be taken for any further doses, unless I ask you to change them in some way.
If any old symptoms reappear, or any current symptoms worsen, this is a GOOD sign in most cases. DO NOT SUPPRESS them with other kinds of medication unless you are in real danger (which is a highly unlikely reaction to a remedy).
However, if you are on regular medication it is also important that you do NOT stop taking this unless it is perfectly safe to do so. Once it is determined the medicine has acted beneficially, we can look at reducing such medication. Regular medication in this instance is NOT defined as other homoeopathic medicines which MUST be stopped. Tissue salts are the same as homoeopathic medicines and are in this category, as are Bach Flowers, Flower Essences, and Bush Flower Essences.
For 30c, take 3 doses, one each day, and then report any changes after 7 days.
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
Also advise if there is any particular time of the day I should have preferably have the above medicine ?
Rgds
Rgds
venus0743 9 years ago
Hi dr ,
I wanted to clarify one more thing about the doses for 30 c
Do we have to use the doses from the same water in which we had put 3 drops or in every dose we have to take fresh 100 ml water and then make the dose as advised by you ?
Pls advise
I wanted to clarify one more thing about the doses for 30 c
Do we have to use the doses from the same water in which we had put 3 drops or in every dose we have to take fresh 100 ml water and then make the dose as advised by you ?
Pls advise
venus0743 9 years ago
Venus,
you have to take the drops out and put them into
the 100ml of fresh water and then take the 2 tsp out
of that , Every time.
you have to take the drops out and put them into
the 100ml of fresh water and then take the 2 tsp out
of that , Every time.
♡ simone717 9 years ago
I am 38 years old suffering from disturbing tinnitus in the both the ears for the last almost 2 months. All my Audiometry Tests (Pure Tone, Impedence, Tmpanogram, OAE, Tone Decay, SISI) are fine and show very minor hearing loss at high frequency only.
The intensity of tinnitus has been gradually increasing since its initial occurrence. It ranges from being a low frequency hiss to a high frequency, loud whistle It is hampering my work routine and daily life immensely. I have tried allopathic medication in the last 2 months but to no avail.
Look forward to your kind advice in the matter.
The intensity of tinnitus has been gradually increasing since its initial occurrence. It ranges from being a low frequency hiss to a high frequency, loud whistle It is hampering my work routine and daily life immensely. I have tried allopathic medication in the last 2 months but to no avail.
Look forward to your kind advice in the matter.
approacher 9 years ago
Dear Approacher,
Each person needs their own treatment thread ( this thread
is for Venus and his treatment)
You have two other threads, with forms listed for
you to answer.
Please choose one person and answer the form.
If you want Evocationer's help, you have to do
a new post, and ask for him in your headline.
Each person needs their own treatment thread ( this thread
is for Venus and his treatment)
You have two other threads, with forms listed for
you to answer.
Please choose one person and answer the form.
If you want Evocationer's help, you have to do
a new post, and ask for him in your headline.
♡ simone717 9 years ago
Hi dr,
I took the prescription as advised by you and i have noticed slight change in the erections . Couple of times there were erections during the sleep and once it was early morning.
Please advise how to proceed.
Thanks
I took the prescription as advised by you and i have noticed slight change in the erections . Couple of times there were erections during the sleep and once it was early morning.
Please advise how to proceed.
Thanks
venus0743 9 years ago
This is a list of the symptoms you described. Next to each one can you write Better, Worse, or Same.
If better or worse can you also write a percentage (%) to represent how much you think it has changed.
No erection during intercourse
No libido/desire for sex
Loss of confidence
Think too much about sex
Fear of losing loved ones
Frequent calling to check on loved ones
Double checking doors at night
Dreams of partner leaving you
Dreams of someone harming your family
Fear of heights
Fear of planes
Suspiciousness
Get into small details of everything
Pain in left arm
Impatience with children and parents
Getting into arguments with spouse
Rudeness to others
Dreams of sex with other women
If better or worse can you also write a percentage (%) to represent how much you think it has changed.
No erection during intercourse
No libido/desire for sex
Loss of confidence
Think too much about sex
Fear of losing loved ones
Frequent calling to check on loved ones
Double checking doors at night
Dreams of partner leaving you
Dreams of someone harming your family
Fear of heights
Fear of planes
Suspiciousness
Get into small details of everything
Pain in left arm
Impatience with children and parents
Getting into arguments with spouse
Rudeness to others
Dreams of sex with other women
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
Dear Dr ,
Please find below the answers :
No erection during intercourse - Same ( In fact didnt have courage to engage in sex )
No libido/desire for sex - Same
Loss of confidence - Same
Think too much about sex - S
Fear of losing loved ones - Better ( 25 % )
Frequent calling to check on loved ones - Better ( 10 % )
Double checking doors at night - Better ( 30 % )
Dreams of partner leaving you - Same
Dreams of someone harming your family - Better ( 30 % )
Fear of heights - ( Better 50% )
Fear of planes - Same
Suspiciousness - better ( 15 % )
Get into small details of everything - Better ( 10 % )
Pain in left arm - better - 25 %
Impatience with children and parents - better 30 %
Getting into arguments with spouse - Better - 40 %
Rudeness to others - Better - 20 %
Dreams of sex with other women - better 10 %
Please advise as soon as possible.
Thanks
Please find below the answers :
No erection during intercourse - Same ( In fact didnt have courage to engage in sex )
No libido/desire for sex - Same
Loss of confidence - Same
Think too much about sex - S
Fear of losing loved ones - Better ( 25 % )
Frequent calling to check on loved ones - Better ( 10 % )
Double checking doors at night - Better ( 30 % )
Dreams of partner leaving you - Same
Dreams of someone harming your family - Better ( 30 % )
Fear of heights - ( Better 50% )
Fear of planes - Same
Suspiciousness - better ( 15 % )
Get into small details of everything - Better ( 10 % )
Pain in left arm - better - 25 %
Impatience with children and parents - better 30 %
Getting into arguments with spouse - Better - 40 %
Rudeness to others - Better - 20 %
Dreams of sex with other women - better 10 %
Please advise as soon as possible.
Thanks
venus0743 9 years ago
Ok, many things are better - a good majority of things actually. Not the presenting physical complaint, but that is not unusual in the first stages of progress.
I believe the remedy is correct. Take the remedy again, but only 2 doses this time. Wait another 7 days and report the improvements again just as you did this time.
I suspect the Nat-mur 200c will be needed in the near future, but let's see how far the 30c takes you. Using 200c too early can disrupt the improvements already achieved.
[message edited by Evocationer on Fri, 27 Mar 2015 03:00:07 GMT]
I believe the remedy is correct. Take the remedy again, but only 2 doses this time. Wait another 7 days and report the improvements again just as you did this time.
I suspect the Nat-mur 200c will be needed in the near future, but let's see how far the 30c takes you. Using 200c too early can disrupt the improvements already achieved.
[message edited by Evocationer on Fri, 27 Mar 2015 03:00:07 GMT]
♡ Evocationer 9 years ago
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