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I am 35 yrs old male suffering from shy bladder since I was 13, so that makes me unable to urinate if someone is around. I was recommended silicia by a doctor it didn't help me at all, I was given another homeo med name of which I was not given but it didn't help me either.
Can any doctor here help me get me out of this hell,please?
  Lavi on 2018-03-14
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Please take Ambra grisea 30c, three times a day for 2 week and report back.
Tui 4 years ago
Thank you!
Lavi 4 years ago
Another remedy for this is nat mur-
Under urine symptom- “ has to wait a long time to pass urine if others are

If the prescription above does not work you can try nat mur.
simone717 4 years ago
Hello Dr. Simone, thanks for the response, it is much more severe than that, it seems like almost impossible to pass urine if someone is around and it is same I am in some open place under sky on ground even if no one is around. Closed places and solitary these two conditions together get me comfortable enough.I have started Dr Tui's treatment and hoping for the best.
Lavi 4 years ago
Yes, I understand - but there have been others on here who had same as you and nat mur worked for them. Let’s see how you do.
simone717 4 years ago
Endorsing simone's post for bringing a classical tip alive. Yes N. Mur has this characteristic of unable to urinate when people are around.

The odd thing here is the patient is unable to urinate in open spaces.

If other symptoms agree, N. Mur is likely to help.

An Addition:

Ambra is for unable to pass stool when people are around.
[Edited by maheeru on 2018-04-02 16:26:49]
maheeru 4 years ago
I think the open spaces trigger feeling vulnerable,
Not protected, so there is some type of old trauma
Going on. The subconscious records all and
Often does not make logical sense, but even when
Something unpleasant happened it will record all
The senses , and go off with reactions when any
Similar particular sense has a match to the original
Cause. Science has discovered that memories in high stress are coded and stored differently with stress chemicals - It’s just the lower brain trying to keep you
Safe but using cave man wiring Strategy to do it. Interestingly , ignatia if taken within some days of a trauma/ big stress ,
Keeps the memories as normal uncoded storage, so these reactions
Do not become a “program”.

I have experienced this first hand with being told to take the ignatia
After a shock, where I could feel the shock was
Going to keep solidifying. After one ignatia dose,
I thought so what? And was able to return to
My normal routine.
[Edited by simone717 on 2018-03-16 18:01:56]
simone717 4 years ago
Hello Dr Tui, the treatment was delayed by 5 days on account of fever, I have taken medicine for 8 days and although the problem still persists I do feel some change inside but it is hard to be exact about that.
Lavi 4 years ago
Hello Dr Simone, I don't know why but I didn't receive any notifications for the further messages or I would have responded back timely to your messages,my apologies for that.
I have gone through this in my head many times and I am certain that there was no trauma that triggered this problem. I was 12 then and everything was same for me the class, classmates and my daily routine but then suddenly and gradually I began feeling an unwanted change in me, I was becoming absent minded, even during class I was unable to focus on what was being taught and even in company of same friends I felt absent minded, I was very much aware of this change and all I could do was watch myself helplessly and asking myself "what is happening to me?!" and soon I realised about shy bladder problem. This transition from normal to not normal took around 4 months and since then I have never been the same. I cannot think of anything external to me having caused it, I felt like my body chemistry changed for worse instead of good for no reason during the growth period.
Lavi 4 years ago
Hi, tui is prescribing, please wait for him to suggest.

As far as the unwanted change going on at 12 years-
Many times people are not aware that something someone said or did
Is having a big effect. Our conscious mind will
Push the incident into the subconscious. The conscious mind ( front brain)
Is logical. It can or will say, no big deal, no problem. However the emotional
Part of us does not agree and triggers tension in the body. Often times,
Remedies like Nat Mur or ignatia suddenly release grief or upset
And you remember and know what was suppressed. You do not have to actually know the incident for it to work. I have counseled people with
Grief who swear they have no grief and after the remedy is taken,
Say you know what? I have grief. It does not have to be grief, it can be
A classmate making fun of you, or someone making a judgement about you.
[Edited by simone717 on 2018-04-01 16:43:44]
simone717 4 years ago
Yes I am taking medicine suggested by Dr Tui and very much hopeful. And, thanks for the explaining.
Lavi 4 years ago
How are you feeling in general?
Are you sleeping well? eating well?
How is your mood in general?

If you are feeling good in general, then you should stay with the remedy before changing it to other remedies.

Now, I would suggest you take Ambra grisea 200c, twice a day for just 2 days and wait for a month then report back, please.
Tui 4 years ago
Hello Dr Tui, Regarding feeling in general, appetite and mood I haven't noticed any significant changes since I started the medicine other than slight sluggishness in mind but I think I need more time to say something with absolute certainty. I will take 200c of same medicine for 2 days and will get back after a month. Thank you very much!
Lavi 4 years ago
Also, please take psilocybe semilanceata 30c, twice a day for 7 days after finish taking Ambra grisea 200c.
Tui 4 years ago
ohk, thanks.
Lavi 4 years ago
What is the potency of Nat Mur that one needs to take for a 54 year old male
rupanita 4 years ago
30c or 200c Rupanita. If started with 30c then can move to 200 later.
maheeru 4 years ago
Thank you so much Mahwari. How many times every day and for how many days
rupanita 4 years ago
To start with use, 30c one pill/drop two times a day for three to four days.

I think you are better off with a new thread. When you post feedback may be you could do it on a new thread. If it escapes my notice, give me a reminder.
maheeru 4 years ago
Thanks again for taking the trouble to reply. Am not too savvy so will see how new thread is used. May I ask if there is anything u wud suggest for male pattern baldness.
rupanita 4 years ago
Rupanita You need to use the link with a label 'Post New Topic' to create a new thread.

I believe you asked the potency of N. mur because you had this characteristic of unable to urinate in company, in that case this might help with baldness also.

If it does not you can put in all the symptoms in one thread, so that an indicated remedy can be advised.

There may be people who can advise one medicine for complaint A and another for complaint B, but i believe in choosing a medicine for whole of the person with all the complaints put together except when there is a strong reason to use more than one medicine at a time.
[Edited by maheeru on 2018-04-23 22:10:04]
maheeru 4 years ago
Hello Dr. Tui, I haven't noticed any noticeable change in the problem, based on previous many experiences with homeopathy meds I can tell meds of potency 30 have been much more effective than 200 for me. If any specific detail of problem or any other kind is required that might help I will be glad to share.
Lavi 4 years ago
Do you have any fear?

Also do you have any other problem beside this?
Tui 4 years ago
Biggest fear and also constant source of anxiety comes from people, social anxiety. This fear/anxiety is always present in small amounts even when I am alone and gets aggravated with presence of people.
Other problems that I feel are lack of motivation and energy.
Lavi 4 years ago
I have a few more questions before deciding a remedy.

So you are scared of people in general? or just strangers? or family members? friends?

Why are you scared of them? What do you think they are going to do to you?
Tui 4 years ago

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