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Personality disorder looking help

Hello,

I have a question for a homeopath for treatment.

- I am anxious and depressed
- I am afraid I will not get better or not get better in time
- I am afraid something will happen so that I won’t make it through my psychiatric treatment
- I am extremely dependant of what people think
- I am influencable by what others say
- I always feel worse when pyschiatrist and so on go away on vacation and feel like i can’t live without them
- I feel what other people feel, like if I had no boundaries
- I have a lot of supressed anger
- I have an extreme fear of being abandoned and therefore try to please everybody
- I manipulate people to get their attention
- I had a depressed mother that often threatened to leave
- I had an often absent father that never learned me to feel but always rationalized my feelings away and so did I
- I isolate myself completely right now to avoid feeling the excitation, anger, noise and so on of others (even my children)
- I am afraid, that when I will give up my patterns of anxiety and dependance, I will discover I am really no-one
- I al afraid every morning upon awakening since months for the day to come
- I have a lack of identity and self-esteem and inside feel like a scared and fragile little boy
- I can’t stand to be pushed because I push myself all the time
- At the same time I am determined to change although I am dead-scared of it
- I make other people feel what I feel such like I feel what others feel
- I sometimes explode and express my anger (but mostly hide it) and then I feel guilty rightaway and do everything to make it up. After expressing my anger (sometimes indirectly through shouting in a field or wood) I also weep or cry.
- I am very impatient.
- I feel much guilt in general
- I am impulsive
- Rarely when impatience, anger, despair and feelings of abandonment come together I have suicidal thoughts as a warning sign to others like i unconsiously threaten them “back off/come back/don’t leave or….”.
- It seems that I am also in a hugue power struggle with my psychiatrist and in general - mostly male figures- over who has control.
- I will also do everything - and go very far - to get people back to like me if they me so that i have what i want. And if they don't give it, I will continue finding sneaky little ways to, at the same time please those persons and the above-mentioned father figures like my psychiatrist, but behind their back continue the fight untill I win. A never-ending fight with only losers you might say.
- I am in ‘normal conditions’ a hard worker, self-employed, with many ideas and dreams and also with several business successes, wanting to make much money because as a child my parents always fought over a lack of money and I see making money as a sign of success and a revenge towards people who didn’t believe in me but also as a sign to show my wife and children I love them, although I would rather be able to show it in an other way.
- I feel better when walking outside, in the evening and in summer.
- I am a man in his forties.

What can I do?

Thank you
 
  englishpatient on 2008-10-23
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Hello,

Do you think the support and recognition that you need from the people around you is to make your sense of self more solid ?

Do you ever ask yourself 'do I even exist' ?

Do you tend to 'lose your identity' in relationships ?

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
3 times yes!
 
englishpatient last decade
Okay, I have picked the remedy and here is the prescription:

3 doses of Alumina 30c equally spaced for a single day only, to be taken as described below.

Dissolve 2 pellets of Alumina 30c in a 250 ml spring water bottle. You can turn the bottle upside down a few times for the pellets to spread after dissolving.

1 teaspoon from here using a disposable spoon is 1 dose.


Let me know in 5 days after the 3 doses. I look forward to your response.

Restrictions:

1/. Nothing should enter the mouth for 40 minutes prior to, or after taking the remedy.
2/. Do not touch the tablets (in your case the liquid) with your hands, tip them into the cap of the container they came in and then into the water .
3/. Avoid coffee, tea (including green), and other sources of caffeine such as some fizzy drinks and large amounts of chocolate, except where this would cause a drastic change in consumption
4/. Avoid wearing perfume/aftershave, or exposure to anything with a strong smell while under treatment. This includes any and all essential oils, and incense.
5/. Avoid the consumption of excessively spicey foods
6/. The use of medicinal herbs, either as 'teas' or supplements should be AVOIDED during Homoeopathic treatment, as should the use of over the counter medication, unless this has been recommended by an MD.
7/. Nothing of a medicinal nature should be applied to the skin

Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Thank you mr. vermani. i forgot to mention that I have been having 1 drop of Phosphorus LM2 for ten days and 1 dose of Psorinum MK 4 days ago for despair. Is that problem?
 
englishpatient last decade
Hello again mr. Vermani,

In fact I should tell you the whole story of remedies I got.

My former homeopath gave me Alumina in very high potency in spring in dry form (under the tongue). It helped. He reapeated it but it stopped helping. Then he gave ma Argentum Nitricum. That helped a bit mut not much. The he gave me Lachesis. Then he gave me Aurum Sulfuratum and said he thought it was helping. But because of high potencies and fact that always dry and aggravations I stopped seeing him. Then I found other homeopath who worked with LM2. Every day a drop. First he gave me Nux Moschata. Did not help. Then he gave me Phosphorus (since 10 days) and 4 days ago one dose (again dry) of Psorinum MK. All this just makes me worse. So I want to antidote everything and start over again.

Is it possible that the Alumina peel that was gone came back then? Should I antidote something and how?
 
englishpatient last decade
My main complaints now are:
- Desparate
- Starting to doybt if homeopathy works
- Very scared and then crying in the morning from the moment I wake up
- Can't stand noise and excitation of others
- Want to be alone
- Do almost no work anymore
 
englishpatient last decade
And despair of ever healing and scared something will go wrong. If you could just say me how to antidote the previous remedies then I'mm take whatever you say.
 
englishpatient last decade
This is all crazy prescribing.

Psorinum MK !!!! along with Phosphorus LM2, this totally is against the principles of homeopathy.

Are you even using a dilution glass with the LM2 Phos and are you sucussing the remedy before dosage ?
 
sameervermani last decade
And, tell me if the problem worsened after any of the remedies you took ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Hi english patient,please avoid all kinds of oily,fatty,dried and spicy foods.Leave all the medicines you are taking.Please take a dose of nux vom 200 in dry or liquid form and wait upto 3 days.After expiry of 3days on 4th day you start Carbo vegitabilis 30.Collect a familar brand medicine mix 3drops in 500mil of pure drinking water and shake the bottle at least 50 times maintaing a distance of one feet and take 2tea spoonfull from the bottle 3to4 times a day at an interval of 3to4 hour.Please take the medicine at least 30 minutes ahead of any food or drink.Maintain a good dietary plan and keep watch on your regular bowel movement, drink at least 3to4 litre water every day.Avoid apple and banana.You can take grapes and ripe guava as this wil help your bowel movement and also will help to increase digestion.Take the medicine for 2weeks and back with your updates.Regards,malaker
 
Dr.Haran ch malaker last decade
And, what is the rationale behind this prescription and the 40 odd doses ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Hello Mr. Vermani,

I'm not sure but I think Phosphorus makes me feel more like wanting to isolate myself and more receptive to the feelings of others and the noise of others. Like I want to crawl away and hide. But at the same time I feel guilty - like today - when I'm not going to somewhere were I'm expected.

This morning I also felt very very angry. But that may also be because I had a final talk with my homeopath saying him Phosphorus didn't help and I really needed something to feel better quickly so I could attend my boys birthdays and he refused. Now I also must admit that I'm someone who is rapidly angry when he does not get what he wants. And I also let others feel it in a very sneaky way.

And I also have to say I'm completely fed up with all the homeopathic promises from these two persons. They said 'homeopathy will surely help, you can expect a lot from it' but they treat me wrongly and then I get manipulative. I want to win this fight and get my life back, I want to accomplish great things again, you know?

I never had to use a dilution glass. They always gave me LM2 directly on the tongue (succussing the bottle where it came in times). All other remedies I got dry under the tongue with a sit-and-wait approach.

I must admit to you that I am starting to doubt homeopathy and homeopaths. Please excuse me if I ask you but are you a Doctor and where is your practice?
 
englishpatient last decade
LMs are NEVER to be given without a dilution glass.

They will, by their very nature, aggravate if used without a dilution glass.

'My former homeopath gave me Alumina in very high potency in spring in dry form (under the tongue). It helped. He reapeated it but it stopped helping. '

^^^How many doses was this ? And, was the potency ever changed or the same potency repeated ?

Unfortunately, there are many who demean this beautiful science for their personal gains, and at times play with the lives of the patients by applying high potencies for multiple doses and doing things like using LMs with a dilution glass.

And, just to re-assure you , go through the following cases


http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/148892/

http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/142634/

http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/141095/

http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/112097/

http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/153698/

http://www.abchomeopathy.com/forum2.php/152845/


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Regards,
Sameer
 
sameervermani last decade
Thank you mr. Vermani, I will do it.
I have one final question:
how should I antidote the Phosphorus and Psorinum? I feel like they are aggravating.
 
englishpatient last decade
'My former homeopath gave me Alumina in very high potency in spring in dry form (under the tongue). It helped. He reapeated it but it stopped helping. '

^^^How many doses was this ? And, was the potency ever changed or the same potency repeated ?
 
sameervermani last decade
hello.......
i have some questions to ask before i can suggest u ur medicien...........

what u can bear better heat or cold????????
what about ur thirst? how much u drink?
Wt about ur sleep n dreams if any?
why u cant react n suppress ur anger?
R u a kind of workaholik if yes WHY?
Why r u so much concerned about opinion n attention of other what do u feel when u get it either positive or negative?

On given information i can suggest u
 
prpatel5784 last decade

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