Dr Anuj please helpHello doctor,
I am a depression and anxiety sufferer. I have been depressed since my early 20s. I am 44 now. I have tried many different medications, herbs, homeopathy, yogas etc so far. Some helped me some did not. I do not want to take any kind of allopathic medication as I do not believe in their effectiveness. Homeopathy has helped me off and on. Please help me if you can.
The main problem with me is I am never happy with my husband. He does not have any characteristics of a good husband. He is too lazy, procrastinator and make excuses when it comes to take any responsibilities. I am fed up with his behaviors, but I can’t leave him. I am too much scared to be alone again if I leave him. But yet I cannot live with him.
I left him once, 8 years ago, but it was me who begged him to come back to my life as I felt, I was too alone to handle everything in my life. At that time my daughter was very little as well. I was so overwhelmed with everything that time. So I asked him to come back, and he came back after 5 years of spending time with his mother back home. He never worked in his life because he has a big ego of finishing his Phd from the USA. He has a superiority complex which is of no use. He doesn’t want to start from the scratch he just wants to jump to the top which is not possible as he doesn’t have any work experience. He is 55 now but never had a career in his life.
Everyday I feel so pity on myself that I got a husband like him. I am furious at him all the time but that doesn’t affect him. It’s making me mentally sick. I don’t have any reason to be happy with him. I have been married to him for 15 years now.
He does not make any money. He used to do part time UBER but now he does nothing because of this pandamic. I go to work everyday taking risk of my health. But he doesn’t care. I don’t know why I expect, he would do something for us and give us a beautiful life. I had always expected a supportive and hardworking husband. But NO !! here I am the one who is supporting him and my 11 years old daughter. I needed a much stronger man (mentally) to hold my hand but here I am all alone even though I have a husband. I am so depressed all the time because of this and I hate those people who arranged him for me. I will never forgive them.
I am so stuck in this relationship for long time. I am fed up and suffocated now. I wanna get out of this suffocation but can’t see any way out. I want to lead my life, I want to care a dime about him and his behavior. I just want to be mentally strong.
These days I am feeling so dull, so dumb, too slow, not active enough. I feel like I am haven’t brain fog. Sometimes I feel like my brain is not workIng properly. I forget things easily. I have congestion And dull pain inside my head
Usually I am smart, active and alert.
Please help me in this situation.
depression1 on 2020-08-20
15 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HR BEFORE DINNER. FOR THREE DAYS
DAY 4 ONWARDS.
Sepia 200 five pellets ones a day
Kali Phos 6x five tabs three times a day from DAY 1.
Feedback after 7 days.
♡ anuj srivastava last month
Thank you very much for your timely reply. I ordered Nux Vomica 200 in liquid. But it seems it’s going to take Another week to reach to me.
I think it will be too late. My head is burning and I am depressed too.
Please advise if I can take Nux Vom 200c in pallets instead? If yes, please advise how many pills and how often.
Thank you so much for your help.
depression1 3 weeks ago
I took the remedies as per your suggestion. Today is the 8th day after completing all the doses. I am much better than before now.
The overwhelmed feelings have subsided by 50%.
My hatred towards my husband subsided by 50-60%. I don’t love him but I don’t hate him like before either. I never loved him. I still want to run away from him though. I still feel there will be less tension if I don’t live with him. But I fear of loneliness, so I don’t have a choice than staying with a person whom I don’t adore or like. But I have a good heart, I don’t want his bad either.
I still think he hasn’t done anything which he was supposed to do as a husband. He wasted his degrees he wasted his valuable time in procrastination. He just pretends he is trying to do something. I know its his choice to become like that. But my fault is “Why do I expect something from him and become frustrated all the time ? “ But the answer is within me as well. I am not Mentally strong enough to lead my life according to my choice. I don’t have confidence on doing something better than what I am doing now. I don’t trust myself because of this mental illness. Even if I think of doing something significant, I always ask myself “What if something goes wrong “. So I don’t try new things. And I am not satisfied with the current Job or situation Either. I feel like I am stuck somewhere and I need to get out.
I fear of anymore bad happenings in my life.
Thank you once again for your help.
depression1 last week
♡ anuj srivastava 5 days ago
To post a reply, you must first LOG ON or Register
Information given in this forum is given by way of exchange of views only, and those views are not necessarily those of ABC Homeopathy. It is not to be treated as a medical diagnosis or prescription, and should not be used as a substitute for a consultation with a qualified homeopath or physician. It is possible that advice given here may be dangerous, and you should make your own checks that it is safe. If symptoms persist, seek professional medical attention. Bear in mind that even minor symptoms can be a sign of a more serious underlying condition, and a timely diagnosis by your doctor could save your life.