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remedy for depression & homosexuality

Greetings to all,

I am 28 years male.
I am suffering from depression since childhood but, unable to identify and was suffering. One year back I've consulted a homeopath to cure depression. His medicine is least effective on me. Moreover, he doesn't give prescription, he gives medicine alone. I have gone through various types of depression. Unfortunately, more or less I have all such symptoms. In this regard, I need advise from experts handled depression cases already.

Second, I am a homosexual. In childhood (at the age of 8yrs) my classmate used to force me to fulfill his desires. This continued for 2 - 3 years. After that we were departed to different areas and never met again. But, since that time I have identified myself being attracted ONLY TO MEN, never attracted to women. As a male, I am mostly around men and have many chances to touch and feel the sense of males. I am crazy about my room mate. He is straight sexually. I adore him, always seeks his company. He is everything to me. We never had any mutual intercourse. Being a straight man he avoids me due to such unacceptable behavior. It is too painful. We do not stay in same room anymore. It has been more than 100 days we spoke with each other. He never cares for me. Even then, he is always in my mind. I am unable to forget him. My depressive behavior of inattentiveness, procrastination adding fire to this pain. In simple words, my mind seeks company of some confident, straight, strengthy MEN.They does not need to appear handsome. Rather somebody should appear rough & confident to attract me. Soft looking men can't attract me. Sorry...this is what I am by nature...All these are going unintentionally...No manual mistakes. But, still I believe/feel I have little bisexual tendencies than a she-male. But, I am lot confused by reading various threads online on 'Cure for Homosexulaity'...whether it is curable/not. There are many debates that homosexuality is incurable. BUT, I POLITELY REQUESTING DOCTORS WHOEVER BELIEVES HOMOSEXUALTIY IS CURABLE TO GUIDE ME AND SUGGEST MEDICINE.

I've found a questionnaire in the forum. Hope this could be of some help in analyzing my case.
Age: 28

Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.

1. Describe your main suffering?
ACIDITY - Which does not allows me to take all kinds of food. I am a vegetarian.
And my major concentration to get rid of homosexuality and depression as both are related to behavior and I find dependency between these two.

2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Gastric problems, acidity, loss of appetite, no interest towards food, burning throat, hair fall, weary throughout the day....
At age of 17, identified I have tonsils. Didn't took proper medication and remained with same height(5.6 feet). No more height growth after that age.
I am very susceptible to cold. Cold catches up easily and remains for longer times. From past 2 years I didn't found suffering from cold so frequent. If I go to more humid places, cold catches up easily.

3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?

Depression symptoms related to 'Not functioning full stream', 'Not feeling good', mood switching(most often they are gradual), unwanted thinking, more judgemental, less mingling socially, Feeling sad or blue, Loss of interest or pleasure in usual activities, Inability to sleep or excessive sleeping, Agitation or irritability, Fatigue or loss of energy, Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt, change in eating or sleeping patterns, spends more time alone, away from friends and family, more dependent on certain relationships(with confident men..being a homosexual), Poor performance, Persistent boredom, Diminished ability to think or concentrate, Memory impairment, over emotional, over excited, high urine passage, slowness, dullness, pale skin, exhaustion, hair loss, morning sickness, dull, lazy, instability, excitement, confusion, hopelessness, cannot do things fast enough, over sensitivity, unable to handle pressure, more sweating(under control after medicine from my previous homeopath), fantacies, imaginations, illusions on future and past ( How it would have been, how it would be, it could have been), expecting everything to be perfect, day dreaming, Time passes slowly. keeps on thinking something irrelevant to situation, poor concentration(suffering from age of 12), desire to be alone( from age of 5)

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst?
Helpless, introspective, inconfident, weeping sometimes, guilty, inferior.

5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?
Depression symptoms identified before 10 years..and are grown up with me..
Homosexual feelings from age 8

6. Which time of the day you are worst?
By the time I get up from bed/whenever my ind is calm I am comfortable.
Whenever I have at least one/two things to do, Pressure builds up unwantedly..gradually, i will be dull, over carried, preoccupied, restless, dull...

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same?

If I have to do even small things such as brushing, bathing looks like a load of work to me....More pressure aggrevates my suffering. No pressure, no work keeps me cool...even though no work can't stop my mind cool....my mind keeps on thinking unwanted, irrelevant things...

8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?

My mind seeks change. more unstable whether it be place, food, sleeping area, personal preferences...

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?

As my mood changes frequently, I feel comfortable based on my mood...
If I am happy(rare case) - I wish to take sweets, more spice foods, smiling, strong perfumes.
In usual mood - I prefer spicy foods.
These days, I am comfortable with luke warm or hot water...3/4 years back I was comfortable with cooler things than hotter.

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

I don't get sleep easily. Not at all easy. Late night sleeping. And sleep gets disturbed with minute disturbances such as fan sound...or if nails of the cot are not fit enough for slight movements on bed.

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?
When I hear thunderstorm, I feel shocked(but for a while). No reaction before thunderstorms.

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?
Absolutely...I am looking for people who takes care of me.

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?
Yes. Smell, noise, light can impact my ON GOING MOOD.

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
weeping, talking to one self etc?
No nail biting.
When I feel depressed, when I introspect recall my past sometimes I weep.
And 24 hours a day, even in sleep I am thinking, thinking, thinking irrelevant. And more introspecting (I am not sure whether this can be treated as talking to myself).

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

I am sentimental to my parents. I have no friends. But, I will prefer to mingle freely with people around me . Don't to be egoist (as I feel inferior).
No spouse yet.

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?

I am fearful by nature almost all for everything..especially when I need to do a new thing or meet/talk to new people.

Repeatedly I will be thinking something. Day dreaming, procrastinating, fantacize.

12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?

In general I am not interested to take food. If I have to take something I like spicy, tasty foods. I like ice creams. If I have to take sweets, I like sweets with moderate sweet. I don't like food items with more sweeter.

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?

More water intake prior to noon or 1pm. After 1pm or so...I don't feel much thirst might be due to gastric or heaviness after lunch.

Generally, I take much water as much as 7-8 liters a day. Keep on drinking and keeps on visiting washroom. I can control from taking water also lesser than a liter in a day.

14. How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?

No hunger. I am not sure whether depression symptom or gastric (as I am suffering from gastric as well as depression).

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?

Yes. Foods which are stored or not cooked properly, highly spicy foods cause burn in throat/stomach...high acidity..In such case, I have no other choice than taking GELUSIL(antacid) for relief and allowing the problem to increase.

Generally, whenever I take food outside I feel heavier during/after meals. I don't see such heaviness with food cooked at home.

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?

Normal throughout the body. And excessive at armpits.

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?

stool is more fatty. My belly is not flat. It is oblique.

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?

I won't get sleep easily. My unwanted thoughts chase me. I sleep late night. Even though I go to bed, I can't get sleep easily. Throughout my sleep I will see unlimited, continuous, relevant & irrelevant dreams on various matters. If I had to think/concentrate much on any thing during day time, more chances I see a dream on that matter. I CANNOT HANDLE EVEN LITTLE PRESSURE.
One important point..Till teenage I had habit of bed wetting. Even I did at the age of 22 and sometimes after that also.Those days I had good sleep. In the dreams, I feel like ' I have to go to wash room....I've been to wash room...and I start urinating'...this is all in dream..But, physically I will be on bed.
From early 20s I am not getting sound sleep and I can get up easily and going washroom if I have to....This is my problem..and I am explaining to doctors in the forum... Please do not laugh at me...I am not doing any mistake to feel shameful.

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?


20. How do you think you are different from others, if at all?

Uncommon thinking. Uncommon preferences. HOMOSEXUAL PREFERENCES.

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?

I have gone through some medication by a homeopath. He gives me medicine but, reluctant to share/inform me what medicine I am getting.
After medication, my sweating levels at armpits are low. And I am bit sociable (want to mingle with people IF I GET A CHANCE otherwise, to myself I stay alone...lonely...thinking something...irrelevant, unwanted). THAT'S ALL. NO ADDITIONAL IMPROVEMENT I FELT IN ONE YEAR TREATMENT.

22. What major diseases are running in your family?

I think some of my ancestors have depression symptoms. But, I never know anybody with homosexual feelings.Acidity.

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance

People around me says I look dull, Preoccupied, as if I am thinking a lot, working a lot, no good dressing(I don't want to dress perfect), weary, energy less, sad smile, sleepless, dark circles around my eyes, looks like I have lots of pressure, innocent, unclever...etc.


As mentioned in the beginning, I need guidance for depression and homosexuality. Both are related to mind/psychological behavior. If I take medicine simultaneously for both problems, will there be any chances of failure/side effects?
If YES, I want to take treatment prioritising HOMOSEXUALITY.
If NO, please guide medicine that can treat my problems altogether.

Christmas wishes & kind regards,
[message edited by Anonymous_gentlema on Wed, 25 Dec 2013 20:20:53 GMT]
  Anonymous_gentlema on 2013-12-25
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
Please wait till tomorrow, I will get back to you with prescription.

[message edited by mani_jee on Wed, 25 Dec 2013 14:26:27 GMT]
mani_jee 9 years ago
Thank you Mani,

My hope is I will be a straight man(attraction only towards women) without perversions and not to be attracted to men anymore. And please tell me whether I can take medicine simultaneously for both problems..because, depression is badly effecting my life balance & homosexuality is adding factors to my depression. I feel there is dependency b/n the problems.
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago

First of all, I would like to assure you that no body here would laugh at you. No body in this world is perfect, we all have faults and we make mistakes in our lives.

A person, who learns from his/her mistakes and tries to correct them, must be appreciated. So don't think negatively. Here are so many cases of masturbation and other related issues, we try our level best to help people.

So you may post anything, whatever, your feelings are, we are going to give everything due consideration and help you to the full extent.

I would like you to get hold of following remedies.

Carcinosinum 200
Staphisigria 1m
Damiana Q Please let me know, once you have the remedies, so I will tell you how and when to use them. Also let me know, if homeo remedies are easily available in your area or not.

mani_jee 9 years ago
So kind of you Mani,

May I know what quantities of each medicine I have to purchase? and what symptoms can these medicines can cure...

Kind regards,
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
You may purchase regular liquid bottles for each of these.

You will be requiring a few doses of Carc and Staph (so the full bottles won't get emptied). However, damiana q would be required for long term and continued use, you may need additional bottles (if required).

You may need additional remedies, depending on your feed back of the medicine. For instance, I have considered all your current symptoms which would be covered under these 3 remedies incl. but not limited to Depression, tonsilitis, bed wetting, recurrent of flu and above all homosexuality.

Hope this answers your query, if you require additional info, you may write it to me.

mani_jee 9 years ago
Dr Mani,

I've checked with homeopathy stores nearby. These remedies are available;Carc, Staph in the form of pills and Damiana Q in the form of liquid. Do I need to take all medicine in the form of liquid only? I haven't purchased the medicine as liquid is unavailable for Carc and Staph. Can I use pills or only Liquid/tincture is the only prescribed?

Please advise the dosage and precautions, food habits etc. to use these medicines.
Adding to the symptoms stated above, my sweat levels at arm pits are again high after I discontinued treatment from my previous doctor(discontinued since one month).

Please suggest dosage, timings, precautions and whatever required to follow treatment with prescribed medicines.

Thanking you,
[message edited by Anonymous_gentlema on Thu, 26 Dec 2013 16:05:19 GMT]
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Please go ahead with the purchase of car and staph in pill form.

Take a single dose of carc 200 (4 pills makes a dose) at bed time. Don't touch the pills, instead use the cap of bottle to take a dose. Leave the pills under your tongue, it get dissolve by itself.

From the next day take 10 drops of damiana q in half cup of Luke warm water 3 times a day.

Don't eat of drink anything 30 min before and after the medicine.

Avoid coffee.

[message edited by mani_jee on Thu, 26 Dec 2013 19:02:35 GMT]
mani_jee 9 years ago
Thank you Dr. Mani,

Carc 200 is suggested to use before bed. How much time gap required before taking medicine and my supper..is my stomach need to be empty to get full effect of the medicine..

Please advise at what time I have to use Staph.

And Damiana Q 3 times a day. Any time gap required between each dose...?

And please suggest for how many days above course is prescribed? And how much quantity of Carc and Staph to be purchased (I am not sure whether pills are counted as required for dosage). Damiana Q I will purchase a 30ml. bottle.

Thanking you,
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Carc 200 is suggested to use before bed. How much time gap required before taking medicine and my supper..is my stomach need to be empty to get full effect of the medicine..

At least 30 minutes after super.

Please advise at what time I have to use Staph.

I will advise you later.

And Damiana Q 3 times a day. Any time gap required between each dose...?

Morning 1 dose at about 8 o'clock
3 o'clock 2nd dose
10 o'clock 3rd dose
Repeat the same schedule next day and onwards

And please suggest for how many days above course is prescribed? And how much quantity of Carc and Staph to be purchased (I am not sure whether pills are counted as required for dosage). Damiana Q I will purchase a 30ml. bottle.
Carc and staph needs to be purchased in smallest possible I believe it would in 80 pellets or lesser. 4 pellets counts as a dose, so you might be requiring 3-4 doses of each carc and staph.

mani_jee 9 years ago
I am using Carc and Damiana now. I have purchased a Homeopath. He gave me Damiana Q 30 ml. He has sold Carc in a small plastic bottle with very tiny pills ( each pill of 1mm. diameter) and sprinkled 3 or 4 drops of Carc and told me all pills absorb that 3 or 4 drop Carc. But seems as per your advice 3 or 4 doses (4 pellets each dose) is unsufficient. Because, I have taken more than 4 doses ( each dose of 12 small pills) and could see betterment than the symptoms apeared on 4th day of dose.
Some betterments I felt...I am not as tiresome as I was a few days before. Fear levels are slightly reduced now. Not exessively sentimantal/sensitive than usual (slight betterment).

I have used medicine as per suggestion on Dec 28, 29, 30, 31st and Jan 5th, 6th...

Please tell me what betterments should result as a part this medication. I did not notice betterment w.r.t. HOMOSEXUALITY.

Thanking you!!
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Please stop carc (do not repeat it) and continue with damiana q (10 drops in half cup of luke warm water, three times a day).

mani_jee 9 years ago
update me in 7 days.

mani_jee 9 years ago
I am continuing Damiana Q throughout the days mentioned above. And the homeopath who sold me this medicine sprinkled just 3 or 4 drops of Carc on tiny pills (morethan 200). As such each pill contains very less medicine. Out of those I have used around 80 till now. Please advise on discontinuing Carc.

Thanking you,
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Yes, the homepath prepared thevright medicine and its the right way of preparing tge dose.

But I asked you to let me know when you have the medicine in hand, so I can advise you on the usage. Unfortunately, you took it at your own.

For thd time being SToP carc and continue with damiana as already advised.

mani_jee 9 years ago

I am using only Damiana as suggested. Please suggest on further medication to overcome homosexuality and depression.
And for the medicine taken so far please tell me which problems could see betterment..so that I can find myself at better place than i was.

Thanking you!
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Please take a single dose (single dose means, 4 pellets and not be repeated on daily basis) of Staph 1m and stop damiana for the time being.

update me in 7 days.

[message edited by mani_jee on Fri, 24 Jan 2014 04:45:33 GMT]
mani_jee 9 years ago
Thank you,

I have some betterment after using Carc and Damiana and some symptoms mentioned in my first post are COMPARITIVELY LESS SEVERE now.
Please help me understand whether high potency of Staph(1m) will have any side/adverse effect incase my current psychological condition requires comparitively drug of lesser potency (than 1m).
To analyze required potency which psychological factors can I narrate.

And please help get rid of homosexuality/same sex attraction. In the initial days of using Damiana I felt energetic and my penis was more erectile. But, it has become thin as earlier. And my masturbation is not controlled. I am more tempted to masturbate as soon as I see my penis is stronger than earlier and sperm will be discharged within a few seconds. after that penis size becomes gradual. Please help me get out of this homosexuality and make me lead a healthy and normal life style like A MAN.

[message edited by Anonymous_gentlema on Sun, 26 Jan 2014 12:20:38 GMT]
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
I have some betterment over some of the symptoms mentioned in my first post.
In this regard please advise on using 1m potency of Staph. Kindly excuse if my thoughts are unwise. Please make me physically robust and mentally tough to handle challenges and pressure.

sometimes I behave childish and silly with all age groups (even when i am a bit excited (happy/grief)). I am moving closely with people, and talking more open than I should (like innocent). But, I move only with very limited people(only with those I feel comfortable AND I want to get close with people who appear MANLY.. I am attracted to same gender people).

In addition to this I want to mention a problem I've been suffering as long as from 5 years....I can not hold urine atleast for 5 min. I have to struggle a lot to hold urine. Otherwise, expells. I have to run to wash room as soon as I gets the sensation. Please help get out of this as well. My friends used to laugh at me. Now my colleagues laugh at me finding me struggle to control urine.

Thanking a lot for the concern towards me!!
[message edited by Anonymous_gentlema on Sun, 26 Jan 2014 13:33:14 GMT]
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Dr. Mani,

Please advise.

Thanking you,
Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Kindly give at least a week to staph to complete its work. During this time, donot repeat staph and/or any other remedy. After completion of 1 week, post the update. Give detail of your symptoms which are better.

mani_jee 9 years ago

I had Staph dose on 28th,Jan. It is 10 days now. During this time I did not repeated any of the remedies prescribed. I am advised to take 4 pills of Staph. When I had been to homeopath to purchase medicine, he was giving pill size 30. And advised me to take 10 pills as one dose. I stick to your advise this time and took 4 pills only.

Coming to symptoms after I took Staph. I felt a bit aggravated and a bit more childish nature than I am. Generally, I behave childish with people I move closer and tempted. This aggravation, childish behavior is for 3-4 days. Later it is normal. But, MASTURBATION IS NOT CONTROLLED. Unable to resist. My old roommate comes into my thoughts very frequently. This makes me to go wash room irrespective of day/night. My organ appears as bad as the one when I used to masturbate badly.

I did not had Carc and Damiana during this time. And some of my sufferings gradually coming back. Sufferings such as inability to handle pressure, unwanted hesitation, lazy, soft minded, dull, not productive at work, keeps on thinking something irrelevant, short time memory loss, unattentive, poor concentration, lower confidence, not hungry, not getting sleep at right time, fearful mind, excited mind, excite expressions, behaving silly and unprofessional, tempted towards same gender sex, fantacizing romance with men.

In addition to the above, from teenage I have a habit of negative thinking and doing risky & dangerous things intentionally.Such as, I lose words at somebody eventhough I am aware that causes problem. Intentionally going late to catch a train/bus eventhough I am aware that I miss the transport.

Please suggest me to get rid of depression for a healthy mind and please suggest to get rid of same sex attraction for a heallthy life style. My masturbation is not controlled. ALways my room mate stays in my imaginations and fantacies.

Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
Please purchase baryata carbonicum 200 (get it prepared in pellets form, as you did for staph and carc).

Please take a dose every morning for a week and feedback.

mani_jee 9 years ago
Can I use Carc & Damiana meanwhile?

For current remedy, how many pills can be one dose? pls advise.

Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago
No, do not use carc or damiana for the time being.

4 pellets are a dose.

mani_jee 9 years ago
May I know which of my sufferings can have betterment with this remedy.

Anonymous_gentlema 9 years ago

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