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The history of cancer is not a requirement.

Well there were very clear indications for Pulsatilla when we started but it is not curing fully, and that can happen in a lot of the Carcinosin cases where the remedy is apparently very well chosen and fails to give complete benefit. The remedy which a Carc case usually mimics can be Puls , Sil, Calc, Nat-m, Sep, Staph, Med, Tub and Phos.

And, just to make things clear, I never give any guarantees to anyone while taking on a case, and I try my best in every case I take on, if you feel this should have been easy to cure, and we have spent too long, you are free to seek advise from someone else.
 
sameervermani last decade
Oh Sameer, I think I mustn't have explained myself that well. I didn't at all mean any criticism to you. I fully understand that homeopathy can be a very mysterious thing and there are not clear reasons as to why things do or don't work or how they happen. I simply meant to ask you if why you thought things might not have worked, and was commenting on the fact that from what I'd read it should have been simple. I do not AT ALL think that it is a reflection on your skills or knowledge. You have been nothing short of wonderful. I'm very sorry that you thought I meant something different.
 
littlefinn last decade
What I question is not you, but whether there is more to the case than what my husband and I have been aware of... you know, information missing that would have made things clearer from the start. For example, I have always wondered why it is that he often seems to have no physical complaint, yet we know that something is wrong. Some mysterious thing that neither us or any health professional has been able to pinpoint. He doesn't even fit into the 'typical' chronic middle ear condition case, according to ENTs and doctors.
 
littlefinn last decade
It's like he's an 'exception to every rule', and this has caused us much frustration and confusion throughout this entire period of illness (not specifically the time we've consulted with you). I guess I was just wondering if you thought the same - a particularly challenging case or just like any other...?

Sorry I split this into three separate posts, I kept getting interrupted. :)

I hope I've made myself clearer now and alleviated any offence you may have felt.
 
littlefinn last decade
Well him being an 'exception to every rule' is more of a Carcinosin thing than anything. They are meant to be very 'different' and talented people.

Carcinosin can be very hard to detect even in clinical practice, (let alone online) and that too in an infant where it is probably the most difficult diagnosis to make.
The problem is that Carc has the ability to mimic so many remedies. Hence, each Carc case can be challenging.
 
sameervermani last decade
Thanks for this info. Very interesting and hopeful!

For what it's worth, he has slept very soundly for the past two nights, but I'm sure it's only a temporary glitch, lol!

What should we do? We have carc 30c in granule form from the local dispensary, and 200c liquid on the way from helios.
 
littlefinn last decade
As I said, I want to see how his dad responds to it , as that will confirm the diagnosis even more.
 
sameervermani last decade
And, if my memory serves me right, his dad did have some form of 'long term skin cancer' on his nose ?
 
sameervermani last decade
Ok. And yes, he suffers from superficial basal carcinoma (I think that's what it's called, but I could be wrong). It's quite common in Australia for males after a certain age, and is usually from sun exposure, and usually found on face, arms and hands. He has had a few and they've been burnt off. They are never seen as serious. The one on his nose was becoming quite troublesome, but then it just fell off one day (he thought it might have coincided with when he took silicea). Actually, both his father AND my father get from them from time to time as well, but like I said, they are quite common for fair skinned Australian males these days.
 
littlefinn last decade
Actually, I guess I consider a family history of cancer to be that one person or more has developed or died from cancer before 'old age', and this has not happened in our families. HOWEVER, we have experienced cancer in OLD AGE. My paternal grandmother had breast cancer in her late 70s, and had a breast removed. She died last year, in her late 80s, not related to cancer. My maternal grandfather died in his 70s of leukaemia. My paternal grandfather died at the age of 90 for unknown reasons. He was a very emotional, difficult and stubborn person and refused to go to doctors ever in his life. It is amazing he lived to such an old age, however, he died suddenly and for unexplained reasons. Many in the family have thought that he may have had cancer as it was 'suspected' he had suffered from prostate issues for many years. My maternal grandmother also died last year after not recovering from pancreatitis. Both my maternal grandparents had a very healthy life up until these serious illnesses that eventually took their lives. I know very little of other family members, and I can't give details of family on my husband's side except for the reflux/oesphageal issues which are strong and extensive on his mother's side and affect several other family members quite severely. His mother also has type 2 diabetes.

I have read two web pages of of great interest with information about carc children.
http://home.att.net/~olenev/articles11.htm
autism.html " rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">http://www.renresearch.com/autism.html
I've read quite a few others two, but those stood out, and certain things in them stood out so strongly to me it made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up!

One thing I would say is that our style of parenting is very relaxed and we are certainly not fastidious/regimented types. I like his learning experiences to be organic and natural and I never pressure him. I like him to play by himself and I don't hover over him much when he is being independent. This is also how I was brought up. We are also very physical with him and I can be quite over the top with affection as I am a very touchy-feely sort of person. This is also how my husband and I were raised when we were children. Despite all of this positive stuff, I do think that my son is aware of tension/conflict that exists between my husband and I, and I have often worried that it affects him in more ways than we could ever know. I wonder if this has particular relevance to his case.

Anyway, I just thought I would share this with you and see if you had anything further to add. :)
 
littlefinn last decade
'HOWEVER, we have experienced cancer in OLD AGE. My paternal grandmother had breast cancer in her late 70s, and had a breast removed. She died last year, in her late 80s, not related to cancer. My maternal grandfather died in his 70s of leukaemia.'

Interesting, as this is more than an odd case of cancer. So, the history part is also present.

Carcinosin is one of the most broad remedies I have seen.

There is no requirement of controlling parents, as many a times, it is constitutionally indicated which I am sure will be the case here as well if Carc is the correct remedy.
 
sameervermani last decade
It is interesting that it is my grandparents where the history exists, and not my parents. My brother and I were very healthy babies and children, almost extraordinarily so. In fact, despite the numerous mystery/minor health problems I started to develop in my teens, my brother has never in his life been sick aside from the usual colds/flus etc, is one of those totally healthy, robust individuals with no allergies, sensitivities etc whatsoever. I suppose it must be more mix of my grandparents' history with the gene's from my husbands family which has created the probable carc case, even though he doesn't have the cancer history...?
 
littlefinn last decade
Hi Sameer.

Just wanted to do an update on my son, because we are starting to see some new things emerging.

Since my last post, he has been sleeping quite well. We have about one night every four or five days where he is a bit disturbed for part of the night. It is for no reason we can easily see. He seems thirsty, and goes back to sleep, but then keeps waking up. This can go on for 1-3 hours at a time, and then he settles down again. This is nothing new. But the rest of the time, he is sleeping right through the night - we even had five nights straight of it, just after we returned from our seaside trip.

His bowel movements are still as unpredictable as ever. He even has movements during the night sometimes, which was previously UNHEARD of.

The new developments are as of a few days ago.
Firstly, he is taking a lot longer to go to sleep at night time. It doesn't matter if he's really tired or not. He is quite hyperactive and playing in his cot. After about 30 minutes, he will start crying urgently. He will usually calm down and go to sleep after one of us goes in, lies him back down and tells him to go to sleep with a gentle touch.

Secondly, we have had two occurances (tonight, and the night before last) where he has cried all the way through his shower. He starts crying as soon as the water begins to touch the back of his head and cries in a very fearful way. We've seen this once before many months ago while we were giving him ferr-p. It was around the time he developed the first infection on his penis, and the 'homeopath' thought it was significant because it was a sudden change in his behaviour and could indicate an infection (which turned out to be the case a few days later). Once we started to treat the infection, he stopped crying in the shower.

Now, it's interesting to note that this is not a general fear of water, because he had a bath last night and he enjoyed it just as much as always. He does love water very much and generally has a great time bathing both in the shower and the bath. So this is quite a bizarre development.

The other new development is that he has had quite flushed cheeks for the last 2 days. He's been in daycare, so I don't know when they appeared, but he has come home with them flushed in the evenings. They look like they used to look when he was much younger. Around the time we first gave him ferr-p. It was one of the main indicators that the homeopath we were seeing was interested in. They don't feel hot, and they're not splotchy, just flushed red, and it's the same on both cheeks.

I'm interested to see if you have any thoughts on this..?
 
littlefinn last decade
These are not symptoms which would point me to a remedy. Flushed cheeks can happen in a lot of remedies.

These are host of changeable symptoms, which point us to the 'changeable' remedies.

That's all.
 
sameervermani last decade
sammy--do u have an honest grasp on this case?

have mum--run through all existing symptoms in all areas--not just main compliant focus---little things--seemingly unrelated tings---info seems getting scatterd
 
John Stanton last decade
Well, I do not I know for sure what the next step is right now. That is why, we have been waiting for the picture to emerge more.

Yes, I agree, it will good to form a list of all the current symptoms.
 
sameervermani last decade
wait is only thing do if no sureness--

i didnt get through whole thread yet--


to mum/pop--child---

need get family history health in detail?
info needed will be mother's stae of health during pregnacy and just prior?meds used ?ills?birthing itself details?meds used?expeience?...etc

then dated sequence of child's ills,events,traumas of any sort,vacines,accidents..etc etc --

this give frame work --to coincide if return of symptoms follow an order --or disordered return --or if new never occured--..etc
 
John Stanton last decade
also need know if mother or father were treated at any time in health history for sex ills/veneral diseaes---of any sort--
 
John Stanton last decade
Since, I am also handling the cases of parents as well...


A note for you, if this helps-

Sycosis on maternal side.

Tubercular miasm on paternal side.
 
sameervermani last decade
Sameer, I suspected as much. I am just trying to note down all changes and symptoms in this thread in case it becomes relevant and I have forgotten.

To John: I think Sameer has been doing an awesome job. It has been a challenging case, and we have had many big steps forward, many changes and sometimes steps backwards as well. The important thing to note is that things are much better than they were a year ago, but not perfect yet. I have definitely given almost all information that I can possibly think of including family history in this thread. If you can be bothered reading it all, I would of course value your opinion, but it should be with the intention of assisting, not of criticising Sameer. He has been most generous with his time and information for many months now. He is also helping both myself and my husband in other threads, so he has a complete picture of the entire case.

Sameer: Unfortunately I have absolutely no idea what sycosis means or tubercular miasm! Will try and google and then get back to you.
 
littlefinn last decade
its all urs sammy
 
John Stanton last decade
i dont get on well with mums likethis --besides i have tencdency iritate them easily-i callthenn sepia mums--just my way clasify the vibe i get from then--anyway--just dig the reply --she is ur guardian--well u know what they say----karma baby karma
 
John Stanton last decade
Ha. Well yes, obviously a comment like that is going to irritate 90% of the female population. For starters, talking about me like I'm not here. RUDE! Second, stereotyping me. My constitutional is not sepia, but I know exactly what you are getting at. RUDE AGAIN! Third, the 'vibe' you get from me is probably totally distorted by your own inability to communicate properly.

Actually what irritates me about you is your extremely annoying typing style. What is with all these ----- constantly? It's impossible to decipher. You may not speak english very well, fine, I have no problem with that, this is an international forum. But you could at least make an effort to communicate in a way that makes sense, and that other's can read.

I have now seen other posts of yours and it seems to me that you get off on interfering and irritating people.

If you had any other intention then you would have given some actual suggestions to me in this thread. You can read it - it's all here, all the info you suggested that I hadn't given... it's all here! You have now chosen not to read it and to write it all off because you think I'm a 'sepia mum'. Your choice, your loss! You are quite ridiculous and have just shown yourself to be a total hypocrite!
 
littlefinn last decade
mum-u dont think i knew u read--it was for u..better treat urself--so give sammy some clear thinkings..and forget that constutional-sterotype crap--u know less than me---sepia mum---read ur response--didnt i tell u---i can irritate one a mile away..man hater club--mybe u wear pants in family too..mum u made may day with that explosion--i wont bother u any more--
 
John Stanton last decade
ps--there is more than one way get REAL LIFE info on a person--u just gave a clue to case mum--home envirement--
 
John Stanton last decade
I have no doubt that you irritate every single person you talk to on this forum, not just 'sepia mums'. I've been involved in a lot of forums over the years and there's one of you in every forum. Your response just proves that you know nothing about me and that you haven't read my thread at all. You call yourself a homeopath, but I don't see how you could be when you have such appalling people skills. Please leave this thread alone.
 
littlefinn last decade

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